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Trying to be lovable
April 13 2014
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madotara69
11 years ago
Smiling eyes, just being a best friend........ and she wants me to fuck her, all the time. But really she wants to fuck me too. So she does. Mado Mado Tara xx
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madotara69
11 years ago
lilmiss fussy, there is a lot to being best friends. Even when times are tough and arguments turn into half the kitchen passing buy ones head (mostly), there is no need for saying sorry later, it's just a passing phase, other times standing back to back looking after each other. Sometimes the only sex is in the hallway, if you have one, passing each other saying "get fucked, no you get fucked" Yeah a woman that stands up for herself and by her mans side through anything, to always find those smiling eyes are the answers to all things great and small.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do have a man that loves me though, (very much if I'm to believe him). I don't think loveable is something you should be trying for... YOURSELF maybe (and that isn't the "yourself" you'd like him or others to believe you are, that's the YOU that you are worts and all) Honesty (always, with everything) understanding and respect seem to be what work for us. What got my attention with him is that when all the other guys I deal with were speaking PAST me TO each other, he spoke TO me PAST them. In the end, "looks" don't matter, whoever he is, you'll learn to see how physically beautiful he is. Like people, love is rarely perfect - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
1. He loves me against much higher odds than most women my age face 2. It starts with loving yourself and being happy with yourself and your life no matter what or where it seems to be right now. 3. Humility, most women think they're special/better than men. (It's Not their fault, it's conditioned into most girls from birth, most are protected cherished, treated like princesses, and so soon enough they start to believe in their own hubris) Open your own door, take out your own trash, mow your own lawn and kill your own stupid spiders! (and don't forget to be "pretty" whilst you're doing it) Sam - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's such a great question! And one that's hard to really put a finger on.... Loveable,mmmm,a lady that knows her strengths and isn't afraid to use them without being arrogant or pushy...openly admitts her weaknesses, laughs at herself,has a great smile.....a softness but with confidence....everyone has their own mix,what makes one person loveable is different to the next....I personally love that feminine softness but with confidence in herself..... Then there's hair,soft skin,feminine curves,eyes....mmmm,where was I??
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's not seeing disdain in their eyes to begin with. Second, would be making an effort. When I talk about making an effort, I mean either calling or messaging me to demonstrate as much interest as I do....otherwise, there's no point one person doing all the work. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think everyone has it in themselves to be lovable. But each person has a different idea of what they want. I would consider myself to be an easygoing guy. I am not into any off the wall kinks, and am quite vanilla. I am a gentle person, and don't expect obedience, or submission (except in roll play). That is the preamble.. I am a fairly ordinary guy. From my point of view, a lady is lovable if she is compassionate, forgiving and tolerant. I would also say that independence and drive are also important to me, as is passion, not only in the bedroom, but a passion for life in general.I relish honesty and reliability. A loving nature with respect to nature, and other human beings is important, as is the ability to string a sentence together about a range of topics. Not necessarily the hottest lady in the room, but someone who takes care of their appearance, body size notwithstanding. A shining personality goes further for me than the ability to wear a bikini. ...... I get that this may sound like a large ask, but really it boils down to a person that is good company, enjoys things that I (and I enjoy things she enjoys) enjoy, and is prepared to a make as much effort as I am in a relationship... It cannot be a one way street. Oh yes.. It would be great if she fucked like a tiger on heat!!!!! ;).
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RHP User
11 years ago
Because clearly I'm not !
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RHP User
11 years ago
I reckon the answer will vary widely from person to person, being lovable is a relative concept i.e. lovable from this person's perspective is different to lovable from that person's perspective. Not sure there are too many common traits to being lovable. Initially for me it's about sincerity, being truly comfortable with who they are and who I am, getting, accepting and enjoying the reality about themselves and me. So I find someone more lovable when they aren't trying to be anything, they just are who they are which is what I happen to find lovable.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' lilmiss fussy, there is a lot to being best friends. Even when times are tough and arguments turn into half the kitchen passing buy ones head (mostly), there is no need for saying sorry later, it's just a passing phase, other times standing back to back looking after each other. Sometimes the only sex is in the hallway, if you have one, passing each other saying "get fucked, no you get fucked" Yeah a woman that stands up for herself and by her mans side through anything, to always find those smiling eyes are the answers to all things great and small. I'm a sucker for those smiling eyes they say a lot about a woman
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' Because clearly I'm not ! That's a sad thing to read I thought it was just me! It may be more our age looking. Maybe its society? You know the end of relationships as we know.......maybe all those nasty people wresked it for all the nice ones. I don't know.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was playing around with different titles - I probably could have stuck with 'being loveable'. I'm not actually 'trying' to be loveable, but I am curious about what makes a woman loveable to men. Mado, great post, thanks! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hey, I think you nailed it the first time...we should always keep trying,it's what makes us all better at the end of the day.... You sound like a great person who is just getting better!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Cest_la_viebaby' Quoting 'looking4quality' Because clearly I'm not ! That's a sad thing to read I thought it was just me! It may be more our age looking. Maybe its society? You know the end of relationships as we know.......maybe all those nasty people wresked it for all the nice ones. I don't know. I feel like I have given up also. Nobody seems to want to really know me, they just want to fuck me. It is a sad reality that once burned, twice shy. Most people on the single scene seems so against love. Strangely enough, if you read the thread about what what you can exchange with the opposite sex, almost everyone (both men and women) desire that intimacy we are all lacking but I think too many don't want to put their heart on the line out of fear of getting hurt again. We have all had our hearts ripped out. You hear some rotten stuff in society about what women do to men and men do to women and we don't hear enough good stuff, it jades our perception of what love should be so we protect ourselves from our emotions, it is far easier to use someone in the short term to scratch an itch than to let your guard down and become vulnerable to let someone in. I seem to go through a cycle of having a lot of sex then feeling like shit because not one person who stuck their dick in me really gives a fuck about who I am, I am just an empty vessel to shoot cum in. It becomes quite soul destroying and what you initially think that someone is into you, they just want to get into you and that is it.
