M64
Too Gay ???
January 12 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Transgender should read transsexual
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RHP User
14 years ago
This is more focused at "straight guys" the question is when does a situaltion become too gay for I have a few examples for you... . . I guys looks at your profile... Fine check him out for a mfm 3some wife likes to be surprised what I have organised. . . A threesome MMF and the guy touches to guide your cock into the pussy...Fine because the attention is really directed to the lady. . . You meet up with a t Girl she has boobs but also a cock, would you want a look at least...would you accept a blow job ....no way and would not meet or exchange a message. . . You meet up with a transgender girl, was a guy but now a fuly functioning woman, looks like and behaves like a women...no way not a natural female, in reality Can you tell? Do they fuck different? . . Wanking no touching with a group of guys... no way female must be the centrepoint. . Wanking with a group of guys and cuming on a woman...No consider thats degrading to the woman . . When is something just too gay for you...let exclude the obvious of guy on guy sex. I am more interested in the T Girl and the transgender girl responses but want to see all the thoughts When actions are not directed towards the female. Smiling about sailing a yacht to Fiji, of course all the guys off to a night club and one lazy mate stays on the boat. We bring back three chicks and my lazy mate swoops in on my chick ..... Well 10 minutes later he is out of there.....it has a cock....lol He saved me....thats what mates are for ...check out the chicks for you!..he let me know, there are some places you dont even allow your best mate to go. lol We were nice and did not chuck her/him/it? in the water and rowed it back to shore.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ok... none of those situations are particularly gay for starters... but in answer to your question, too gay for me is a queen. It's one thing being a gay guy... that's fine, but I think it's possible to be a man about it and avoid the words "darling" and "fabulous" for instance.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
I should answer my own question i guess...None of those situation is too gay in fact some are not even close to becoming gay. Stalky I think you would have realised i didn't consider them to be really gay. . . My curiosity is for the straight guys as to how they respond...It is like if you have a peek when your queued up at the urinal...is that gay. . . Every one will have a line in the sand on certain things...In my case the line is back in the car park and in Stalkies it is a further block and a half back. The people on the beach or in the water are the interesting ones on this thread. . . LC
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RHP User
14 years ago
Though like the Stalkster, i draw the line at effiminate behaviour in gay or Bi guys. Transexuals, Transgendered persons, Cross Dressers etc just don't interest me.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
14 years ago
First of all let me make it clear that i am 150% straight. I am in no way curious to find out what it is like to have a penis inside my mouth or ass. I remember once having a threesome with MMF, i was laying on the bottom with my cock in the pussy, my mate was on top with his cock in her ass and no beer coaster between our balls. At one stage our balls slapped in the heat of the moment. Straight away i thought oh fuck does this mean i've had a gay experience. To overcome this we struck up a conversation about football and v8's. So i guess in answer to your question is two penis;s in any one hole, or where the other guy pays more attention to me than the female i would consider him to be gay or at least bi curious. I have had quite a few beers with gay males, i dont make it a habbit but that would be the only thing i share. Look forward to hearing from any responses.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yeah.. but you know it felt good right? I mean.. you enjoyed the feeling of his cock and balls rubbing against yours while you were both balls deep in twat didn't you.... the same "effect" with DP through to anal wall... you can feel the other guy's cock pushing through her vaginal lining and it's stimulating... isn't it! You know I'm right.... But I don't think that's at all gay. Being gay is a dude who prefers to have sex with men rather than women. That's completely different to two guys whos ballsacks might slam together during DP... errr... lolz.HugsStalky Quoting 'HISANDHERSTEDS' First of all let me make it clear that i am 150% straight. I am in no way curious to find out what it is like to have a penis inside my mouth or ass. I remember once having a threesome with MMF, i was laying on the bottom with my cock in the pussy, my mate was on top with his cock in her ass and no beer coaster between our balls. At one stage our balls slapped in the heat of the moment. Straight away i thought oh fuck does this mean i've had a gay experience. To overcome this we struck up a conversation about football and v8's.
