leeleeloulou

leeleeloulou

M37 F34

Too kinky?

September 14 2020

Anyone ever been knocked back because they like a bit of kink? We are not super kinky but like to try new things, some people look at our pics and either run a mile or think that all we are in to is hardcore bdsm. Anyone had similar experiences?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Your pics are hot but they’re all pretty wild. Maybe swap and put some that aren’t in costume? I’m a rare one who isn’t into any form of kink and your profile would perturb me a little x

  • The_Antichrist

    The_Antichrist

    4 years ago

    I don’t understand ... there’s nothing in those pics that suggest your weird or creepy .... It’s not like you’ve got a goat bent over with a lustful look on your faces ....

  • Helpushavefun

    Helpushavefun

    4 years ago

    You have to learn to not let it worry you. The latex is hot but her mask is a little scary. Lol but still hot

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    Absolutely nothing wrong with your pics guys, personally they're stunning. People will find all sorts of reasons to say no to a profile and you'll do your head in trying to work out why. Good luck, you'll find your tribe!

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    4 years ago

    It’s human nature to make assumptions from the information we have in front of us . Your profile and PG are great . They reflect who you are and I wouldn’t change a thing . As Spicy said , you will find your tribe . Just give it time . Some maybe hesitant as you two are obviously confident and very comfortable with your sexuality. Maybe some may feel inept and intimidated. That all comes down to finding like minded sexy souls . I’m sure you will have great success in finding what you seek . Goodluck Ax

  • bunsnbuns

    bunsnbuns

    4 years ago

    Wouldn't be to worried what others think end of the day you want people that are open minded and like the things you do. Also if people just look at pics without reading the profile that's their loss 🙂. Hot profile for sure 🔥🔥

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I think your photos are great, they show who you are and they're hot. There's nothing really hardcore in there. Personally, as a fellow kinkster, I think you'll have more fun with people who like your photos anyway, so they're effectively a filter to find like minded people! Enjoy meeting similar people and don't let the rejections worry you!

  • NewVicCpl

    NewVicCpl

    4 years ago

    Have you tried Fetlife at all? might be worth a look as it is all about Kink

  • 2EssesExploring

    2EssesExploring

    4 years ago

    Hey guys, well I can see why you’re having so much trouble. It’s a known fact that kite surfers all participate in satanic sexual rituals so take that sporty photo down and you’ll be ok! The rest look delicious! Maybe people have a thing against metal heads or motorcycles? Geez folk are super picky these days 😂

  • MelbCouple4fun

    MelbCouple4fun

    4 years ago

    I think your pics give others a good insight in to what you are looking for. Saves wasting time meeting up to find out the other couple/person is vanilla Also, the pics might pique the interest of others who have thought about, but not acted on, those sort of kinks....great advertising 😊

  • happy0450

    happy0450

    4 years ago

    @leeleeloulou You guys be you x RHP is a lot like Carsales.com There’s everything there, from Mini’s to Maserati‘s. The difference is, with the latter, people go about looking for what they want without the need to share their judgement of others 👋🏼

  • Kinky2some

    Kinky2some

    4 years ago

    I just think a lot of couples on here are actually not really into it (or one of them isnt) and they are fussy as hell. I mean its hooking up for a fuck, not getting married or becoming best friends. Im a bit over all the dumb excuses and being stood up.. or meeting couples then they are like, no not interested. You see it all in our pics, we're up for pretty much anything but seems close to impossible to make it happen. Single guys are no worries, its the couples and sometimes I wonder if the female even knows about the profile etc 🤷‍♀️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Hi I am looking for a female to rule me in some kinky ways but can KOR find any one

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Only once. At least, that's what they told me 😂 A vanilla girl in Geraldton. I think having the dating site bluffed with the swingers site is a good thing though. Broaden some minds maybe? 👌🏼

  • Roblin

    Roblin

    4 years ago

    Love your profile! We don't think it's over the top😉

  • kinkyukguy

    kinkyukguy

    4 years ago

    Some girls who claim to be kinky get scared away when they find out how kinky I actually am. I've had a few say there kinky but there idea of kinky is just rough sex

