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Two Pronged question
March 04 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have puzled over the first part of the question too OP.One problem arises I think ,is when there is a post that doesn't mention who it is directed at and suddenly many people think that it is all about them. Or because there is little nuance on the page,sometimes pepole are offended by what was simply meaqnt as an observation or not very serious comment.Humour can be a double edged sword,what is funny to me maybe unfunny to you and be perceived as an insult.. To the second part of your OP,people do share a lot of their life stories here,should they be questioned on what they have posted,I think it depends on what has been disclosed or perhaps implied about others.Other than that,let it go,some people exaggerate ,some people fantasise,why does it matter if it is not harming anyone.?
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RHP User
12 years ago
With the first part do you think perhaps sometimes people get carried away with the post content and just get too involved? I guess when a post asks for people opions and then they come thick and fast, sometimes it seems two posters get into to a tit (pardon the pun) for tat argument. As for the second part, I guess it is up to the individual to divulge personal information they are comfortable with. If it brings any bullying I have seen others jump in and defend that person/couple pretty quickly. Bullying on these posts shouldn't be tolerated full stop. Sometimes if there is a gaping hole that you can see, maybe ask them. I'm only relatively new on here but that's how I see it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Gets me OP is when something is said to someone in particular and other posters feel da need to jump in and criticise and make assumptions about what it is that was said to such person,and then when you reply back to them they get all nasty and vindictive and most times run off to da RHP police complaining about what you have said.Why go sticking your nose in where its not required, if two people are having a disagreement then just stay da fcuk out of it and let the two people in question sort it out amoungs't themselfs.PS i am not directing these comments at you Saturn65,just saying thats all,jsk
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RHP User
12 years ago
GREAT TITS! This place can make you a bit paranoid it is true. But if someone "owns" a comment and starts defending themselves, well I think most people would then assume the original comment must be true, because why else would that person believe it was written specifically about them otherwise. Must be an element of truth to the comment. Now if anyone understands my comment above you can spank my ass! LOLOver and out.
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ruby_blossum
12 years ago
Its a generic horoscope, yet many seem to feel WOW, that is exactly me!Weird....( I know my horoscope is usually spot on...lol)Is it because the reader associates their thoughts and feelings with the words on the page, or is there enough truth on the page they feel it applies to them personally?I dont know. I am often taken aback with the intimate details some feel the need to divulge on the forums.Obviously it is cathartic for them to share.Does make me laugh when they keep repeating the same story, well its sort of the same with slight changes, they keep embelishing the story to suit their mood at the time, forgetting what they have posted previously.It use to bother me.....now I am practicing "being Zen" and just letting it go.(I did say practicing)
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RHP User
12 years ago
bring it on. I've nothing to hide. In fact, as dusty as my personal history is, I am immensely proud of it. Aren't we adults and all over this crap by now???
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is an open forum and if people are arguing out in the open then other people can make a comment as well. It's the way it works. Same way if I thought I saw an injustice/fight in the street I would speak up or try and help someone.Some people sit on the side lines and watch and other people feel they should speak up. I reckon people that speak up don't tend to go the forum police myself. It's the others!.... the watchers. >_>
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RHP User
12 years ago
People can read a post and then due to their subjectivity and lack of an objective and reasonable filter take what is said personally and then subsequently feel compelled to react. Some do think it is all about them at times and take far too much on board. When a lot of the time a comment isn't really directed at them and is just the way the chips fall in the thread that leaves a grating effect and thus the feeling of rawness that ensues. Just like text messaging unfortunately we can't hear the tone used by the person nor can we see facial expressions. So we are behind the 8 ball from the get go. It is so easy to take what is typed the wrong way. Also from what I can gather a lot of the regular posters have been lucky enough to meet other die hard fellow rhp'ers/forum devotees in person. So they are more likely to be able to read each other and 'get' each others sense of humour. From what I have seen, members have at times shared some very personal things about their lives and I would hate to think that anyone would seriously judge someone on that or use that knowledge to intentionally hurt another as I don't think this shows a spirit of goodwill. "Let he who has never sinned cast the first stone." I have been to hell and back in a hand basket so who am I to judge? However, people will always bitch, moan, gossip and grumble wherever you go in life. People have good days and not so good days and I'm sure days when they think "Grrr! Why do I bother at all?" but I think for anyone who actually fears that there is some kind of conspiracy theory aimed at them in particular is fairly unfounded and just a trick of the mind.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Don't worry JSK ..This little grey titty( Thanks Meeka..) duck isn't taking anything to heart..merely seeking opinions. I love a good debate ;)Vagabond - I think The "Bullying" word seems to pop up when other people can see faults in a regular posters statement and the "regular" poster then feels they are being ganged up on.Most times this word pops up when a poster has been around a while and reads threads and "see's" a friendship base.Funny thing is same could be said many a time for a newbi poster posting something rather forum contraversial and god help him/her if their profile doesn't read true everyone has a go at them..they generally never come back to the topic OR delete there profile. So is a "regular" poster owed more respect even if they are caught telling "furphys" Or being downright rude to a fellow poster?
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RHP User
12 years ago
And in saying the "newbies" Its more often then not the poor blokes in "Guys Ask" or" Hot topics" they dont have the pretty showy bits that we women can flaunt in our pics to distract them off anything silly we have written!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I disagree Saturn. I find that I have been told I think I own the forums by new people in the past because I am stating my opinion. In my personal experience it is some new people who are the bullies and try and fight for some sort of position in the forum. They are the ones that talk about hierarchies and being at the bottom of the food chain and how the regulars are bullies. It is their word. It is their perception only. And of course it is the way that I see it too... may not be right but that is how it appears to me.