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have done the double penertration not anal , But double viginal the other guy wearing a condom. Well we have done it! Will never go there again. 2 reasons: Wife was extremely sore had problems sitting down for 2-3 days it took her 3 months to want to swing again for a while she was saying never swing again its not worth the pain after.Preperation was fine was our third round with others at that party, Foreplay was about 20 mins with heaps of lube. I find nothing stimulating about feeling another guys cock inside pussy with me or slapping balls , in fact had problems staying hard it really was a effort. Never again for us. You have to try these things, some you like some you dont, There is no inner wishes none zero nothing! for either of us. Reminds me of our guy guy talks before we swing, I tell the guys what my wife likes and dont. No pain ...nipple biting pinching....who wants their wife to have nipples you cant touch for a week, she cant wear a bra and she shows you broken skin. No slaming into her she is not a fucking machine.....= bruised pelvic bones Dont go near her arse....entirely off limits. Tonsill hockey is no go or any attempt at forced deep throating she is in charge. What I have learnt our wives get right into it they are so excited they dont reliase the damage being done to their bodies, I now reconise when other guys are going overboard and put a stop to it. Quoting 'stalky' Yeah.. but you know it felt good right? I mean.. you enjoyed the feeling of his cock and balls rubbing against yours while you were both balls deep in twat didn't you.... the same "effect" with DP through to anal wall... you can feel the other guy's cock pushing through her vaginal lining and it's stimulating... isn't it! You know I'm right.... But I don't think that's at all gay. Being gay is a dude who prefers to have sex with men rather than women. That's completely different to two guys whos ballsacks might slam together during DP... errr... lolz.HugsStalky Quoting 'HISANDHERSTEDS' First of all let me make it clear that i am 150% straight. I am in no way curious to find out what it is like to have a penis inside my mouth or ass. I remember once having a threesome with MMF, i was laying on the bottom with my cock in the pussy, my mate was on top with his cock in her ass and no beer coaster between our balls. At one stage our balls slapped in the heat of the moment. Straight away i thought oh fuck does this mean i've had a gay experience. To overcome this we struck up a conversation about football and v8's.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was hoping this would get some more replies. I think the question is quite a good one and I want to see how we react to these situation. I guess I was trying to see if we are being more open with certain situations. . Badromancefor4 . Can I ask you when you picked up the girl you obviously thought she was attractive and I assume you had some fun with her...dancing, chatting , drinking...I would guess you liked her at this point in time. So it turns out she has a cock and that is not your scene. I certainly respect that as well. Now I know you missed out on a root but did the girl suddenly become less of a person ? So would you have chatted to her again if you saw her onshore the next day. . LC
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RHP User
14 years ago
A mans mouth around your cock is totally balanced out by a breast in each hand.Surely it is all about boob to cock ratio, so I guess if said breasts and cock are in the one package, then no not gay at all :Pxx Salina
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RHP User
14 years ago
Moobs? :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hmm...well does said moob man consider himself as a male or female? Does he like to dress up, get those jubbly moobs into a pretty bra or corsette to show them off to their best advantage?LC...I am not qualified to comment really as I am not a straight male but I do think you have started a very interesting post and I am also curious to see what people think.xx Salina
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'LoveCurvie' Can I ask you when you picked up the girl you obviously thought she was attractive and I assume you had some fun with her...dancing, chatting , drinking...I would guess you liked her at this point in time. So it turns out she has a cock and that is not your scene. I certainly respect that as well. Now I know you missed out on a root but did the girl suddenly become less of a person ? So would you have chatted to her again if you saw her onshore the next day. I have had gay male customers in business and dont think any less of them but friends no. .I have LC Less of a person? Why do you call him her? Surely a cock and balls dictates sex? Obviously the correct answer is no but in reality I think maybe yes , there is no intrest in him whatsoever so "who cares" The next day we did pass him on the road, wow in daylight and sober how did I make that mistake? But said hello as we passed didnt stop and talk. This might relate to your topic? On instant messaging we get had on quite a bit by guys pretending to be a couple sometimes we will play a game "you want to play games on instant messenger then lets play" This works best when he is in another state. We tell him we are into surprised blindfolded gangbangs with two other couples, we give our girls heaps to drink to get them pissed, and we get about six bi guys to sneak in and fuck the girls without them knowing! The best part is as a bi guy has his cock in your wives pussy my cock is in his arse with no condoms! And bi the way we are driving thru your city next week. What is your address and phone number and we can orginise some fun! You still there .....gone! wonder why? lol some out of state guys will have their minds mixed up with qld couples!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sorry How can you say having a guys cock in your mouth is ok if you have boobs in your hand. To say something like that you have to be gay or bi. Sorry if I seem blunt or what ever you want to call me. As I said I have gay male and female friends. However I have no intentions of letting a cock come, or go nere me. If I can help it and like in the case on new years eve when my girl and i went to a party at CI she met a nice young bloke and the 3 of us went up stairs for some fun. Straight away I made sure i was at the opposite end not only so his cock would not go near me but also so i could keep my eye on him. One thing i'd say and i'm sure most will agree but i am sure i am about to ruffel some feathers. But to watch 2 females going for it is like art, 2 watch 2 males going for it is wrong. In the words of god, and iam about as churcy as i am gay. He created adam and eve not adam and steve. Hisand hers all the way.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Transgender or Trani for me would be NO GO .. I dont find the men attractive and have no intention of having sex with another man. Couldnt care less about another guy having sex with another man or woman but its just not my thing. I like women .. and each to there own
