RHP

RHP User

M58

Viewing Profiles

December 17 2011

I know that women on here are sick to death of being contacted by people who they have explicitly said they don't want contact from, but I have a gripe too.I am a single male, no where on my profile does it say I am interested in guys, and I must admit, i'm a little boring in my profile in what I am looking for etc. I don't have pics of my dick for all to see, i'm am listed as straight, with no fetishes, so why oh why, when I log in, do I find that my profile has been viewed by x amount of males!I don't want to write fuck off, as I believe it would put off females, but it's what I went to say, so there...

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    not touching, why does it bother you if guys are looking? (I wonder the same thing, but like to feed my delusions by supposing its just because I'm so awesome ;) I just wonder why not restrict your searches to people who are looking for your particular gender/situation)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    they are just checking out their competition.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Maybe they're trying to get ideas for their own profile. Given the ratio of men to women on here, it's entirely possible they want to compare profiles and pinch any good ideas you have...Or maybe they just want to see if you're worth trying to turn..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Syd, that arse is awesome!! I did a search on here with the word strapon the other day and only you and I came up in the result. Very wierd but I believe it is a sign, your arse is mine. I could poke it all day. (ˆڡˆ) Ozmadzone, that is what women have been complaining about for centuries and we have been told men will be men. No harm in looking .... It's okay it doesn't make you gay. ;) Meeka xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well well well a straight guy bitching “LOL” well OzMadone we get the same it’s all part of RHP... We are looking for a bi-guy or couple with a Bi-guy and we get hit on by straight males more than bi-males so the way I look at it: what comes around goes around.... But if you don’t open a profile and read it how do you know what they are looking for??? I suppose you have to have ESP or able to read minds... Only thing to do is PUT up with it, if you are that worried about guys looking you must like it......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I get plenty of attention from males and TV/TS‘s. Not just views but winks and msgs, I thank them for their interest and tell them Its not my thing. I actually like it cause the girls seem to be scared of me for some reason and dont give much away, at least I know some people are attracted to me lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have seen it a bit too, I don't really care. I am straight and not even a little bi-curious but I know there are guys out there that like to have a look. Like RC said I have looked at other guys profile to get some ideas about what the hell to write. I took a look at sydboys profile because meeka said he had a good arse and I thought I'd see if mine was better, but(t) I think it's pretty even.It's a "sex" site so if a couple of guys want to look at me means I eventually get some action from a women I'll take that :P

  • Miss_CC

    Miss_CC

    13 years ago

    I know that one piece of advice many are given on here when they first join, and are finding it hard to write a profile is to check out others for inspiration. Also it is hard to know preferences without actually reading a profile.

  • hommies

    hommies

    13 years ago

    i get the same < and im not bi at all > but it is a sex site and i look at couples and women that dont want single guys so for me it's not different to me being checked out by someone i am not looking for . You take the good with the bad ..if they are persistant ...or start messaging just block them . Lifes too short ....look all you want ...just dont touch or hassle

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We all like to view profiles and see what is in it and yes I like to see males and females but its all part of this site... I gotta agree with Miss_bbw they just checking you out pluss a nice looking arse is worth looking at be it male or female.... If you have someone on here you don't like just block them.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    toughen up

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    maybe they think your Hot and your the topic of discussion on the men who love men website.. Either way your a bit HOT hahhaha   fuck i have No Eye Deer why ???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    oh dear....we have many women looking at our profile, sending flirts, asking to be friends etc..... but we arent looking for them at all......should we be upset at the attention? no...we treat it as a compliment. which is exactly what it is.... we never forget either, that some of these 'single' women, are also part of a couple, or have a playmate already........................and might be looking at us as potentials to join them both..... guess the same goes for men...some 'singles' might be couples, open for play with an extra guy..........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    They are just looking at you, it would be different if they sent you a message and wanted you to contact them. but just looking is not harmful i think, maybe they just want to see what sort of competiton they are up against..lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I totally agree with what everyone has said. My profile gets viewed all the time by men, couples and single women who would definitely not be interested in meeting me. I once received a friend request from a 19 year old woman. That's what is going to happen on adult dating sites, like it or not. Buuild a bribge and get over it, ring lifeline and tell someone who cares, if you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen etc etc etc.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    To all those that provided helpful comments, thanks. To the rest who couldn't help themselves and be nasty, go get a life, and that include you chrisjm, suggesting I call lifeline, really need to ask yourself why you'd say something that horrid.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ozmadone,Just by posting on the forums you increase your chances of being viewed by everyone and anyone. Same thing if you dare chat in the chat rooms. People, and for some reason, men do this alot, will see someone in here or the chatrooms and notice they seem to be popular or at least getting responses from women. So naturally they check the profile to see what he has and they don't.Don't get upset if they check and if they make an unwanted advance, well there are ways of dealing with that quite easily.mooka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    is possibly the only response to messages and looking at profiles that some will get on here...   Santa doesn't visit everyone at christmas!