  • Kinky_AF

    Kinky_AF

    4 years ago

    😂😂😂 we only look for peeps that do hardcore BDSM! It doesn't always have to be that way but we have no interest in vanillas so it's made overtly obvious in our page and then then we have to be like... Ahhh we're not you're type

  • bicurious4cpls

    bicurious4cpls

    4 years ago

    you guys sound awesome, love the latex and harness xx

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    4 years ago

    YEP! Many think I'm a unicorn, play with couples, have group sex, into gang bangs and am into full on heavy BDSM and into weird fetishes. However, I do alright for a straight chick Tho. 😂😂😂😂😂

  • N4November

    N4November

    4 years ago

    Be yourself!! Who wants to be vanilla and only shades of beige?! Be authentic, honest, open and available! Your pics are only one aspect but your narrative is just as important. Be specific. You will find your tribe 😈

  • Kinky_AF

    Kinky_AF

    4 years ago

    We're overtly kinky just to make sure we don't end up vanilla

  • FireJuggler

    FireJuggler

    4 years ago

    I've always taken the approach start with vanilla then move onto the kink once some trust has been established. If you have regular playmates they might be more open to trying some of the things that you are into, but only once they have a bit of trust established first.

  • HotMedusa

    HotMedusa

    4 years ago

    There are a lot of attention seekers and people looking for validation for how hot they look on rhp

  • curiousnhorny05

    curiousnhorny05

    4 years ago

    Nothing in your pics would say too kinky. I think you strike a nice balance.

  • Kinky_AF

    Kinky_AF

    4 years ago

    we have had a few not vibe with the kink but our page overtly states we're kinky AF to avoid attracting vannilas

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I got told that I was weird today, because I opened up my private gallery straight away to kick things off (standard kink panther procedure) and one of my pics contains a cum shot. She even said “people don’t even do that on tinder”.. and I’m thinking to myself do people sign up to RedHotPie with no idea what possibilities are available here or am I just in the grip of my own unhealthy reality of what I think is socially acceptable in a place like this? Perhaps I’m guilty of looking a bit lazy blazing away with my porn portfolio but I honestly just want people to be direct, who wants to wait 10 messages before finding out you’re not attracted physically? I dunno...

  • Stuart14

    Stuart14

    4 years ago

    Your girl is hot

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    quite often knocked back for kinky ideas put forward, yes. Thing is, ideas get out out there when we're filthy horny, but doesn't mean its on ANYTIME at all...i mean, i like to eat my vitabrits in the morning in peace, not while getting sodomized by an asian dominatrix....as an example...yesss, just an example *ahem* it's like, some people don't understand time/place/mood.

  • wiltryeverything

    wiltryeverything

    4 years ago

    love your profile, not that way out just looks like heaps of fun to me :-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    I’d love to be your slave and do anything you want me to do anything al all. You can even pimp me out like a dirty little slut

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    Haha 😂 all the time. They get so excited, they can’t believe what’s on offer, then the next day, they get freaked out and admit they don’t think they can do it.

  • grayjarv

    grayjarv

    3 years ago

    I love your profile page! It would encourage me to get in touch😀

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    @leeleeloulou , we really like your kinky pictures in your profile. We also enjoy kinky play and especially all the fun that goes with it . It can be hard to find that couple or single female that also enjoys it as well but when you do I’m sure it will be a great night of kinky fun had by all . xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    3 years ago

    I like your pictures. Just mild kink pictures. At least when there viewed people know what your looking for. I’m kinky if I lived near you that would make me message you. They are mild kink pictures don’t worry about them.

  • SunnyCoastSwing

    SunnyCoastSwing

    3 years ago

    Way too kinky for me!…….not!

  • MrRESpecter

    MrRESpecter

    3 years ago

    Yes. Many don’t get that kink is an extension to vanilla and requires deep respect and consent. So they are terrified of the whiff of it. Enjoying kink doesn’t make you anything other than more respectful in a vanilla situation. Both declared vanilla and kinky can be murderous psychopaths, but thank God that’s a minority of humans. A complete confusion and ignorance about what the other has in their mind is the issue in my opinion. Often associated with rigid thinking and conditioning.