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RHP User
14 years ago
It is interesting reading the responses to this forum topic.In response to Badromance....I do not think that cock and balls or lack of dictates the sex of a person but that , perhaps, is another debate entirely.I am not gay or bi, I have chosen the word heteroflexible to describe me. I am interested in being with a woman when I am attracted to them in that way and there is chemistry there. The same goes for being with a man, although generally it is a rarity for me to be attracted to a woman in that way, it happens from time to time and I will act on it. Really though Hisandhers, I was having a bit of giggle as I have spoken to a few men here on RHP who are quite comfortable with male play only when women are involved as it 'balances out the gayness' lol.LOlouder, there is a website called IT IS NOT GAY IF. Wow you can google anything!It is not gay if you have watched Die Hard in the last 24 hoursIt is not gay if A girl is watchingIt is not gay if Chuck Norris would do itIt is not gay if you never EVER mention it againxx Salina Quoting 'HISANDHERSTEDS' Sorry How can you say having a guys cock in your mouth is ok if you have boobs in your hand. To say something like that you have to be gay or bi. Sorry if I seem blunt or what ever you want to call me. As I said I have gay male and female friends. However I have no intentions of letting a cock come, or go nere me. If I can help it and like in the case on new years eve when my girl and i went to a party at CI she met a nice young bloke and the 3 of us went up stairs for some fun. Straight away I made sure i was at the opposite end not only so his cock would not go near me but also so i could keep my eye on him. One thing i'd say and i'm sure most will agree but i am sure i am about to ruffel some feathers. But to watch 2 females going for it is like art, 2 watch 2 males going for it is wrong. In the words of god, and iam about as churcy as i am gay. He created adam and eve not adam and steve. Hisand hers all the way.
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RHP User
14 years ago
hi LoveCurvie , You are bi or bi curous if you still interested in women. It doesn't matter if you have fun, who cares? Your cock?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'SalAndy' In response to Badromance....I do not think that cock and balls or lack of dictates the sex of a person but that , perhaps, is another debate entirely.What is your logic on this one? Mine is going you are born a male or female when my wife gave birth to our children the doctor looked saw a cock and balls and pronounce "you have a boy" I am really struggling how the boy can then be a girl with a cock and balls and no vigana, womb etc that the female body has to reproduce children ? Sure some guys pretend to be girls, thats all.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'LoveCurvie' I was hoping this would get some more replies. I think the question is quite a good one and I want to see how we react to these situation. I guess I was trying to see if we are being more open with certain situations. .I suspect that you're not getting more varied replies because there seems to be so little in it for straight guys to be bothered to answer. I'm straight and would be totally uninterested in some of the things that you listed, but what does that say about anything? We all have different interests - nett gain of knowledge equals zero.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4'What is your logic on this one? Mine is going you are born a male or female when my wife gave birth to our children the doctor looked saw a cock and balls and pronounce "you have a boy" I am really struggling how the boy can then be a girl with a cock and balls and no vigana, womb etc that the female body has to reproduce children ? Sure some guys pretend to be girls, thats all. Actually well.. at the risk of being on the receiving end of your childish retorts and putting up with being stalked and trolled... unfortunately you're wrong. Some people are born with the outward appearance of male but are more genetically predisposed otherwise, and vise versa. Mostly people who are medically categorised this way have ambiguous genitalia. That's just the way it is physically. Then there are other complications for example "I feel like I am a man trapped in a woman's body".. etc... It makes matters more difficult for those who like to pigeon hole anyone different to themselves, but some transexuals and intersexed people identify as straight.. and others as Bi.. and some as Gay... hence... you can have a person who was born with for example, female genitals who identifies as gay because "he" prefers to have sex with men. Gender re-assignment surgery for those guys is actually pretty rare because it is extremely expensive.No.... really... you can google "transexual" and "intersex" for example. I know you trust google. :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G' Is it too gay to have sex with a genetic girl who identefies his gender as male. BTW Great topic LC You mean female to male transgender? A dude with a pussy? Well.. he better be able to wrrrestle or I'm not going near him.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Actually well.. at the risk of being on the receiving end of your childish retorts and putting up with being stalked and trolled... unfortunately you're wrong. I would prefer you not to comment on my posts and I will not comment on yours, I find the above offensive and are asking you stop. This will put a stop to what you are saying above.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Did not know any of that suppose never been in contact with those concequences, Read on google 2 in every 1000 may be effected this way. Now the big question, Do you think all we see out there dressed in drag etc have these genuine reasons or are some out there just weird? Or another way of quantifying it when people go for sex changes is there request confirmed by the medical profession that chromozones are out of order? Or you got the money we will make you whatever you want.
