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Vaginal vs clitoral stimulation
February 06 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
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Missb4u
11 years ago
is a must to achieve those leg shaking total exhaustion orgasms...pretty rare to get there though. As you said clitoral stimulation is great and certainly enjoyable but I always come away feeling unsatisfied and as if it was lacking. Oral is pointless to me if there is no penetration. fingers or a dildo needed. Anyone that just wants to lick and rub your clit is not doing oral right in my book. I want to be devoured and feasted upon.
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RHP User
11 years ago
............by any means, if it ends in an orgasm, is not to be sneezed at. I am a fairly recent convert to anal sex and have amazing orgasms this way. Do whatever you feel is right at the time, I say.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Normally I get asked "where do you get off" not how !!!! :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I don't want no licking McDonalds ice-cream..that's cheap. :( Like Ms.B I feel unsatisfied if I don't get the end result. When I masturbate I go the full hog (external and internal) and I want a man to go down stairs I want external and internal, when I have penetration I want the works too. I may have little spasms through out, but really I want the huge leave the body experience. If I just have only jelly legs that's not enough for me. I want the end result to be my body being overtaken into euphoric spasm, where my body has to calm it's self down for at lest a 5-10 mins afterwards. Call me greedy guts but that is what I want. FOXY
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Oh yeah baby! So it may have been a reinforcing thing which now means that I generally need that penetration to really get off properly. Although, I also just fucking love the feeling of being penetrated, so that probably helps. I know exactly that feeling and I don't even have a clitoris. Of course, to intellectualise it is simply wrong.. but I think it has something to do with being overstimulated... the inevitability of having your senses totally overloaded... it's not just an orgasm.. which is.. kind of containable... but the whole sensory overload that makes you just lie there and think I really needed that.. and then you feel like lying here for a a while just basking in that euphoric feeling. This is why just one lover is not enough... bring 'em all in on the job I say! HugsGazpacho
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
yep I agree...It's the MIND, BODY and SOUL stimulation overload. When looking into someones eyes, the window to their soul, at the same time, I have physically shaken due to sensory overload...cause it's too much for me to handle. It's a different feeling to orgasmic body spasms I have. It's a scary feeling, all I can hear is myself and them breathing heavily, however it's euphoric at the same time. It's hard to explain in words. It's only happened to me twice. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
completely agree with the threads here stimulation an penetration is the key to a great sex experience with a desired partner...just licking a pussy like its some willy wonka wallpaper aint gonna do it guys..you need to know where the clit is first as most seem to miss it and also fingers toys or a chosen implement will always get the lady fired up and turned on....i guess its reading a person sexually also as ive met some girls who hate oral fullstop which is abit baffling....i like to think of oral as an entree :) leg shakin is my goal an the occasional gasp is encouraged if the lady aint happy neither should you....bring on the girls who know what they want i say......leo x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'leonardo9inchy' completely agree with the threads here stimulation an penetration is the key to a great sex experience with a desired partner...just licking a pussy like its some willy wonka wallpaper aint gonna do it guys..you need to know where the clit is first as most seem to miss it and also fingers toys or a chosen implement will always get the lady fired up and turned on....i guess its reading a person sexually also as ive met some girls who hate oral fullstop which is abit baffling.... The intention with that part of my post wasn't to be saying 'this is how oral should be done'. It was pointing out that's what I like, but all women are different!! Obviously there are some like me that love the penetration at the same time, but not all women may like or want that. As always - and which you alluded to by talking about reading a person sexually - the best thing is to find out what the woman you are with is into and prefers, and go with that
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' understand that luckdragon but its definalty a similar thing an its related to it also....but atleast unlike some guys here i posted a decent reply with more than 1 word.....gotta give me more credit hun if anything...i thought my reply was quite good actually but maybe next time il post it on a new thread so i dont take the convo topic off track i should know better to involve myself in a female discussion my bad sorry for that......leo Quoting 'leonardo9inchy' completely agree with the threads here stimulation an penetration is the key to a great sex experience with a desired partner...just licking a pussy like its some willy wonka wallpaper aint gonna do it guys..you need to know where the clit is first as most seem to miss it and also fingers toys or a chosen implement will always get the lady fired up and turned on....i guess its reading a person sexually also as ive met some girls who hate oral fullstop which is abit baffling.... The intention with that part of my post wasn't to be saying 'this is how oral should be done'. It was pointing out that's what I like, but all women are different!! Obviously there are some like me that love the penetration at the same time, but not all women may like or want that. As always - and which you alluded to by talking about reading a person sexually - the best thing is to find out what the woman you are with is into and prefers, and go with that
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RHP User
11 years ago
So totally agree with you LuckDragon. Just clitoral stimulation alone is frustrating and feels like a tease as I'm waiting to be satisfied. And that clit slapping thing????? whats that? Why? I just don't get it. Feels like somebody has learned how to's by watching porn. And yes I'm not even that great at masturbating unless somebody has stimulated my mind, imagination or excited me in some ways. Def has to be Mind and body and soul.
