Viewing and then Blocking Profiles an Unreplied Messages

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  I can’t respond about the blocking but what I have noticed since I renewed my membership is that I only get 10 new message threads a day. This is fine during the week but on weekends I get bombarded with messages from people who obviously have not read my profile and don’t match what I’m looking4 and I’d rather keep my messages for people I actually want to talk to. What confuses me is when someone likes my profile but doesn’t send a message 🧐, is this in the hope that I send the 1st message?

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  Some people also have a setting on that their profile cannot be found. Yeah, nah, I don’t see the point of that either 🙄

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  teamaj2

  4 years ago

  In the circumstances you describe maybe people block to avoid getting a message and feeling they may be compelled to send a polite no thank you . For whatever reason they know it will be a no thank you. It saves everyone time and reading or writing a rejection. I suppose blocking someone is a rejection in itself . I don’t feel this happens exclusively to single men . It happens to couples and single women too . We all handle ourselves differently and some do not send replies of no thank you. If people are respectful, write more than three words in a message and we can see from what they wrote they have read the profile we do reply . I understand some people don’t . Often when we say a polite no thank you , we are asked as to why it is a no . There is no need for us to explain ourselves to a complete stranger . I know some don’t respond to messages as they get asked that question or suffer abuse. Neither is warranted . At the end of the day we all have choices and can negotiate life on RHP as we see fit . In short blocking , ignoring or replying with a polite no thanks all mean the same . Good luck . Ax

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  The_Antichrist

  4 years ago

  If I click on a profile that’s viewed me and it appears as though they’ve blocked me, I simply move on with my life.... Because to be quite brutally honest why the fuck would I care if someone I’ve not met, exchanged messages with, or spent any real time with decided to prevent me from contacting or viewing them? I’ve not lost anything by being unable to view them.... As for messages being read and not replied to...again I couldn’t give a rats fat fanny if they did .... what are you losing about yourself that a reply will soothe ?? Forget the argument that they owe you a courtesy.... courtesy isn’t owed when no one signs up to a membership that compels them to reply to everyone and anyone.....I don’t respond to people in the street saying hi to me either without a purpose....purposes include but are not limited to purchasing of goods/services. So I fail to see why people are owed a response from an avatar unconditionally..... So tell your friend to grow a skin it’ll help their ego somewhat...

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  AnnieWhichway

  4 years ago

  Maybe not blocking, just hiding their profiles. If they want to engage, they will. Otherwise it's not really rejection, just no juices flowing

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  .....................want to get quicker responses to messages you've sent and can see they've been read but with no reply?? Easy , once you see it's been read , send another message but use the template Sorry you're not my type , good luck with your search. For some reason rejection works better than compliment . Proving these people are plain rude.

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