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Validations

September 21 2020

Do you pay attention to validations members may have on their profile? You like a good review or rather find out for yourself? Genuinely curious

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86Jasindy

4 years ago

I do, however you need to take everything with a grain of salt. What may have been a wonderful experience for some, may not for others. Definitely take notice of the profile has been verified or not... too many couple profiles seem to just have the male half do the chatting, and it would seem there often is no female half 🤔

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Tall74nHard9

4 years ago

Validations should really only be part of the equation. Most single males can't get any as most females won't interact with them, so they virtually have no voice apart from what they can put into their profiles. Just as in real life if you want to get to know someone, you gotta chat with 'em. Tall

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Kokoflamingo

4 years ago

I use them as a guide to guys who will actually meet. As for prowess, Ill decide for myself. I dont give out loads of validations myself, but did leave one recently for someone who lived up to his promise...... So many guys are just time wasters here, its good to see the ones that will make the effort to meet.

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RHP User

4 years ago

Im not fussed on what they actually say, but as a solo female it makes me feel safer meeting someone if they have a couple of validations.

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The_Antichrist

4 years ago

Nahhh...everyone I’ve met haven’t been validated that I’m aware of...I’d probably know if I paid more attention to them... Same with verifications

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SpicyKale

4 years ago

Can't say we've ever really taken much notice. A couple of messages in and you'll have a decent idea of the people you're chatting with. With experience you pick the time wasters pretty quickly. Verifications probably make a lot of sense to be honest and don't take a lot of effort either. As Jasindy mentioned, experiences are going to vary depending on what everyone is into, so treat validations with caution. Oh and yes, it's mostly the guys chatting, but we're not all bad😉

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Mrs_Deep_Love

4 years ago

I do, like Koko said. It shows they might actually turn up rather than just playing the online games that many do. I would also be happy to speak with any women interested in men I have validated, just to provide an extra layer of security.

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NewCouple2020

4 years ago

Validations definitely give some credibility but aren’t the be all and end all

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Freaky_Fun

4 years ago

One of my fave topics along with verifications. Cracks me up when people rely on a little green tick to ensure people are real when there are a shitload of verified profiles that use fake photos. As for validations, l think between this and my couples profile l have 10 or so. Since l have only played with two of those profiles, its nice that people think I'm a decent human without having to sleep with me. Obviously didn't read my profile very well then Anti 😁

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MsSuperFoxy

4 years ago

No

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Mischeviouslad

4 years ago

Its one of the great contradictions of RHP, that those who collect and promote themselves through validations frequently reference how “discreet” they are. 🤣 Uh huh..... and this seems to be especially so for the sexual validations, where its odd that you need the world to know where you’ve been sharing your DNA??? And many are so old the validating member is no longer in the site. Some are clearly fake, and as they need to be approved by both parties.... the bad experiences will be omitted. No thank you. Validations are for me. I just find it a really weird form of self back-patting advertising, seeking to convince others to the merits of meeting you Not a fan.

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FeistyFatty

4 years ago

No. Validations actually put me off. Especially the ones with tonnes of them. Not meaning Party hosts or groups.... they're always going to display alot. I stopped displaying mine for that reason and no longer give or accept them. I also found a handful of people "contact trace" via your Validations and can base their decision to contact/meet or not on who you've been validated by and vice versa.

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RHP User

4 years ago

I tend to skip profiles with validations and I would never give or accept one. I find it distasteful 🤷🏻‍♀️

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Missb4u

4 years ago

It shows they meet so that’s something. I do think too many can be a turn off for me because I’m a stuck up bitch and like to think I’m special and not just one of many they are fucking 🤨🙃

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DonnaBrett

4 years ago

Yes, it helps to let us know that the person/people we are looking at are in fact real and reliable. That's a good start.

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ElectricDreamers

4 years ago

I love a good validation. Helps you really understand who is real and/or really gets out in the world. For those who think it's crass there's an overseas site I use when travelling where the validations read like RHP's erotic stories. TMI unless you love hearing about bodily fluids.

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RHP User

4 years ago

We do anymore than a couple of validations is a turn off for us without that sounding critical we don’t want to know all the exploits they have had with others

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RuralBiCple

4 years ago

There is only one validation we taken notice of, if we make a time to meet and you turn up and you are as you described. Any other validation is irrelevant to us.

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bianca_dd

4 years ago

Validations are generally always accurate and reliable. I have written several outstanding ones about myself stating just how terrific I am. After all I should know. Who else would you trust to write a good one?

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