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RHP User
11 years ago
that if I had to choose one,'favourite' part of sex, it would be that point when a man slides his cock inside me. Even more so if there's been a long and / or intense period of foreplay. I find it very difficult to describe the sensations and feelings that it invokes through my entire body....but it's fucking amazing .
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RHP User
11 years ago
Superfoxxxy I so miss what you wrote about, I find it hard to find a guy that gives me those amazing feelings where I have to lie back and recover in ore lol .. Damn you all you have made me super horny from reading this tread and my kids are now home and I can't act on it 😩 Bring on next week lol 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I'm with you on this one LD......that would be my favorite part of an encounter also......💋😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Omfg yes! I couldn't agree more with you. After sharing some. pretty intense foreplay with my lover, kissing, sucking and caressing, fingers, tongues, your body aches deep from within, you await for that moment when he thrusts hard and deep inside you, and then.........as you feel his coke penetrate you.....you cum instantainiosly, your body writhes in euphoric spasms, and such intensity you gush everywhere. As you say it is very difficult to explain - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
*cock*...........getting carried away in the moment to make such an error - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Although i have seen some porn that involved a coke bottle - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
11 years ago
you are much like Tara, LD And thought the same when we entered both of her at the same time, You are right there is no words to explain that amazing thing I most enjoy about sex. So the day to hear what you thought to that, won't so much be amazed, but to the thoughts of how happy we are for you. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'leonardo9inchy' Quoting 'Luckdragon23' understand that luckdragon but its definalty a similar thing an its related to it also....but atleast unlike some guys here i posted a decent reply with more than 1 word.....gotta give me more credit hun if anything...i thought my reply was quite good actually but maybe next time il post it on a new thread so i dont take the convo topic off track i should know better to involve myself in a female discussion my bad sorry for that......leo Hey Leonardo...I wasn't having a go at you, or inferring that your comment was taking the topic off track, or anything like that. I was just clarifying where I was coming from with my comments about oral, and that I didn't mean them as presenting a blanket approach for all women, or inferring that what I like is 'better' than anybody else's preferences. And it's certainly not a female-only discussion....I welcome comments from everyone. Thankyou for your contribution and I hope you continue to post in the forums in future
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'madotara69' you are much like Tara, LD And thought the same when we entered both of her at the same time, I have had a taste of DP and all I can say is.....I WANT MOAR!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'eastgippygirl' Although i have seen some porn that involved a coke bottle - Posted from rhpmobile I have been known to use a wine or champagne bottle...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Whew " I know it was a question wanting to know others experiences , but Im still reeling from your description of what you like and how you go about it.. Not many subjects turn me on... This one did.. You should write a erotic novel sometime.... ( down boy )
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think you have seen too much porn with coke bottles you need to go on a diet of wine bottle porn
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RHP User
11 years ago
here there ! i do think mixing it up is the go ! i love eating a peach for hours ,bondage rocks cuffs n chains , wipping and spanking is alsome and plenty of toys , vibes , pumps , clamps ..squiting etc ..... one way is great one night , not the next so through somthing more in to it .... allways great to learn somthing new enjoying yourself
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RHP User
11 years ago
I may have it wrong however here goes. I find giving woman what they need is my greatest pleasure. I adore going down on woman then fucking for a teasing with only half thrusts,More tongue (palm pushed against her pubic bone building pressure). Then deeper full thrusts as she meets your thrusts and her breathing becomes more rapid or her face or sometimes chest becomes flush or her lips are full and ripe.Withdraw and feel the heat coming off her. Just beckoning her gently with a gentle movement toward her and away over her warmth. Within moments this sensual lady will reach out and bring you close and fuck you till she..... a very nice leg twitching fall asleep or kinda a melted into the bed look.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23'that if I had to choose one,'favourite' part of sex, it would be that point when a man slides his cock inside me. That makes four of us.
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
when a man slides his cock inside....mmmmmmm niiiiiiiiiiice warm fit! Watch my eyes gasp and open up. Purrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrfect! Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
All orgasms should be encouraged and its a personal matter of what works for you! I describe it as clitoral orgasms seem to feel like nerve and brain stimulation. Vaginal orgasms are much more muscle contractions, and the occasional one firing so many muscles I feel it in legs (particularly hamstrings). Personally I haven't yet been able to clitoral orgasm without some kind of vibe action, although fingers and tongues are always welcome! They are also much more elusive... headspace and physical stimulation has to be just right. But satisfaction is guaranteed from all orgasms, mmm yes now it might be time to go and enjoy...
