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Vibes and scarring

February 24 2015

Hi everyone We are fairly new to this scene and I've got a few curiosities. The first one is what are men's thoughts on women with surgical scarring or stretch marks from pregnancy? It's something I'm really anxious about but I just wonder it men really don't notice it or are able to turn a blind eye to it? I worry that it's a real turn off. The other is, how many women out there are Vibe dependent? I've found in scenarios with either couples or singles joining in, there is so much going on I usually end up numb even though my mind is crazy enjoying the experience. Is it a slap in the face for a guy if a girl needs to use the Vibe to get off? I wonder if the more gals use the Vibe the harder it is to get away from it and be able to orgasm with other stimulation?

Comments

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    I asked the question about scarring not so long ago and most people overwhelmingly did not mind them. I've replaced Caesar scars and a hysterectomy scar with a tummy tuck scar. I only had it done in December last year and not one playmate has said a word about it. In big party play situations I might wear crotchless knickers for my comfort but never have I felt that is was an issue. I still have stretch marks, they couldn't be removed but my biggest obstacle was I thought all other women would think of me. What I have learnt is that most people have something they don't like about themselves but all the women I see are beautiful, despite what their perceived flaws are. I always take my toys with me to a play, it adds a greater variety and once again no complaints;) Mary xx

  • sydney_tradie

    sydney_tradie

    10 years ago

    I say I doubt I even notice, if a woman Is attractive and knows what she wants and how to get it and if shes confedent naked I say you shouldn't worry about it at all

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    10 years ago

    Scars are part of life's journey. We all have them, the ones on the outside aren't a problem. The ones on the inside are worse. As for vibes, always happy to help a lady out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Said the same thing as QLD just yesterday, gee if we were all just perfect :) If anything they prove you are real, be confident and love yourself first and everyone else will follow your lead. Vibes - a word of caution it is easy to be more an more desensitised and go hard, bigger, longer. Try backing off a little, focus on some other part of the pleasure and you will regain some. Applies to both sexes. No problem with them being part of the fun though :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    No problem for me. It's life and few have perfection. It's what made us what we are today. Part of your history. Bit like our tattoos. Always a story on our road....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Damn kids giving us stretchmarks!! We incubate them and thats what they leave us with. My belly looks like a tiger has ripped shreds off me. So I call them my tiger stripes. Im always aware of them. Very self concious about them. And if im feeling a bit more than usual, I wear something sexy to cover it. Susspenders are a great disguise. But after a drink or 2 and im comfortable, I dont even think about it, or the celulite, or that damn pimple on my butt... Gee the list is never ending. And now onto the toys and vibes... Never ever heard a guy say" why did you bring those? I hope you dont expect to use them with me here." Dont leave home without them!!

  • LifeUnscripted

    LifeUnscripted

    10 years ago

    Mr LifeUnscripted here. I love love love scars, stretch marks, tattoos. Anything that adds interest to skin. I find skin so incredibly sexy, and scars and stretch marks give me something to trace along, something to kiss. They are hugely erotic. They also always have meaning. Tattoos are obvious, but scars and stretch marks are also signs of a lived life. They are battle scars and war wounds. Each one has a story. And I love to hear those stories while lying in bed, fingers tracing skin. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Thanks - I know what I want to do with your awesome cock ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    .... thanks. It helps to put things into perspective! It's so dang hard sometimes when there are so many different types of peeps on this site. It's a real self awareness thing but loving it all so far!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It all makes us who we are today, thank you ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Some of my replies are not linked to the comments. Thanks - I know what I want to do with your awesome cock ;) Hey cutie For Sydney_Tradie: For Willowtree and ag4mg92: Very true .... thanks. It helps to put things into perspective! It's so dang hard sometimes when there are so many different types of peeps on this site. It's a real self awareness thing but loving it all so far! For Annie_Whichway and QLDtwoforfun: So true It all makes us who we are today, thank you ;

  • hotdelights

    hotdelights

    10 years ago

    Come on no prefect bodys on hear rhp we all past 21 lol kids , then experience , as for tiger strips dont worry me if u havea bit of shape , , curves thats a good make up , a sexy look , cloths off y no need it think of anythink as a meet seals the deal to play if all ok,,, if she had skin , rash its being honest to bring certain things up , baby scars dont take it into acount ,, cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I am quite observant and enjoy spending time getting to know someones body. Scars, stretch marks, moles etc etc just make a person more interesting really. Plus stretch marks are your war wounds....you survived motherhood!

  • donnamick

    donnamick

    10 years ago

    I can honestly say that for me it is all about the person, the scars aren't an issue. I am so busy concentrating on the person that I only give a passing glance to any perceived imperfections. Probably find we are worrying about our own bits we don't like to worry about a partners perceived imperfections. I had a woman say she needed her toys to get off, non issue if you are concerned with the pleasure of the person you are playing with. As a side issue, do other guys like to know they get a pass mark on their performance. On some women you know you're are giving pleasure others you have no idea. Cheers Michael - Posted from rhpmobile

  • lily1970

    lily1970

    10 years ago

    I have more scars etc than I care to remember...but if you don't like them,like the song says...Don't let the screen door hit you on your way out...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'donnamick' As a side issue, do other guys like to know they get a pass mark on their performance. On some women you know you're are giving pleasure others you have no idea. Cheers Michael - Posted from rhpmobile Off topic Mr Cumplay likes lots of feedback (moans and groans) otherwise he worries they are not enjoying themselves. On the topic I have relatively few stretch marks (thanks to good genes) and so they have never overly worried me. Last year, though, I had a hysterectomy and so keep myself manicured, not bald, to hide it. Maybe after a couple of years I may just not worry, but its still so new I'm a little self conscious. Shaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'cumplaytime' On the topic I have relatively few stretch marks (thanks to good genes) and so they have never overly worried me. Last year, though, I had a hysterectomy and so keep myself manicured, not bald, to hide it. Maybe after a couple of years I may just not worry, but its still so new I'm a little self conscious. Shaz Scars will fade and your self confidence will increase - I know it from experience :) Vibes - there are studies out there which prove that given sex is in the brain (your brain cells light up like crazy when you are having fun) if you overstimulate the sensors responsible for sending the signal to your brain, your brain will become "resistant" and after a while will only respond with the good feeling we all enjoy after high level of stimulation... nature has given us 2 hands - that is 10fingers :) plenty of opportunities there :)

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    Mr Cum enjoys the feedback but alas the neighbors don't ;). You are beautiful and sexy Mrs Cum but I get it, we all have those issues around our bodies. Mary xx

  • donnamick

    donnamick

    10 years ago

    Thanks for the off topic info Shazza, glad to know I'm not alone. Mary, either a silencer, spit roast or maybe charge the neighbors for the entertainment - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Hottie1

    Hottie1

    10 years ago

    Spit roast please ! Mwah xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'ag4mg92' Spit roast please ! Mwah xx there was only one cock in the room, the pillow worked well....