RHP

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Toys!

April 10 2013

I love using toys in the bedroom, even after trying wierd and wonderful things there's nothing better than a nice dildo. Some women feel a little worried about showing off their collection (and some guys too!) but to me (and guys like me) all it says is that you're happy to explore and experiment with your pleasures. Big, small, plugs, balls - it doesn't matter at all. Anything that can turn good play into great is the best.I've met people that say their toys are private and that they'll hide them from partners/playmates, I've always told them that using sex partner's dildo on them has made sex and foreplay more pleasurable because you're using something they (and their body) are familiar with, something they're comfortable using, and they know how to use it best to bring pleasure (as oppossed to a new toy). It has also really opened up the communication in the bedroom (something way more important than any vibrator). I like to also use strap ons on women, something that might seem a little odd to some people. Why? Because it let's us experiment with different positions, it lets me observe and enjoy how much fun a playmate is having without worrying about my body, and it gives me a bit of a breather (Seriously! Thrusting and maintaining an erection towards the end of a big session can be hard) I see using a strapon the same way I see giving oral - her pleasure is mine and it borders on my voyeuristic fantasies. Cock sleeves, similar situation, and the cyber skin material is amazing!People, what are you using? What can't you live without and what have you passed on? With Sexpo recently passing some of you have probably bought something that's blown you away. So many options and so little bedside drawer space!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    got a good workout at the post Sexpo shenanigans ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I went on a weekend away to a romantic cottage with this couple once and she turned up with a suitcase full of toys!! Still remember the receptionist's face when she brought us the fire wood for the fireplace. Hmm three people in a cottage with one bed. LOL. ;-) I used a whip for the first time after Sexpo on three butts at once. I have to say I liked it! I think maybe I could play a dominant role if I wanted too. :D

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    I have a boat.Thats my sex toy.DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You must need alot of lube to get that up your arse! ⊂(◉‿◉)つ

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    No lube required to get it under my arse..... ....only petrol.But Im told the vibrations form 225 horses at low revs do wonders.DG

  • virgogirl1968

    virgogirl1968

    12 years ago

    I'm a huge fan of toys and recently added to my collection at Sexpo. I'm not ashamed..and quite often have them out ready when I have a visitor over :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I see you as a protentional Dom... Seems you like giving as much as you take... lol..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    have no qualms about pulling out the vibrator when I'm with a guy...particularly if they've cum before I have. I've had guys who obviously think that once they've blown it's all over, but I pull out Old Faithful and make them do a bit more work, hehe...I'd like to start experimenting with a few different types of toys as I've only used variations of the standard, cock-shaped vibrator for years. I did finally pull out the Turbo Rabbit I bought at an adult party aaages ago (while under the influence of a large number of vodka jelly shots) and gave it a go, but didn't have much success with it. It felt nice...but not orgasmic, not even on the fastest setting!! I guess that may be because I've become used to bringing myself to orgasm in certain ways when I use a normal vibrator (I don't even turn them on, and I use my fingers for clitoral stimulation), and the turbo is something pretty different for me.Because I am a big fan of G spot orgasms I was doing a bit of research about toys that are good for that purpose, and I eventually decided to invest in a glass dildo. I'm so looking forward to next week when I have no uni classes, the house all to myself during the days, and I can really test it out properly .Would love to go down to Sexpo one year and check it out, would be an eye-opener I'm sure!!

