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Unread Emails
December 12 2014
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
You can read messages without actually opening the email, by going into the senders profile, so you'd never know if they opened it or not, maybe that's what they are doing. Or you might be messaging one of those woman that get 50 messages a day that I keep hearing about, geez I'm flat out answering 5 a week, I couldn't even imagine getting 50 a day....😛 Also the persons profile will tell you the last time they were online..... What kind of messages are you sending out? Most women will say they like a well crafted message, not a Hi, how you doing....💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
Chase someone who isn't responding? Silence is an answer ... It usually means no thanks. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' You can read messages without actually opening the email, by going into the senders profile, so you'd never know if they opened it or not, maybe that's what they are doing. Or you might be messaging one of those woman that get 50 messages a day that I keep hearing about, geez I'm flat out answering 5 a week, I couldn't even imagine getting 50 a day....😛 Also the persons profile will tell you the last time they were online..... What kind of messages are you sending out? Most women will say they like a well crafted message, not a Hi, how you doing....💋
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Seachange
10 years ago
I do get a few messages a day between 10-15 but not 50! Lol. then there are the flirts. which goes unanswered as I have stipulated in my profile (if they read it) not to send flirts as I will not respond to them. I try to respond to most messages but it may take days sometimes as am busy with work and kids. Any single parent would know what I mean about not having lots of times sitting in front of a laptop or tablet and just surfing for a date in rhp. God knows I dont have that time. But if your message has been tailored to a lady or gent or couple based on what you read on their profile, then a response is required. Just be patient. But for those really rude ones and those 'fishing expedition messages ('Hey. wanna chat?), not sure if they require much of my attention. Checking if they are online or when was the last time they are does not help your cause as they may be there only to peek at the forum for entertainment (guilty as charged ) between commitments (work trips, in transit to pick up kids, etc) and would have forgotten to logoff. Details.... If you dont get a response, just move on. But if they do get around to respond to you, even better. The Gods are smiling if it is a positive response. , Time to buy tattslotto, Goodluck
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Missb4u
10 years ago
be resending your messages unless they just said "hi" . I would be curious to see what happened if you put your profile pic in your pg and had your smiling face pic as your main pic. Woman like smiling faces. Would be a cool little experiment to see what happened. for the record I don't think your profile pic is bad you just don't need it as your main pic. good luck, missb
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just move on, if you need to chase someone they're not really that into you. I also agree about the face pic as a main profile pic, it's a great one. May I give some advice you totally did not ask for? Personally both your name and part of your profile would make me say no, if theoretically I happened to be one of the women you wrote to. You write "I practice safe sex, but due to being fixed it won’t be necessary in an exclusive relationship" as well as "Clean but happy to get tested." The emphasis on being STD free plus not being able to get a woman pregnant reads to me as though you can't wait to ditch the condoms, which frankly would make me feel uncomfortable. Just my opinion of course.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Waste of time, just move on' and put your enegy where its usefull or wait until someone contacts you. Thats what I do, I leave it up to them. At least when they message me theres a good chance a conversation will follow ...
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
It's up to you OP if you want to resend another email...it's your choice. I have had that happen to me before where I have had a 2nd email sent and yes I ended up meeting the man. He was more than his profile. *insert cheeky grin*. We are friends to this very day. It is true tho, women do receive a fair amount of emails. For me it varies each day with received messages (min 10-15, max 20+ per day) No way near 50! *chuckles* unless one is organizing an event/party/gang bang or something, then yeah believe it. And yes I have deleted unread emails by mistake...that does happen. :( Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
They may be swamped, they may be busy, they may just forget to log off. They may have viewed your profile but not have that info transmitted. But if you continue to message, and though they are not giving you feed back, you may become annoying and temping the block button. Does that matter, "NO" if that happens you never had a chance anyways, so there is no loss in trying again. If you are on the out, being more out is really equivalent to a little out. Without feed back there is always a possibility that you are lost in the traffic. Message again. When you join this site you accept that people can message you, so socially the rules are set to, go for it till block or told to back off.
