horneycouplewa

horneycouplewa

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Unfriending someone

September 08 2015

We don't as a rule accept friend requests unless we have a real connection and to be perfectly honest i/we r not on rhp to make frienda but Have been very fortunate to have made some awesome friends, it just happened & are very grateful. However I accepted a friend request & not really knowing that person. IS IT WRONG TO DELETE THEM. I feel it's my profile, just like fb and want to keep the people that matter too me. It was a mistake to accept on my behalf but when I deleted got abused wtf. Even after I apologized and explained, which I don't feel I had to do ( we never had any personal moments) but I still get abused . I just don't understand it. I/we r here to enjoy sex & exploring new sexual adventures. - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It's your profile, do what you like. Don't waste your time worrying about it, it's silly if they get upset about it. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Don't give it a moments thought...why would you give any weight to that persons opinion,you explained what happened,your reasons for only having people you know on your friends list,they need to accept that xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Until you've met someone face to face they are merely words and pics (if you're lucky) in Cyberland and you owe them absolutely nothing. You weren't rude or wrong in my opinion. Even if you do know people personally, feelings can change or maybe you just moved in different directions. In that case I think an explanation is nice but not necessary. The fact you got abused for unfriending someone you don't even know just says to me good riddance!

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    As someone i know would, BLOCK THEM next. Show them some manners.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    and don't second guess yourself!! Great advice given to me years ago by one mentor. Don't stress it OP.

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    9 years ago

    If it was a 'real' friendship or I valued them it would matter to me but I don't :) Mary xx

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    9 years ago

    I've been unfriended by a few, it happens, so be it.... But don't expect me to except another friend request if you unfriend me, that's not going to happen, you unfriended me for a reason, so I guess the reason sticks in my book...💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    You could unfriend people? My list needs a clean out....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Lovinit28' I've been unfriended by a few, it happens, so be it.... But don't expect me to except another friend request if you unfriend me, that's not going to happen, you unfriended me for a reason, so I guess the reason sticks in my book...💋

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'unicorn99' You could unfriend people? My list needs a clean out.... There are a 172 nervous folks around tonight.........

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    9 years ago

    I've just done it....unfriend someone that is. Those on my friends list are people I have met and who I am happy to say are people I like and admire.... and who on the whole stay in touch with me through here or in person. I've been thinking of unfriending some people and this forum has reminded me to do so. Feels kind of liberating in a weird way

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I inadvertently accepted a friend's request because I use my phone for RHP.Hadn't met them but had chatted. When I realised I could unfriendly them I did. Not because I didn't want to meet or at some point be friends but because I had accepted by accident. They havnt asked why, but I will tell them if they ask. As for the OPs post I agree with everyone else, it's your profile. If you cop abuse you know you've made the right choice and block them. Let them deal with their own issues.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Why one would be offended and get abusive is beyond me but it is very much like what I have read of some copping it for just saying no politely to a meet up. Some people just happen to think they are just soooo important and do not take rejection well. So I wouldn't let it bother you peoples. Shit if I abused everyone for unfriending me or rejecting my messages I'd run out of abuse

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    9 years ago

    Because I'm a bitch I guess, you've only seen the nice Lovinit, deep down I'm an asshole....💋

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    9 years ago

    I liked that post and then got worry because maybe I was the one you unfriended, but all good it wasn't me, thank god.....love ya guts Kissk 💋

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Lovinit28' I liked that post and then got worry because maybe I was the one you unfriended, but all good it wasn't me, thank god.....love ya guts Kissk 💋 There's going to be a stampede to view my profile and see if they have survived the cut. Can't see you would ever be on the chopping block gorgeous... guess you're stuck with me

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'kissk' Quoting 'Lovinit28' I liked that post and then got worry because maybe I was the one you unfriended, but all good it wasn't me, thank god.....love ya guts Kissk 💋 There's going to be a stampede to view my profile and see if they have survived the cut. Can't see you would ever be on the chopping block gorgeous... guess you're stuck with me Then realised I wasn't on it to start with. Maybe a sign of too many...........And dont worry Lovint. We are together till the end......

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    9 years ago

    check your feed

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'kissk' check your feed Thanks gorgeous. Hoping to see you sat night. xx

  • horneycouplewa

    horneycouplewa

    9 years ago

    Thank u all for your comments 😚 I now feel "liberated" too. It was such a silly weight but it's lifted. I have also realized that the negativity has come from jealousy. Hugs n kisses xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    9 years ago

    I don't mind being stuck with Kissk and Annie, actually I rather like the idea.....💋

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    9 years ago

    Well if you got to your arse down here this weekend you never know what fun we could have ;)