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Toy box
April 21 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
plenty of older ladies come to the store who have never had a toy. I personally prefer the real thing and toys are for my pleasure when I am not getting any of the real stuff. When you use them often enough, they lose their gloss. Some women (including me) have even lost sensitivity due to using strong toys too often and are always updating to get something stronger because they stop working on you. It makes it really hard for men to please you when you are used to a strong buzzy toy. Even after sex and not getting a release I use a toy to get off when I get home because I am still wound up. I don't remember the first toy I had, I think it was a vibrator at a sex toy party?? I have a suitcase full now but probably just because I work in the industry. I maybe visited a sex shop less than 5 times before I worked in one. So back at you... how many toys do you own? Do you have a masturbator? What do you bring to the table in the way of toys to enhance your sex life?
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. A trip to sexyland on my own not long after my 18th birthday. 2. Almost too many to count (my top drawer is full of them). - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
11 years ago
And I would agree with Ralf, they are more for my own use than anything else. The first couple were gifts, the next couple were my own purchases. My toy box is actually my mind, and that is very full.
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RHP User
11 years ago
In the olden days, where I come from a hair brush looked kinda sexy I do not insert toys, as I found artificial material does me no end of grief with my pink bits, even with condoms I have to use lube some times as they tend to irritate. I have a very small vibrator, that charges like an ipone, no batteries. but mostly I let my fingers do the walking, as its my clit that does the trick for me. I don't think my mum used them either, as I often went into her draws and the sexy things there were those bodice ripping novels...forever amber ohh so sexy back in the day. same for men, I don't think that butt plugs were a big thing back then or ye old strap on for women to use on boys my my things have changed the fruit and vegie section has taken a hit with loss of cucumber sales
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RHP User
11 years ago
That surprises me. Even my most vanilla of friends have at least one vibe.... 1. It was a gift at 172. Umpteen
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RHP User
11 years ago
Toys,the only one I have ever had went rusty....:-) :-) from disuse....having anything in ,on,or around my cunt,except for fingers or a cock is a big turn off for antediluvian me xx Q
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prettyinpurple45
11 years ago
i had one.. hubby used it on me a bit back in the days when we were just that bit more into each other... never found it exciting and would prefer the real thing..... nothing like skin to skin contact :) besides the only reason he bought it was because of a deal he struck with me... if I wanted a kitten i had to allow him to buy one of those toys.... and i reeeeeeally wanted a kitten....
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Missb4u
11 years ago
I was introduced to toys when I lost my virginity by the then boyfriend.... Lost touch with toys for years while I was married to a very boring man....was one of the first things I bought when I left that marriage....now have lots and lots of all different types and it's an ever growing collection.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh I have a toybox, friggin love my toy's. With company or going solo. Got my first toy as a present in my late teens. Can't beat a good clitrol stimulating orgasm. Am always keen to have new toy's, love checking out the new additions in sex shops, am one of those customers that makes the sales lady pull em out an do a show an share :P. WA has stricter rules then some states so internet is a good place shop for me personally. And it's not an age thing.... I recall finding my mother's very plain vibe in my younger years. Go mum :P
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RHP User
11 years ago
I prefer body to body always, I have given them a try from time to time to see if I had changed my mind but nope it just doesn't do anything for me :) Mrs_AJ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
My wife had no interest in such toys... My gf's since have been varied... One had no prior experience with toys, but she took to it like a duck to water 😄 And the other was well versed in looking after herself, I introduced her to butt plugs and anal play... As for myself, I've never tried a masturbator... Adds to wishlist... 😄 I do have a vibe and a feeldoe... Feeldoe operators are proving difficult to find though... 😋😋 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
...and we made no secret of the fact that we would be visiting the sex stores. While there, Jenny pulled out a shopping list that her mother had given her. The thought was bad enough on it's own but, while celebrating her mother's birthday that year, Jenny pointed out all the little old ladies we had bought them for.