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RHP User
10 years ago
My messages are always very tailored, unless of course their profile is practically empty, which is why I assumed unread means exactly that. Personally Meander I like condoms as it helps me last longer, if not indefinately, as the sensation is reduced enough that I often need to finish some other way :) It's ironic when a girl has an orgasm through penetration (perhaps via clitoral grinding on top which happened recently), yet I can barely feel a thing! Having said that, yes, I do find it nice to not have to worry about them in a committed relationship, which I have experienced once. I don't see why this idea is confronting, it happens in many/most long term relationships/marriages. But perhaps I should be firmer in my profile in what I mean and when it would apply. I'd like to say in my profile that I'm ultimately looking for love (again) but I believe it might be counter-productive in finding short-term fun. Maybe simple dot-point profiles are better. As for profile advice, I have re-written it many times (and will continue to do so here and on other sites for different purposes), but have found there will always be some people who find some part of it off-putting. There is no such thing as a perfect profile. You will always attract some and repel others. I try to go with a profile that is the best reflection of myself and my attitude, and if someone doesn't like my profile, it means they don't like me. PS Missb, I changed the pic around for the undies thread. If anything I have had more responses [read:some] since the change compared to the number of responses before [read:none].
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RHP User
10 years ago
Changed profile wording slightly, best I can do for now :)
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
There are other more subtle ways of letting that person know you are interested....maybe try viewing them a few times in a row when they are online...obviously shows up in their "Real info".......you could also try winking them......I prefer a polite non invasive 2nd approach......If the person is interested they'll end up replying in some form......don't forget we are all very busy in our private lives....... what you choose to do with the above info is ur choice naturally...
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inspirit
10 years ago
Are we there yet. THIS is a sex site not a fucking dating site. Clearly they would of answered if they were INTERESTED. <<Goes back to uni to learn brain science Some one SHOOT me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The question was about emails that the system says have never been read, NOT emails that have been read and not responded to. Please read the original question properly.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes this is a sex site, I've been using it to look for sex, and I've been getting sex, all in my profile also. But still, irrelevant to the question. Plus, there are many couples I've talked to who have initially hooked up from either sites like this, or related events like Saints & Sinners or general swinging nights. I don't see why leaving the option open to finding a partner (as well as getting sex) is so much of a big deal.
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RHP User
10 years ago
There are also a few fake profiles here so unless it's someone you've met and know they are genuine and they've said they would love to hear from you, don't bother. The kind of People that are worth meeting will always reply even to say a simple "sorry I am not interested" - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Are we there yet. THIS is a sex site not a fucking dating site. Clearly they would of answered if they were INTERESTED. <<Goes back to uni to learn brain science Some one SHOOT me. Got me chuckling. But Darlink, this is sort of a dating site with sex primarily in mind... All licking and fornicating, no committing.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' You can read messages without actually opening the email, by going into the senders profile, so you'd never know if they opened it or not Quoting 'snippedguy82' The question was about emails that the system says have never been read You can never be sure if the recipient has or hasn't read your messages, so I think the answers you got about women reading them but not responding were valid. Quoting 'inspirit'THIS is a sex site not a fucking dating site. RHP is totally lying on their home page by claiming this is an adult dating site. Those bastards!
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RHP User
10 years ago
you are a hard woman...you need a hard man
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Are we there yet. THIS is a sex site not a fucking dating site. Clearly they would of answered if they were INTERESTED. <<Goes back to uni to learn brain science Some one SHOOT me. …on the login page. "Australia's hottest adult dating and social networking site". Just sayin'… It's what you make of it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Personally I wouldn't re send messages ,move on! That said I always reply to messages the way I was brought up! Ladies can be bombarded so I guess they pick the best from the crop! As far a sex /dating site would think they go hand in hand! Each to there own I suppose! Good tip re messages miss love it !
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
You know you don't have to explain yourself or what is written on your profile - especially when you were not given a choice. Foxy
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander Quoting 'inspirit'THIS is a sex site not a fucking dating site. RHP is totally lying on their home page by claiming this is an adult dating site. Those bastards! Jeezuz! is it really advertising THAT. I mean seriously they should be advertising "kiddies" dating site with the amount of insecure muppets on here.
