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Validations......what would you say if you could?
February 09 2013
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Come on, don't be shy......
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RHP User
12 years ago
rarely meet anyone from this site.If I relied on finding lovers here I would still be a born again virgin
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Do I strike you as the insincere type??? Lol actions always speak louder than words. AND this could simply be a validation scenario where you can say how wonderful a person you met was. It doesn't have to be limited to sex!! Things have been a bit heavy on the discussions lately, was hoping this could be a fun one. xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I kinda agree with DG. Since people get the opportunity to approve them there is no such thing as a bad one. They therefore are not part of my criteria. No names but here is a positive and a negative one. The good There was tension in the air from the first minute. We decided beforehand to meet like long lost lovers and get the kiss out of the way. Risky of course....but in a crowded coffee shop, what is the worst that could happen. There had been a number of phone calls and lots of flirty texts. A hint of expectation but both holding something in reserve. Needless to say the kiss was a success and the sex has just got better and better. The few days between the kiss and consummation were exquisite torture. This man is amazing, mind, body, soul.....do I share ....yes....will I advertise ? Nope!! The bad The promise.....was of oral pleasure and long slow comfortable sex and stimulating conversation and a playmate for the beach. Early morning rendezvous at naked beach. The delivery .... Was quick, fast furious sex ....with little or no care for me. Put the first time down to nerves...and time restraints and planned more time and a better setting. If anything was faster and more furious....and when I Said ..I cut some fruit...would you like it? He lay back like the king of Siam and I wouldn't be surprised if he had asked me to feed him grapes. In my defence, it was my first time post a marriage that had destroyed my confidence so I just dealt with it. Needless to say he wasnt invited back..and I understand why there was no intimacy in his marriage. He was quite crudely crap at sex and a selfish egotist to boot. Actually wanted me to give him some business advice on the side too.......NEXT.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Will not give his rhp name, as he is to smoking hot to advertise him and all the girls that do not do married me and give them shit on here thank you more for me this morning one did a girlfriend of mine of rhp, talk about a small world we went down south to stay with another female off this site and this guy , I shit you not lived in the same street (you know who you are hot stuff) so on his early morning jog he came jogging into her bed gave her four organisms , in a space of a couple of hours he was fit , sexy sensual and knew how to hit all the spots so you married hotties, I am not saying who you are, as its more for wicked women like me and my friends. when your just enjoying the moment and all the joys of rhp, then you do not have time to get bitter and twisted about , men you just go out and fuck their brains out. Rather than sit on the computer and groan and moan about how men do not measure up to your standards. any way my validation is for the married men that give me and my girlfriends a lot of pleasure. cant name them or they would be burnt at the rhp fires of damnation.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Out of order
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quite often I see the validations on a profile and click "Next!" Especially when there are a fair few. Its like having sex with with someone, and then when you get to the chat about ( and this is your choice) "how many have you been with?", or "what has your experience been with otherguys?" and as soon as the words pass your lips, their fuckbuddies line up at the door and start say,"well she gives great head, and I ant to rip her clothes off", followed by the next guys review and the next guys review......Seriously if you want to know what the person is like as a person emotionally mentally and sexually you would ask, you don't need to be bombarded by the past." And yes I know there is the odd validation that says "she is great company for a cup of coffee" which is fine, but the others just leave a person cold.I reckon a validation on actually showing up, just a yes or no tick box which gives a star rating would work well............but each to their own I guess
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I dunno, some things IMHO should remain between you and your partner/s. besides, if I had a great time with a girl or couple I don't want to give them free advertising, I want to keep it on the down low to keep them to myself ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jokerza'Quite often I see the validations on a profile and click "Next!" Especially when there are a fair few. Its like having sex with with someone, and then when you get to the chat about ( and this is your choice) "how many have you been with?", or "what has your experience been with otherguys?" and as soon as the words pass your lips, their fuckbuddies line up at the door and start say,"well she gives great head, and I ant to rip her clothes off", followed by the next guys review and the next guys review......Seriously if you want to know what the person is like as a person emotionally mentally and sexually you would ask, you don't need to be bombarded by the past." And yes I know there is the odd validation that says "she is great company for a cup of coffee" which is fine, but the others just leave a person cold.I reckon a validation on actually showing up, just a yes or no tick box which gives a star rating would work well............but each to their own I guess Love this post xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
... let's see. My right hand was simply awesome last night. The way she ... oh wait, that's not what you meant! :-) KK xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are submitted and the profiles they are on, must accept that validation. I'd suggest that, those posing many validations are just peacocks with their feathers up!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
...a verified profile than a validation.Every person is unique...I like the thought of a fresh and new experience.
