M52
Too 'plain' to take it further??
February 04 2010
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Bubbaj
15 years ago
seeing a hot piccy of the person your interested in and then realising yourself that you aren't as hot as the other....scare factor! My thoughts are that its intimidating....i only dream of a hottie talking to me let alone be interested in meeting. I would have backed off as well i think....but on the other hand constant flirting would just make me smile :P
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh it sounds like the typical super model thing... most guys are just too intimidated to approach them with enough confidence that they feel they're a good match so the super model walks around the fashion show.. all the men are chasing each other and all the women are too busy bitching :p so the supermodel goes home alone.. sad.. lonely precious skinny arsed 6'2" tall supermodels have emotional needs too people! Oh yeah.... back to the question.... she sounds very honest even if a little too self critical. You should meet her for coffee or something. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
hey friscsearch i get where this woman is coming from... sometimes if i get a flirt from a fella with a hot bod and his profile says things like...love the gym..like to keep fit..love to play sport....if im in a "mood" then il just palm them off and say no thanks.....just because im a bbw and in my opinion...far from hot...so il take it upon myself and decide if im good enough...most of the time im not lol so maybe she was just "in a mood"...was having a bad day with nothing going right and thought she couldnt handle your rejection on top....you just never know whats going through someone elses mind ....or maybe she just doesnt think someone as hot as you would like someone as plain as her do you want to get to know this girl?...if you do maybe start slow...msg ask how her day is going, how her new year was and you might be surprised at the reaction....if she gets to know you she might have a change of heart hope that helps roxy xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
We received a message from a woman...or perhaps we flirted first, at any rate, when it came to viewing our pics she said I was gorgeous and that she would be far too intimidated to play with us.She sent her pics and we we told her there was no need to feel that way, as we are not that scary, a few emails back and forth as she continued to chat with us but in the end we broke contact because she insisted in putting herself down in every message we sent. With every self degradation she really did become a little less attractive to us.I can understand to some extent but my perspective is as part of a couple and usually that is what motivates any insecurity. S
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey friscsearch Just checked out your pics... noticed there are no HOT shots ! ooopppsss I mean COCK shots ! Why...isn't that your biggest asset ??? Surely, no woman could possibly reject you once they see what you really have to offer !!! Maybe you just need a Validation on your profile from someone who knows you intimately ???? (BTW... isn't one women enough for you ???) Good luck, Miss Saturn
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RHP User
15 years ago
Totally inconsiderate isnt he Miss_Saturn... a hot looking guy and no pics whatever... yeah.. the least he could do is flash bit of a cockshot to titilate the senses.... hehe... so unsuspecting insecure ladies know what theya re going to be dealing with.. could have made all the difference to her!.. hehe. HUgs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
...... a woman just needs some time to realise that she is deserving :-) It is interesting however that she contacted you first....she may very well have had a lot of knock backs, silent replies etc from the "men without manners" and therefore has decided to put herself in the driving seat. Perhaps she is a little insecure about her looks...but she certainly is in charge of herself...and she even wrote back to tell you her thoughts rather than just leave you wondering.... Jx
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RHP User
15 years ago
It's natural that any hot guy is going to have heaps of women showing interest him...oh what a choice of candy.he can pick from..lol...and he would want to have has much candy he can get..why, because the guy can!!! due to his looks.Thus some women can feel imtimidated by other women...thinking that the other women are soo much better looking,in their moment of doubt..and feel not as good about themselves..and maybe think why should they bother with him. xoxoxheymumma
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RHP User
15 years ago
We are all so differrent..Think back to school when we had no inhabitions..but we soon learnt the make up of the social standing of the playground ..there were the cool kids or the sports stars , the kids with the brains were the nerds !! Stigmas come through life..It is not an easy thing to understand peoples perceptions of themselves, but it is free to be nice..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Message me and we might be able to arrange a frisc search..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Miss anonimiss - be very happy for you to judge for yourself! Perhaps you might return the favour..hmmmmm? "Message me and we might be able to arrange a frisc search.." well as a girl ypou have to message me - I can't send message...boo hoo.... You never know your luck!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Maybe it's the opposite. It could be that she saw your pics and decided you weren't what she wanted anyway so told you she wasnt good enough to put it back on her. Or it could be that she is just another female player on here that really wasn't looking at meeting anyway.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mexican stand off hey. Oh well..... I tried :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Can't believe you guys have missed the obvious.Could it perhaps have been a "Guy" masquerading as a "Woman" with the sole intention of collecting as many "Cock" shots as possible??She was probably right all along, you would probably find him very unattractive!
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RHP User
15 years ago
What?? Why would a guy masquerade as a woman to collect cock shots... I mean guys wanting to see other guys cocks? Oh... hang on... now I get it. EWwwwww. PA - That doesn't happen often does it?
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RHP User
15 years ago
They say the chase is the best part AnoniMiss...grrrrr I have never been to Mexico!
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