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' I disagree Saturn. I find that I have been told I think I own the forums by new people in the past because I am stating my opinion. In my personal experience it is some new people who are the bullies and try and fight for some sort of position in the forum. They are the ones that talk about hierarchies and being at the bottom of the food chain and how the regulars are bullies. It is their word. It is their perception only. And of course it is the way that I see it too... may not be right but that is how it appears to me. So well said Meeka...and sooooooooooooo true! When I came back under this profile to RHP and joined the Forum Community I was well accepted and never found there to be any hierarchy at all! Newbies were welcome with open arms and there weren't many "Lurkers"! Now I have found (suspiciously) some Newbies who come in witih guns ablazing from all barrels and they seem to "instinctively know" who to attack on the Forums! Lurkers maybe? Nah, they were here under a different profile name wtih either no pics or different pics ! It is just wayyyy too obvious! xFunlovingx
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
The only Threads that were closed down that I remember were the "Donut" and "Toilet Paper" Threads....not like now...every second one is getting closed down! Sigh..bring back the old days! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Which is a lot of people resort to so their posts stay on the board. So many statements could apply to so many different people. It's the nature of the beast. And I believe people want to have some basis of understanding and will do their best to make sense of what is being said. That likely will then fall back on themself because that is what they know best. It may be what they know best from their life experiences and this then fits in with their model. It's not necessarily about themselves really. Just what I wonder after having a few days off and trying to put the bits of the puzzle together on my return. TMI, I don't know, I've seen it time and again where the people questioning can get it totally wrong by taking a part of the facts and not looking any deeper to try to fill those holes themselves. I think it can be confronting to be faced by many people probing in their effort to understand what you have shared with them but it can seem a lot of the time to be coming from an accusatory stance. I can't help but picture a lone person surrouded by a crowd wondering which way to turn when there are so many questions being thrown at them from left, right and centre.It can take just one person to help clear the murk. Peachy
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RHP User
12 years ago
You both mention " Heirachys" as something new posters say..again, is this more of a common beliefs in attitudes and moreso a friendship formed between longer term posters that brings this about? Fun you said "come in witih guns ablazing from all barrels and they seem to "instinctively know" who to attack on the Forums!"is it really an "attack" or varying opinion worded maybe strongly and instantly jumped on by both parties without thought of clarification perhaps? Then a personality clash forms there on in and instead of acting like adults and taking each post on merit basis finds any niggly thing they can think of to bag out that person?In my own opinion I believe some on here DO divulge way too much infomation instead of staying generally based. They do leave themselves open to people forming what could be a totally wrong opinion of them and/ or getting caught out on an embillished story that they thought was long buried a few pages or so back.
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RHP User
12 years ago
is unfounded. This is not meant to sound mean, but, I think everyone who posts on forums needs to stop blaming and pointing the finger out there and start looking in their own backyard at what they say and do first and how they could aspire to making their contribution more philanthropic and inclusive across the board. It is all too easy to be closed minded, blame others, thumb their nose and scoff at opportunities to apologise because to clean up their act would mean a demolition of their ego and the beginning of the removal of a very large chip that resides right on their shoulder. There are so many options in how we could choose to behave and yet some just think it too beneath them to even ask a question of another poster so as to clarify a comment or lead with compassion. They want to attack first, ask questions later and by then the topic is ruined anyway. it's so old hat and I'm really getting sick of it. This is not a garbage tip. So own your own shit.
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
I have a memory of an elephant! I can remember what someone posted say a year or so ago and then when I see either read the same story but different "accuser" I start to wonder about that person! When I see they have written about their life a year ago and see the inconsistencies as the story gets bigger and more "woe is me" ... I start to wonder about that person! . People divulging too much? Nah, I don't agree with that...this is a Forum that has helped many people over the years I have been here and you get to have a "feel" for that person and where they have come from in life and I certainly understand more about them and why they have certain opinons on things! They might differ to my opinions, but I can see their point of view clearer and I respect that! . One of my first Threads was in SWB about getting over anxiety attacks as I was suffering them alot and got so much sound advice and help from all the wonderful ladies...others shared their stories too, we were all there for each other! . I posted not long ago in the Prostitution Thread...I have never copped so much shit in my life from posting there! I have had women on here who would speak to me in a civil manner all of a sudden attack (yes attack) me on the Forums! I have had people talk about me in the chatrooms like it was big news! I posted on that Thread as I was sick and tired of alot of people putting all working girls in the one basket as heartless robotic druggies! Do I regret it? Nah, it is my decision to divulge what I want to, noone is holding a gun to my head! . Alot of people opened up in MrsP Thread about Mental Health..while I didn't contribute to that Thread (was too painful), it was great to read others experiences as I realised I wasn't alone! Leesa's posts were the ones that hit me the most as I am going through what she had been through and to read that she survived gave me hope! Do people divulge too much? No I don't think so...in the end no matter what...MOST people are here for each other...Newbie or Oldie! It is really on first impressions whether people see you as reasonable or people see you as a total nut case! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' You both mention " Heirachys" as something new posters say..again, is this more of a common beliefs in attitudes and moreso a friendship formed between longer term posters that brings this about? Fun you said "come in witih guns ablazing from all barrels and they seem to "instinctively know" who to attack on the Forums!"is it really an "attack" or varying opinion worded maybe strongly and instantly jumped on by both parties without thought of clarification perhaps? Then a personality clash forms there on in and instead of acting like adults and taking each post on merit basis finds any niggly thing they can think of to bag out that person?In my own opinion I believe some on here DO divulge way too much infomation instead of staying generally based. They do leave themselves open to people forming what could be a totally wrong opinion of them and/ or getting caught out on an embillished story that they thought was long buried a few pages or so back. I was thinking that too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
prong is a sad part of posting on here, because I am trying to post things that will interest and provide the women who read my posts some reason to be interested in me... There are things I post that are personal...that may not be a good idea, but like I stated... If some one wants to pick me on a personal belief I have stated then they better be ready for some discussion... Second prong was answered in the first... Mike
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
Before the messages start and accusations fly around...I haven't been a working girl for over 20 years! Just in case some missed that Thread! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' You both mention " Heirachys" as something new posters say..again, is this more of a common beliefs in attitudes and moreso a friendship formed between longer term posters that brings this about? Fun you said "come in witih guns ablazing from all barrels and they seem to "instinctively know" who to attack on the Forums!"is it really an "attack" or varying opinion worded maybe strongly and instantly jumped on by both parties without thought of clarification perhaps? Then a personality clash forms there on in and instead of acting like adults and taking each post on merit basis finds any niggly thing they can think of to bag out that person?In my own opinion I believe some on here DO divulge way too much infomation instead of staying generally based. They do leave themselves open to people forming what could be a totally wrong opinion of them and/ or getting caught out on an embillished story that they thought was long buried a few pages or so back. SO true Saturn65 when you say Quote You both mention " Heirachys" as something new posters say..again, is this more of a common beliefs in attitudes and moreso a friendship formed between longer term posters that brings this about? Fun you said "come in witih guns ablazing from all barrels and they seem to "instinctively know" who to attack on the Forums!"is it really an "attack" or varying opinion worded maybe strongly and instantly jumped on by both parties without thought of clarification perhaps? Then a personality clash forms there on in and instead of acting like adults and taking each post on merit basis finds any niggly thing they can think of to bag out that person?Unquote,couldn't agree more,well said Saturn65
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RHP User
12 years ago
xfunloving
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
My point exactly! What a couple of these posters don't realise is that Saturn and I have also been discussing this Thread privately on another Social Networking Site"! I could feel the grins and hand rubbing from here on what they thought was a disagreement with me and the OP! Just too funny! . As for the "attacks" yes they do happen...I have seen many a regular, popular poster leave the Forums and even the Stie due to being "attacked"! Some of them relentlessly!. . Are there "in jokes"? Sure...but the funny thing is when people don't realise these "in jokes" and jump on the bandwagon thinking it is an "attack" and join in or applaud the other person..when in fact...both parties are off somewhere else having a giggle at the post and shake our heads in total amazement! I have to say this is hilarious! So I must thank those people for all the giggles we get! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
that you conspire to bully people xFunlovingx? What is it you are trying to convey here?