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Bideas
11 years ago
There are literally thousands of different things that make women lovable, however some things will make a particular woman more lovable than another and vice versa. In some cases the quirks that make one woman lovable are traits that would be seen as deal breakers in another.. In reality all women are lovable provided they are accessible in being loved. The individual traits that make a lady lovable are all bonuses, and the fun factor in meeting new ladies inorder to discover how unique they truly are. This being said, women are not the only variable here, The factors I love one lady for will likely be different to the factors that another man (or woman) loves her for. There will often be traits that standout and will be noticed by all, however the subtle quirks are the ones most appealing to me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That I am loveable because I am loved by family and friends...l.but I have never been loved by a man....and for some of us we never will be....does it make me sad?.....only a little because I have a fortunate life xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'd already posted that I'm not actually 'trying' to be loveable before your post showed on the thread, but still, I think you're spot on :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is a glorious thing. I look back on times I've been loved and I think more than anything it was my life spark that did it. Big smiles, cheeky, driven, feisty, very affectionate and loving, intensely loyal, adventurous, fun and funny, soft but also strong - these things seemed to captivate the men who loved me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Madotara69 you guys crack me up. 😏 Mmmm make up sex - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' That I am loveable because I am loved by family and friends...l.but I have never been loved by a man....and for some of us we never will be....does it make me sad?.....only a little because I have a fortunate life xx Q love you Qefenta, so does Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'lilmiss_fussy' Is a glorious thing. I look back on times I've been loved and I think more than anything it was my life spark that did it. Big smiles, cheeky, driven, feisty, very affectionate and loving, intensely loyal, adventurous, fun and funny, soft but also strong - these things seemed to captivate the men who loved me. - Posted from rhpmobile those things would capture any guy in my view any way
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RHP User
11 years ago
What gets me is the smile, the look, while she's conversing with you. It's hard to explain but I think it's the difference between genuine and fake and when you notice it your hooked, when she walks in the room she lights it up, when she's not there it hurts and everything else about her just falls into place.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Being true to yourself and happy with it. Plus being a Brisbane Lions supporter helps.
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madotara69
11 years ago
A bum with it's own mind
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
To me that would be those unique, quirky little things and actions that makes one lovable. Just being ones self with perfect imperfections.... To me it's those imperfections, are too dam cute and adorable, what's not to love about em?? Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you Mado and Tara xx Q
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chevtrek
11 years ago
Passion /loving/sexy/understanding/not trying to change her man to much/over sex helps LOL.It is a lot of things.The sad part is I have met very few woman with all that and those I have are married
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RHP User
11 years ago
I do not understand what you mean?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Freya 77 posted this last November.....the perfect imperfections of our lives are the sum of all that we think all that we do....xxQ
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Dryphuz
11 years ago
Maybe a skewed view, but i associate loveable with an irresistible urge to hug. So for me a woman could fake it so long as she had my list of cute stuff. Although like pretty much everyone else here it starts with the smile and goes up from there.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Quoting 'Funlover71' I do not understand what you mean? To me it means accepting a person for their flaws, accepting they can and will make mistakes, it could be a scar on their body and mole place somewhere on their face (that gives them beauty) or it can be the way they think and do things....things that make them uniquely stand out from others that is appealing to you...things and actions you like, that you see past the perfections, in that person Foxy
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Dryphuz
11 years ago
you mean what makes a woman the object of someones love. I read you a bit wrong there. My nieces are loveable, but thats not what you meant right. Well in that case there's gonna be tons of different things and it'll depend on each individual what they favour. Again the smile says a lot for most people. I have to have a woman with intelligence. My brain is overactive at the best of times and i need someone who can keep up. Its hard to love someone you cant talk to. I have idolised and fantasized about hot women, but the women I've fallen in love with were always those i wouldn't actually have looked at twice in a crowded bar. So for me looks does not make someone loveable. I also seem to fall for people who argue with me a bit. Someone who knows their own mind and speaks it and doesn't just agree with me because they think they have to. There's a plethora of other things, but i tend to type novels in the forums so I'll leave it there.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Now there is a lady, she had a beautiful pic with smiling eyes. I think Fun is exercising that thing he has with no restraint.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have met on this site are all lovable. I think the honesty that illuminates them does it for me. I must be loveable as I have people around me that keep telling me that. I don't think anyone is not loveable, their is something to love if we look deep enough and past the pain and hurt. some times people act or do things that we loath, and that's hard to get over and then they become the un forgiven. I am not a forgiving person, shit on me once and I will kick your arse to the curb. LadyT
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RHP User
11 years ago
A personality with banter and humour I find a lovable lady has to give as good as she gets !
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RHP User
11 years ago
I tried that, and nope, still not!
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you banter in that lingerie you would be surprised what could be accomplished
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