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RHP User
11 years ago
And at the risk of sounding like a complete wanker - pardon the pun - that I honestly know what that actually feels like anymore....in the reverse obviously... Quoting 'Luckdragon23' that if I had to choose one,'favourite' part of sex, it would be that point when a man slides his cock inside me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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tangleman
11 years ago
That moment of penetration is equally powerful. From the moment when the head of my cock meets the warm gate of a girl's vagina to that moment of pure ecstasy as it opens to accommodate it. It's a totally precious point in time that can't be recaptured... ... well not until the next time, at least ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love my little silver bullet vibrator for story telling times and a bit of clitoral teasing, however, I have the most intense orgasms, and completely different each time when I am being penetrated with my partners nice big rock hard cock. But I also agree that it is the whole mind body experience that allows you to truly appreciate how awesome our bodies and sexual partners can be if you would just let yourself. I think, why the hell wouldn't you, it is awesome. I started masturbating clitoral when I was quite young, came across it quite by accident, have always thought I was pretty orgasmic, as in, easily get into it, had a partner for 16 years who was not like that. A few years ago, after thinking I had made the best of all my sexual encounters and orgasm had been reached for many years, I discovered that I had not really had a proper orgasm like I now have in all different positions with my new sexual adventuring friend, who, like me, believes in having the whole mind body, sexual experience. Wow, thank god for seeing the light.
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chevtrek
11 years ago
My belief is always use variations and dont let her know whats coming. It adds to the stimulation so in short do it all.
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madotara69
11 years ago
Luckdragon, could you just explain what it is you are talking about one more time please? Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
I know exactly what you mean super foxxxy, me too ive only experienced this a couple of times once I actually past out right after I orgasmed because it was just so deep !!!!Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' yep I agree...It's the MIND, BODY and SOUL stimulation overload. When looking into someones eyes, the window to their soul, at the same time, I have physically shaken due to sensory overload...cause it's too much for me to handle. It's a different feeling to orgasmic body spasms I have. It's a scary feeling, all I can hear is myself and them breathing heavily, however it's euphoric at the same time. It's hard to explain in words. It's only happened to me twice. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
We men and certainly all women are different... as is shown here... books, magazines, websites etc... used to... and many still do have a formulaic approach when instructing young men on how to please a woman... as we find out when taking this journey of discovery... no two women are alike so... trial and error is the only way... touch, listen and repeat that which works... explore... and the same goes for men... please... ladies... trial and error is the only way... touch, listen and repeat that which works... explore..
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RHP User
11 years ago
"Palm power massager". It's unbelievable! I like both clitoral and vaginal orgasms, however, since I found the little "palm power", I've certainly like and enjoy both clitoral and vaginal orgasms equally :). It's a power little thing and it's guaranteed clitoral orgasms for hours on end... Whilst it will and never could replace Mr Explorateurs fine assets and orgasms, it certainly keeps me warm when Mr is not close by.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Initially I only ever had clit orgasms so my focus used to be mainly on my clit but after meeting a guy that had wonderful fingers I now need some penetration to get a full experience. This guy had me pinned in the corner of a spa bath and worked both clit and g spot at the same time with strong fingers and I alternated between clit and g spot orgasms for ages until I had to beg him to stop because my head was spinning. It wasn't the tame jelly legged feeling but a constant roll of whole body orgasms that just engulfed my entire body and every sensation. Thank goodness we were in the bath because the gushes were huge! That being said, nothing beats the feeling of when his enters for the first time. Mmmmmmmmmmmmm!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' that if I had to choose one,'favourite' part of sex, it would be that point when a man slides his cock inside me. Even more so if there's been a long and / or intense period of foreplay. I find it very difficult to describe the sensations and feelings that it invokes through my entire body....but it's fucking amazing . Does it for me too! I get spasms and jelly legs with penetration alone, never reaching that peak but sometimes still very intense and feels great. The thing is, he could do that to me for hours and I'll just want more. I can reach orgasm with just clitoral stimulation but it's just not the same as when I have penetration and clitoral stimulation at the same time, especially after some long foreplay and teasing. It takes me to that place up in the clouds, where I lose control of my body for a few seconds. The physical part might be better explained by my lover as I am somewhere else and don't recall anything except the climb to that peak of ecstacy and the euphoric feeling of slowly floating back to Earth. However, I have had a big O with anal. That was the only time I've cum without clitoral stimulation and it was OMG
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lovman8
11 years ago
This thread has certainly got me all hot and bothered. I am a bloke but I sort of concur with luckydragon quote " that if I had to choose one,'favourite' part of sex, it would be that point when a man slides his cock inside me." While I really enjoy orgasms and ejaculating, and in fact there cums a time during intercourse when it feels it MUST happen there is nothing that quite matches the pure bliss and pleasure of sliding slow into a woman for the first time* and allowing it to "soak" for a minute or two. And while I agree that "safe sex " is an imperative, it is a so much greater sensation when done "bare back" * the first time of any session of sex........whether it be a different woman or the same woman for the thousandth time
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