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' You both mention " Heirachys" as something new posters say..again, is this more of a common beliefs in attitudes and moreso a friendship formed between longer term posters that brings this about? Fun you said "come in witih guns ablazing from all barrels and they seem to "instinctively know" who to attack on the Forums!"is it really an "attack" or varying opinion worded maybe strongly and instantly jumped on by both parties without thought of clarification perhaps? Then a personality clash forms there on in and instead of acting like adults and taking each post on merit basis finds any niggly thing they can think of to bag out that person?In my own opinion I believe some on here DO divulge way too much infomation instead of staying generally based. They do leave themselves open to people forming what could be a totally wrong opinion of them and/ or getting caught out on an embillished story that they thought was long buried a few pages or so back. Yes it is an "attack" as these Posters will name who they are aiming their anger at or will reply with a quote from the poster! Alot of the times it is misunderstood by the "Newbie" as some people have Instant Posting and some don't and most Newbies don't realise that until told....by then judgements have been made and it is all too late! And yes, alot of us "oldies" have met in real life and will stick up for our friends as we would in real life! Not too long ago there was a Thread where a Regular poster was attacked over and over .. everyone saw it...so yes...judgements are made on that Newbie for that! Say what you want once and then get over it! I haven't seen many fights lately spill over...some try but in the end noone replies to them because everyone else has moved on and couldn't give two hoots what they have to say...Just shows bad form! Hierarchy? This is brought up alot by Newbies as they are fighting so hard to mark their territory (so to speak) and what they don't realise is there is no Hierarchy at all on here and when I read such nonsense I just laugh! Personality clashes? Always, in every area of life...you can't get on with everyone that you meet whether it be on the Forums or in life! But to purposefully look for something a Poster has written just to attack them makes the "attackee" look like a dick...If only they knew I am sure they would stop it and move on! Giving peace to everyone and stopping the closing of Threads! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just wanted to hear and understand what you were trying to say. And I can and do.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Does that mean you live on unemployment benefits now? What thread! LOL..
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madotara69
12 years ago
Fun, Don't you go on feeling as though there is a need to defend yourself, in any case, especially the thoughts shared for prostitution, nor that twenty years ago means any different than if it were yesterday. What you shared was simply the truth. The truth is far wider accepted, over the few that use unkind words and thoughtless snubs, they are echoes from small and frightened people, who wish they could have just an ounce of positive energy you bring to these forums, The whole of RHP for that matter. What you said was nothing other than good, and said well. Who are they, they probably gave them self a pat on the back, and felt so popular for a couple of minutes, Miss FunLoving. Yeah, I read your strong words for the topic, what did they write? I do not remember.Good evening Miss FunLovingMado
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69'Fun, Don't you go on feeling as though there is a need to defend yourself, in any case, especially the thoughts shared for prostitution, nor that twenty years ago means any different than if it were yesterday. What you shared was simply the truth. The truth is far wider accepted, over the few that use unkind words and thoughtless snubs, they are echoes from small and frightened people, who wish they could have just an ounce of positive energy you bring to these forums, The whole of RHP for that matter. What you said was nothing other than good, and said well. Who are they, they probably gave them self a pat on the back, and felt so popular for a couple of minutes, Miss FunLoving. Yeah, I read your strong words for the topic, what did they write? I do not remember.Good evening Miss FunLovingMado Means alot...thank you! xFunlovingx
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madotara69
12 years ago
I figured, rather than dip the toes to test the water, fuck it, might as well dive straight in to the deep end. When I post thoughts, even as imaginative they may be, there will be something to meaning and belief. I see and say thoughts to what is felt at that time to the atmosphere for the moment.If someone looks down at me, I won't look up. If someone looks up at me I won't look down. I will look straight at anyone and speak with respect and honesty, I do not fear the challenge for those who don't. I will give myself to a meaning and another person. If it all is questioned, answers are for the nature to simplicity.But, I will find the best in people.Mado, and Tara, well she is just beautiful.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd have to say, coming from gamer forums, the same things happen there as happen here. One person will post something and another will instantly jump on them raging about it like the first person killed their puppy. Meanwhile the first poster had only posted a rather generic question or opinion about something. I think some people just get too carried away on forums and need to take a step back, think about what they post before they reply to a topic/other post.I think if a consistent poster has massive gaping holes in their story, it's fair to question that. I think however, that a lot of the time, the questioner could word their question in a nicer or more objective way, to avoid undue (and unintended) bullying of the first poster. I think some of the posters could really use some assertiveness training when arguing their points. The best debaters attack the argument, use evidence, reason and logic to come to their conclusions. They don't attack the person who gave the opinion, this is low, personal attacks are emotional and designed to spark anger. It's a form of trolling.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have been discussing this on another site as it has actually puzzled me. I have been on here a few years myself but have never felt attacked or whatever. I've had opposing views etc and will disagree with something even like you and Meeks not totally agreeing with one of my posts and either clarify what I'm on about agree to disagree or move on. I do not feel any thing wrong in discussing this off site either. It's no different then sitting with some friends relaying a story and getting their opinions on a subject. Also even though I know a few people on here, I'd rather as I do, stick up for their opinion in a topic, rather then them as a person. Sometimes it's like watching a dive bombing competition in here and some of the comments that get tossed around are rude and ignorant. We all know them no examples need added as it only starts a stupid tit for tat. Basically would be nice if people all could be adults around here, not take things to heart, be civil and lighten the puk up! Sorry if typos am on Ph.