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Today I cried

November 02 2012

all year I have been tutoring year 7 and 8 kids with learning disabilities.Today I had to test them,one bubbly 12 year old was absolutely devastated that out of 12 questions she could only answer one correctly. I have seen many posts here about spelling and grammar and while I understand that being literate and well read is attractive,I think many people are too scared to post because of their fear of being criticised for poor spelling.Just because someone can't spell properly is not a reflection of their intelligence or other abilities.So the reason for my post is to ask you for a moratorium on criticising someone's spelling ability . x R

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ive got an older brother,he wasn't very good when it come to reading .writing or maths but that didnt stop him being a ladies man in this hay day..education is good but its not the only thing that matters in life..exceptance is

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    the spelling and grammar police should pull their collective heads in..... we have 2 autistic children...whether they can spell or punctuate properly or not, is really quite unimportant...they have issues enough to deal with (as have we)..........just saying.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Freya, while I agree totally to what your saying, criticising someone due to spelling is bad form, I have to admit if I read a profile that is full of bad spelling I will just turn away. Even more so when its someone saying they are a 'professional' with regards to their job and they can barely spell correctly.   An error here and there, not a problem, I do it myself I get lazy and dont check or i am posting at odd times like 2am in the morning and not paying attention, we all do it at some time.   BUT with that said, adults who know they lack in their spelling ability, can use spell check on the computer before hitting enter on many things. A profile is not hard to do in a word document to check spelling and past into a profile. Maybe more a chore in something like a forum to do a spell check, but its still not that hard to do a spell check.   I dont condone any type of bullying, even if its being negative to someones spelling and demeaning them, but there is easy ways around fixing this problem.   I had a dyslexic partner years ago, used to read him the newspaper and help him with many basic things with literacy, so I do sympathise.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Moratorium probably isn't the right word to use. I think you probably mean cessation.Creamboy

  • Mr_DarkChocolate

    Mr_DarkChocolate

    12 years ago

    without google chrome auto correct u would all be amiss trying to decode my messages funny enough though ability to spell has no correlation with IQ with certain evidence suggesting that higher many IQ individuals are actually worse with their spell, i don't know if that's true or not but i'm one case that supports it mine is 122 at last check & my spelling sucks balls the moral of the story is just because someone may not be able to spell all that well does not mean they're idiots, they may well just be a hell of alot smarter than urself & just try not to show off by trying to explain string theory or why it's puzzling that gravity is such a relatively weak force compared to electromagnetism, strong & weak nuclear forces

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I had to Google the word moratorium.

  • Chillymofo

    Chillymofo

    12 years ago

    However i believe most here would not begrudge the fact you are unable to spell.But really it is laziness not education!While i understand that some have difficulties, there is such a thing as "Spell Check" and even this forum puts up a red squiggly line under your miss spelled word!Problem i see, is sum ppl cldnt b stuffed spell checking, or even worsethey speek tex lenguage!Not really all that difficult to get it right with today's technology......is it?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yesterday I Googled "Hot and Gorgeous" and it showed me 200 photos of DeviousMissM

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I now have a better one....thank you for the lesson freya

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Thanks Freya, i understand your view and I have obviously let my halo slip because I sid ask those who speak bingo (m8, b4) not to contact me 😔. Feeling soundly but lovingly spanked. I volunteer to a foundation which helps kids in fostercare with learning difficulties to read. I love it when one of my charges comes back with a story and they use good grammar and start attempting some big words in thier sentences. Hell we all make spelling mistakes!! I'm so open-minded with the kids, obviously I need to extend that same consideration to folks on RHP. Thank you for the eye-opener. Safari