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RHP User
14 years ago
few unsolicited tips for you both (dont know if it is mr or mrs who does the posting)* return the blinkers to the horse you took them from, he wants them back.* pull your heads out of your butts.* please think before you post your comments on areas you later claim to know nothing about, it will save you from having to repeatedly take the foot out of your mouth.* learn to realise when people are trying to give you valid information, not have a go at you. (only Jewish & Polish folk seem to have bigger pursection complexes bigger than you...and they may just have earned theirs)* grow up.* dont pick on stalky, at least he is funny.*chomp*
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RHP User
14 years ago
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'petticoats' few unsolicited tips for you both (dont know if it is mr or mrs who does the posting)* return the blinkers to the horse you took them from, he wants them back.* pull your heads out of your butts.* please think before you post your comments on areas you later claim to know nothing about, it will save you from having to repeatedly take the foot out of your mouth.* learn to realise when people are trying to give you valid information, not have a go at you.(only Jewish & Polish folk seem to have bigger pursection complexes bigger than you...and they may just have earned theirs)* grow up.* dont pick on stalky, at least he is funny.*chomp* Any other advise you have please feel free to post, we are no where near as cleaver or educated as you. The person who started this thread asked for straight guys to comment. So we did! Would it be possible that straight guys have no personal experiance with why gay / intersex guys are gay. Straight guys just think they gay. Its not their problem. Straight guys are going think what makes up male / female for 99.99% of the population, is the standard measurement and probably should be you know cock = male and pussy= female, its easy Dont you think? This intersex stuff effects 2 in a 1000. Its unreasonable to expect straight guys with no exposure to Gay issues to know about this. The funny man, We obviously have a personality clash with each other and if we agree to stay away from each other there will be no further problems. I would put to you he commented on our last 6 posts not the other way around but anyway accusations wont get anyone anywhere, our suggested solution might. We made no personal attack on him but he did to us, so its time to ask nicely stop. Otherwise we respond the same as what he gave and we will. Reading our request can you see any nastiness in the wording? Or are you trying to see something that is not there.....lady
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RHP User
14 years ago
Have noticed you under us quite requarly lately, would you like a change and go on top? Now lets see what we reel in will be fun
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Have noticed you under us quite requarly lately, would you like a change and go on top? Now lets see what we reel in will be fun Nah - coincidence - I just follow Stalky around the forums. .... xxx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
awwww we thought you had the hots for us? Playing hard to get are we got our white latex ready ...we want every infection , love and revenge ready for the ride? Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Have noticed you under us quite requarly lately, would you like a change and go on top? Now lets see what we reel in will be fun Nah - coincidence - I just follow Stalky around the forums. .... xxx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'stalky'Some people are born with the outward appearance of male but are more genetically predisposed otherwise, and vise versa. Mostly people who are medically categorised this way have ambiguous genitalia. That's just the way it is physically. Then there are other complications for example "I feel like I am a man trapped in a woman's body".. etc... It makes matters more difficult for those who like to pigeon hole anyone different to themselves, but some transexuals and intersexed people identify as straight.. and others as Bi.. and some as Gay... hence... you can have a person who was born with for example, female genitals who identifies as gay because "he" prefers to have sex with men. Gender re-assignment surgery for those guys is actually pretty rare because it is extremely expensive. Despite the unwarranted bagging that you received, that was an excellent answer. I have no experience with those matters, but my understanding is exactly as you outlined. Those who disagree would be well served by looking into this more closely before firing off an uninformed answer. Nice work!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I guys looks at your profile... Got no problem with this. I do have an issue with suggestive messages/flirts, though. Long story, not for public consumption. . . A threesome MMF and the guy touches to guide your cock into the pussy... Dunno - never been in that situation, probably never will. . . You meet up with a t Girl she has boobs but also a cock, would you want a look at least...would you accept a blow job No and no. . . You meet up with a transgender girl, was a guy but now a fuly functioning woman, looks like and behaves like a women... I'd politely make my excuses and walk away. . . Wanking no touching with a group of guys... No plans on doing that. . . Wanking with a group of guys and cuming on a woman... See above :-) .
