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Unicorns
May 14 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just curious as I am fairly new here and don't know the terms... is a unicorn a female to play with couples and not a male? I assume the word unicorn is used cause there is a flood of males on here and not many females. Just thought I would ask. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I actually don't have fantasies. Im looking for fun and a great fuck. Im not a role play/fantasy thinker. Im a realist, pragmatic, go with the flow person. For me the importance is based around physical attraction and intellectual connection.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Sounds like you've got a good handle on it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
You have a single profile but you mention "we" and "us" ?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Derr, got it now, only took 3 reads. I'll shut up now. 😖
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just go to your local pub, you'll have better there than on here!!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
You rushed over to my profile to check I was what I claimed to be? Yee of little faith :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
One must do due diligence mustn't one? All sorts of shady characters on here ! Mwah ha ha ha ! 👹
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RHP User
8 years ago
I used to get contacted by couples a lot but that's died off a bit. Reasons I rarely play with couples... 1. It's good that you identified that the unicorn's needs are often last on the list. Don't forget that you two have a connection and have probably talked at length about your fantasies involving another woman. In my experience, hardly anyone gives much thought to what the extra girl wants or needs. 2. There is often a large discrepancy between the attractiveness between the man and the woman. Obviously, in a relationship, other factors come into play that determine attractiveness. When I'm only looking at photos on a sex site, the men are often considerably more "average' (or less) in terms of physical attractiveness than the women. Having said that, I often find it much easier to find women visually attractive than I do men so that could be just my particular view. 3. The sheer amount of fucking around involved. We all know that the first person that messages us is always the man on the hunt for the unicorn. They get all flirty and chatty. Cool. Now we have to run it past the wife/girlfriend. I have been rejected by the woman before - that's cool. Or the woman is not nearly as active on the site or isn't as actively seeking the threesome so there's conversations back and forth between the couple that can take weeks to progress. It gets boring. 4. Personally, I usually won't play with someone who is "bi-curious". I have limited time and don't really want to get there and find out the woman isn't really into it. Or worse, wants to indulge in some porn like moves that are clearly all about turning on the man. I have had a woman do that - do that stupid "jiggle your boobs at each other" while doing duck faces at her boyfriend. She wasn't interested in me whatsoever and was clearly only going through the motions to please her partner. If I'm doing bi-play, giving and receiving oral sex from the woman is an expectation. 5. There have beens some exceptions but some people do treat you like a disposable fuck toy when it's over. It's like "Thanks, extra mouth/hole. You were fun. Bye". Obviously, I am not part of that relationship but I also expect some kind of connection and care and to feel like there has been some kind of connection rather than me being a animated blow up doll. So it's complicated for us too. You also have to remember that it's all a numbers game on here. There are many more couples seeking than their are unicorns looking.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Discussing your fantasies is something that you share with a couple once trust and a good connection is established. Speaking for myself, I'm just looking to have a good time with respectful, easy going and fun people just like anyone else. It doesn't have to be a super hot, best sex of my life experience every time. Just great company and a variety of fun things to share with a like minded couple. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
8 years ago
Quoting 'johnnygo' Just go to your local pubWas just saying the same thing talking to my mate today LOL At least you know they reside in the same state/local government area
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Sharonski' You rushed over to my profile to check I was what I claimed to be?...could be like me and a fan of gallery photos? Yours are not lacking at all in any aspect. Maybe he just has a thing about Yamahama motorcycles instead of Harleys? I've about one month or thereabouts to go then have the clearance to go up in the air again... chasing midnight. Hoooo-ray and keep your head down if you see low flying aircraft? Best...... CM
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RHP User
8 years ago
I agree whole heartedly! I personally do not like the idea of playing with someone who claims to be Bi-curious.. I was talking to a couple and it was obviously the male blabbering when I finally got to talk to her she did not want to kiss or anything with a female so since then mr and I tend to seek out couples with a Bisexual woman. In our profile it does say clear as day that I am Bisexual and love to touch and be touched by women so I have no idea why this said male from the couple bothered to waste our time and try to push his fantasy onto his missus who clearly wasn't as interested as she may have said she was to him. Thankfully we didn't meet! So not much time was wasted in that sense. As for 5. That's bloody terrible! I honestly thought couples would show more respect than that! We try and stay in contact with people we have played with and catch up for social meets obviously it doesn't always happen as staying in contact is a two way street so sometimes it can end up being a one night stand if the other couple/single chooses to not reply. I personally became friends with our "unicorn" she's a great chick I love her! I hope you have better luck with couples in the future hun! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Personally I prefer being with a couple vs. a single person and find that having an extra person to build chemistry with is a massive turn on for me. I'm not sure whether it's typical or not but the majority of messages I receive come from single men and I'm not really contacted that often by couples who have actually read my profile - so I wouldn't be afraid to contact single women (with genuine messages) if you feel like you match what they are looking for. While I do have a great time when I happen to meet an awesome couple I would have to agree with your original comment that I have been in situations where I have felt like my fantasies or even just making sure I felt good/satisfied was less important than the couples. Obviously I only have my view looking in to the relationship from the outside but I find this usually happens because the couple is more focused on making sure that neither person in the relationship is left out (which is obviously awesome and supportive of them), but this has meant for me in some situations that the guy and girl in the relationship might orgasm and I might not, or they have each been the centre of both peoples attention and I may not have been.. I'm trying to not be too graphic here so excuse the rambliness of this :) Like AbnormallyNormal said I have also felt a little like I'm a sex toy for the couple versus an actual person with feelings, wants, needs, etc. But with all of that being said I still love playing with couples and keep coming back for more, so the good must out weigh the bad! Just some things to keep in mind when you meet your unicorn to make sure everyone is happy!
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P69D69
8 years ago
Its sad to hear the views of the unicorns. No one should be treated in that manner. I admit I the male half does the texting but I do not reply without the consent and input of my wife. We are a married faithful couple of over 25 years. My wife after having a very brief encounter with a female who out of the blue mouth tongue sexed her. Has wanted to experience a female to female encounter. As I love to see my wife happy and enjoying herself, I told her to go for it. I have no interest in even being a participant but again if my wife and this fantasy lady called on me, Id oblige. Our sad situation is putting up with fakes, possible men posing as women. Or tbe wam bam thankyou type. We want a connection, we believe everyone needs to connect and enjoy the moment. We'd love to continue friendship with future explorations and generally have like minded friends to go out with and run a muck. We are happy whether a unicorn, couple with bi woman or lesbian couple. We find it sad that people are turned away on label of bicurious. Id thought this would be a stimilating bit of foreplay to work their powess on initiating a virgin to the scene. - Posted from rhpmobile
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