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have been kicking around this particular forum for quite a few years and it is my observation that the majority of people here are suffering from past life experiences. Break ups, break downs, bitter divorce,whatever....the things that some of us have lived through are not pleasant. I also commented on the topic about prostitution and for me it was nearly 30 years ago when I stopped being a working girl. I have never onece been critised, slammed or vilified for it, here or in private. I wonder why that is? I never recieved personal messages putting me down and no one has had the audacity to harangue me openly in this forum. One wonders why then would the same thing happen to Funloving? Maybe it is because these days I take a backseat on the forums? Maybe I am not as vocal these days as Funloving? Maybe I am no longer a threat as I am no longer a single girl looking for fun? Maybe I am not seen as an easy target? Who knows? I also have opposing veiws and have been known to be rather outspoken. I also love a good debate and do miss the days when we just duked it out in the forums while others sat on the proverbial couch with proverbial wine and popcorn. I see no need to make things personal. I have strong veiws and can back them up with far more than emotion. If I cant...I am open to change. I dont need to run off to the powers that be tittle tattling like a school kiddy. This sort of attitude has only come about in the last six months or so and have contributed to these once great forums becomeing rather boring and not worth the effort. It has been brought about by the so called "Newbies" because us "Ancients" all know each other, many personally now. They ae not scrabbling for thier place in any perceived heirachy....they are just trying to find thier way out of the quagmire of life, get noticed and feel good about themselves. Those of us that have been kicking back in this sandpit for a while comment often on the forums, this could be seen as some "owning" the forums as in Meeka's case as the topics are smattered with comments from us. We have instant posting! We have earned that right by our contributions over time! The point in all this is that yes, people do take things way too personally. Their fragile egos have been damaged by exposure to life and they come on this site looking for a way to make them still feel attractive and better about themselves. They want to prove to themselves and "the Ex" that they are not useless, worthless, unattractive, whatever! I wonder sometimes about the ratio of well adjusted people to those still suffering on sites like this. Personally I feel that this is not a place for them until they manage to take a step back, sort through thier luggage and pack it all away. Do we post to much information? Maybe the anonimity of a keyboard becomes similar to a therapists couch and some work through lifes shitty experiences. If we all posted too much information then surely there would not be so many posts about how we were "duped" by all the lies that are told.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Feeling "Bullied" . This forum can be read by anyone, world wide. It is not a closed group. If you dont want my opinion, or that of anyone else....... . Simple . DO NOT ASK FOR IT!!!!! . If all you want is someone to agree with you and you are not open to someone who has opposing veiws making those veiws known...then go find a group of sycophants. You will fit in rather well there. If you do want to play in this sandpit then please remember your concrete pills before signing in!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I say my piece and bedamned all the mollycoddling. I'm not out to hurt people, if someone chooses to be offended by me, that's their business. But I'm not going to constantly censure my opinion because others feel I should. *pppppthfffffffft* I had an intensive debate with someone yesterday about touch and how they felt that asking a stranger if they needed a hug (in context; sad person etc) was "intrusive and direspectful of boundaries"... whereas I think that I would hate to live in their cold and uncaring world, where a hand on the shoulder is "assault". Sorry, that's not my world. And nothing they could say was going to make me agree with them just because *they* were absolutely convinced that they were right. Me hugging a stranger does not make me an "abuser". Me having an opinion does not make me a bully. Me disagreeing with someone does not make me an attacker. I think people need to pull their head out of their own arses and "own" their responses and their feelings. Noone can "make" you feel what you feel, you choose how you react, and I totally love boobies. Um, that wasn't where that last sentence was going, but I gots distracted. Sorry(ish) ;D
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RHP User
12 years ago
I talk to much on here and offline about myself. I think those that put in the effort,dispite the flack they get are the most interesting posters. My views on things have changed due to people having a debate with me, we often stand toe to toe on subjects and though I may have a hissy fit at times. I respect the people here a great deal because they do offer up bits of their lives to us all. the mental health threads, the std threads, the prostitution threads those that put themselves out there, I take my hat off to them EuropeanBliss reply to my thread on sex changes was amazing and she stood her ground with me, and she changed my narrow view. I know her offline, as I do with a lot of people, and though you may see us scrapping on the forums this does not mean we carry those grudge matches into our lives. sometimes its good to vent, sometimes we get carried away but without people opening themselves to the forums and getting a knockdown now and again, then its a sterile place its a bit microscopic at times and heated and irrational but its also very human and I am the queen here and your surf better shut up and hang of my every word! Tr the delusional and if my spelling is crap to bad as I want to upset the spellling nazis, us dyslexics like to drive em nuts. to all of you old and new posters I wuvvvvvvvvvvvvvvs ewe all keep it up, the good the bad and the ugly
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hierarchies. Yes it would appear this way to a new person as friendships have been formed with long time members. This a normal group dynamic. So personally I don't understand why people always bring it up and referr to the in jokes or whatever as being a bad thing. And long time posters often mention this as well. You will remember lots of threads about welcoming new comers and blaming the current posters of unfriendliness. I disagree with it that this is the case. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hierarchies. Yes it would appear this way to a new person as friendships have been formed with long time members. This a normal group dynamic. So personally I don't understand why people always bring it up and referr to the in jokes or whatever as being a bad thing. And long time posters often mention this as well. You will remember lots of threads about welcoming new comers and blaming the current posters of unfriendliness. I disagree with it that this is the case. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
that on this particular thread the term ‘heirarchy‘ and the ‘alledged‘ stigma was not even mentioned by any new members but brought up by regular longer term posters themselves. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