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You, along with the possum that just greeted me in my back yard, made my day. Thank you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    That's what wrong with education, its too easy to pat the student on the head and say to them its ok not to try harder. I am not referring to those people/children with developmental problems, but basic spelling is essential for the greater population. Why should I not voice my opinion when in the vast majority of cases, it is sheer laziness not not write or spell correctly.Have you seen some of the posts here that are almost incomprehensible due to the person using phone text spelling? It's appalling! And how many times have people posted on those threads asking the OP what the question was? I recall once after correcting the grammar my son was using, he turned to me and asked why I spoke the way I do (example - in the subject title above, I used 'nope' instead of 'no') and my answer to him was because I had learnt to spell and speak correctly I can bastardise the language. When his ability was the same as mine, then he could too. 100% of people posting on the forums here do so with some form of computer, and all of those devices have access to spell check in one form or another, use them! So it may take a bit more effort, big deal, perhaps that is what is lacking these days, a bit more effort across the board. I should also say, that comprehension is a large part of spelling ability, and I believe that this may be where the problem is. The difference between 'where', 'wear', 'we're' or 'there' and 'their' are common errors, spelt correctly, but used incorrectly, and understanding the difference is all that's needed is for that light bulb to come on and the problem is gone.I make no apology for continuing to hold people accountable for their spelling and grammar. It is the very basis of our communication, and so is vitally important. If you have no wish to live in a society that requires you to be able to communicate in a written language, then I'm sure you could find a lost tribe somewhere who don't have the same requirements.Viking

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    @freya This is a good idea. Though I will stand by my "Please read your post before you click". Much of the "tricky" stuff here is just people emptying their heads though their keyboards and then not checking the stream of consciousness.I actually think many people don't post because they think what they have to say is not worthy? To them I say "Go and check some random Facebook feeds". ~laughs~

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Who cares if someone makes a spelling mistake. Too many ppl on here sprout over those who might battle over a few words.. Do the accusers thinks him/her self as a superior being just because they have a knack of stinging a few sentences together better than someone else.. ? I know ppl who are excellent at the written word , but as dull as batshit. All I can say is.... Pull ur head in and get a life...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ...I haven't seen MS_and_Geek for a while now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Of course I notice incorrect grammar and spelling errors... it is my job to, but I am no more interested in pointing them out to people in my private life, than I am in jumping into a fire. I like to relax when I am not working, not continue working. Most guys seem to worry about their spelling and grammar when they find out my job and I have lost count of how many I have told that it just does not bother me in my private life. As I also work with children with disabilities and learning difficulties and have a son who couldn't spell to save himself, but who is highly intelligent, I definitely understand about not being super critical. Many people are dealing with unknown difficulties, so we all should learn to accept them for who they are and enjoy what they add to our lives without constantly nitpicking.If we were all the same in ur abilities what a boring place our world would be.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    One our came out ur. Typing too fast.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'VikingBitch' "That's what wrong "Tutt tutt !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    its a fact that if the first and last letter of a word are in the right place and the number of letters match the word ,then it i about one in a hundred people are able to still read the word or sentence its in without noticing the spelling .mabe the people who complain about spelling a ll the time arnt one of the people who are like that..sometimes its not about the spelling but more how the brain works..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'luvitruf' However i believe most here would not begrudge the fact you are unable to spell.But really it is laziness not education!While i understand that some have difficulties, there is such a thing as "Spell Check" and even this forum puts up a red squiggly line under your miss spelled word!Problem i see, is sum ppl cldnt b stuffed spell checking, or even worsethey speek tex lenguage!Not really all that difficult to get it right with today's technology......is it? i agree with you completely...English is my second language, and i think i still manage to put my sentences together, with not too many spelling errors...and yes, the "red underline " is there, if you messed it up!ability/desire to spell correctly, has nothing to do, with intelligence at all...if it matters to someone, how they come across... they WILL use the spell check, when they need to!if they don't give a rats' ass, they won't....i am not saying, that i would judge anyone, on the basis of their spelling...but the English language is so beautiful...why rape it, if you don't have to?!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'DeviousMissM'I had to Google the word moratorium. me too!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Shock horror!!! I can never again post here because I make mistakes... ooooo... World coming to an end, call out the national guard!!! Yep, I'm human too, mistakes happen, continual bad spelling does too.Meh, if I'm the one you want to jump on Peachy go for it. You know me, you know I'm opinionated, and you know I don't care a fig for anything anyone thinks. Would anyone else care to have a go? I'm well and truly equipped in experience to wage a war of words and I don't play super nice so everyone will think I'm wonderful.Viking.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Don't sweat the small stuff!Who cares if people don't spell correctly or use incorrect grammar. Perhaps they have not had the same opportunities in life that others have. They may actually be trying their hardest to get an opinion up on here .. heaven knows this can often be a hostile ground to play on. What really matters is the character of the person, are they decent, do they care about their fellow rhpers. Chances are if they do .. they have my vote. Sassyme x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We think that we can put this topic into a nut shelll so here go's .... anyone who judges onther persons spelling or gramar ( that's what we are doing on here isn't it?) has no real heart because, correct spelling and grammar is not all that important when it come to getting your voice across. thanks for listening. G&P.............

