M66
Unrealistic expectations...
February 24 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
And MookaFantasy is RHP.....most people live here in fantasy land.I mean even the message would you like to meet me or what do you think of me? When there is no photo? I believe in openness, I am here, its my private life......ohh yes I bet there are people in Bunbury who have recognized me and I have recognized them so I smile, and I say so "WHAT"?I get fed up with all this bullshit people do, be real, be natural, be yourself for crying out loud. I don't read women's profiles.......maybe I should,and some are soooo sexy and pretty when I see them on the forum, as you say some have high demands, maybe deep down this women don't want to meet anybody, I don't know, I am not one of them. But also there are photos of males, which dont match the male when you see them on cam. So why??????I have no IDEA. Or maybe yes......FANATSYLANDIts still a great site when you state what you seek and weed out the dickheads......and after a while its easy. Dickheads don't contact you anymore .......oh I have it with religious guys.....most likely Scammer's, they go on my tits as you would say in english. But hey its all part of the fun. Cheers Litonya
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RHP User
12 years ago
No, I never think that. I think it's great to ask for what you want, and if you can get it then even better! If there are older men looking for younger women, then surely the opposite exists too? We're to find great sex, not relationships, right? Having said that, I do believe you not only attract what you ask for, but also what you put out there. If your profile makes you sound like a shallow, picky, delusional freak to others, you are likely to attract the same. The profiles that have me raise an eyebrow are the ones that seem dishonest. Like someone's description not matching their photos, as the OP mentioned.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Personally..... I say..... who says those type of expectations are really that unrealistic?If thats what they claim to want..... thats where they have set their standards.In some respects sites like this are a bit like a human shopping catalogue.As youve said.... youve checked that catalogue.Sure.... a lot of the product on offered is Homebrand... trying top pass itself of as premium product..... but in any group of people there will be those who are more or less athletic, more or less attractive, more or less intelligent, etc.... whatever.Life in that respect, is not a level playing field.... so our individual role is to make the the best of what you have, and know what you want.How that works out for you is a case of attitude.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
I find it attractive when people know exactly what they want and aren't afraid to go for it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ms.D I think that is very simplistic,many people construct profiles that are disingenuous at best.It may appear here that those that market themselves in a particular way are achieving success,but when someone actually meets them,what then? If I measured my self esteem by the ''success'' I have here,I would just crawl into a very dark cupboard.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sometimes it looks all good..reviews are raving and you go watch it only to realise that's two hours of your life you will never get back ?.. Descendents anyone??? Profiles can be the same, and like you have already mentioned mooka, this place can give people a heightens sense of ones own "awesomeness" be it real or totally delusional. Still good luck to those that it works..your mad not to cam up first to ensure what you read is what you get and for others it's just a case of dipping ones wick and who cares about any substance. Even bloody George Clooney couldn't save that film!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
its the pics from 1996 that get me! you gota show yourself at some point i just dont get that?
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RHP User
12 years ago
One bloke's "I am looking for" column read like the Ten Commandments with comments like, "She will look after herself and her appearance" , or, " She will not be covered in tattoos" and while he as quite demanding in what he was looking for, his profile was very thin on the ground as to what he had to offer.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' Ms.D I think that is very simplistic,many people construct profiles that are disingenuous at best.It may appear here that those that market themselves in a particular way are achieving success,but when someone actually meets them,what then? If I measured my self esteem by the ''success'' I have here,I would just crawl into a very dark cupboard. I didn't express myself very clearly there. I was talking about profiles with demands that some others may perceive as delusional, not the dishonest ones. Those are ones I shake my head at. And about my comment that you receive what you put out there: I do believe that if you come across as shallow as a puddle, then that's what you'll get back. I had not meant it in a sense that people that put good things out there will automatically attract good things in return. I have read many comments from men an women here stating the opposite. So I'll take that one back if I may.
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playfulminx
12 years ago
I have no problem with people stating exactly what they want as long as they understand that they might not be what the other party wants lolIn all honesty, they're the ones missing out for sure, but on the other hand, if you're deluged with messages each day, it doesn't hurt to be ultra picky just to reduce the number of people messaging I guess :|I read one guy saying he was mainly into busty women so I didn't bother messaging.
