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June 10 2015

I know I am one of a small minority in the forums... . But I am one who pays for the privilege to view dick pics considering I'm not here to meet anyone or even chat really. :-P . It was such a surprise to me to come into the forums and hear so many objections to a part of the body I love to look at. To hear the judgements. It might not be a sex site but it is based on sex, that is something we all have an interest in. . I appreciate men's and women's bodies which people must have noticed in my posts and threads over the years. . I already understand many people feel diifferently, this is nothing but me expressing my opinion on all beautiful bodies against popular opinion. . Peachy, get one in ya

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I would be happy to show u are few dick pics for free 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    the general consensus that I'm aware of isn't that guys have dick pics.... It's the the fact that that's all they display. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I only think when you look at the profile first its nicer to just see one face first......the penis is a beautiful magical wand which I as a women love and I like looking at them too, fascinates me each time how big and stand up he gets. However I prefer to see it on the second photo or in the flesh. As you say Peachy we are here for sex enjoyment and openness, and that's why I am still on here even at the moment I have found a man after my heart and spirit. And this would not have been possible without RHP on my part and the open conversations we had which at the beginning revolved more about sex then anything else. We both have had the privilege to meet on here because of sex which was the first contact SEX and then the more in depth knowing of each other.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have been a guest for years so don't see them anymore however a tastful artistic shot of a dick can be beautiful. I just don't like the ugly shots... Dirty back grounds or skid marked undies or the dick is a funny colour. Those shots can be a bit gross and put me right off. The only thing that really used to annoy me was a bloke that just had all dick pics an nothing else. Like he was a piece of meat and that is all he thought was required for a woman to meet up with him.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You only a chance to make oneWhen a woman first finds a guy attractive in real life, they are not usually buck naked swinging thier dick around in front of a camera. ( possibly my university days, but that's about it) Nope it s face and body combination that does it, followed by conversation Some guys think because this is a more adult site they can skip the courtship phase. Nope, still have to work just as hard ( pun intended) guys, so face pic first, just like in real life, then convince her with words of your charming personalityKhal

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love dick pics, but just not as public profile pics? PGs yes, Ill perve on them there, but I like to see a smiling face when I look at a profile, or nice body shots. A profile which only has a collection of penile views does nothing for me. I feel like being a naughty schoolgirl and drawing a little face on them

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I believe in the body beautiful, that each and every one of us is beautiful. That the naked human form is a thing of beauty. We all have the right to feel beautiful. This does not mean I am attracted to all, physical attraction is a private and complicated thing. It is based on a personal assessment and a host of contributing factors. The belief in beauty is a mind set, a principle, an attitude, and I will never base beauty on what I find personally attractive, I am of to small a mind to allow such trivial limitation. Beauty is an inherent right, to take that away from someone based on your own personal assessment of attractiveness is a cruel act, the motivation for doing so puzzled me for a long time. I have never had a problem with the penis pics, I do not find them all attractive, but they are all beautiful. I am glad that sites like RHP allow us all to display our beauty in its endless forms and ways. I would not be here if it did not allow intimate photos (I am a guest it is not the photos, it is the freedom that attracts me to RHP) I agree OP that if one were to read the forums and consider it to be a accurate representation of the general RHP population, one would wonder why on earth does RHP even allow such shots. We in the forums represent but the smallest minority of RHP members, we are not a random selection of RHP members, and we should never consider our selves as a representational example of what it is to be an RHP member. The cock shot (cant use the word penis, I have a cock) in the forum is not about the cock shot, it is a forum political hot potato, it is used to sway opinion, and... well... it is political. There are many women, and men, that will actually require the cock shot for proceeding to progress. To exclude the cock shot from the main profile image means you exclude it from the search results and the many that are looking for it will not see it. It is worth while putting up the cock shot as the main image, if you are looking for someone that likes cock For those that insist that it be kept private, or only if cock conforms to your standard, or remain off the main profile image should consider every individuals right to equally advertise. You know the nature of this site, it is you that has selected to look, there are many other sites that cater to the needs of those that find it unpalatable. If the mood changes, put up your smile. Personal those that insist on calling ugly those who posses a cock that does not meet a "personal" assessment of attractiveness should remember, there is a real and beautiful human attached. They should also consider that such superficial assessment of the whole, based on but a part, betrays their fundamental attraction and importance of the cock. The cock is an important part of a man both psychologically and physically, he has a right to be proud to possess one, and here in RHP a right to proudly display it. Those who find this untrue should consider moving to a site with more conservative attitudes. Most of history has accepted the image of the cock as an item of beauty, and sexuality. An ancient vagary most apt. "Cum cunno mihi mentula est vocanda."