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    in this country with many people leaving school not just being unable to spell but being functionally illiterate.Viking Bitch, oh how I wish I had a magic wand to wave to fix it.I am not here defending the lazy but I am defending those for whom the difference between where,wear ,there,their,etc will always be a mystery.The sad thing is that there are computer based learning programs such as Lexia which can assist many kids but are not factored into most schools budgets.Mentoring and one to one support can also help. Many people who struggle wiith literacy have quite low self esteem and because it IS such an important part of every day life ,they experience failure every day.Mr.MilkChoc,thank you for your terrific post,I wish I had a grasp on string theory. The English language is constantly evolving,whether we like it or not,OMG can now be found in the Oxford Dictionary,txt speak will become more the norm,I am not saying I like it but it is a reality. Before Samuel Johnson created his first lexicon there was no correct way to spell,the English language was spelt phonetically up until then,The Dictionary of English was published in 1755. I am passionate about words,in fact I LOVE THEM,I love reading and writing them,I would much rather read an insightful or funny or sexy post with heaps of speeling errors ,than a perfectly spelt ,prosy ,boring one. I hope that many more forum readers will be encouraged to post,knowing that they wont get shot down in flames or that if they do,there are people here to support them.x R.....probably stands for rant today.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'We're all subject to the occasional accidental typo..... or may suffer from a bout of spelling errors.... ....which is exactly what spell checking software is for. Is it really that hard? And hopefully..... there are many 12yo's on here.......... only some who act like them. DGI do hope you forgot the word 'not'!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I agree with Viking.....yes we all make silly little spelling mistakes but holy shit you can tell the difference between someone who has just made a mistake and someone who's just a dumbarse and Mrs P you use to be one of the worst spelling nazis on here. My how we have changed.....Roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    How do we tell the difference between lazy, uneducated and a disability? Having been someone who's guilty of taking preference to chat to people who spell properly and use punctuation has got me thinking.......maybe I'm the lazy one for preferring the easy messages to those that take a little time and effort to work out.   One of my children has a mild intellectual disability where he has a stutter and has limited literacy skills. I consider us to be very lucky. He could have ended up with a more profound disability, or worse, as he wasn't breathing when he was born.   In my work I often deal with kids who didn't complete year 12. A couple of them didn't even get past Year 7. So they come before me as Early School Leavers. I work in job services but, as the government has decided that anyone on Youth Allowance who did not complete Year 12 has to either return to school or complete studies at a minimum of Certificate 2 level with a minimum of 25 contact hours per week or they lose their Centrelink benefits. Most of these kids left school for a reason and a lot of them have huge barriers. So, why isn't there more concentration in finding out why these kids are dropping out of school and putting money into fixing that rather than forcing them back into an environment they don't want to be in.   So, who are we to judge when we know very little about what really lies behind each of us who have put these words on a screen and left our mark this way?   Rant over.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Heartbreaking, and frustrating. What concerns me is the somewhat general acceptancefrom various people that spelling just isn't important.Yeah, sure everyone makes mistakes, but if your an able mindedand bodied person, to say who gives a rats about spelling smacksof lazyness and lack of attention to detail. Do you conduct yourselflike that in all areas of your life.One should always strive to do their best in my opinion.Cheers Felonious