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PL1963
11 years ago
I personally think they are great for "foreplay" if you have a long session planned and want the lady to be multi orgasmic, especially if she chooses the "weapon" she feels like that night and how she likes it used on her, we aren't mind readers, we're just guys. P.L.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The best toy I have is 5'9" tall with blue eyes. Completely gratifying, is reliable and always leaves me with a smile on my face. He doesn't require any batteries but sometimes needs a plug up his ass, and that keeps him going for weeks. Lovin' my toy......stud
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
BUT.....I don't get that near enough, so toys is it, got my first one at 17 and I have a nice collection these days, lots of different things......a suitcase full actually, oh and the top door of my bedside table.....💋
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have a girl friend like this she has no toys and insist hubby is all she needs I made a thread topic on it a long while back. My first toy I was encourage to purchase by my ex when I was quite young maybe 18 I was a little upset because I though I didnt need that either I had the real thing. By the time I got an expensive pearl rabbit wow it was 20 years later....even though mr black as it was called got a good working out. I must have at least 4 vibes one worn out egg slim anal toy oops too much info I was online last night an my cart has about 6 items in it.........need to pick and choose now.........descisions descisions Oh what silly girls missing out ...the boys love the toy box.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've appreciated toys long time but read tales of how they can cause insensitivity, so they're a rare treat. The ones we have all seem to be glitchy, pausing for interminable moments before staring again. My favourite has a high vibration... always used in conjuction with a :-P
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'red_hot_ass' 1. A trip to sexyland on my own not long after my 18th birthday. 2. Almost too many to count (my top drawer is full of them). - Posted from rhpmobile Every chance to buy a new outfit or take home a new toyHow they accumulate lol
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JohnAnn2227
11 years ago
I got my first toy at 19 from an old boyfriend. Since then we have bought loads. We love them and regularly use them together. I even used to keep one in the golvebox for those time when we would be on a road trip and the mood would take me. Now with kids that had to go! I agree that you an use sensitivity and I found that at my time I struggled to orgasm without one. We simply banned using toys for an orgasm for 3 months and my clit "reset" itself. We have a big variety from love balls to bullets, to dolphin, to strapons. Most of my friends, both swinging and non swinging either have or have had a toy at some stage. It is no real secret amongst us and can give us a laugh at coffee!
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RHP User
11 years ago
was given to me by my lover. Handmade by him and is just the right size - right shape, right length, right girth, right weight, smooth, shiny, warms up quickly, and easy to clean (just giving him a free plug - pun intented, if anyone wants to order one lol) We call it "Rock". I've played with Rock and cock at the same time. Love it! :) Thanks Babe x - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
11 years ago
i love the real thing. Am fascinated how beautiful a man's member can be and how it varies from one man to another. I did not use any toys whenI was married and that was many years ago. Also my ex-husband was too boring and uptight to go down that path. After the separation, after a year of reflecting, I met a gorgeous man who became my fiance, and he was more adventurous and more open to try things. We attendent sex expos and bought some toys to try. One time,after a business trip, I was to fly up to Coolum for a naughty weekend. I packed my toys in my handcarry. As it went thru the xray machine, one toy started vibrating for some reason. the bag was opened by the airport security in front of all to see. Voila, there it was in front of the passing parade of travellers, my agree purple vibrator pointing its angry head at the officer.... Blush much. the piece was turned off by the gentleman and he gave me a wink and a smile. The highligh of their day, I would say. haha
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RHP User
11 years ago
@ lily, two things... my ex gf had a similar experience with her "best friend" travelling in her handbag, she was treated with a little more discretion, the woman rescanned the bag so that my girl could see the screen... ohh to be a fly on the wall... you also reminded me of a song lyric... "never forget, that you'll never remember,My name once you take your lips off my member..." TISM hp xobecause you're worth it...
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Seachange
11 years ago
HP. Yes lesson learnt. Haha. I had a good laugh at it at the airport with the gentleman. Hell it was funny for mr purple to be wiggling about angrily in my bag. Like an oversized jumping beans on steroids having an epileptic fit. Haha. So unexpected that is why it was so funny. So now, if I travel with mr. Purple, batteries are taken out first. Mr Purple gets excited when we go on a planetrip. Haha. X Coz I am worth it. ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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