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RHP User
14 years ago
Snowshoe You do have problems on here, Do you have the guts to name who you are taking about and quote? Luv your Guts ......Love your dancing and why do you have such a education in queer persons? Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'stalky' Despite the unwarranted bagging that you received, that was an excellent answer. I have no experience with those matters, but my understanding is exactly as you outlined. Those who disagree would be well served by looking into this more closely before firing off an uninformed answer. Nice work!
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RHP User
14 years ago
You say unwarranted but you selectivly copy paste . Why did you exclude Stalkys 1st sentance? Its pasted below Actually well.. at the risk of being on the receiving end of your childish retorts and putting up with being stalked and trolled... unfortunately you're wrong. Snowshoe why is that even included unless Stalky is looking to play war games? Funny isnt he! Are you suggesting Game is on now? and we will argue the point now on every post rather than the diplomatic solution I suggested? Maybe you could have been adult enough to give some credibility. This profile we just dont care so go ahead and play cry babies to RHP. Your decision say go and games on! We will be back within 2 hours. Boom Boom Boom , we are ready and will give up this profile / base if its taken in war, Back up bases are allready in place. With secret coding for wars instigated against us. We tried a diplomatic solution. Is this really what you and Stalky want sex sites forums to be? MrsS does not and we dont either, we want to live in peace and imagine most on here do to. We have a peace pack in place. Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'stalky'Some people are born with the outward appearance of male but are more genetically predisposed otherwise, and vise versa. Mostly people who are medically categorised this way have ambiguous genitalia. That's just the way it is physically. Then there are other complications for example "I feel like I am a man trapped in a woman's body".. etc... It makes matters more difficult for those who like to pigeon hole anyone different to themselves, but some transexuals and intersexed people identify as straight.. and others as Bi.. and some as Gay... hence... you can have a person who was born with for example, female genitals who identifies as gay because "he" prefers to have sex with men. Gender re-assignment surgery for those guys is actually pretty rare because it is extremely expensive. Despite the unwarranted bagging that you received, that was an excellent answer. I have no experience with those matters, but my understanding is exactly as you outlined. Those who disagree would be well served by looking into this more closely before firing off an uninformed answer. Nice work!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G' Your generalisation that straight guys believe that the humans are not diverse is actually an insult to those straight guys who accept that diversity does exist. Let me point out a few facts to you. - The world is round (yeah pretty basic) - No one knows how evolution started - The key to advancement is trying to understand what is not known - Dogma and rhetoric belongs to the ignorant - We all see and hear things from the past - There are 11 dimensions required for the Mother of all Theories I would suggest you heed an old saying; "Loose lips make a fool" Can we get back on topic now.
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ruby_blossum
14 years ago
is that 90% of men I have met, have expressed an interest in a mmf or mfm fun times. None of them have thought of it as a "gay" situation. They are "blokey" blokes. A couple of them have had relationships with transgender women, pre and post gender reassignment surgery, they never thought of themself as being with a man, they were with women in every sense of the word. \ BadRomance......what ever medication you are on, please tell me......I never want to be guilty of the dribble that you spout. Its either medication or you just enjoy stirring the pot......if that is the case, please up the quality of your dribble. \ Great call there petticoats.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G' Your generalisation that straight guys believe that the humans are not diverse is actually an insult to those straight guys who accept that diversity does exist. Really You Know all dont you! Let me point out a few facts to you. Please we are all ears, how is this going effect the way we swing with the opposite as born sex? none of this poofy xy stuff , Have a real beer 4x xxxx Qld beer! - The world is round (yeah pretty basic) No we use astro navigate blue water sailing between countries, we allways allowed for the edge, When did this round stuff happen ? - No one knows how evolution started, The cathollic church tells us thats why we celebrate christmas and how bad gay stuff is, only read tonight on their website in Rome being Gay shortens your life by 20 yrs but they reccommend condoms now so queers dont get aids only. - The key to advancement is trying to understand what is not known We thought hard work honesty and going to church was every Sunday! - Dogma and rhetoric belongs to the ignorant Huh suppose so pass another beer Qld Beer please 4XXXX - We all see and hear things from the past Scarry aye seonces whitches 14th century torture - There are 11 dimensions required for the Mother of all Theories Yes lets swing partner swap with other straight married couples and fuck with the opposite sex only the way our bodies are designd by our creator I would suggest you heed an old saying; "Loose lips make a fool" Guess what Who Cares about you Q...r lot Can we get back on topic now. Uhuh we agree with everything you say, Are u all better now?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ruby what absolute crap Our medication is reality in the real world I better arrange you another puff so u can get back to fantancy land, or better should I forward you a drug rehabilitation programme councelling? Quoting 'ruby_blossum' is that 90% of men I have met, have expressed an interest in a mmf or mfm fun times. None of them have thought of it as a "gay" situation. They are "blokey" blokes. A couple of them have had relationships with transgender women, pre and post gender reassignment surgery, they never thought of themself as being with a man, they were with women in every sense of the word. \ BadRomance......what ever medication you are on, please tell me......I never want to be guilty of the dribble that you spout. Its either medication or you just enjoy stirring the pot......if that is the case, please up the quality of your dribble. \ Great call there petticoats.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think steam is coming out of my ears the moment - you are truly an offensive person. I have been reading the forums tonight and there at leaset 3 or 4 other threads were you are arguing with people and being rude and offensive. . What is your problem??? . I hope you go KABOOM !!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I didn't clarify who I was talking about. Just in case you think I don't have the guts to name you. . BADROMANCEFOR4 - I am talking about you. .