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    yes shazz , well said. G&P....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I feel it's as relevant as anywhere where you wish to put your thoughts out there in the public sphere.Otherwise we might as well just write in text speak.Like it or not every time we post, whether it be here or inthe Australian or where ever else, we put ourselves on display,rightly or wrongly we will be judged, on our ideas and our abilityto put those ideas across to a wider audience. Spelling is a keycomponent to conveying those messages.Spelling is like anything else, unless you have some limiting factorit can be learnt, don't use spell checkers, actually look it up and bitby bit, and with practice it will come, reading is also a usefull tool Ireckon.Cheers Felonious

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' Yesterday I Googled "Hot and Gorgeous" and it showed me 200 photos of DeviousMissM Ooo, share that link!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You have obviously put my point across in a non-threatening and easily understood manner. Thank you for saying what I was unable to.Viking

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Unfortunatey Spell check will only give you the correct spelling of the word it thinks you typed. People who have difficulty with spelling might not choose the correct word. A person needs to have a certain sized oral vocabulary and an ability to read in order to master spelling. I value correct grammar and spelling, but I do not feel my private life should be weighed down by correcting others about whom I have no knowledge. I have been tutoring a young lad most of this year. Like most students who are failing he felt he was stupid/dumb. I have focussed on increasing his vocabulary and his reading ability and done very little about his spelling; except to cover what he has to do for homework, make sure he understands the meaning of the word and point out possible ways to remember how to spell those words. I have constantly pointed out to him what he is very good at, the improvements he is making and praised him for trying. The good news is his self esteem has grown, his reading has improved greatly and so has his spelling ability. The last thing he needed was for me to spend ages simply trying to teach him spelling

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    exactly my point,thank you for sharing that . x R

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    dear me. good spelling comes down to a good education and good memory skills, so far as I can see.My spelling is average, my grammar is appalling,that saidif someone does not know how to spell, but they know the word in the mind...do they have any less right to voice their opinion ?is their opinion any less valid ?are you a better person because you can spell ?The times they are a changing. The world is getting smaller and people who once you would never, or they would never have thought would use a computer, are.Id someone moves to Australia from a tiny dirt spec in the middle of some desert with no water or education.. are they not allowed to voice their thoughts?People who jump up an down about spelling are truly thoughtless idiots.( and I used spell check in google about 14 times in this post)

  • brenbob_68

    brenbob_68

    12 years ago

    Whoever was designated to tap peachy on the shoulder and suggest some fresh air is needed ,please enter stage left

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Pmsl, what a reaction to the obvious irony, and a bit of tongue in cheek jest.Can't laugh at your own faux pas ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And you both missed the missing apostrophe in "its" in the first line :-)A. Pedant

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    at the end of the day people today need to realise that most people will take shortcuts or are simply influenced by the way the world is with twitter facebook and all of that jazzi think you can clearly tell when someone is just trying to write quickly and will sometimes make mistakes or use an alternative word or 2spell check is hardly necessarywhen someone starts talking like "omg lyk avnt spk 2u in ages wot did udo 2day" then i can see the point of getting frustrated, because i too would like to see them sent to an abandoned oil rig with the rest of the jersey shore and kardashian crew to starve to deathgive everyone else who is just going with the times a break :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Oh Please !!!!!Bren you are the 1st one to jump all over my correct spelling in the chatrooms. Oh yeah I guess thats when you have run out of swear words and insults. Thats ok then.Pardon me, carry on

