Too young for new experiences??

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I think all young men your age what to experience it all - lol its called hormones. Maybe go for the older women that have experience? Good luck Pusscat xx

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Hey there. I am originally from the States, and was introduced to alternative sexuality relatively young where I grew up. I think that people seem to experiment later in life here than some places. I have had trouble finding people my age who are open to alternative sexual lifestyles since moving here. Most people I have met have been older. Though I do enjoy having older lovers, it is always nice to play with someone who is your age and in the same point in their life as you. Perhaps, depending on what you're into, try going to some munches. I've met some cool people at those. But don't give up. There are a few of us out there.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  The world is your oyster. Go and enjoy everything life has to offer. You are young, Life is too short to have regrets.. I wish you well in your adventures. trips xxx

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  For me your age would be a barrier. It has very little to do with your experience. I have a daugther who is 33 and 21 seems such a long long time ago. I need alot more than just sex. I want conversation, some mutual past times and possibly life experiences I can talk about. Dinner and drinks along with the conversation and I really cannot see that happening with someone of your age. No it is not wrong for you to want to experience all these things and there are plenty on this site that do. Many of them your age anyway and plenty of other women who do not mind the younger man thing. Keep on trying.

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  xFunlovingx

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'woody_pusscat' I think all young men your age what to experience it all - lol its called hormones. Maybe go for the older women that have experience? Good luck Pusscat xx Loving the new pic of you both Woody & Pussycat! xox xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Most people that have both the desire and the confidence to explore the dark side of their sexuality are in their late 30's or early 40's. It is good that you have the desire to explore at 21. It's just unfortunate that it will be hard to make similar connections. There is a site called fetlife.com that caters to the social side of BDSM and all things fetish. It's not a dating site, it's more for the kink community but you can search profiles and see what local events are in your area. Maybe you can make a few connections, do some networking and find what you are looking for. For everything else you should find what you are looking for right here on RHP. Good luck!!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Wow, thanks for the response! Yeah, I've had a look on here, although I must admit I haven't been here for long.. It almost feels like living a double life. I don't want public pictures up simply for privacy, so I think that acts as a large deterrent for a lot of people (How do I show others my private photos, do they need to be 'friends' first?). I guess I can see the maturity need (ie to hold conversations, life experience, etc), but in general think of myself as pretty intelligent. @VenusFlyTrapE3, forgive my ignorance but what are 'munches'. I'm going to assume they are group meets, or something similiar, but perhaps you could enlighten me. @Woody, Haha you would think that it is hormones but I cannot talk about any sort of desire I have with any of my friends as they all get creeped out! I think this sort of thing is really my only good chance at experimenting how I wish. I had a girlfriend for a while who was very open but now that that is over I am back to having boring, run of the mill sex. Not that that is all bad, just really look forward to meeting some more open women / people.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Thanks xFunlovingx Pusscat xxx

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'newandimproved1' It almost feels like living a double life. I don't want public pictures up simply for privacy, so I think that acts as a large deterrent for a lot of people So put up are part of your anatomy that does not reveal who you are. (How do I show others my private photos, do they need to be 'friends' first?). When you send them a message you can open your galleries one at a time if you so desire. There is a little box at the top right of the message box. I guess I can see the maturity need (ie to hold conversations, life experience, etc), but in general think of myself as pretty intelligent.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  newandimproved1 there is a market for the younger guys on here. I have met one older woman on rhp and we did share some fun times together. However, like everything it comes to an end...oh well, onto the next experience

