RHP

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Vaginal hygiene

October 06 2012

Basically, smelly pussy, how do you broach the subject? I've only experienced it once (years ago) and hopefully never will again. This particular woman had a high standard of personal hygiene and was well groomed, had no infections... So it was a bit baffling. When I told her I wouldn't have sex with her or go down on her untill the situation was resolved, she flew off the deep end and still hates me. Is there a better way to approach this, or did she over react? Also, I'm wondering if it may be a genetic related thing... Like the smell of a mans sweat being appealing to some women and not to others... Any thoughts?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    If I guy I was with ( happened once also ) was sweaty or stinky , I'd say , " I'd love to feel your body against mine under a shower " ......or swim, or bath etc I just don't think you can tell a woman her pussy smells bad and expect it to go well :) I do think , we are attracted to certain smells though , and what stinks to you, smells divine to some , pheromones and all that ! Smell is a biggie for me , the guy has got to smell good , for me to want to get him naked !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    it has probably got something to do with the fact that you literally don't have the right chemistry,and are a poor DNA match. Smell and taste are important parst of attraction,if it happens to you with another woman I suggest that demanding the situation be remedied would receive a similar reaction.Think of another reason for not seeing her again,sometimes honesty is not necessarilythe best policy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The smell is also dependent upon your diet, ie foods such as coffee, asparagus, garlic, and a number of spices can affect your body's natural odour and intensify the odour down there. I can understand that she would have been affronted as not many people would have the nerve to say something like that to someone upfront! Like Delicious - I would have suggested a shower instead :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ... cinnamon toast ;-) As others have said, diet can play a major part. I'm practically vegan but I believe meat and other "heavy" foods can leave a woman a bit smelly :-(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I have come across the occasional male who has been smelly and cut oral short. I have never said to them they smell or made any comments as such, and I agree, mention of a shower and making it something erotic really works well. But not always available if your not in a house/hotel room! Something I have done with men I like but have that odur, yes diet and the job can play a part, especially men who have a job like a diesel mechanic or such, the smell is just there, its not their fault... You can use something like a scented edible oil, I have used warming massage oils that are edible, quite sticky and not really anything you could really do a massage with!!! but the smell of something edible can lessen or hide the odur smell. For women, using edible things around/in the vagina it can give thrush due to changing the ph level of her body. Maybe just some sort of scented oil on the thighs and hips near the area? Also, thrush could have been the problem, thrush comes in many forms, some have odur, some have discharge, some have both and the severity varies as well. Good luck next time if you come across it ever again :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Some women still use soap and over clean the good bits this kills a lot of the good bacteria and there is an imbalance in Ph etc. hence the smell its not always because a woman is unclean either. One should never use soap ,its not good for you at all. Get a good body wash instead with no chemicals etc.   If a person broaches the subject might be good to get the woman to dip a finger in her own twat and then taste it herself or like others say your not a chemical match smell is the key to chemistry and its not even something we are aware of most of the time.   I had to tell a guy once to go to the dentist as he had a hole in the back tooth, and I just could not even kiss him his breath was terrible. Lots of people have bad breath as well , try this test lick your wrist and smell before you go on a date to test if your breath is ok, that’s the best way to test. cheers TR the dick whisperer

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    12 years ago

    Put your hand up if you just licked your wrist after reading Tuscans post-lol Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Presuming a bit of familiarity, I have used the "let's go have a HOT shower" move more than once. Bearing in mind that I am very sensitive to bad smells, I keep a bottle of surgical scrub in the shower for washing my own bits, always make a point of saying what I'm using and why, always get's the lightbulb going and next thing you know, everyone smells great and you're off to the races. At least with this method, you minimise the risk of offending a more sensitive partner. Also works well as an intermission between sessions to freshen up. :D   Suppose it's a touchy subject for those insecure about themselves so always tread carefully!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Suppose it's a touchy subject for those insecure about themselves so always tread carefully   With that kind of attitude, how do manage to get laid ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There's not much chance I'm putting surgical scrub on my bits anytime soon!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris'If I guy I was with ( happened once also ) was sweaty or stinky , I'd say , " I'd love to feel your body against mine under a shower " ......or swim, or bath etc I just don't think you can tell a woman her pussy smells bad and expect it to go well :) I do think , we are attracted to certain smells though , and what stinks to you, smells divine to some , pheromones and all that ! Smell is a biggie for me , the guy has got to smell good , for me to want to get him naked ! This is an awesome way to not only approach the topic, but a way to make it fun for both parties...great work

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Occassionally a woman can have an abnormal amount of naturally occurring harmful bacterial growth occurring. This has nothing to do with her personal hygiene but can result from a condition known as Bacterial Vaginosis. Very little is known about the cause of BV however it can result from a number of reasons including (but not limited to): * keeping a tampon in for too long * using fem wipes (and other so called specific cleansing products) * douching * having sex with new or multiple partners   In this case it is easy a handful of medication (5 tablets I think) and 48-72 hours later youre all good to go.   This has happened to me recently and my FWB told me in a simple, straight forward and honest manner. No accusations, just a statement of facts. I was happy that he had told me as I hadnt noticed much of a change in myself but as he spends more time in that area of my body than I do he noticed a change in my aroma before I did. A quick trip to the doctor and 72 hours later I was back to normal. No big deal.   Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'luvsilver' Put your hand up if you just licked your wrist after reading Tuscans post-lol Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MsVelvetblue' Suppose it's a touchy subject for those insecure about themselves so always tread carefully   With that kind of attitude, how do manage to get laid ? How very petty of you and completely irrelevant MsVelvet. Thank you for sharing.   Not that my statement requires either clarification or justification, but for those with limited comprehension... Brutal honesty would not be the best policy in this instance. Obviously armpits,crotches, etc... have the perfect combination of heat, moisture, and organic matter to breed bacteria. Not everyone knows this, not everyone is aware that their odors are offensive (kind of like forum trolling really) and would not react well at all to being told straight up that the stink. That may work for someone you are extremely familiar with, but I for one, prefer to guide rather than be blunt and insensitve when it comes to subjects that may hurt a partner's feelings.   While there are of course many contributing factors to anyone's various odors, diet, biochemistry, homone levels, a good anti-bacterial wash works wonders. I use mine in the shower, have been for a long time, nothing has fallen off! :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    How very petty of you and completely irrelevant MsVelvet. Thank you for sharing   And your comment was ?????     nothing has fallen off! .. ....pity       Excellent post Focus...

  • Hanna_ybbn

    Hanna_ybbn

    12 years ago

    ☝ Hanna x

  • Hanna_ybbn

    Hanna_ybbn

    12 years ago

    Apparently I have a little hand lolxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Maybe both can have a good shower or relax in the tub before that? How about vaginal deo? Does this work??