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well I cant spell with out spell check and I cant ready that good ether but I try....   If people dont like it they know what to do: its called FUCK OFF...   My schooling was real bad but I tried to do the right thing all my life with out reading a book...   The truth I have never read a book in my life, its like a computer I just keep going till I find out how it works and yes I have brocken a few key boards over the years in frustration. dam I had to use spell check on that one just hope I picked the right word.... Funny thing is spell check and the thesaurus has become my best frind on here...   Hey that just me.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Mrs P you should be able to answer your own question back there. So why did you pick on some for their spelling and not others??? Is it because some will retaliate worse than others or did you just decide on the day depending on your mood?? Roxxy

  • brenbob_68

    brenbob_68

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MOREthanaCOCK' Oh Please !!!!!Bren you are the 1st one to jump all over my correct spelling in the chatrooms. Oh yeah I guess thats when you have run out of swear words and insults. Thats ok then.Pardon me, carry on Hit the "report chatroom abuse" top right hand corner,you get free cheese and biscuits with your whine there

  • jensta

    jensta

    12 years ago

    My opinion is ... more well educated ... able to write well there is an advantage on here ... Its not just about the Spelling & punctuation For some it is harder to put what they want to say into Wordsand at times ... they are taken the wrong way I say some are good with writting & some in Real Life The only people we should be judging is ourselves xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We don't realise how dam lucky we are - all of us!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I agree with luvitruf about laziness. It should not be an option. gee hope i spelt that right

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    i read this funny quote today....it read: "why punctuation can save lives.."the example was this sentence..."let's eat, grandma!"....or"let's eat grandma!"i thought it was pretty funny

  • Lifes_great

    Lifes_great

    12 years ago

    You're an angel Ruby xxx

  • Sparetime01

    Sparetime01

    12 years ago

    Wow. Maybe it is my high IQ, low EQ and my inability to spell that allows my brain to read words written backwards, forwards, with jumbled letters and so on. Or maybe its not my high IQ but something that most of the population has the ability to do. If we have established that most are quite capable of reading and understanding the written word in these various forms then we could surmise that those who have an issue with it are indeed lazy themselves, to lazy to allow their brain to do its job and move on. Which is exactly why the brain can do this, its unimportant so it deciphers what is seen and then moves on. Given the 100's of languages spoken around the world, Afrikaans itself has some 10+ dialects, the English language, spelling and grammar could really be considered an antiquated form of communicating because you have a limited audience from the start. There are almost 7 billion people in the world and less than 1 billion speak/read/write English.

  • Sparetime01

    Sparetime01

    12 years ago

    Did I get most of the spelling right? lol

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I have to admit, my grammar probably isnt the greatest, and some people just go overboard on the 'improper' English that is written and spoken.now we have a whole new language of texting which REALLY butchers thingsEven in the states, they tried to push 'ebonics', to justify rap speech as an official language.I have been around the world, and have found that only the ENGLISH speak English.Australians speak Australian.I speak American.Helping people with grammar problems is one thing, getting down on them for it is another.My daughter was deaf until she was nine years old, so she was behind in school, and had a bad speech impediment where kids teased her to the point where we pulled her out of school and home schooled her.She never graduated high school.Now, she is manager of the produce department of a large grocery chain in the states, and writes sci-fi fantasy books.So much for her not being able to speak and write proper English.proud of her

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    interesting Sparetime that you can't be bothered writing anything in your profile because nobody will read it.I love the scent of irony in the evening.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    had a farm.. e i e i K "OH fudge... there goes my dislex.. dickless... dick licklessly.... Whatever....."

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I would first like to indicate that there are posters on this thread who have agreed with you but are guilty of being critical of others grammar. Not everybody's brain is wired to decifer the written word and they use other means, as a blind person has enhanced hearing, a dislexic person may have enhanced picture memory. To the grammar snobs out there, please stand before me so I can riddicule you about the weeknesses I will find. Get the point?   RHP spell check wouldn't hurt

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50'had a farm.. e i e i K "OH fudge... there goes my dislex.. dickless... dick licklessly.... Whatever....." You just made my morning!