  • LemonDance

    LemonDance

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I have a boat.Thats my sex toy.DGNow that's a toy I'd love to play with! :o)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Meant ' potential '... what the f was I thinking...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'virgogirl1968' I'm a huge fan of toys and recently added to my collection at Sexpo. I'm not ashamed..and quite often have them out ready when I have a visitor over :)- Posted from rhpmobile Nice, get anything that blew you away? There were so many booths (and I kept getting manhandled by the people selling the vibrating gloves) that it was hard to choose. It's pretty funny watching some people's reactions, you can tell they've never been to a toy store before.I went in looking for something I've never seen in local stores - something like a cross between a sleeve and a cock ring. Didn't see anything like it. I also wanted to find a dildo with a handle perpendicular to the dick, something shaped like a stirrup to get the natural pump action of the arm going so it doesn't cramp up.Does anyone recommend a strap on harness for guys? If it was crotchless for DP that would a bonus. I've tried one with an inflatable plug on the front (really good idea, it doesn't bruise your pubic area like some strapons will) but it was too awkward for me to penetrate.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My dishwasher creates more time for sex.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Luckdragon23' have no qualms about pulling out the vibrator when I'm with a guy...particularly if they've cum before I have. I've had guys who obviously think that once they've blown it's all over, but I pull out Old Faithful and make them do a bit more work, hehe...I'd like to start experimenting with a few different types of toys as I've only used variations of the standard, cock-shaped vibrator for years. I did finally pull out the Turbo Rabbit I bought at an adult party aaages ago (while under the influence of a large number of vodka jelly shots) and gave it a go, but didn't have much success with it. It felt nice...but not orgasmic, not even on the fastest setting!! I guess that may be because I've become used to bringing myself to orgasm in certain ways when I use a normal vibrator (I don't even turn them on, and I use my fingers for clitoral stimulation), and the turbo is something pretty different for me.Because I am a big fan of G spot orgasms I was doing a bit of research about toys that are good for that purpose, and I eventually decided to invest in a glass dildo. I'm so looking forward to next week when I have no uni classes, the house all to myself during the days, and I can really test it out properly .Would love to go down to Sexpo one year and check it out, would be an eye-opener I'm sure!! I'm interested to hear about glass dildos and the G-spot, was it a particular shape or just it being hard? I've tried 2 with a playmate and they've been really good but I've been a bit scared to go faster as she begins to climax. We've often tried using a vibrator (like the rabbit) in combination with oral or positions where there's no clitoral contact. Half the fun is experimenting but like you said nothing beats skin on skin. What you did sounds pretty common from what I've heard. Have you tried the cyberskin material? One thing we tried is one of those vibrating cock rings - I was wearing it during foreplay and it was vibrating my penis, which was then rubbing against her clit like a vibrator. It worked really well.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    And some washing machines create another location for sex.DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I just love a woman who doesnt wait for her male to think for her.. Getting your vibe out and putting the guy to work for your own orgasm is the way to go for sure... I dont think it's so much the guy thinking it's over once he cums . It's more the natural endorphins his body releases that makes him sleepy.. But what you do is bring him back to work you over with your vibe... Smart girl..... like I said. gotta love a woman who doesnt rely on her man to do everything...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'GMerst25' Quoting 'Luckdragon23' have no qualms about pulling out the vibrator when I'm with a guy...particularly if they've cum before I have. I've had guys who obviously think that once they've blown it's all over, but I pull out Old Faithful and make them do a bit more work, hehe...I'd like to start experimenting with a few different types of toys as I've only used variations of the standard, cock-shaped vibrator for years. I did finally pull out the Turbo Rabbit I bought at an adult party aaages ago (while under the influence of a large number of vodka jelly shots) and gave it a go, but didn't have much success with it. It felt nice...but not orgasmic, not even on the fastest setting!! I guess that may be because I've become used to bringing myself to orgasm in certain ways when I use a normal vibrator (I don't even turn them on, and I use my fingers for clitoral stimulation), and the turbo is something pretty different for me.Because I am a big fan of G spot orgasms I was doing a bit of research about toys that are good for that purpose, and I eventually decided to invest in a glass dildo. I'm so looking forward to next week when I have no uni classes, the house all to myself during the days, and I can really test it out properly .Would love to go down to Sexpo one year and check it out, would be an eye-opener I'm sure!! I'm interested to hear about glass dildos and the G-spot, was it a particular shape or just it being hard? I've tried 2 with a playmate and they've been really good but I've been a bit scared to go faster as she begins to climax. We've often tried using a vibrator (like the rabbit) in combination with oral or positions where there's no clitoral contact. Half the fun is experimenting but like you said nothing beats skin on skin. What you did sounds pretty common from what I've heard. Have you tried the cyberskin material? One thing we tried is one of those vibrating cock rings - I was wearing it during foreplay and it was vibrating my penis, which was then rubbing against her clit like a vibrator. It worked really well. I'll have to play around a bit with the glass vibe to find out the best way to use it....it does have a kind of hook shape at one end and I'm assuming that would be good for getting the g spot, but having never used one before I'm not too sure. As for the hardness...I don't think that will be an issue for me (I've had guys use empty wine bottles before with no problem even when going pretty hard and fast), but I can see where you might be a bit tentative if using it on someone else.And no I haven't tried the cyberskin material, sounds pretty interesting though!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The cyberskin material is really good, and since it was a cocksleeve we could use it to "rev" up old toys that we don't use as often. It's only a few millimetres thick but it's strong and clean. Closest thing to skin there is.We didn't get a glass hook but I think I know what you're talking about. The bulb at the end is thicker than the shaft? We were a bit worried about the shape combined with a hard material, but if you said it's okay then we'll definitely have another look.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A strap on with a little nub for the wearer can have changeable dongs with a pair of swinging balls? Oh must also have a sturdy harness lol Seriously I cannot find one. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Youre in HIS home..... and he reaches for toys........ most likely used on others. POP QUIZ. Tell me your thoughts at that moment!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Well all toys would have a condom on them and would have been washed since last used. Much like your dick. What's the difference?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Ive got a couple of glass dildos. I love the feel of them. So smooth and silky on the slide. I prefer them for anal use.dont need very much lube with them. So easy to clean.another bonus is they can be cooled in the fridge or heated in warm water just to mix it up a bit. Pretty quick with squirting too. Not expensive and will out last silicon and laytex dildos. Has anyone used the stainless steel ones? I was thinking of getting one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Luv to feel a strapon and a cock in me from a couple. Fantasy to have a MMF (bi) experience. Especially if both like doing the male. Keen to try new things NSA discrete fun.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I bought a Hummingbird dildo and now the wife squirts for the time in her life....great turn on - Posted from rhpmobile