This forum discusses some intensely personal issues. It is hard not to reveal a little of yourself. And fair enough it may not be your style but some people are quite open about themselves. This is their right and each person can interact in anyway they feel comfortable. As Fun has mentioned some of these stories help people. Some of these stories give people hope or at least let them know they are not alone. So in part, I disagree with the second part of your question. So okay, It is not always clever to reveal so much about yourself because people make assumptions, and want to poke holes in the story and even use it against the person but overall it is a good thing that people are open in my humble opinion. I think most people are smart enough to know if a story is not genuine or at least to realise that it may not be the full story. This is a little like the Big Brother house (not that I watch it), we all get a little nuts or bored and some of us spend too much time on RHP and that is when the problem starts and people start to take things personally. Yes we are all responsible for our own feelings and we all choose to react in a certain way. Why should I let someone I have never met nor want to meet affect me. But sometimes it does Saturn. It's in my nature to speak up and I find it hard to let some comments go by. This is the way I am and I make no apologies for that. Some people feel comfortable sitting on the side lines and others like to speak up. Again, this is the way a person is. I understand that when people are rude, make snide remarks, etc people do pick up on this and that most will not comment on the forum. I can't always do this so I in part have become part of the problem. Which is why I am not going to post very much anymore. I have been here too long and I am jaded. Btw did I happen to mention... Great tits!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Like Deepblues & Vaga bonds comments above. I dislike both comments and think they are unfair. Deepblue takes one to know one. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I didn't read all the comments and reacted!! Apologies if I misunderstood Deepblue. Time for me to go.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think i blinked and missed stuff anyway or maybe I am now just crosseyed from seeing all sides and everyones point of view to the point where I wouldn‘t be surprised if my head did a 360 and just fell off. ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I didn't read all the comments and reacted!! Apologies if I misunderstood Deepblue. Time for me to go.... - Posted from rhpmobile I was accused by DeepBlu for conspiring to bullying over what I said about "chats" in the background! You have nothing to apologise to anyone about Meeka! DeepBlu...I will give you an example...I have a lovely lady from the Forums who is on my friends list....Last week or the week before she called me a "Soft cock" on the Forums as I was considering leaving the Site....The next message was someone congratulating her on calling me a "Soft Cock" and that they found it hilarious as it was directed to me! The thing that is funny is that it was a joke and I laughed at being called a "Soft Cock" but some people can't help but jump on the imaginary bandwagon and find it funny and encouraged her! Her and I were in Chat laughing about it and found it ridiculous that anyone would see it as anything but a joke! I remember a guy that called a much loved female Poster on here a Mole...and he was jumped on left right and centre...even after the female Poster said it was an "in-joke"! That guy luckily has a thick skin and let it roll off his back..but some people are not thick skinned like he is! I have never been accused of being a bully on here and never been accused of conspiring to bullying! Will I stick up for myself? Shit yeah! And like Meeka I too have the Calabrese blood in me and won't stand back and be villified or defamed! I am an open book...always have been, it's part of my character! Obviously you choose to ignore the Threads where I stick up for "Newbies" on here when other "Newbies" give them a hard time over a Thread they start! We are not all so eloquent in our language as some of you are on here! English is my second language even though I was born here but could not speak English at all until I was around 7 and didn't master it until I was 9 when my Grandmother died and I was affected so much I forgot my Italian overnight! I only got to Year 7 as I was taken away from home when I was 14 as back in those days they took away the kids and not the abuser as the abuser was the "Bread Maker"! Once you were in a Girls Home you lost your right to any sort of education, instead being made to do nothing all day or if you were lucky you got to make pegs or pack garbage bags! Mayber "Attack" is the wrong word to use...but I couldn't think of another word to go from my head to my fingers when typing! So DeepBlu I suggest you learn to stop disecting everything and have Empathy for people who have a different lifestyle to yours! The world is made up of all different people with different backgrounds and different walks of life and instead of jumping on people maybe everyone on here should just ask questions instead of jumping down their throat! And really LISTEN! xFunlovingx
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madotara69
12 years ago
Occasionally the Queen will make an announcement to all, as one and to all, for all and take all, without preference for one over all.In my opinion, to the task for reading the broad range and mountainous listings as posts. My humble visions to who is Queen to the forums, is not for you, as they are to Blindman. he he.Again, without challenge to statements on views, publicly expressed. My humble visions to who are you to these forums, are favored to the Speaker Jensman, who clearly sees you fit for Pime MinisterMado
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RHP User
12 years ago
My comment was meant as tongue cheek and from what I have seen from funloving I presumed she wouldn't take it any other way. I guess that's my fault for presuming, it certainly wasn't meant as a snide remark and I apologise if I caused any offence!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey just to clarify this about my post. It was posted and put to you as a question, xFunlovingx, okay, not an accusation. I was not accusing you of being a bully. I asked you. I wanted to better understand you and why you feel certain things. Please don‘t think of me as having no humilty or empathy for you. And please don‘t assume that I come from a priviledged background. I don‘t at all. If anything it was very underpriviledged.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can someone bully me i feel left out ...Debate is great ,when people actually want to debate,you can learn a lot from other peoples experience.Being an open person is another great attribute to have,it shows honesty in ones self.I think,"asking a question" can sometimes be seen as "having a go at someone" as things get lost in translation behind a keyboard.Honesty ,being open as a person,and saying what is on your mind ,is a wonderful thing,the problem is ,some people take it the wrong way.I dont think people here are trying to hurt one another with comments ,its just that typing a comment dose not show a smile,smirk or laugh as is seen in,when face to face with someone having a conversation.Live,learn and laugh is my motto.So who wants me to live with them,and is willing to teacdh me a few things while laughing at me when i drop me undies
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RHP User
12 years ago
No one can make you feel how you feel. You choose how you react. Personally, I often react in a fiery, open mouth first and brain second kinda way. But I never set out to hurt people or make them feel bad, and yes we see people here who do exactly that. Which makes me sad. I think that sometimes the teasing gets blown way out of proportion, and sometimes the active nastiness is underplayed and swept under the proverbial carpet. If there is one thing I hate, it's a back peddler (hence stating that I own my comments and even when I'm wrong, I reserve the right to be human, and be wrong). I came into the forums cold, just joined, knew no one. And I jumped in feet first, all systems go, open mouthed and fiery tempered and opinionated... occasionally I get told I'm too much, and I evaluate, I wonder if I should timeout or go, but damnit, I'm an addict and I need my fix! *twitch twitch* but hey, just so youse guys know, the ones that I don't love or don't know, it dusnt mean I hate you, when I disagree with you. It just means you're wrong :P
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