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JessicaRabbit
12 years ago
Quoting 'jokerza' Quite often I see the validations on a profile and click "Next!" Especially when there are a fair few. Its like having sex with with someone, and then when you get to the chat about ( and this is your choice) "how many have you been with?", or "what has your experience been with otherguys?" Being validated does NOT mean that you've had sex with someone. I have quite a few validations and they're all people that i've met, so it is definitely not a turn-style list of conquests. I enjoy reading validations - they show that a person is genuine and that they meet.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'DidacticTactics' Quoting 'jokerza' Quite often I see the validations on a profile and click "Next!" Especially when there are a fair few. Its like having sex with with someone, and then when you get to the chat about ( and this is your choice) "how many have you been with?", or "what has your experience been with otherguys?" Being validated does NOT mean that you've had sex with someone. I have quite a few validations and they're all people that i've met, so it is definitely not a turn-style list of conquests. I enjoy reading validations - they show that a person is genuine and that they meet.most of my validations are just people I have met offline, not that I have had sex with
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' Quoting 'DidacticTactics' Quoting 'jokerza' Quite often I see the validations on a profile and click "Next!" Especially when there are a fair few. Its like having sex with with someone, and then when you get to the chat about ( and this is your choice) "how many have you been with?", or "what has your experience been with otherguys?" Being validated does NOT mean that you've had sex with someone. I have quite a few validations and they're all people that i've met, so it is definitely not a turn-style list of conquests. I enjoy reading validations - they show that a person is genuine and that they meet.most of my validations are just people I have met offline, not that I have had sex with That was the intent behind this, NOT necessarily to promote a conquest. May I also add my sweet friend is someone I have enjoyed many a non-sexual encounter with and isn't just "fresh man meat" being exploited. I too have received a validation from someone who I have not yet met BUT with whom I have enjoyed many a txt and laugh offline. I agree with the comments about the married men getting a hard time here and possibly should have put more thought into the possible backlash. I also don't view validations as a point scoring endeavour on profiles.....to me it just validates that they are not the "no show" type which is a frequent cause of frustration for alot of the members here.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'lil_bit_angelic' Quoting 'jokerza'Quite often I see the validations on a profile and click "Next!" Especially when there are a fair few. Its like having sex with with someone, and then when you get to the chat about ( and this is your choice) "how many have you been with?", or "what has your experience been with otherguys?" and as soon as the words pass your lips, their fuckbuddies line up at the door and start say,"well she gives great head, and I ant to rip her clothes off", followed by the next guys review and the next guys review......Seriously if you want to know what the person is like as a person emotionally mentally and sexually you would ask, you don't need to be bombarded by the past." And yes I know there is the odd validation that says "she is great company for a cup of coffee" which is fine, but the others just leave a person cold.I reckon a validation on actually showing up, just a yes or no tick box which gives a star rating would work well............but each to their own I guess Love this post xxx Thanks 'lil_bit_angelic'
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'DidacticTactics' Quoting 'jokerza' Quite often I see the validations on a profile and click "Next!" Especially when there are a fair few. Its like having sex with with someone, and then when you get to the chat about ( and this is your choice) "how many have you been with?", or "what has your experience been with otherguys?" Being validated does NOT mean that you've had sex with someone. I have quite a few validations and they're all people that i've met, so it is definitely not a turn-style list of conquests. I enjoy reading validations - they show that a person is genuine and that they meet.If you had continued to read my comment you would have seen I mentioned that
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RHP User
12 years ago
I mentioned the nice quotes and said they were fine, but the others on meets and performance, which I have seen many do exist,,,,,Funny you guys moan about people not reading your profiles and exactly what details have been written, but you don't read things properly yourself
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'On_Safari' Come on, don't be shy...... Hey Safari, Apologies, I must have gotten the wrong end of the stick with regards to the forum. Its a good one though
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's the message, profile and subsequent correspondence.If I relied even on a little of what validations had to say, I would then need to check the people who wrote those validations and so on and so on...Better to get it straight from the horses mouth, I think anyway
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JessicaRabbit
12 years ago
Quoting 'jokerza' And yes I know there is the odd validation that says "she is great company for a cup of coffee" which is fine, but the others just leave a person cold. if this is the part you are referring to, the use of the word 'odd' suggests that they are rare and in the minority. Correct me if i'm misinterpreting. It is a common misconception about validations that they're a bang list, so apologies if I bit your head off...Didaxx
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