  • razor2000

    razor2000

    12 years ago

    I guess it comes down to what people, or ppl, think is important. If someone has genuine issues/problems with spelling that is one thing,knowing about it can be another. But for me I think they only represent a small percentage of people, the rest are either lazy or have had issues with their education and both can be tracked back to school for the most part. Nowadays in a lot of schools the teachers are not allowed,aloud, to chastise or correct children when they make a mistake and this is leading to problems later in life. They are however stopping children from experiencing a lot of the fun and social interaction that's important,or at least used to be. An example of this is that a child at a local primary school near where I live was sent home and suspended recently. The crime committed I hear you ask. It turns out that this girl upon returning to school from the holidays committed the heinous crime of giving her friend a hug when she saw her in the playground before class. I've also been at the checkout in my local supermarket and when the bill has come to $13.50 I've given them $15 and a 50c coin. Now cause they've seen the $15 and rung that through they then couldn't do the math in their head to work out that I had to be given $2 back. I know that I try not to pre-judge people but I also know that when I look at a profile or post and there is spelling mistakes and or text speak all over the place then I can't help thinking, what the hell is going on. Especially with those using text speak, I mean it's not like we get charged per character for anything we post is it? Just because I can read words that are all jumbled up doesn't mean I want too either. No doubt I've made a mistake or two in my post and probably on my profile,not a cue to check it out, but both will be a long way from the gobbledygook of some with no regard or care for spelling and punctuation. Ad as someone else pointed out previously, I don't "want to eat grandma".

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ...what matters is what you have to say. Is it fair? Is it thoughtful? Yes, I do judge people on their posts. No, I don't always agree with them but I always consider what they have to say not so much the way they said it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I work as a support worker for the disabled and it upsets me when I see the disrepectful way some people treat them. They get so upset when they cant make themselves understood but they are so happy and grateful when someone takes the time to listen and work out what their trying to say. As for spelling mines not so good and Im very lazy with punctuation but I figure its not a markable essay so whats the big deal.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    is not essential to get an idea under someones nose.   Logic and well thought through argument are the signs of what can be good conversation.   Predjudice and pre-conceptions are the enemies of sensible debate.   Spell check isn't essemtial, fact check is!!!!!!   Mike

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    and then there is the fact, a language spoken or writtten will change and changed over the years. Have a look at books written years ago. And come one I learn the written language because the words are like pictures in my mind. And how confusing when you read books from different englih speaking countries? Your mind gets confused which is the right spelling and which is the wrong one. Yes we can use the spellingcheck....and even this bloody think can be wrong, because it only gets it right when the word is in a sentence and doesnt stand alone. Ohh my and then for people like me. Jesus you use words spoken in english, the single letters in the written word you cant even hear......how confusing is that? How can you spell it when you cant hear the letters?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Jing' gies... The simple word used when a person is unable to recollect the true word they know the spell police prey upon...Fuck'em... A spoken word occasionaly used, usually accompanied with the middle finger, and reserved for when the ever lurking spell police get up thier nose...Geezus... Same as jing'gies but more blasphemous.. Meant more-so as a cursing phase when frustrated by the do gooder's..Up ya bum.. Take ur friggin self righteous attitude and stick it where the sun dont shine... oh' must not forget to say please..Just a few... Im sure someone will add to this list .... Jay

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    My issue with bad spelling/ grammer on the forums is, if it's so bad that I have to work out the meaning rather than it being clear, I just don't read the post.   I'm not perfect and so I don't critise others no matter how bad the mistakes, I just think it's sad that somebody may have something to say that's relevant to me but the point is lost in the mumbo jumbo they have used to express it.     p.s. My pet hate at the moment is damn, please don't forget the 'n', it completely changes the word