Quoting 'Incommunicado'No one can make you feel how you feel. You choose how you react. Personally, I often react in a fiery, open mouth first and brain second kinda way. But I never set out to hurt people or make them feel bad, and yes we see people here who do exactly that. Which makes me sad. I think that sometimes the teasing gets blown way out of proportion, and sometimes the active nastiness is underplayed and swept under the proverbial carpet. If there is one thing I hate, it's a back peddler (hence stating that I own my comments and even when I'm wrong, I reserve the right to be human, and be wrong). I came into the forums cold, just joined, knew no one. And I jumped in feet first, all systems go, open mouthed and fiery tempered and opinionated... occasionally I get told I'm too much, and I evaluate, I wonder if I should timeout or go, but damnit, I'm an addict and I need my fix! *twitch twitch* but hey, just so youse guys know, the ones that I don't love or don't know, it dusnt mean I hate you, when I disagree with you. It just means you're wrong :P I know you and you lubs me hehehehehe! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
A pretty good discussion going on here. I like to keep it simple. Don't post anything that your not willing to be questioned or accept others opinion on. Don't take it to heart if you're criticised - the world is full of different folks who live by different strokes. Aim of the game is to have fun x- Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'Meeka100'I didn't read all the comments and reacted!! Apologies if I misunderstood Deepblue. Time for me to go.... - Posted from rhpmobile I was accused by DeepBlu for conspiring to bullying over what I said about "chats" in the background! You have nothing to apologise to anyone about Meeka! DeepBlu...I will give you an example...I have a lovely lady from the Forums who is on my friends list....Last week or the week before she called me a "Soft cock" on the Forums as I was considering leaving the Site....The next message was someone congratulating her on calling me a "Soft Cock" and that they found it hilarious as it was directed to me! The thing that is funny is that it was a joke and I laughed at being called a "Soft Cock" but some people can't help but jump on the imaginary bandwagon and find it funny and encouraged her! Her and I were in Chat laughing about it and found it ridiculous that anyone would see it as anything but a joke! I remember a guy that called a much loved female Poster on here a Mole...and he was jumped on left right and centre...even after the female Poster said it was an "in-joke"! That guy luckily has a thick skin and let it roll off his back..but some people are not thick skinned like he is! I have never been accused of being a bully on here and never been accused of conspiring to bullying! Will I stick up for myself? Shit yeah! And like Meeka I too have the Calabrese blood in me and won't stand back and be villified or defamed! I am an open book...always have been, it's part of my character! Obviously you choose to ignore the Threads where I stick up for "Newbies" on here when other "Newbies" give them a hard time over a Thread they start! We are not all so eloquent in our language as some of you are on here! English is my second language even though I was born here but could not speak English at all until I was around 7 and didn't master it until I was 9 when my Grandmother died and I was affected so much I forgot my Italian overnight! I only got to Year 7 as I was taken away from home when I was 14 as back in those days they took away the kids and not the abuser as the abuser was the "Bread Maker"! Once you were in a Girls Home you lost your right to any sort of education, instead being made to do nothing all day or if you were lucky you got to make pegs or pack garbage bags! Mayber "Attack" is the wrong word to use...but I couldn't think of another word to go from my head to my fingers when typing! So DeepBlu I suggest you learn to stop disecting everything and have Empathy for people who have a different lifestyle to yours! The world is made up of all different people with different backgrounds and different walks of life and instead of jumping on people maybe everyone on here should just ask questions instead of jumping down their throat! And really LISTEN! xFunlovingxI am curious to know xFunlovingx what is this different 'lifestyle' you think I am having compared to others?
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RHP User
12 years ago
You lot can disseminate "chatter" into the ether, can't youAllegiances formed, broken, egos boosted and deflated, info' clarified and mystified, posters silenced, posters outraged.It's funny just takin a back seat.......a little like the "Insight" program-thingie on TV...but sometimes distinctly LACKING in insight.Ha. the perpetual cycle of the Forums.~~f~~
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RHP User
12 years ago
to tell anyone about my background or lifestyle for fear of being accused of playing the victim card. I don't think that it necessarily has to be attached to my posts or in doing so means that they will be taken as more viable or credible. I would prefer to leave the past in the past and look forward. But am increasingly made aware that I may have to burst this bubble concerning other posters notions about me to at least in their own minds level the field here in their eyes.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Considering that I am in the moments for dream-time, then let me say Mr & Mrs Saturn, the recent post for profile pic has changed my dreams to very naughty feelings. I am a dreamer to these forums and dream-time is all about seeing things as they are meant to be. It's cultural.Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
After all, your opinions are almost as big as mine ;) lol
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madotara69
12 years ago
All you mentioned is fair comment, however there is a conversation on topic around the thoughts for insight to the forums, with a lady who has been part with the forums since day dot. I ask that is to be respectedMado
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'd hate to ask ANY of you lot for directions on the street.........*Imagine*"Take a left, NO a right and THEN a left is better""Are you walking?........a car is preferable, oh, hang on, NO, a bike""Why do you want to go there? ____ is much nicer/quieter/louder"*Hang on, I'll ask my mate""I used to think..., But NOW I've changed my mind (maybe)"EndlessI think you should ALL be charged per key-stroke.......with the proceeds going to a Third World charity....where some clear & defined good might come from alla your ramblings.~~f~~
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm so glad I opened this thread up : ) If I post something online on any site I know I'm about to be slammed with all sorts of comments, threats and the like some positive a heap more negative but hey I put it out there so I cop it on the chin. In saying that though if you feel you need to come at me you better come hard and fast and be sure you know exactly what your on about ... a battle of wits is no fun with people that come unarmed... Ive told people personal stuff on here but I think for me as a single man trying to stand out against the hoards I had to do something so I read profiles top to toe before I make any contact in doing so I came across a few very common hates amongst all woman on all sites liars was one and as I feel the same way I used the tools you ladies laid out for me and went from no msgs or winks to ok who will I do tonight ( well maybe not that good ) don't lie about myself it seems stupid to do it on sex sites.. ok I post I have a 12inch dick your drooling we chat we meet you see im only 2inchs hmmmm are you still gonna want to fuck ? hell no next thing I know your in the forums letting everyone know I'm a liar boom 3 sex site accounts useless ..$210 down the drain and me with my dick in my hand goin awwww shes a bitch all because of a lie so after all that you post shit .. deal with it you can't lie straight in bed ...keep pulling ya dick if I went off topic .... come at me : )
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RHP User
12 years ago