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Many cock shots are awful to me because of highly unflattering colours, angles or overall presentation. And even if they are well done, I just don't like anyone shoving a cock in my face without asking first, no matter where I am (whether in cyberspace or at an orgy). I don't really understand what's surprising about that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    For the best cock shots. Place penis above a sink (preferably one with hair in it), use harsh white lighting combined with flash and place penis next to a shoe.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Talking to a couple of lovely ladies and they say I don't want to see another cock shot, I want see his face. And a lot of the sexy girls post face shot, I want see beautiful pussy with or without yummy underwear. Venus Mars Don't attack me girls for my lighthearted shallow response. A picture of any part of the female anatomy is bliss Xxx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Like you I have been amazed at the number of women expressing their distaste for cock shots. Ultimately this is a sex site and to enjoy sexual pleasure the genitals is where we must go. I am grateful to the women who have owned up to enjoying cock shots, makes me feel better about having one! However I do appreciate the need to be subtle with them and to make some attempt at being creative.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Seems to me its not just about the cock photo itself..... .... but the owners obsession with it being all that is required and their attitude where others should be as impressed by it as they are. So. Good luck with that.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    And that photo..... too funny..... the "lengths" some guys go to.... to try and impress.... through misrepresentation.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Cock shots get people laid. They are not trying to win a Mr man comp or impress. Its about attracting the people that they are interested in. RHP is not one big pissing competition, its an Adult dating site. Its primary purpose to to connect people. If you do not like the cock shot, then do not look or try another site. The anti cock shot mentality in RHP seems to be limited to forum posters. If others found it offensive they would leave RHP, RHP survey the customers, they would stop the cock shot if it effected business.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Call me crazy, but I need more than just a cock shot to turn me on. A guy can make me cum equally as hard from his hands or his mouth, but seeing pics of only a hand or a mouth without anything else, would leave me as cold. What makes a cock (hand/mouth) shot delightful is what it's attached to :) If I have a pic of the owner's face and/or body as well, I get a sense of the whole package and that's what turns me on. Especially if the pics are accompanied by an enticing message or great profile. Even reading a member's forum comments, where the only pic they have is a cock shot, is enough to give me a sense of their personality and turn my interest in their pic from 'meh' to 'mmmm' :). So cock shots in isolation - no thanks. Cock shots accompanied by other things - yes please ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    ... then there are the dick pics, where the appendage in question is just plain ugly because of the angle/lighting/whatever. Nothing going to save those, and those dicks should go on strike until their owners take a better picture :)

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Lol @ blind.... Ironic name given you missed the point by choosing not to see it, in favour of your view and not that of the target audience of the cocks. But. Oh well :-)