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    im 43 i new my problem and was self contious about it when i was 36 riasing my duaghter as a sole parent she was 4 or 5 at time , as ive worked with hands mast of my life a extremely hard worker mind you .... at that time i didnt want to see my duaghter go through the same things , and problems i had so i went back and did year 12 plus a tafe coures at same time i also was coputer iliterate still freake by computer mind your . over that time i realized i have a slight case of dislectier ( somtime im shit hot somtimes im crap ) so i now understand and dont realy give a fuck ....some of the peps the work in offices word be just as shit without spell check , and over time ive had exsperinces seeing blokes that carnt fucking read or right but ive exceted them and coped without icelateing or teasing laying shit , just adapted and excepted there problems . l and i also over time have realized there arnt to many people out there that are humain just mouths with money, that get of on teasing people when they have fuck all skills themselve just lots of friends and money .. so like i siad i couldnt realy give a fuck , and my duaghter knows her prob as well and shes like me......das .... ps i got a a+ in art sound in legal studies, not sure in it , year ten sound engish sound year 12 english limited but myself at time i think there was something funny in my water and i realy couldnt give a fuck...

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    12 years ago

    Funlover,you are damnably hotttt...   Das that was an inspiring post,thank you

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    12 years ago

    It was a day of celebration,certificates of achievement were handed out,we got to eat cake,and the school is purchasing the Lexia program. This will dramatically increase the potential for kids with dyslexia and other learning disabilities to become literate.

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    12 years ago

    Thanks Freya13 for that Lovely story:) Well I'm 1 of the guilty ones .At times I do use incorrect spelling or grammar However Personally although it tends to frustrate the Hell out of me at times .It's not my main focus.The Topic at hand is. I enjoy sharing my views, some may agree or not with my thoughts.. However as much as I love the use or words I embrace those who can Personally give and share with others in their lives through actions. Unfortunately written words are changing as they have before in our evolving History to suit the times we live in. We see it every day with text SMSs so on..It's practicle but it loses something in the trsanslation..that saddens me because I love the Melodic tones and energies of words.. In closing If you have something to share on any given topic .Please reply so we can enjoy the value of your views and possibly gain insight , tolerance of others and so much more. Don't be overly concerned if you're not a good speller . It doesn't really matter. We can either get the gist of what you share, take the time to try and work it out, or bypass it all together.. Enjoy Lu :)

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    12 years ago

    My apologies but it seems I've added a new word to my Typonese he!he! Trsanslation =translation..Lu:)

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    12 years ago

    I sympathise with those who have a problem such as dyslexia, but it isn't hard to use spellcheck to eliminate most of the mistakes. I find it annoying to have to constantly translate textspeak or bad spelling. I get through a paragraph and can't be bothered reading further. I will refrain from criticism but don't expect me to read the post.

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    12 years ago

    Hi! MENSA Mate :) Mines 129 I totally agree with you he!he! see I can spell that without using My Typnese Lingo cheers Lu :)

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    12 years ago

    Sell cheque donut help wear the woad is speel correctly butt the meaning is knot the sane.

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    12 years ago

    Hi! Freya:) That's such a poignant little story I know you would have cheered her by allowing the girl to focus on the correct answer not the incorrect ones..Poor Luv... I agree with you Hun. Personally I feel a Persons substance , and views they wish to share to enhance my knowledge. op I'm guilty of poor spelling on occassion due to my arm hitting my breast and bouncing oiff when I'm typing my finger hits the wrong key or 2 at once.. I recheck uit but sometimes my finger clicks send before I've finished..Haaaaaaaa! Enjoy Lu :)

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    12 years ago

    Maybe you could train those puppies to do the typing for you, Lu.

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    12 years ago

    Hey Hun :0 Ya cheeky thing he!he1 However My breasts are too set in their weays and are skilled for more interesting things so I'll just have to rely on checking My Typos and when too many get thro; call them Typonese my other Language he!he! Cheers Lu :) PS Freya sorry hun I didn't realize I had replied to your Topic before .When I did it was too late.. Enjoy Lu :)

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    11 years ago

    There has been a huge shift in attitude here, towards people who struggle with spelling. Dyslexia and other conditions can be crippling to someones self esteem and learning capacity.Thank you forumites,Hugs x R

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    10 years ago

    Reminded me of this thread,so here it is for anyone who is interested xxFreya