M40
Unrealistic expectations
April 11 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
For some women size does matter,probably for a number of different reasons,eg larger vaginas suit larger cocks,as for other reasons aesthetics perhaps? However WAusman most women know, that it's not what you have is what you do with what you have. Conversly some women find it difficult accomodating a large cock. There is sooo much more to excellent,mind bogglin',down and dirty,hot jungle sex than a big dick. Often the man who is not quite so well endowered is the bestest of lovers. Be reassured not every woman wants a big dick!! ps and your size op seems just right to me
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RHP User
13 years ago
Boring.
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
Dear spunky WAusman....How do you want to be enlightened? You have already said that alot of women that you have met and spoken to don't like "monster" cocks...so I am a bit confused here on what you are asking! . As for cock size...well my ex had not quite 5 inches and wasn't that thick either...but gave me the bestest orgasms EVER! As for large cocks...nope, can't do them as they hurt too much and when I tried one a while ago I actually was split even though he went very slow and gentle till I told him to stop! Ever tried to piss with a split? Bloody kills...so I won't put myself in that predicament again! . As for the women that state on their profiles that they only want 9" and above...well you just move onto the next proflle..at least they are stating up front what they want! Same as some men don't want bigger girls and some men don't like sticks...as long as you know where you stand from the get-go...then noone's time is wasted! That is what I like about the cock size question on profiles...if it is too big then I just go to the next one! If men don't fill that part in...then I am guessing they are small with about 4-5 inches! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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onepurpose2010
13 years ago
Dear Hesione, The ancient art of Tao sorts size, sex and satisfaction into "male size limits" Tao concentrates on keeping it hard and climaxing as needed. As one of my friends often quoted "It is hard to be good... but it must be hard to be good". The three point orgasm, Clit, G and the E zone between the Bladder and the womb... with hard thrusting does the job.One purpose
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sounds to me you are reading couples profiles, they tend to be a bit more specific when it comes to guys appendages..Here was I thinking all the single gals were looking for lurve and that this isn't a sex site? I must have to go re read that forum topic.If I was going to be specific I'd be mentioning ab's as a key factor..but that's just me..Hundreds of profiles here me thinks you are unlucky at finding a batch of the dick lovers honey!good luck
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RHP User
13 years ago
Maybe they want 8" in Rhp measurement scale! So most will qualify anyway.Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
13 years ago
My own experience means big cock equals boring !!! My ex was extremely well endowed (and knew it) but sadly didnt know how to use it........he really did think that all he had to do was lay there and our fun came from us women blowing such a big one or bouncing up and down on it, faking a orgasm... !!! We were suppose to be in awe of it...and worship it accordingly It was nice cock...but so what ??? He never gave oral..cause that required commitment and hard work on his part - why did I stay ? who knows..more fool me but I will say he did have his good points...(DID HE ?) Anyway as Fun loving said...(especially over here in WA where we have in excess of extra men) if your profile and manliness fails to reach a ladies expectation, well we will click onto another profile...our "problem" sorted... A person has every rite to state what they want..if they are after something thats totally or unrealistically unattainable from the majority of people, then well they make have to rethink their selection criteria. Some women like broad shoulders, some big cocks, some like manners, some like cute bums...we all have a atttraction selection...you are best not to focus entirely on cock size....if you come across as a decent sort of bloke (and to be honest I already know that you are .....) thats all that really matters to most ladies.
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RHP User
13 years ago
The one question that is a common one from men Is my dick a good size? As I see a lot of dicks, while at work I can honestly say that either end of the size range is rare. Most guys are average and thats good enough for most women. Its the bits that are attached to the cock that count. think of it this way if all women wanted was a big cock then there would be one vibrator fits all on the shelf at the sex shops. Your cock makes you happy, my cunt makes me happy Its the other bits of a man that warm up a woman, the cock is often optional. However if a man is very small it can be a problem for a woman, so she may have to just help herself to get there. I am sure men have the same thing if boobs are not what they expect when a padded bra comes off, but they get over it and go with the flow.