*drool* Great thread Saturn :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'kizza1973' Can someone bully me i feel left out ...Debate is great ,when people actually want to debate,you can learn a lot from other peoples experience.Being an open person is another great attribute to have,it shows honesty in ones self.I think,"asking a question" can sometimes be seen as "having a go at someone" as things get lost in translation behind a keyboard.Honesty ,being open as a person,and saying what is on your mind ,is a wonderful thing,the problem is ,some people take it the wrong way.I dont think people here are trying to hurt one another with comments ,its just that typing a comment dose not show a smile,smirk or laugh as is seen in,when face to face with someone having a conversation.Live,learn and laugh is my motto.So who wants me to live with them,and is willing to teacdh me a few things while laughing at me when i drop me undies I am glad that you have posted again as it gives me the chance to explain something that i had said in another thread in regards to one of your posts,if i remember correctly it had something to do with me making a comment about you sucking up to da ladies.I made this post late at night and forgot to add silly smilely faces and lols,i normally always do this as away of expressing my unusal sense of humour.Unlike some others here i think it is reasonable to use these things to get my humour understood and hopefully recognized,as was da case with my above mentioned remark,like J-man said in my defence i was just having a lend of ya and my comment was all tongue in cheek that is all it was nothing more.I can see though how you might of been upset with me as i did not include my usual smilely faces and lols,so in summing up i hope that we can in da future have abit of a laugh and dig at one another without getting upset or hurt by what ever it might be that is said.Now as far as wanting to live with ya and watch ya drop your dacks well,you can find some other sucker for that job lol,jsk
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'PuZZled03984991' I'd hate to ask ANY of you lot for directions on the street.........*Imagine*"Take a left, NO a right and THEN a left is better""Are you walking?........a car is preferable, oh, hang on, NO, a bike""Why do you want to go there? ____ is much nicer/quieter/louder"*Hang on, I'll ask my mate""I used to think..., But NOW I've changed my mind (maybe)"EndlessI think you should ALL be charged per key-stroke.......with the proceeds going to a Third World charity....where some clear & defined good might come from alla your ramblings.~~f~~ Cool, I don't mind donating to a good cause. Where do I sign?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jsk6767' Quoting 'kizza1973' Can someone bully me i feel left out ...Debate is great ,when people actually want to debate,you can learn a lot from other peoples experience.Being an open person is another great attribute to have,it shows honesty in ones self.I think,"asking a question" can sometimes be seen as "having a go at someone" as things get lost in translation behind a keyboard.Honesty ,being open as a person,and saying what is on your mind ,is a wonderful thing,the problem is ,some people take it the wrong way.I dont think people here are trying to hurt one another with comments ,its just that typing a comment dose not show a smile,smirk or laugh as is seen in,when face to face with someone having a conversation.Live,learn and laugh is my motto.So who wants me to live with them,and is willing to teacdh me a few things while laughing at me when i drop me undies I am glad that you have posted again as it gives me the chance to explain something that i had said in another thread in regards to one of your posts,if i remember correctly it had something to do with me making a comment about you sucking up to da ladies.I made this post late at night and forgot to add silly smilely faces and lols,i normally always do this as away of expressing my unusal sense of humour.Unlike some others here i think it is reasonable to use these things to get my humour understood and hopefully recognized,as was da case with my above mentioned remark,like J-man said in my defence i was just having a lend of ya and my comment was all tongue in cheek that is all it was nothing more.I can see though how you might of been upset with me as i did not include my usual smilely faces and lols,so in summing up i hope that we can in da future have abit of a laugh and dig at one another without getting upset or hurt by what ever it might be that is said.Now as far as wanting to live with ya and watch ya drop your dacks well,you can find some other sucker for that job lol,jsk More good 'ol fashioned 'Bromance''
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RHP User
12 years ago
come at you?Hell no...not with that huge weapon in ya hand
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RHP User
12 years ago
just about any other forum which elicits the range of human emotions and all the crap that goes with that. I've had my foray into controversy and that taught me the people to avoid on here, and funnily enough that doesn't actually include the poster I had the disagreement with. We managed to leave things on a fairly civil note behind the scenes. But of course some people had to have their 2 cents and still do by the looks of it, but again that's just how it is on most forums and in the end you can't really do anything to change people's behaviour, you just have to learn to tune out the ones you don't get along with. I've learnt my lessons and I'll be posting / acting accordingly.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well.. you fckd me over biiiiig time girl... I THOUGHT you owned these forums... AND I was totally fine with that.. now... I find out.. .. I find out.... AHHHH!! WTF!!!! I give up!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'GREAT TITS! Now if anyone understands my comment above you can spank my ass! LOLOver and out. How could any one NOT understand that!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I did wantto say "hold my dick in between my fingers" but that just doesn't ring the same way" dick in my hand' does lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'PuZZled03984991'Bugga........ You lot can disseminate "chatter" into the ether, can't youAllegiances formed, broken, egos boosted and deflated, info' clarified and mystified, posters silenced, posters outraged.It's funny just takin a back seat.......a little like the "Insight" program-thingie on TV...but sometimes distinctly LACKING in insight.Ha. the perpetual cycle of the Forums.~~f~~ Quoting 'PuZZled03984991' I'd hate to ask ANY of you lot for directions on the street.........*Imagine*"Take a left, NO a right and THEN a left is better""Are you walking?........a car is preferable, oh, hang on, NO, a bike""Why do you want to go there? ____ is much nicer/quieter/louder"*Hang on, I'll ask my mate""I used to think..., But NOW I've changed my mind (maybe)"EndlessI think you should ALL be charged per key-stroke.......with the proceeds going to a Third World charity....where some clear & defined good might come from alla your ramblings.~~f~~ I love how the original old-timers pop in to amuse us not so old old-timers lolol. Good to see you!!! :-DWhat can I say, a lot of regulars are irregular to an extreme, saying one thing and doing another depending on...I think you got a bit complicated with the street directions, lets face it, if you ask for directions in here... you'll very simply be told to go to hell, though the words could differ naturally, taking individuality into account. Of course, if you ask me, I'll give it to you straight out of the street directory, wouldn't want you getting lost on your way to my place now would I. Now ramble on over and for every stroke delivered by that blurry deadly weapon in your pics I'll donate a key-stroke to Forgotten Australians. Doing my best to keep Australian economy in Australia. Hugs... Peachy (Mrs P 2 u :-D xxx)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Spanks incoming