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thats funny Quoting 'Meeka100' I think steam is coming out of my ears the moment - you are truly an offensive person. I have been reading the forums tonight and there at leaset 3 or 4 other threads were you are arguing with people and being rude and offensive. . What is your problem??? . I hope you go KABOOM !!
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RHP User
14 years ago
up to the part where Krissy explained so much about a topic I really knew very little and Badromance took this new knowledge on board and asked some very reasonable questions.... After that it fell apart :( Badromance, thank you for being open to take on board new ideas and thoughts and experiences of others to learn more and broaden your mind. I hope that you have a new understanding of the complexities of gender and sexuality. I am just saddened this topic declined so rapidly into personal attacks. xx Salina
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RHP User
14 years ago
when I guy is starting to have feelings for you that go beyond sex or you are starting to have those feelings...the group of guys wanking is kinda odd... Im not sure what the attraction there would be but hey... each to their own...but being gay is about feeling love for someone of the same sex not experiencing a sexual act with someone of the same sex...so if the feelings are in the right place then even anal sex between 2 guys isnt necessarily gay in my mind. If he calls the next day and sends you flowers and chocolates and you get butterflies in your stomach when you think of him then yeah... youre starting to entertain what it means to be gay.anything other than that and youre either just having fun or maybe bi if its something u enjoy all the time/crave equally to being with women.LS
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sometimes it does put a doubt in your mind when you get such a bashing thanks , I dont understand all I asked was Stalky, you have a problem with us and we do with you so what say we stay away from ea others posts. Cant message him privately he has us blocked otherwise we would have done it privately. Apreciated ps I have a theory there is a click here and you are not allowed to call stalky a Funny man....lol Quoting 'SalAndy'up to the part where Krissy explained so much about a topic I really knew very little and Badromance took this new knowledge on board and asked some very reasonable questions.... After that it fell apart :( Badromance, thank you for being open to take on board new ideas and thoughts and experiences of others to learn more and broaden your mind. I hope that you have a new understanding of the complexities of gender and sexuality. I am just saddened this topic declined so rapidly into personal attacks. xx Salina
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RHP User
14 years ago
Krissy I smiled because my mate stole my chick for the night and it back fired on him, I could tell you other stories about what we got up to. I still tease him about what a great mate he was saving me from that thing. Imagine 6 single guys 20--25 sailing from NZ to Fiji and then partying around all the Fiji islands, we got up to heaps with the local girls. Only hit that problem once, maybe we were more carefull after that! I dont know where you got we were mean to the person we rowed it back to shore no problems we were civil but play no bloody way! I have no doubts other sailors on overseas boats she, him, whatever, would have ended up in the water! Do you have a problem because I dont want sex with the same sex? or a intersex person? Quoting 'Krissy_G' Why get upset. I just pointed out a few facts; But seeing you shout I guess that shows a lot of internal anger. You state you smile at the thought of throwing that poor girl overboard at the beginning of this thread. This shows what a truley sick individual you are. This in my opinion borders on hate crime. Wha arnt you telling us.