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lovman8
13 years ago
Most research using thousands of samples come up with an average cock size of around 6 inches. Also slack size has little to do with erect size. Most research also shows that smaller cocks when slzck grow more on erection so erect cocks tend to the average. Now if we did the maths on the rhp average (both what men claim and women require) it would seem to be around 9 inches and thick. So why is it so? a) rhp attracts big dicks and size queens? b) guys on here exagerate? (surely this is unthinkable) c) al the sunshine in australia makes us grow longer and bigger? d) tape measures are not what they used to be? (may have been some confusion with metricifcation) e) cocks have grown with the value of the australian dollar? f) the excessive wanking caused by rhp has induced a growth spurt? or is it just sour grapes on my part because I'm only about six inchesPS I am thick though !
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RHP User
13 years ago
it isnt the cock that matters....its the dick attached Hugs
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RHP User
13 years ago
...seriously, it's not about you. Just look in your "Welcome Kit" that you should have received when you joined....there's a special tape measure in there. | I'm only kidding, ladies...that's only happened once, but it was really scary.
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lil_bit_rusty
13 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' That is what I like about the cock size question on profiles...if it is too big then I just go to the next one! If men don't fill that part in...then I am guessing they are small with about 4-5 inches! .Awww Fun, what's a guy to do then? If we state our true size women automatically deduct an inch or two due to the number of guys who get confused between centimetres and inches (although by the sounds of it many guys are stroking more than just their egos and doing themselves a disservice by stating eight, nine or twenty). .Now you say that if we'd rather woman think of us as more than just a measurement and choose to not publish our size, then we're thought of as smaller than average and afraid to say so. .Ahhh fuggit! I'm just going to do my thing, leave something to the imagination and let people discover it for themselves. Forget about numbers and measurements, I'm looking for women that see me as more than just a meat popsicle and know that I am more than the sum of my parts...... ..... and that some of my parts can equal a big fat, "OHHHHHH!" .As for the topic at hand?OP, I have a theory that a large number of people join RHP (and similar sites) after a relationship breakup (at least originally). People are looking for something new, different (or even the same) and see this as the place to try and live out a few fantasies. I think a number of those reasons would also apply to many couples too.The fact is, why we join and what each of us is looking for is unique to all of us. We can only hope to find others that are seeking similar experiences and we learn to not worry about why people we would like to meet aren't interested in us. If you're deadset keen on a person who has requirements that you don't quite meet, then stick to your strengths and do your best to woo them in another way.Just don't be surprised if that still doesn't work. .Oh, and Fun? You know I was just using what you said to have my own little rant and a laugh? You know that I love your work. .CheersRusty
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
Maybe its time to bring back the toilet roll measure
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RHP User
13 years ago
My partner is averagely endowed but has great technique- I have orgasmed at least twice each time for the last 14 years together- I can actually say that I have never faked an orgasm - never had too. Lately I have not orgasmed with a couple of guys I have been with (due to technique not endowment) but I would never fake an orgasm and let them think they had done a good job when they didn't regardless of size or how much I like them! I can imagine an above average guy with great technique would be something worth seeking- if it exists :) .....same as guys looking for huge boobs and tight boxes- hoping they are not a pretty starfish.A lot can be said for effort and intuition and stamina- size is not so much a factor......hardness and passion is.Cass xxx
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lil_bit_rusty
13 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' Maybe its time to bring back the toilet roll measure .You know the guys here on RHP though Ruby. Pretty soon there'll be a guy sending messages claiming, "Baby, I'm more than a toilet roll..... I'm a kitchen paper roll!" "I'm so handy and clean. Just get me a little wet and I'm stronger, tougher and last longer than all the others." "Just let me soak up that mess for you." .Stop it Ruby. Don't get me started. You know I can go all night with the quickies......... one liners that is. .I love and have missed your work too. Hopefully I'll be back soon (fecking computers)..CheersRusty
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xFunlovingx
13 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_rusty' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' That is what I like about the cock size question on profiles...if it is too big then I just go to the next one! If men don't fill that part in...then I am guessing they are small with about 4-5 inches! . Awww Fun, what's a guy to do then? If we state our true size women automatically deduct an inch or two due to the number of guys who get confused between centimetres and inches (although by the sounds of it many guys are stroking more than just their egos and doing themselves a disservice by stating eight, nine or twenty). . Now you say that if we'd rather woman think of us as more than just a measurement and choose to not publish our size, then we're thought of as smaller than average and afraid to say so. . Ahhh fuggit! I'm just going to do my thing, leave something to the imagination and let people discover