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Validations
September 20 2013
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RHP User
11 years ago
Validations Kinda reminds me of another notch in the Belt.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
I see the word "discrete" used a lot in this site. I often wonder what people are really trying to say behind the word. I'm not a fan of Validations. It's kind of like kissing and telling..... which is ironic from those people claiming to be discrete. Validations must be accepted by both parties, so youll only ever see the positive ones..... I've even observed fake ones issued to a guy by a fake female profile. Talk about desperate lol DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I see the word "discrete" used a lot in this site. I often wonder what people are really trying to say behind the word. I'm not a fan of Validations. It's kind of like kissing and telling..... which is ironic from those people claiming to be discrete. Validations must be accepted by both parties, so youll only ever see the positive ones..... I've even observed fake ones issued to a guy by a fake female profile. Talk about desperate lol DG But you have to admit it would be / is pretty difficult to resist if you get a legitimate rave review volunteered by someone you're delighted to be associated with ? ... not forgetting that some see it as positive indication of authenticity.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Having one or more validations isn't the be all and end all but it can be one of a few other details that makes a profile potentially more authentic.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Is a turn off for me.I once saw a profile that had 21 validations.Yeah, gotta get me some of that. Not!!It's kinda like "friends". Sometimes less is more!
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Paradisepair
11 years ago
We look for them as confirmation that someone's real. As for the kiss and tell/notch angle, with this outlook you'd have to say the same for people with 'friends'.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I haven't asked for a validation... But I wouldn't mind one... But then again I think I'm prominent enough in the forums that people should realize that I'm real... Hp xo 💌 I'm not really here for the forums...
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's just like running a small business ;) GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
If it says the guy is real and reliable. I don't need to hear about how well he used his tongue. Oh, and according to the Oxford dictionary: Discrete: Individually separate and distinct. Discreet: Careful and prudent in one’s speech or actions, especially in order to keep something confidential or to avoid embarrassment.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
.....and preemptive text on iPhones.... Quoting 'IndefatigableMe' But you have to admit it would be / is pretty difficult to resist if you get a legitimate rave review volunteered by someone you're delighted to be associated with ? ... not forgetting that some see it as positive indication of authenticity.I think the comments offered above suggest less, is more.Consider that the next woman who takes your eye might not like where you've already been. Is it difficult to resist a glowing validation offer? Not really.I dont so much. I dont need other peoples praise to know that Im worth getting to know.DG
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Discrete and Discreet both still apply to me!! Lol I have 2 validations, one from a man who has known me for 15yrs and actially suggested I try "the Pie" out and the other from my first experience as a couple's Unicorn andwhom I think are still a gorgeous, friendly and caring pair. I'm seeking a 3rd but my current darling is not a man who throwshis compliments around and I think (on the quiet) he's worried about what/how to deacribe our time together. Yes having too many scream "I'm everybody's" BUT maybe they're truly gifted?!? Lol I actually love the validations you see on occasion which have nothing to do with sexual prowess butis just one friend validating another because they have met and developed offline friendships in the "real world". I was given one by an old regular in jest saying how awesome and genuine I was.....via phone and txt chats. He isn't here anymore but stillI think those kinds of validations speak volumes about the genuine natures of some of the people here who have had the good fortune to develop wonderful "friendships" with thier "Pie Face" mates. I know I have!!! (Toddling off now to validate and share the love for a few of my "platonic" YES DIRTY FUCKERS PLATONIC friends!!). Haha
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RHP User
11 years ago
That's all fine DG. I don't need propping up either... But I don't think the validation is for us... I think the validation is for our target audience... To reassure the world that you are in fact a real person, who actually climbed out from behind his keyboard and met someone from here. Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
the act of validating; finding or testing the truth of something. That is all.FOXY :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'IndefatigableMe' But you have to admit it would be / is pretty difficult to resist if you get a legitimate rave review volunteered by someone you're delighted to be associated with ? I've either deleted or rejected most validations I've received, but Tuscan's is just too flattering! I prefer the non-sexual ones, and must admit I roll my eyes at the validations that say: "Don't pass up the chance to be with so-and-so!". It reminds me of infomercials.
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
True. The validations might be aimed at encouraging others.... but it's us who approves them. Would you approve a bad one, even If you 110% deserved it? ;-) DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Do I really need to answer that haha !! Maybe... If I could turn the negative into a positive by addressing it in my profile, then yes I probably would. But like mesi says, I'm not interested in reading what a marvelous root someone was, or how long they were able to howl at the moon before going hoarse... I want to read that someone is: A. Real B. resemble their pics Anything more is too subjective, IMHO. This also brings to mind the thread on rating members, which many don't approve of, but does have merit, again IMHO. If rhp wanted to do it, it would be easy and efficient to implement. And you can reply to negative feedback on eBay, Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
HP I couldn't help myself!FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
True Mes, it does sound a bit like the "but wait! There's more!" Sometimesone thing you definitely don't want is for a date to turn up with steak knives!!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
If you order within the next 15 minutes, you get the black one as an added bones!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Friends ?This isn't Facebook ! Why would I accept a friend request from someone in Townsville, Melbourne, Perth ?Validations ?If I've shared myself with someone and she has shared herself with me, then it's been something private and special, be it once or thrice.If she's special enough that I want to see her again, the last thing I'm going to do is tell other blokes about her.This afternoon is a case in point !A Gorgeous, Intelligent, Very Sexy Lady !A drink together before, was foreplay. Coffee after, was enticement for the next time. In between, unforgettable !Why would I tell anyone else about her ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
How exactly I feel about validations either for me or for others. It doesn't really count as a plus or a minus when I see them on other people's profiles. I don't really feel the need to be validated on here either. Now I have to go to my profile and see what validations I may or may not have there!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Wow ! Talk about spoilt for choice ! It would depend on the chemistry, but wow, mesi and a colored one... I think I've just died and gone to heaven... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority'It would depend on the chemistry, but wow, mesi and a colored one... I think I've just died and gone to heaven... I was only talking about the Genie Bra...
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RHP User
11 years ago
I wouldn't recommend letting the genie out of the bottle... Hp xo 💌 Absolutely gutted 😢
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thank you foXXy 💋💋 That was very sweet of you. Hp xo 💌 What do you do when a crazy woman validates you... ? 😛
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RHP User
11 years ago
The fact it says im in her bottom three lovers of all time may be the deal breaker?.
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RHP User
11 years ago
That must be unsexiest validation I've ever read! You could have at least said he's a nice guy. Or would that be worse?
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'll write another one..FOXY
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RHP User
11 years ago
It's all tongue in cheek mesi... errr... I hope 😄 It could have been worse... It could have been indigine verifying me ! Maybe I should give my image a shake up... Get a sleeve and a bad attitude... 😎 Hp xo 💌 Rhp CV taking hit after hit...
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RHP User
11 years ago
Mr.Chatty,I think you already did
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RHP User
11 years ago
In my mind it confirms that they are real and they will meet. Not that I refuse to meet those without them, just adds weight to the credibility.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Highpriority'It's all tongue in cheek mesi... errr... I hope 😄 It could have been worse... It could have been indigine verifying me ! Maybe I should give my image a shake up... Get a sleeve and a bad attitude... I must say, I love a good sleeve. Too bad I'm neither lean, nor fit.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Neither am I mesi 😉😄 Maybe we can compare profile descriptions in the near future ... ? Compare beer bellys even... Lol. Hp xo 💌 Has anyone seen inspirit today ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
After the text mess last night, perhaps she is receiving a little validation from the man in question. Good luck to her :)
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