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Validation wordings

May 04 2015

Hello I've made it known that Im not a fan of validations... for a number of reasons which have been addressed in other topics. But validations can be kind of funny to read. However, they mostly seem to all say the same thing, and use the same phrases.I havent paid enough attention to confirm if its the same people saying the same thing for others (which is one of those reasons), but one phrase seems to be .... extremely common..... "lots of stamina" Its so frequent, it almost seems template-like.... and whether or not someone has stamina.... which is probably very subjective.... aside from the (boring) obvious answer...... why do people feel so compelled to use such a commonly referenced phrase?

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RHP User

10 years ago

RHP does offer a range of template validations... and 'lots of stamina' is one of them. I'm all for individuality personally.

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sweetgem

10 years ago

It's similar to the case of sending out flirt messages where there is no suitable templates to use, or people cannot be bothered to draft a personal validation, but been asked to give one, hence people just choose the closest one that describes their playmate's traits? I don't know, I'm only guessing :-) I always write a validation in my own words and you can easily pick that up too because, not only the words I use are different, but also because of the way my sentences are structured due to my non-native English writing skills lol - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

10 years ago

I have wondered the same thing until someone pointed out that there were templates available for validations ...xxFreya

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RHP User

10 years ago

But deleted it.....how validated can one feel if templated ( is that a new word 😝 ) .... I think it's just rude... IMO if I shared myself with you personally and you want to kiss and tell, at least use your own words....

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Hottie1

10 years ago

After posting a forum topic I decided that in particular for single guys I would consider writing them. I have written some for my beautiful couple friends too. I have used the templates only once ( was being very PC) and for every other validation I have written, I have personalized each and every one! i have been asked to write them for people, now I'm not really sure where I stand on that! Mary xx

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RHP User

10 years ago

Yes there are template validations, which to me is wrong, as if you have met someone and want to give a validation it should be what you genuinely think about that person. I write my own and have validations that were personally written. Its not hard and if you like that guy/girl enough to validate them, make it sound genuine. The people I have validated are all people Ive met and really got on with, still catch up with and some will be friends now for life........

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RHP User

10 years ago

Frankly I do not see that much point in them. Two people, two bodies, two minds connect differently so sexual validation often means nothing. That said if someone were to validate my personality and character that would be a different matter. That kind of validation could just save many here from meeting the so called dicks both male and female (and please I am not speaking of myself with this point).

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Mischeviouslad

10 years ago

Well.... I only wrote one validation some tome back.... which is now gone...... and I didn't recall there being template options. I guess that answers that. And further adds to why I don't like them of you were so worthwhile meeting, that the effort on selecting a template proves your worthiness.

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RHP User

10 years ago

I use "lots of stamina" because "lots of indefatigability" just doesn't have the same ring to it.....what is your preference for describing a man's ability to fuck for hours? I think someone needs to start a forum on why men spend so much time looking at other men's profiles....

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RHP User

10 years ago

I have only one on my profile and it's as close to honest as you get. There is no mention of sex simply because we didn't have sex! What we did was meet up for coffee and chats a few times.

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donnamick

10 years ago

I find validations useful when someone we know has validated a person. At least we know they are a couple, male or female not a fake. Depending on which friends they are I also have an idea of how compatible they are to us. I also don't believe you should ask someone to validate you.I only validate people that we have found to be genuine and believe that others would like to know about them. Sort the wheat from the chaff so to speak, sorry that does sound a bit crass.Templates are an insult to the person you are giving them too, if they impressed you enough to write a validation in the first place then show them the respect they deserve to use your own words.Mr donnamick's, 2 cents worth.

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RHP User

10 years ago

There are so many fake, guest and unverified profiles floating around and validations help me establish that the person is at least real. It can be argued that people can also have falsified validations. I would still like to look at verified/validated profiles than without. I write the validations myself and express time spent together in my own words. I don't think it is wrong to ask for validations. Some people are more popular and active on rhp than others and see a lot more people than others. So, if the chances are that you want someone to validate you based on an encounter, ask for the validation. If they think you were horrible they can choose not to respond. Ta, incognito

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RHP User

10 years ago

Quoting 'unicorn99' I use "lots of stamina" because "lots of indefatigability" just doesn't have the same ring to it..... "Indefatigable" would surely be a description popular with the lady fans of Ioan Gruffud or Horatio Hornblower

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