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'newandimproved1' @VenusFlyTrapE3, forgive my ignorance but what are 'munches'. I'm going to assume they are group meets, or something similiar, but perhaps you could enlighten me. A munch is a meeting of likeminded BDSM people where they can openly chat and discuss kinky subjects and just get together socially without it being an actual play party.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  That older ppl are generally more accepting of open sexuality than younger people, who I find are much more judgmental. Young people are also more easily influenced by peer pressure and trying to fit in. Example: I was out with the girls one night and thought I might try to pick up a bloke to bring home for a 3sum with mr 2ezee. I found a young guy who was intrigued and pleased to go with me, however when we went to leave, he advised his friends ( a guy and gal) of what he was doing. They were horrified, thought it was "gross" and "weird". Needless to say I went home alone to hubby that night, feeling a bit rejected!! I couldn't imaging ppl in their 40s acting that way lol. Please note: I am just speaking generally, I know not all young ppl are this way :)

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  At that age I was living a counter-culture lifestyle anyway and without the great information hiway we have now...I doubt if I would have known let alone cared if I was "normal" or not. I still think being a bit abnormally normal beats the hell out of boring...vanilla ice cream should be illegal although the extract from the bean can be a treat. Forget about boxes and labels and just enjoy yourself...sooner or later you will figure out for yourself what's normal and what's not. Some of it stuck and some of it didn't and what did...well, some things get better with age. | I did have the advantage at the time of playing in a rock-n-roll band kicking all up and down the west coast of the USA and for about 3 years back then and didn't care if it fit in a shoe box or I need to rent out a stadium if I was having fun and nobody was getting hurt along the way. | Quoting 'venusflytrapE3'Hey there. I am originally from the States, and was introduced to alternative sexuality relatively young where I grew up. I think that people seem to experiment later in life here than some places. I have had trouble finding people my age who are open to alternative sexual lifestyles since moving here. Most people I have met have been older. I grew up there too and spent most of the days of my jaded and wasted youth being happily corrupted by those darn yanks. Besides, it would be nice to speak to someone that knows "mutha" is only half a word and a drawing is not a drawring...unless it's a sketch of something that would fit nicely around the... | ...various parts of one's anatomy. | | You perverts thought I was going to say a drawing of a cock ring, didn't you?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting '2ezee'That older ppl are generally more accepting of open sexuality than younger people, who I find are much more judgmental. Young people are also more easily influenced by peer pressure and trying to fit in. Example: I was out with the girls one night and thought I might try to pick up a bloke to bring home for a 3sum with mr 2ezee. I found a young guy who was intrigued and pleased to go with me, however when we went to leave, he advised his friends ( a guy and gal) of what he was doing. They were horrified, thought it was "gross" and "weird". Needless to say I went home alone to hubby that night, feeling a bit rejected!! I couldn't imaging ppl in their 40s acting that way lol. Please note: I am just speaking generally, I know not all young ppl are this way :) I know if I was that young guy and told my friends I was going home to partake in a 3some they would react in the same way. It's so sad that people limit themselves like that...

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting '2ezee'That older ppl are generally more accepting of open sexuality than younger people, who I find are much more judgmental. Young people are also more easily influenced by peer pressure and trying to fit in. Example: I was out with the girls one night and thought I might try to pick up a bloke to bring home for a 3sum with mr 2ezee. I found a young guy who was intrigued and pleased to go with me, however when we went to leave, he advised his friends ( a guy and gal) of what he was doing. They were horrified, thought it was "gross" and "weird". Needless to say I went home alone to hubby that night, feeling a bit rejected!! I couldn't imaging ppl in their 40s acting that way lol. Please note: I am just speaking generally, I know not all young ppl are this way :) Unforunately you are right, i had been with a few older guys before MrF, as well as 3sums and 4sums, orgies & through those experiences where i was almost always the youngest participant, the people i met seemed to be the only ones who could come close to matching my desires and appetite, my own age was far more interested in judgements & gossip and seem to be sexually bound by peer pressure and others opinions. I struggled from a young age thinking something was wrong with me because i was so different but now i have just accepted its who i am, and i fit into the lifestyle i want with people generally 30+ or at least a similar maturity and way of thinking. There definitely are ppl out there though newandimproved and i do hope u find what ur looking for :)

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