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Vanilla Sex
November 11 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know women who will not give nor will they receive oral sex. Plain sex, nothing more. A bit of kissing, maybe touching "down there" and boring old pump away. Only in the bedroom when the kids are asleep. Maybe during daylight hours if the kids are at school.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I thought it included vaginal penetration, oral and mutual masterbation. Any kink at all would add 'flavor' be it anal, B&D, group activities etc. I have found, however, that there is homosexual vanilla sex. Basically the same as my definition for hetero vanilla except that it includes anal. I don't know whether this means that hetero anal is also vanilla. It seems more chocolate to me. Others have had even more restrictive definitions, for example, kissing and missionary position and that's it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903'I thought it included vaginal penetration, oral and mutual masterbation. Any kink at all would add 'flavor' be it anal, B&D, group activities etc. I have found, however, that there is homosexual vanilla sex. Basically the same as my definition for hetero vanilla except that it includes anal. I don't know whether this means that hetero anal is also vanilla. It seems more chocolate to me. Others have had even more restrictive definitions, for example, kissing and missionary position and that's it. That's how I think of vanilla as well. Don't think hetero anal is included. It's still a taboo for many.
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hotlicks1234
12 years ago
Hi you too, for me the term is just plain boring and nothing like the fun we have all experienced in our time.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden' I know women who will not give nor will they receive oral sex. Plain sex, nothing more. A bit of kissing, maybe touching "down there" and boring old pump away. Only in the bedroom when the kids are asleep. Maybe during daylight hours if the kids are at school. That's not vanilla.... that is plain Victorian. I just do not get this attitude at all. Is their upbringing? Religion? So sad.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree vanilla is the main stream or widely accepted sexual activities as Jensman has stated. One on one sex.I also say that the swingers clubs are basically only vanilla sex. Okay it's group sex and there are girls playing with girls but it's overall quite vanilla. It's normal sex in missionary position, doggy style and cowgirl style & oral sex. Not much else. A friend of mine (in her early 50's) told me that alot of couples don't have oral sex... this is a treat for the husband only on occasions. I was completely gob smacked. I couldn't believe this was true. I did start a topic on this awhile ago... what has become more mainstream/vanilla these days however I would have definitely though oral sex was common and that most people did that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Actually, I suppose double penetration for the girls at swingers clubs wouldn't be considered vanilla. I stand corrected.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would assume kissing, a bit of a touch and feel, before missionary for the finale. Happens for one round only. Only ever happens in a bed, in the dark.
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havingfun40
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Handmaiden' I know women who will not give nor will they receive oral sex. Plain sex, nothing more. A bit of kissing, maybe touching "down there" and boring old pump away. Only in the bedroom when the kids are asleep. Maybe during daylight hours if the kids are at school. That's not vanilla.... that is plain Victorian. I just do not get this attitude at all. Is their upbringing? Religion? So sad. Why can some people not understand the joy you can have with sexual fun? When people let their boundaries down the fun is unbelievable!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't think vanilla has to be like that... it can still be lots of fun and open and sharing and great. Doesn't just have to be in the dark. I mean... just because you turn a light on doesn't mean you are no longer vanilla. lol Nothing wrong with vanilla.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'll have a double scoop please.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
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havingfun40
12 years ago
True nothing wrong with Vanilla but so much more can be enjoyed when you let yourself go and start exploring
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hotlicks - agree with yu totally.
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RHP User
12 years ago
have a GF who is a 'vanilla' sex kind of person, I go a 'little' out of my way' as much as she will allow with some fingering and licking.But she is SO SENSUAL and fucks like a rabbit. Rides it hard and fast, nothing boring about it AT ALL.while i do like to recieve lots of oral (what guy doesnt?), use toys on a woman, rip clothes off, etc, she wont but I just dont care as she really rings my bell. If she said the word to live together, you wouldnt see me on this site again:)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Handmaiden' I know women who will not give nor will they receive oral sex. Plain sex, nothing more. A bit of kissing, maybe touching "down there" and boring old pump away. Only in the bedroom when the kids are asleep. Maybe during daylight hours if the kids are at school. That's not vanilla.... that is plain Victorian. I just do not get this attitude at all. Is their upbringing? Religion? So sad. Before we all go condemning them just remember that it is each to thier own. Many people dont want anymore than this. Many are happy with this. We may find it boring and a little sad but as they dont know (or want) anything different...they are happy with thier lot in bed. I know it is a shock to think that some women dont like oral sex but hey...some dont like anal, bi, hair pulling, rough stuff or even a slap on the arse either but we dont put them down because of it. I also know a lot of people who think sites like this are disgusting, tacky, yucky and some have even asked me when I am going to start seeing a "real" person. Each to thier own.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Vanilla has never been my flavor......
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RHP User
12 years ago
All sex is good. But if I was with a partner that didnt want to explore other options then Ide consider them vanilla.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sex is best in or forms, but it dose need to be spiced up over and over.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Here I was thinking I was vanilla with a little bit of light bondage thrown in. Apparently not, I like the light on.
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havingfun40
12 years ago
Def no vanilla sex when you are with a hot couple like the both of you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Vanilla...Maybe a description is they are into the opposite sex so much, they just cannot understand how anything else could cum close?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sex is never vanilla unless the folks involved are bland. I think Baskin Robbins could take it off there list and nobody would even miss it. Please make mine a double-scoop in the flavour of your today.
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