it for themselves. Forget about numbers and measurements, I'm looking for women that see me as more than just a meat popsicle and know that I am more than the sum of my parts...... ..... and that some of my parts can equal a big fat, "OHHHHHH!" . As for the topic at hand? OP, I have a theory that a large number of people join RHP (and similar sites) after a relationship breakup (at least originally). People are looking for something new, different (or even the same) and see this as the place to try and live out a few fantasies. I think a number of those reasons would also apply to many couples too. The fact is, why we join and what each of us is looking for is unique to all of us. We can only hope to find others that are seeking similar experiences and we learn to not worry about why people we would like to meet aren't interested in us. If you're deadset keen on a person who has requirements that you don't quite meet, then stick to your strengths and do your best to woo them in another way. Just don't be surprised if that still doesn't work. . Oh, and Fun? You know I was just using what you said to have my own little rant and a laugh? You know that I love your work. . Cheers Rusty WB Rusty....Great to see you back again my old friend! Don't leave for so long next time...As long as you have the manicured pubes.....I am happy! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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ruby_blossum
13 years ago
Get that damn 'puter fixed --- Pronto!
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Tart_Du_Jour
13 years ago
How many men on here have women telling them to post more not less? Not many I would gather! But yes I third (fourth? fifth?) that motion. Hurry and get your bloody computer fixed already.If you don't I might be tempted to sit on you until something happens
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RHP User
13 years ago
See now WAusMan men with big dicks are rarely allowed to enter the back passage, the dirt highway, the ASS... so you see, there is a silver lining in every dark cloud. Quoting 'WantedBabyDaddy' it isnt the cock that matters....its the dick attached Bwahahahaha you are just too funny WBD!
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RHP User
13 years ago
There was this very skinny guy who when erect could not get more then 4" and made a pencil look thick, he knew a girl as large as a whale with a crack so wide it required a map. But when they made love they rocked the world and nothing could be better. Size does not matter when love is involved.But for that casual fuck, a fling for fun, well then size is a thing. As with looks, age, weight, and mind we like to try the best. I know many women that need to see that sling first hand to decide if your worth while. Big is best when a player but is nothing when in love.
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lil_bit_rusty
13 years ago
The way you get me gasping, quivering, pounding, slapping, saying, "you clever lil minx" and spraying over my computer screen............. anyone would think we were having sex instead of telling each other witty one liners. ..Thank you. I'm glad to be back, as I do like a bit of Fun. I've trimmed but you may need to do a pitch inspection to ensure that the playing surface is as you like it.I try and keep it so that it has a bit of something for everyone, a bit of bounce, a bit of swing. I mean, the aim of the game is to not lose your stump and to stay in your crease. Playing wrist spinners all the time can get a bit boring..Okay. I obviously need sleep, I'm using terrible cricket puns..... and it's footy season. .Cheers and Goodnight.Rusty
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lil_bit_rusty
13 years ago
Quoting 'Tart_Du_Jour'If you don't I might be tempted to sit on you until something happens However, Ms. Daily Tart, something would definitely happen. If you could play a bit of Monty Python that'd be nice. ..Sorry for hijacking your thread WAusMan but surely you're okay with the exposure you're getting from it? I also forgot to mention before that though many women may have a size requirement written on their profile, that doesn't mean that they won't relax that or want it all the time. Usually though you'll have to wait for them to approach you or, as I said earlier, impress the hell out of them some other way. .Look at me, I've got a Cheer squad! and I'm just an average bloke, who walks tall and carries a big dic..... tionary. Now if only they didn't live so far away and I could turn attraction into action. .CheersRusty
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RHP User
13 years ago
The majority of men can only dream of having a cock a scant half inch bigger than yours? Maaaaatttttteeee! The majority of women can only dream about having an 8 inch cock as well...let alone the thickness part. . My name is Handmaiden and I like big thick cocks! I have a cervix that is very very far back...yes even my doctor has trouble reaching it for routine pap smears. As my cervix has never been touched by a mans penis, (and I have had some big boys in my time) I occassionally like to feel that full, stretched to the max feeling. You know the one? The feeling that makes fisting for some so attractive, or double penetration. Personally I consider myself lucky that I can accommodate the more well endowed men amongst us as they have great difficulty in finding a woman who can. This does not mean that the smaller, less endowed guys can not satisfy me at all because they do. RHP is sexual fantasy land. Who are you to say what fantasy some of us women should entertain in our heads? If the male half of a couple has a smaller size then naturally the woman will be loking for what she does not have at home. The same as if she has spent the last ten years with a man with a teeny weener. It is all about the fantasy and we can have what ever we like on our shopping lists. . . I didnt think 8 inches was a monster cock myself having spent 20 years with a man who had a nine inch wonder. I guess you live and learn. . Now what is with the measurements? 8 inches? Pulease.....20 cms. Sounds soooo much bigger.