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inspirit
10 years ago
If you've sent out some emails and some are still unread after weeks or months, should you send them again? NO - If they are interested they would of responded. Come on...let's be honest here - Do you seriously think that SOME of these woman who get LOADS of messages are not here for their Ego's as well. Move on..... I know women often get more than they can possibly read, so I was wondering whether re-sending them, perhaps with a catchier title, would have any benefit? You would look desperate in my opinion although unless you are good at fishing - go for it! Would a user delete emails he/she hasn't read, just to clean out the inbox? YES if they are from the same person they didn't want too respond too in the first place. My special powers are put to use here OMMMMMMMMMM. This is assuming: - You know the user has still been regularly online, Are you stalking ? - That they haven't yet viewed your profile, Smart people hit stealth mode so you would never know. - You match their "looking for" description.LOL! "Looking for" yeah right. Honey unfortunatley this does not have a "Brad Pitt" not "Donkey" option. I am clearly going through over 50 syndrome so please do not disturb.
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' you are a hard woman...you need a hard man I would make you all soft though
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'snippedguy82' Yes this is a sex site, I've been using it to look for sex, and I've been getting sex, all in my profile also. But still, irrelevant to the question. Plus, there are many couples I've talked to who have initially hooked up from either sites like this, or related events like Saints & Sinners or general swinging nights. I don't see why leaving the option open to finding a partner (as well as getting sex) is so much of a big deal. Everyone wants a partner and they be lying if they said no, except of course CAVEY. However, this is predominantly a hook up site and if you are open to a partner from here then I commend you. MOST men run at the thought as they think woman on here are not relationship material. Something about mummy not liking them. Oh I thought the question was about unopened emails.
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inspirit
10 years ago
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RHP User
10 years ago
Everyone wants a partner and they be lying if they said no, except of course CAVEY. However, this is predominantly a hook up site and if you are open to a partner from here then I commend you. MOST men run at the thought as they think woman on here are not relationship material. Something about mummy not liking them. Oh I thought the question was about unopened emails. Yes it was, perhaps I shoud have said unopened, as opposed to unread, but both are listed as the same right? I also thought stealth mode/invisibility (depending on site) for viewing was only for certain membership types? Yes I'm looking for a partner as well, and would love to develop a relationship with someone who likes swinging/swapping/group sex/fantasies as much as I do, and seriously I'm not going to find that on Eharmony or Farmer wants a Wife!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I politely replied to a message with the template "Sorry, but you don't match what I'm looking for", which he would have known had he read my profile. The award winning reply was as follows : you stupid slut , youre a joke Geez, don't people know that you're supposed to put a ' in you're. The grammar just shits me and I take umbrage at being called stupid The reason I don't bother with some of them is that they go into unmatched messages. Sometimes I'll read those when I'm very bored.
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inspirit
10 years ago
Quoting 'Koolgrey' Quoting 'inspirit' Are we there yet. THIS is a sex site not a fucking dating site. Clearly they would of answered if they were INTERESTED. <<Goes back to uni to learn brain science Some one SHOOT me. …on the login page. "Australia's hottest adult dating and social networking site". Just sayin'… It's what you make of it. I stand to be corrected. I haven't read the login page for some time
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'll be buggered... (MAYBE a wrong thing to say around SOME of you)I don't really message... but.. I don't really get laid either ..I WONDER if there is any correlation here?? INSPIRIT... maybe you make me soft AFTER you have milked me..The problem is.. what I USED to do all night, NOW takes me all night to do it :(
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inspirit
10 years ago
MMMan Utter moment
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RHP User
10 years ago
I like to give people the courtesy of a reply if I'm not interested, and often will use one of the templates. I've been ridiculed and called all sorts of names for doing this, questioned why I'm not interested in them, and told it's "my loss." Um, well excuse me, they should be grateful I've taken the time to even send a reply to tell them I'm not interested, saving them $$$ in sending me further replies, thinking I haven't received their first message........I've even been called a "robot" for choosing to use a template reply. Who honestly has the time to write out their own reply to each and every person they're not interested in? I'm particular who catches my eye and won't say I'm interested in someone just to "be nice."
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
And then.... you receive messages from people NOT wanting to fuck you.... but only wanting to rant, rave and abuse you. Had one of these special people today.
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inspirit
10 years ago
Did you knock her back DG LOL!
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