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candoit4000
14 years ago
guys touching or playing together does not necessarily mean ur gay... it's just having hot sex maybe experimenting or playing out a fantasy.... lots of str8 guys i know dont mind playing... discretion is absolute so who cares what u do with another guy. when feelings begin to show then yeah it could be classed as bi or gay.... but who cares about labels anyway... just enjoy it for what it is.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Gonna drag some homophobes out of the woodwork with this one. The point of "Gayness" is a variant specific to someone's viewpoint in the end. The TS / TV / Crossdress friends I have known along the way are fascinating individuals who go to great expense to hide their masculinity. Gay no longer fits their sensuality as they portray, exhibit and behave female. Although I don't fully understand the dynamic, I respect everyone's individuality. Gay to me is 2 men in a sexual relationship for a night or a lifetime. The scenario's mentioned are interesting however some may find them too risque?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ha ha ha ha ho ho ho ho... From the very get go, reading the OP, I knew this was going to be belly aching comedy of miss informed cultural expectations. The homophobic rants proclaiming their straightness LOL. The decisive procrastination of how to define your sex Hahaha.. The oozing pile of self defined crap that emanates when defining what is gay. Oh darlings you're fabulously funny. In Australia there is only one way to be legally gay and that is to enter a same sex marriage or declared de facto relationship. I can then, without reproach, call you gay. Yet if I find you are having sex with the same sex, in any way, I still do not have the right to call you gay. Libel laws prohibit us from pronouncing our personal view of another's sexual orientation. Apart from that, you are only gay if you call your self gay, no one else has that right. If you touch the genitals of the same sex and then FEAR you may be (too) gay, you have psychological problems far deeper then your sexual identity. Gay is a modern term used by western culture, many cultures don't have the equivalent word. In fact by (lose) western standards in some of these cultures everyone is gay. So OP I can suck cock all day long and still call my self straight, supported by law. To the rest, you're all too gay...LOL.(Pejorative definition) No offence to the very few that did not judge...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' You say unwarranted but you selectivly copy paste . Why did you exclude Stalkys 1st sentance? Its pasted below Actually well.. at the risk of being on the receiving end of your childish retorts and putting up with being stalked and trolled... unfortunately you're wrong. Snowshoe why is that even included unless Stalky is looking to play war games? Funny isnt he! Are you suggesting Game is on now? and we will argue the point now on every post rather than the diplomatic solution I suggested? Maybe you could have been adult enough to give some credibility. This profile we just dont care so go ahead and play cry babies to RHP. Your decision say go and games on! We will be back within 2 hours. I cut Stalky's sentence because it didn't contribute to the part of the posting that I was complimenting him on and as I said before, I didn't want to fan the flames. In other words, I did it out of respect for you and your opinions, however much I disagree with them. "Play cry babies to RHP"? You've got it all wrong - I don't give a shit about the silly games going on here. Any sort of a war that you think is going on is a figment of your imagination.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' I would prefer you not to comment on my posts and I will not comment on yours, I find the above offensive and are asking you stop. This will put a stop to what you are saying above. See... I really don't care either way... but since I've been doing as you requested I've noticed that every other post of yours has my name in it. It would seem you have offered nothing more than a trojan horse. No doubt you googled "Trolling"... the matter in question that you obviously consider is so offensive... i.e.Trolling - In Internet slang, a troll is someone who posts inflammatory, extraneous, or off-topic messages in an online community, such as an online discussion forum, chat room, or blog, with the primary intent of provoking other users into a desired emotional response<1> or of otherwise disrupting normal on-topic discussionYet.... you continue to do it... even naming in your posts the people you intend to stalk based on some childish need to seek retribution for them having transgressed your sensibilities. Has it ever occurred to you that the reaction you invoke by trolling is self perpetuating? Of course you have. That's how you get your jollies isn't it. It's mildly amusing at best to see you do it. I'm sure you have more capacity for fun and you're just underselling yourself with all this BOOM bullshit.As I said, I don't care either way what you... I've seen some truly frightening trolls and you're not one. Hell... one troll I know of set up "Troll Patrol" in yahoo answers and basically brought it and a million users to its knees. Your pale compared to those experts.HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Snowshoe' I cut Stalky's sentence because it didn't contribute to the part of the posting that I was complimenting him on and as I said before, I didn't want to fan the flames. In other words, I did it out of respect for you and your opinions, Despite the unwarranted bagging that you received, that was an excellent answer. I have no experience with those matters, but my understanding is exactly as you outlined. Those who disagree would be well served by looking into this more closely before firing off an uninformed answer. Nice work! If you were not faning the flames why make the comments darkened above. If your intent to be positive on this thread what you say in green is great, and would have kept things in the positive. At that stage I was the only one in the thread asking and learning on the intersex stuff. I found Krissy gave a much more professional responce that I could understand. Then it deteriated . Salandandy commented the way I saw the unwarranted attacks on us. Sorry we do respond to the flaming and trolling thrown at us. especially after suggesting an adult solution.