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RHP User
13 years ago
And ya know WAusMan women are notoriously baaaad at measuring distancesand we always misplace our glasses...poor eyesight is often an advantage .
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67'There was this very skinny guy who when erect could not get more then 4" and made a pencil look thick, he knew a girl as large as a whale with a crack so wide it required a map. But when they made love they rocked the world and nothing could be better. Size does not matter when love is involved. But for that casual fuck, a fling for fun, well then size is a thing. As with looks, age, weight, and mind we like to try the best. I know many women that need to see that sling first hand to decide if your worth while. Big is best when a player but is nothing when in love.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I knew girls always take a couple of inches off whatever we guys list as our tackle size....read Forums before way back...old topic...So a year or so ago I met a girl from another site and when we got to the part when we got naked the first time and saw the goods for real.......she said "OH !....thats nice...bigger than I expected".......Thing was I didnt lie when I said 7 and a bit so she took 2 off making 5 and a bit... so when she saw for real it really was actually 7 and a bit .....and better than she had expected...I felt good...she felt good as things progressed further.....both happy. So the thing is not to lie about size...if it matters....that way when girls do take a bit off then they will be happy if and when they find out for real.....unless of course you really are only a 5 in which case lie or keep taking the tablets....did someone mention unrealistic expectations !......And as for girls wanting 9 plus......yep, thats not the norm and if you believe what you read it is'nt that good for the guy either...bigger is'nt always better....unless its a visual thing of course.....Me , being a leg man.....nice legs, short or long always hit the desire button.......Guess we are all different.
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Tart_Du_Jour
13 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_rusty' Quoting 'Tart_Du_Jour'If you don't I might be tempted to sit on you until something happens However, Ms. Daily Tart, something would definitely happen. If you could play a bit of Monty Python that'd be nice. ..Sorry for hijacking your thread WAusMan but surely you're okay with the exposure you're getting from it? I also forgot to mention before that though many women may have a size requirement written on their profile, that doesn't mean that they won't relax that or want it all the time. Usually though you'll have to wait for them to approach you or, as I said earlier, impress the hell out of them some other way. .Look at me, I've got a Cheer squad! and I'm just an average bloke, who walks tall and carries a big dic..... tionary. Now if only they didn't live so far away and I could turn attraction into action. .CheersRusty I'm sorry for continuing the high jack but are you asking me slap you across the face with a wet fish while wearing a John Cleese mask? Well... I suppose if you insist.And I suggest that you are the one in the wrong place considering it's three against one at the moment.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'lovman8'Most research using thousands of samples come up with an average cock size of around 6 inches. Also slack size has little to do with erect size. Most research also shows that smaller cocks when slzck grow more on erection so erect cocks tend to the average. Now if we did the maths on the rhp average (both what men claim and women require) it would seem to be around 9 inches and thick. So why is it so? a) rhp attracts big dicks and size queens? b) guys on here exagerate? (surely this is unthinkable) c) al the sunshine in australia makes us grow longer and bigger? d) tape measures are not what they used to be? (may have been some confusion with metricifcation) e) cocks have grown with the value of the australian dollar? f) the excessive wanking caused by rhp has induced a growth spurt? or is it just sour grapes on my part because I'm only about six inchesPS I am thick though !But hey I am blonde
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RHP User
13 years ago
That's sounds very zen...
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