  • tylannister

    tylannister

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Slickz'...and place penis next to a shoe. Duh. You gotta have something for scale... Protip: Feel free to use a kid's shoe to exaggerate your size, yo.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Thank you Litonya for your gorgeous, graciousness. It's great to hear how you are going. xx . Yes, some pics are gross Meeka, that would be a time saver and a no for me. I'd love to know how guys who only have dick pics went on RHP. . Thanks Koko, I'm sorry, I'm still smiling at the idea of drawing little faces. :-D . Hmm Meander, imagine if 3D view comes in, and your post becomes a reality. :-P It's just a part of the body that a man (woman if I was talking vagina) can put on display. . Yes Astrild, anything can be ugly in the wrong light! . Looking outside the box, in respect, it would be awesome if RHP could sort it so people could choose to restrict their shots if that's their urge. Because guests can't see dick pics that simple move would make sense if that's one of the things stopping a woman from joining up...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Welcome to the forums Ready. :-D . And that they use it as their main pic Stir? . I think Telake, and this is part of what I'm driving at, is that here are different approaches for different women and men depending on what they are trying to get from the site. Part of it based on a woman's post the other day who loudly and proudly proclaimed in the forums that she searches for men using main profile, cock pics. And that's what I used to do, so I know it happens and hisself and I found men that way hehehe. That approach didn't work any worse or any better than any other for us. ;-) . Lol Slickz, I think Ty trumped your shoe. :-D . Love your posts Philthy and Amilucky. Nice pics too! . Oh DG, I am part of the audience, if not a participating one on RHP. . Spot on for me Blindman, well made points that I agree with. I think you might know that RHP used to have, 'Yes Dating' and that worked well for ages. We'd get people in this side from over there who'd be agog with excitement at the difference of this side. Now it has been vanillarised over time, the tamer side doesn't exist at all anymore. And with the inclusion of facebook, there is another level of restrictions on pics. Some of my pics are restricted but I can't tell that till I view them when I'm logged out. One of my pics that does give me the restricted pic warning message every time I sign in shows absolutely no intimate details or kinks. I'm wearing more then you'd see on the beach. There are plenty of objections to those restrictions in the forums and objections to certain kinks being excluded, I honestly think the furor over dick pics is only serving to head us into an ever tamer site. . Hugs, Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have no problem with dicks. And this is not about shaming dicks. It's about the pics of those dicks. A good cock shot can totally be sexy and make you want to jump said cock. A bad one just makes me - and obviously many other women - go ''NOPE''. I can't see naughty pics at the moment, but I've been a paying member for long periods and so I am familiar with the general quality of the cock shots out there. And sorry to say, they're pretty bad. And they often make what I'm sure are perfectly lovely cocks in real life look like something out of a horror movie. If more guys put just a little bit of effort into their cock shots and there weren't so many 'logs' or cocks with feet or slimy looking worms out there, then I'd say we'd have much less complaining about dick pics and probably more women paying up so they could see them. Once again guys, go look at the Critiquing Your Dick Pics with Love tumblr. She is bloody awesome. There is absolutely no body / cock shaming, it is purely about the quality of the photos. Many good tips that will take your cock shots from scary 'what the hell is that thing' territory, to ''HELLO COME TO MUMMA'' territory...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'MrsPeachyPear' Hmm Meander, imagine if 3D view comes in, and your post becomes a reality. :-P It's just a part of the body that a man (woman if I was talking vagina) can put on display. Vulva? A vagina might be tricky to see without a speculum and a torch.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' I have no problem with dicks. And this is not about shaming dicks. It's about the pics of those dicks. A good cock shot can totally be sexy and make you want to jump said cock. A bad one just makes me - and obviously many other women - go ''NOPE''. And it would be great if everyone understood that merely disliking cock shots and being offended by them are two separate things.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'MrsPeachyPear' Hmm Meander, imagine if 3D view comes in, and your post becomes a reality. :-P It's just a part of the body that a man (woman if I was talking vagina) can put on display. Vulva? A vagina might be tricky to see without a speculum and a torch. Let's speculate Meander... Have you ever seen "The Great Wall of Vagina"? I've done a thread on it in the past. . A copy and paste from Meander's "Ten Commandments" thread . Don't shove your cock in my face. Yes, I'm sure it is the most amazing thing since sliced bread, and I promise I’ll fall to my knees in awe when I see it in the flesh. In 2D they all look the same to me though. And if you really think your cock is your best feature, that doesn’t say much for the rest of you, now does it? Some women love cock shots, but to be safe keep them in your private gallery, until you know the woman you’re contacting wants to see them. . This doesn't say anything about the quality of the shot. It's all about how 'you' feel, think, judge.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I was merely commenting on the anatomical part of your comment, not passing judgment. The "Great wall of Vagina" was "A sculpture made from plaster casts of 400 women's vulvas", not vaginas, according to the official website, despite the name. You can't actually a woman's vagina from the outside, unless she has some sort of prolapse.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It must be your thread I remember Luck_Dragon which was based on the "Critiquing Your Dick Pics with Love tumblr". Awesome idea, the guys get to put themselves forward *cough* and be treated in a way that repects their cock and gived them a big head worthy of taking a shot of! :-D <3 . Selfishly, because I don't contact men, my chances of seeing private galleries is near nil. Saying that, I have seen quite a few of our forum regulars and straight from the horses mouth, their response to my comments is usually surprise because that's not what they usually hear. . Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' I was merely commenting on the anatomical part of your comment, not passing judgment. The "Great wall of Vagina" was "A sculpture made from plaster casts of 400 women's vulvas", not vaginas, according to the official website, despite the name. You can't actually a woman's vagina from the outside, unless she has some sort of prolapse. It is okay Meander, I am perfectly well aware both of where where the speculum goes and that "The Wall of Vagina" is actually a wall of vulvas (having done a topic on it). . I was trying to point out the bigger picture.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/The-Great-Wall-of-Vagina-40613 . Like nothing I've ever had the privilege of seeing before... The Great Wall of Vagina (google it :-)) There you will see panel after panel displaying a total of 400 plaster casts of vulvas from different women. There's a write up explaming what it's all about. Essentially the sculpture by McCartley was started with the goal of combating the exponential rise of cosmetic labia surgeries. I think it's an awesome effort, I loved it... What do you think?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' I have no problem with dicks. And this is not about shaming dicks. It's about the pics of those dicks. A good cock shot can totally be sexy and make you want to jump said cock. A bad one just makes me - and obviously many other women - go ''NOPE''. And it would be great if everyone understood that merely disliking cock shots and being offended by them are two separate things. I am talking about an overall attitude I see throughout the forums. . Dick pics are NOT PC. . Sorry to spam my own thread people, hopefully I'm back on track now.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'll leave you to it x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Lol @ blind.... Ironic name given you missed the point by choosing not to see it, in favour of your view and not that of the target audience of the cocks. But. Oh well :-) Come on DG you can do better than that. (Not the hilarious incorporation of my handle) but in putting in the effort to read what is writtenQuote Blindman: "Its about attracting the people that they are interested in."When targeting an audience we specifically provide material that will attract those we wish. It is well understood that the cook shot is not of universal appeal. The attracted individual may only be attracted every blue moon, or a regular cock lover. We have no concern for those that do not like the cock shot, they are irrelevant to the argument. As much as you are with what men think of your profile image, irrelevant.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm sorry I didn't hear more from you on the topic Meander.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'MrsPeachyPear' Looking outside the box, in respect, it would be awesome if RHP could sort it so people could choose to restrict their shots if that's their urge. Because guests can't see dick pics that simple move would make sense if that's one of the things stopping a woman from joining up... Thank you for your posts, would that I could format the site to be more considerate of what different parts of the customer base are interested in. And have a broader help section to explain parts of RHP that aren't mentioned anywhere. . Hugs, Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think some cocks are especially handsome / pretty. Don't you think? And some are fierce mongrels. I like how a cock bobs in time with their heart beat when a erect. Hmmmm oooh yeah bebe! Come to Mama!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    There are all sorts Meeka, the body language that goes along too. How he holds/handles his cock, poses. . And yes heartbeat mmm, I like to look and make 'em say please. From a few mms away... ;-* . Make 'em swell till they're fit to burst. All shiny, and full, ripe with promise. :-P . Mmmm, Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Litonya thats Awesome gorgeous Lady 😊 Well said mrs PP I think i might change my profile pic to a cock shot never done that yet . I will let you know how i go 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Stalky always used to say it got him way more views, lol. I already had a closer look at your's, and Blindman's before he changed it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It was a double act MrsPeachyPearl two cocks in one shot. Felt a little strange having that one up as it was way different from what what is normal around here. Was needing what it brings, something to fix me up when feeling a little blue.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Blindman67' Quote Blindman: "Its about attracting the people that they are interested in."When targeting an audience we specifically provide material that will attract those we wish. It is well understood that the cook shot is not of universal appeal. The attracted individual may only be attracted every blue moon, or a regular cock lover. Its fine to state that people select photos to target those they're interested in..... but heres where you're missing the point..... You've said many times in here that RHP is a numbers game. So start with a target audience..... and in here the audience of genuine women is much smaller than men. Its fine to say that using a cock shot attracts the target audience of who likes cock shots. Im sure it does...... and as we've learned form comments by the women in here, we shall refer to them as the few. But its clear..... due to the sheer number of "cock shot" topics....... and the extensive responses to them..... that most people in here prefer NOT to see them.... we can call them... the many (The fact that the owners of such profiles frequently have shitty attitudes is another compounding factor) So the target audience, which is very small to begin with.... becomes exponentially smaller when alienated by a cock shot. And as you stated.....peoples wants, tastes and likes.... can change..... just as you stated (highlighted).... reducing the audience further. Unnecessary self sabotaging of those numbers by alienating your target potential audience just doesn't make statistical, or logical sense. Every guy has a penis. Not every guy will get to use it ..... if his communication skills are lacking..... regardless of how he waves it about and acts like a dick. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I do not know if it is the same person but there were three great documentaries made a few years back with casts of the breasts, the vagina and the penis. It was designed in mind to show though we are all human how different we are underneath our clothing. Also as there are so many out there with body issues it was to help them see how fine they truly are. I love casts of pregnant women, very beautiful (not fetish wise )

