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Vibrators New Converts

October 08 2012

Well I have a few vanilla friends who insist they dont need a vibrator or any type of toy as they already have a MAN but I feel sorry that they are missing out on all the fun they can have. I was introduced to them at a young age by my partner with the quote they are marital aids. My brother and his partner once bought a vibrator for her single friend and she wasnt offended just too shy to ever go there herself.How would you or should I even bother try converting them.

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  • Mr_DarkChocolate

    Mr_DarkChocolate

    12 years ago

    why would it bother u so much that u feel the need to convert the non believers! haha, i have a FWB who i introduced to vibrator's & she uses it from time to time but say's she much prefers me to one i'm guessing it has a lot to do with the physical & mental connection that makes it better than a vibrator, for some people the mental stimulation is just as if not more important than the physical but really short of tying them up & forcing a vibrator upon them there isn't really much u can do apart from angry/frustrated sex time with ur vibrator

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I hate them! I dislike toys of any kind when masturbating, they feel hard and cold , buzz at the wrong strength/time, feel cumbersome and noisey etc . Having said that I masturbate at least once a week and have an awesome sex life with hubby . I just use my fingers and my awesome imagination :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Why not host a sex aids party,I have never been to one but they sound like fun....I am a little puzzled as to why you would want to convince them they need a toy, if they are happy doing what they are doing and they aren't curious   Personally I have used them but could care less about them.One woman's Toy Story is another womans Never Ending Story.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think start with something like a fingertip vibrator, excellent for precision .....and not intimidating for a beginner. Do what I did and buy one as a gift for your friend.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's nice to provide an environment that encourages people to try you're so fond whilst being comfortable in a relaxed atmosphere.

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    12 years ago

    I really dislike them...... I feel like gagging thinking about them though some people still cook the horrors and try to get me to eat them.....pukeOn a personal note I don't always use vibes as i like my fingers and my imagination as well. However I love them being used on me....HOT.....especially tied up

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    them with walnuts and butter...er the brussel sprouts I mean

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've gone from the young and naive who was too shy to even try to shocking partners by introducing them in the bedroom and I'm now in a comfortable spot where they're a lot of fun but I've been lucky enough to have found someone where, when with my other half, they are no longer a necessity but can still be fun for something different.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Its a misconception that a vibrator is a replacement for a man it is an addition to bedroom fun or solo fun. Its probably not that i want them to convert so much as I am shocked by their OMG attitude that they dont need one. No one needs one but two or more is fun.I am often asked if I have my toys with me. Butt plug in vibrator in and vibrating egg on the clit . AAHHH oh and it was he doing the work.I do remember a little while back masturbating by hand and thinking wow I forgot what I felt like lol so I dont always use them but variety is the spice of life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Beneath_blueeyes'Its a misconception that a vibrator is a replacement for a man it is an addition to bedroom fun or solo fun.Its probably not that i want them to convert so much as I am shocked by their OMG attitude that they dont need one. No one needs one but two or more is fun. I am often asked if I have my toys with me. Butt plug in vibrator in and vibrating egg on the clit . AAHHH oh and it was he doing the work. I do remember a little while back masturbating by hand and thinking wow I forgot what I felt like lol so I dont always use them but variety is the spice of life. Beneath_blueeyes, I so have to agree that vibrators are an excellent addition to bedroom fun, as my partner and I recently found out. Now, I am dying to try it again with her.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'wiccan_beltane'I've gone from the young and naive who was too shy to even try to shocking partners by introducing them in the bedroom and I'm now in a comfortable spot where they're a lot of fun but I've been lucky enough to have found someone where, when with my other half, they are no longer a necessity but can still be fun for something different. Wiccan, you sound like you have found a good man there. I expect, having your other half there AND your vibrator, you would feel pretty satisfied . Enjoy, wiccan, enjoy.........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'richo1968' Quoting 'wiccan_beltane'I've gone from the young and naive who was too shy to even try to shocking partners by introducing them in the bedroom and I'm now in a comfortable spot where they're a lot of fun but I've been lucky enough to have found someone where, when with my other half, they are no longer a necessity but can still be fun for something different. Wiccan, you sound like you have found a good man there. I expect, having your other half there AND your vibrator, you would feel pretty satisfied . Enjoy, wiccan, enjoy......... I have and I do