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
I would prefer to read a profile where a guy says what kind of girl he likes than a profile that wants "anyone" "not fussy" "you"! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
this is like prison sex, in that when a woman walks into a prison she goes from a 2 to a 15 plus. there you are surrounded by men who just want to fuck your brains out. Your ego gets blow up, the power surge would put out the lights of the city A woman can get a false sense of who she is, if a woman is that hot offline then men would be sticking it to her as she bent over the frozen section at wollies. the not so attractive become the in demand girl , the forums are a way for women to attract attention to themselves. Some write false profiles because they believe thier own press as Meeka said, and some have magic mirrors. even offline people lack insight as to who they really are on here you can be as ugly as a hat full of arseholes in side and out and some guy will feed you his cock so your right, women punch waaaaaaaaaaaaaay above their weight, including me I get to have nice hot young men between my thighs, what more could an old girl like me ask for ...yeahhh but If I wanted a relationship this is sooooooooooo the wrong tree to be barking under the nice guys the old guys, well they never get a look in here as the girls often kid themselves. is all they want is a nice guy but get distracted by all the eye candy that is happy to come service our needs. To be honest many women do not really want to meet men offline, as that would shatter the illusion of the lovely princess in cyber land and the handsome prince with the big cock that adores them from afair.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ms.D,the reason I keep on saying that, is because no other women are.So the question is,is it just me or are there other women whose experience is similar here? The common perception is that ALL women are inundated and spoilt for choice,men are the only ones not getting any responses.Unless I am one in 2,000 women the odds are, that there are other women for whom the same is true. The irony for me is that there are some men here who have contacted me on another site saying that they noticed my profile here...go figure.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I frequently get messages from men saying I'm delusional, in the wrong place, kidding myself etc. My profile apparently makes them laugh and wonder who the fuck I think I am. But their message makes me laugh too, so at least we've given each other a good chuckle ;) But seriously, there's room in the world for everyone, so why on earth wouldn't we all stay true to ourselves and what we want to bring into our lives, whatever that may be? Don't be so quick to assume that people are missing out on something by being specific, or even picky. My profile is off putting to a lot of people ... and that's deliberate. It saves them and me from wasting time and effort. I describe a particular type of man in my profile. Lucky for me I met him here once, and as gorgeous and smart and masculine and big-hearted as he was, I was fortunate enough that he was attracted to me, just as I am. And more recently I've met the nicest man here. Just a lovely, lovely human being who has become a great friend and someone I'm thrilled to have in my life, without any expectations. So apparently being particular, and just a little bit patient, pays off ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lilmisschuckles'I frequently get messages from men saying I'm delusional, in the wrong place, kidding myself etc. My profile apparently makes them laugh and wonder who the fuck I think I am. But their message makes me laugh too, so at least we've given each other a good chuckle ;) But seriously, there's room in the world for everyone, so why on earth wouldn't we all stay true to ourselves and what we want to bring into our lives, whatever that may be? Don't be so quick to assume that people are missing out on something by being specific, or even picky. My profile is off putting to a lot of people ... and that's deliberate. It saves them and me from wasting time and effort. I describe a particular type of man in my profile. Lucky for me I met him here once, and as gorgeous and smart and masculine and big-hearted as he was, I was fortunate enough that he was attracted to me, just as I am. And more recently I've met the nicest man here. Just a lovely, lovely human being who has become a great friend and someone I'm thrilled to have in my life, without any expectations. So apparently being particular, and just a little bit patient, pays off ;) I just peeked at your profile and whilst you do talk in generic terms about your ideal mate, you don't go into specifics, in fact I didn't see anything critical or specific at all. Your preferred age group is quite normal for here given your own age. Give me five minutes and I could probably find half a dozen profiles nearly identical to yours. What I was talking about was those that state, often in capitals, exactly what they want, down to certain sizes, or specifies a very specific age group. As we have all said here, there is nothing wrong with knowing what you want, what I and others who have agreed with me are saying is that some have very unrealistic opinions of themsevles and then wonder why they are not meeting their dream/fantasy partner (of course then some come on here and create a thread whinging about it too lol).
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' this is like prison sex, in that when a woman walks into a prison she goes from a 2 to a 15 plus. there you are surrounded by men who just want to fuck your brains out. Your ego gets blow up, the power surge would put out the lights of the city A woman can get a false sense of who she is, if a woman is that hot offline then men would be sticking it to her as she bent over the frozen section at wollies. the not so attractive become the in demand girl , the forums are a way for women to attract attention to themselves. Some write false profiles because they believe thier own press as Meeka said, and some have magic mirrors. even offline people lack insight as to who they really are on here you can be as ugly as a hat full of arseholes in side and out and some guy will feed you his cock so your right, women punch waaaaaaaaaaaaaay above their weight, including me I get to have nice hot young men between my thighs, what more could an old girl like me ask for ...yeahhh but If I wanted a relationship this is sooooooooooo the wrong tree to be barking under the nice guys the old guys, well they never get a look in here as the girls often kid themselves. is all they want is a nice guy but get distracted by all the eye candy that is happy to come service our needs. To be honest many women do not really want to meet men offline, as that would shatter the illusion of the lovely princess in cyber land and the handsome prince with the big cock that adores them from afair. Oh TR I am so glad you wrote that, what you said is a perfect example of what I was lamely trying to express. All you have to do is venture into the chatroom. Some woman, and lets be honest, is just not attractive flops out her saggy boobs and suddenly she is the most desirable, the sexiest woman in history. Whereas in real like, 99% of the guys feeding her that crap would cross the road to avoid her in real life. Unfortunately some women here feed of the crap some guys feed them and start to believe in their own minds that all men think that of them all the time!
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