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'PuZZled03984991' I'd hate to ask ANY of you lot for directions on the street.........*Imagine*"Take a left, NO a right and THEN a left is better""Are you walking?........a car is preferable, oh, hang on, NO, a bike""Why do you want to go there? ____ is much nicer/quieter/louder"*Hang on, I'll ask my mate""I used to think..., But NOW I've changed my mind (maybe)"EndlessI think you should ALL be charged per key-stroke.......with the proceeds going to a Third World charity....where some clear & defined good might come from alla your ramblings.~~f~~ Am PMSL and in stiches with what you just said,how fcuking funny are you champ,jsk
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is you talking to me?Cuz if you are not talking to me you must be talking to him!So which is it - is you talking to me or is you talking to him?Actually I think there's not much talking to me or any other male here in this topic.Don't think I'm needed.Mr C slinks back into corner.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'chickcara' Is you talking to me?Cuz if you are not talking to me you must be talking to him!So which is it - is you talking to me or is you talking to him?Actually I think there's not much talking to me or any other male here in this topic.Don't think I'm needed.Mr C slinks back into corner. You can't see my post yet Mr Chick. Peachy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I can definitely relate to what Meeka said.. Am I taking ownership of her comment... If it meant getting to spank her ass... You betcha
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RHP User
12 years ago
Where DID you get that body from?! I am sure there are lots of ladies who would like to give you directions :-)
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
I opened this thread thing it was about MFM's. Clearly I have a dirty mind. Breathe deep people - cyber drama is only real life if you choose to buy into it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No problems here jsk ,its all good.Cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'PuZZled03984991'You lot can disseminate "chatter" into the ether, can't youAllegiances formed, broken, egos boosted and deflated, info' clarified and mystified, posters silenced, posters outraged.It's funny just takin a back seat.......a little like the "Insight" program-thingie on TV...but sometimes distinctly LACKING in insight.Ha. the perpetual cycle of the Forums.~~f~~ I just cant stop myself from looking at your arse call me shallow..umm now umm what was it you said ohhh yeah you have brains as well...now back to that arse
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh well? He he he...
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RHP User
12 years ago
...got SAIDSurely 5 pages, thousands of words, dozens of utterances, a few apologies, abitov of back-slapping and quotes of quotes of quotes may have covered the topic.I think this Forum needs some light-hearted stuff to unify you lot and gently massage you debating peeps to cum-together (excuse the poxy pun)Even if it's just to remind you of why you joined the site in the first place...and in particular why you chose to post on the Forums.Like minded people, fun, learning shit, experiencing shit....shit....shitYou all have many shared interests, diverse characteristics, intelligence, humour and the ability to string the odd sentence (or 100) together.....what a favourable position you are all inIt's a little like the "behind-a-wheel" syndrome.......everyone shouts, gestures, foams and spits.........YET, do you do the same in the shopping centre?........of course not........maybe>>===>think your your keyboard as the steering wheelOK, I'm starting to talk an inordinate amount of shit right nowOver to you (lot)~~f~~OH, and I wont reply to anything with a negative coronation or what may be considered contentious.....OK, I'm an arsehole, it's already said and doesn't need repeating
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'PuZZled03984991'...got SAIDSurely 5 pages, thousands of words, dozens of utterances, a few apologies, abitov of back-slapping and quotes of quotes of quotes may have covered the topic.I think this Forum needs some light-hearted stuff to unify you lot and gently massage you debating peeps to cum-together (excuse the poxy pun) I have no idea who you are, but I think I love you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I just think his pictures are roolly roooolllly prurdy! ;-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well said Puzzled. I suppose I should know you too? By the way. Nice tits. ;-) Hehehe
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'deepbluesumthing' to tell anyone about my background or lifestyle for fear of being accused of playing the victim card. I don't think that it necessarily has to be attached to my posts or in doing so means that they will be taken as more viable or credible. I would prefer to leave the past in the past and look forward. But am increasingly made aware that I may have to burst this bubble concerning other posters notions about me to at least in their own minds level the field here in their eyes. Of course I have no intention of boring you all or falling on my own sword just to satisfy the parochial few. I may be new but I'm no masochist.
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RHP User
12 years ago
... if I only my socks were hot ... lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'kizza1973' No problems here jsk ,its all good.Cheers Thanks for having the insight and intelligence to understand what i had said,glad to hear that we are all good and look forward to a blossiming, as deepblue put it Bromance between ourselfs lol,cheers mate,jsk
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RHP User
12 years ago
...are all very natural.........jic you were wondering...and YES, I can jog without too much support*Wanka*Nice arse, btw, I bet if I whacked it with a hickory cricket bat...it wouldn't move...muchAnd YES, I love you, too........I love you ALLMed's, I love me med'sWho said that?~~f~~
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am puzzled. Who are you calling a wanker? Me... I admit I may have done this before or yourself? :P And if you hit my arse with a hickory cricket bat you would create an earth quake followed by a tsunami! Or that could be me just having an orgasm. Who knows. Oooh, I am jealous I would love to be able to jog without support. Lucky you. ⊂(◉‿◉)つ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
He's not calling anyone a wanker but imagining what would be going through minds...Peachy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not: big, pink, little or camelBUTTerm Of EndearmentOh, In ref to the *wanka* comment, of courseAnd, YES, I've also done it before, too.......in f-a-c-t...........I'm doing it N-o-w-w-w-w-w-w-w-w-w-w-w.....urghhhhhhhhAND, YES, c'est moi...........Muriel to some, Mutual to others, and whatever else stuck to everyone elseSol-V-ed"ello, good afternoon and Wilkommen~~found-out f~~
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just because I ask a question in the forums, just like when I'm giving head, it doesn't mean I want anyone's opinion shoved down my throat!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have been away form forums for some time and still same old same old , still interesting to have a graze about just to find out whats doing ,, AE
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RHP User
12 years ago
In my own case i could do nothing but "own" what was written... quite a few people already knew that what was written involved me, though the ones that know me offline know the whole truth of the matter which is all that matters in the end i guess. At least i can hold my head high and not stoop to their level.As for the second part of the question, The truth always outs in the end.
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