Validation

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  As a guest, I can't write them and don't want them on my profile, so just make sure you check with the person that they do want them. If I was able to leave one, that would be the first thing I'd do. I'm guessing you should also get them to approve what it is you plan on saying, some might not want sexual references on their etc or some might. But validation for me is when they want to see me over a long period of time, when I know they're turned on by me, that's all I need. It's different for men and couples though, I do understand how they can be helpful there. Great that you want to leave them though, good for you, well done to add, I would advise everyone to be very careful who they have on their friends list and who they have validate them. Might sound mean but it's one of my filtering things, too many, too yucky, whatever, I'm not going there, simple as that, so also understand that our profiles are advertisements, like a resume/CV lol best not to be offended if they decline your offer. I don't even bother doing the friends thing anymore partly because young guys who generally hook up with young women, and who perhaps decided to take me out for a spin anyway might not want their 'resume' to reflect a general interest in older women, but also because I just don't worry anymore. I started deleting ones I'd hooked up with, but no longer saw and then it all became a bit pointless. Anyway, that's just me

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  A validation is to say that I have met with, played with, seen on Skype or cam or talked on the phone with. Real people. Ive met probably over 100 people from RHP. So to anyone saying that validations are unnecessary, fine, I like to tell people that the people I have met, seen or talked to are indeed real and not fake or time wasters. I dont validate anyone, however, after a meet, unless they ask me to. I respect their privacy.

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  DynamicCouple36

  9 years ago

  Some people collect as many validations as they can , as a way of advertising how many they have hooked up with / slept and possibly how great they are in bed. Personally, for us, we don't like validations and if someone we have met, validates us, we will delete the validation. It's like talking out of the bedroom, advertising who you have met and or slept with. Best kept private (in our opinion) It could also cause complications with jealous individuals and stalkers, if they were to contact those who validated you, in an attempt to find out more about you. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  lovebitten

  9 years ago

  It's personal choice if you want to validate or accept validations. I think I prefer to kiss and not tell. Lovebitten xox - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Don't believe everything you read lol god there is some garbage thrown around on here. Yeah, loads of fake validations and fake profiles being validated haha you have got to be kidding me lmfao

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Lmfao

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  i'm a guest and have been able to write a validation ? I'm confused by this.. ? is it because we are friends on here maybe? anyway i've only ever written one and I have one. I wouldn't write it for someone i didn't know really well and i wouldn't write a sexual one - I don't like seeing too many of them but one or two is a good thing because at least I know the person is legit (provided the validation is legit!)

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  A guy on RHP with 40 validations. Before, yes I would have thought, mmm, a bit much and moved on. But then I met him by chance one night at a meet and greet in Perth. He was a nice lad, a bit quiet even, and not arrogant at all. My thoughts on validations now are they are a personal reference, no big deal.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I've written a couple after having met or played with. The person can decide whether to accept what you write so if they don't want it, no problem. Like most things it's a personal preference in my view.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  are only as credible as those who write them.... I'm still waiting to see one though that says "lovely guy/girl, but smelt a really weird smell whilst I was around them....it could of course could be me....but personally I think they had an infection on their cock/cunt....I can't wait to spend more time him/her/them!!!" :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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