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Quoting 'Snowshoe' Despite the unwarranted bagging that you received, that was an excellent answer. I have no experience with those matters, but my understanding is exactly as you outlined. Those who disagree would be well served by looking into this more closely before firing off an uninformed answer. Nice work! If you were not faning the flames why make the comments darkened above. If your intent to be positive on this thread what you say in green is great, and would have kept things in the positive. At that stage I was the only one in the thread asking and learning on the intersex stuff. I found Krissy gave a much more professional responce that I could understand. Then it deteriated . Salandandy commented the way I saw the unwarranted attacks on us. Sorry we do respond to the flaming and trolling thrown at us. especially after suggesting an adult solution. In my opinion, your response to Stalky's post was uninformed and your criticism unwarranted. For that you're chasing me across threads? You're a troll - reply to me privately or not at all.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Some other couples on here are having trouble with singles trolling them and arguing for the sake of it . On the other thread it was an enguiry if that couple was having problems with you and others! We consider our question to Sal and Andy did not warrant Stalkys sacastic response and neither do they, that responce was deliberate flaming and trolling, by stalky along with yours afterwards otherwise why include it. I am not going to respond any further on this thread unless it goes back to subject, Others should not have to put up with yours and Stalks games. Quoting 'Snowshoe' Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Quoting 'Snowshoe' In my opinion, your response to Stalky's post was uninformed and your criticism unwarranted. For that you're chasing me across threads? You're a troll - reply to me privately or not at all.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I totally agree, everyone does have their right of reply and this is absolutely is a very emotionally charged topic for many people for many reasons.I wanted to point out the good that was coming from this thread and that is the opportunity we all have to learn and grow from other people and broadening our minds to see beyond our own experiences.xx Salina
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RHP User
14 years ago
We all have our likes and dislikes...and our opinions...to which we are all entitled.But WHY denigrate those you aren't attracted to?JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'LeoSteve' ....If he calls the next day and sends you flowers and chocolates and you get butterflies in your stomach when you think of him then yeah... youre starting to entertain what it means to be gay. Well LS, personally I think straight guys are generally flat out calling the next day, and of course I have not met a straight guy who sends flowers and chocolates the morning after, so now I am actually a bit put out to hear that gay guys could be doing this, but not the straight ones..... hahahahaha ;) ok, I was just kiddin around.... but interesting points though....
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Chillymofo
14 years ago
Amazing how your perceptions of people can change soooo much in one single thread!Was going to answer on topic, but the thread has denigrated so much, just couldn't be stuffed now!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'luvitruf' Amazing how your perceptions of people can change soooo much in one single thread!Was going to answer on topic, but the thread has denigrated so much, just couldn't be stuffed now! Reflecting on it this thread is a set up, asking straight guys to comment on Gay / Queer issues .
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RHP User
14 years ago
is it gay if your curious and want to touch or masterbate another penis if your a bloke ?
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candoit4000
14 years ago
not at all mate... fun sex is all about doing what feels good
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting '2HOTNWA' is it gay if your curious and want to touch or masterbate another penis if your a bloke ? In my mind, "gay" implies homosexuality, but you state in your profile that you're looking for women, so I doubt if you'd consider yourself to be gay. A better question would have been "am I bi-curious if I want to touch or masturbate another man's penis", but then the answer is completely self-evident anyway - of course you are, but so what? It's not my cup of tea, but you only answer to yourself, not me. Go for your life.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting '2HOTNWA' is it gay if your curious and want to touch or masterbate another penis if your a bloke ? Let's get this right... if you identify as a homosexual man.. then you are saying that you PREFER to have sex with men. That's it. Simple really. That's gay... and you're saying that women don't really rock your boat. If you think about fiddling with another dude's dick.. that's not making you gay.. it's your sexuality trying to tell you that there's more to your sexual urges than fit within your current sexual identity.... urges therefore that you may not be prepared to accept. You can deny those urges or you can act on them. I suppose that comes down to how in tune ... how in sync you are mentally with the organic machinery that makes you feel horny! Your body always knows what it likes though.... so why do you need a definition for it.. whatever it is? HugsStalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting '2HOTNWA' is it gay if your curious and want to touch or masterbate another penis if your a bloke ? no. sex is sex. there's nothing wrong with experimenting.
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