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Do we need more vulva pics to even things up? Lol. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    A: Women are half the target market.B: I only need one sell at a time so the numbers do not need to be high. I am over trying to break weekly records of the number of people I can fuck. I am happy at a steady rate.C: I am a swinger, this means that the average woman, with the average sexual expectations, experiences do not interest me. The cock shot is very helpful in removing the ones that are not my thing. I am here to find sex, not to get married. Women that love cocks and more so love my cock are what my cock and I want. Vanilla does not do it for me any more. D: Not all cocks are the same. I have a nice cock, not every ones cup of tea, but it is above average size and looks. It attracts by being different. I do my best to present it well. Its not just a quick snap in the bathroom.E: I am a guest, I can not contact anyone and must rely on attracting people to contact me.The cock shot works so well that I dont need a paid membership.F: All those not liking cock shots are of no interest to me.G: I have 15 years experience running my own advertising business, I know how to play the game. I know what I am selling, and how to sell it. I can get sex any day of the week, I can afford to be selective. H: I love cock as well, I know what makes a cock attractive, I am there for ahead of the average guy.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    10 years ago

    when I am feeling horny and want to see some still porn - cock shots nom nom nom - especially if you can see some pre-cum or even a pic of a cock shot. Each too their own, I just know I am on a sex site and that is all it is for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I can't believe how many hits 'documentary, plaster cast, breasts, vagina, penis' brings up..I am currently looking at a wall of plaster casts of torsos and genitals of by Jamie Mccartney, called The Spice of Life. This led directly to The Great Wall of Vagina, for the artist..The write up talks about how the artist realised how the medium of casting can be used to change people's body dysmorphia. Interesting....But I can't find what you were talking about... :-(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I feel this site is about sexual desires. Some people may have a different point of view.. But when there is interest most of the time it's due to sexual attraction. Dick pics are one of them actually a big part of a girls attraction. When a girl can play all along I feel liberated and great full that the girl is able to share the same enjoyment as what I do...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Have done some searching myself and cannot find them either. It may have been 'The Perfect Vagina' by Jamie McCartney as he looks familiar. There is also a film called 'Plaster Caster' by Cynthia Albritton

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'inspirit' when I am feeling horny and want to see some still porn - cock shots nom nom nom - especially if you can see some pre-cum or even a pic of a cock shot. Each too their own, I just know I am on a sex site and that is all it is for me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    ... there are the cock shots that your former lover (who's now living ~3000kms away) sends you just to remind you what you're missing out on *sigh*.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Astrild' ... there are the cock shots that your former lover (who's now living ~3000kms away) sends you just to remind you what you're missing out on *sigh*. Unless you like that form of torture

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    It was a form of torture - he's good at that lol. But it was also a not-so-subtle hint for me to hurry up and book my flights already for a visit that we've been talking about for a few weeks... he made the last trip, so now it's my turn :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Stop the intellectual masturbation and leave the shelter of the forums for a second, there are plenty of women here who don't give much of a damn for personality as long as the guy has a nice looking cock they can ravage and kick to the curb. More often than not they like a bit of size with that. No right, no wrong and no high moral ground, just the way it is, part of the humans infinite variety.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Quoting 'Astrild' It was a form of torture - he's good at that lol. But it was also a not-so-subtle hint for me to hurry up and book my flights already for a visit that we've been talking about for a few weeks... he made the last trip, so now it's my turn :) It sounds like you'd have a great time! You lucky woman Astrild

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Gypsy, I booked the tickets first thing yesterday morning :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    no pretty pictures for me, at least on here, but I think this site is predominantly a sex hook up site, so of course we show our private bits, happy to show mine to anyone who'll look haha and don't mind a perv in return, bring it on

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My headline photograph has to be retaken. I am not satisfied with the composition. But it is a cock shot but not as in your face some of the very crude headline cock shots on this site. The photograph gives a hint of my cock with a naked body, my physique and a cup of coffee. A 'morning after' photo. If you would rather see a cock shot and my face you will need to convince me to give you access to my private photographs. (a morning after photo). I hate vulva photographs. I mean, I love vulvas but they photograph very badly. I am a tit man. I prefer the breasts to be photographed with some thoughtful light and shade - and modest in size.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I forgot to mention. This cock needs a lot more friendship! It might be able to help with breasts and vulvas.

  • yankmychain56

    yankmychain56

    9 years ago

    I have had a really bad habit (it seems), of 'in your face' cock shots, that i guess some people don't like, while others salivate. i guess beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.