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  Dixie5777

  6 years ago

  This should be good, hope you are thick skinned Tommy my boy 😂😂

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  Dixie5777

  6 years ago

  It appears I may have been caught in Toms net, my he has been busy fishing today in the forum sea 😂😂🥴

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  Phoenix_Rising

  6 years ago

  Well I certainly wouldn’t put “let’s get high & fuck” on my profile for a start. Your troll posts have got some funny responses but be careful not to overdo it 😉

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Thanks for the advice, i'll fix it. Do you any other tips?

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I don't have any more questions, appreciate the help from everyone

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  FeistyFatty

  6 years ago

  Well I kinda had an inkling you were a virgin with the content of all your posts. Maybe look at what you have been doing when meeting/dating women (safe to say its not working) then do the exact opposite. Even if that means putting yourself out there more in situations you may not usually be comfortable in..... fake it til you make it. P.S.... drug use👎

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  FeistyFatty

  6 years ago

  PPS..... "give her an orgasm and make her squirt" .... really dude 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️..... step away from the device and get out and about meeting actual real life people...... women are NOT orgasm/squirt vending machines.

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  OkeyDoke45

  6 years ago

  If your question is legit, and not like the other ''thought bubbles'' you have been posting... avail yourself of a sex worker, but treat her nicely. She may not be up for ''fisting'', and you may have to pay more for kink stuff like that even if she were. Judging by your profile (and your other recent posts) you seem to want a cum bucket, and that's cool if you can find a woman that wants to be one. If you want to lose your virginity though without paying for it, you might have more luck not coming across as someone that just wants to get his end wet. I didn't lose my virginity (properly) until I was 21, and that was with a sex worker, because I was desperately shy and had zero confidence. You are a virgin at 26, and it may be because you.... want a cum bucket. If you want to make a woman squirt like you say (god I can't wait until this whole squirting thing goes the way of fidget spinners), you have to make her feel like she is more than just a.... cum bucket.

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  DynamicCouple36

  6 years ago

  Tom, Tom, Tom Your string of previous posts are a little worrying . Clearly you have no clue. The porn you have been watching is not helping you at all, besides giving you the wrong information & social cues

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Thanks yeah was looking into escorts recently, I have no expectations or standards. As for drug use it's only a plant and it's medicinal, nothing wrong with that. I get anxiety which is another reason i'm virgin too didn't socialize much because of that and left it too late to make new friends or meet woman. I'm on other dating sites, I don't expect them to do fisting or anal lol, but i'm not against it nothing is off limits to me only what the other person wants to do I won't pressure anything they don't want. I am doing just about what I can for the last 3-5 years trying different dating sites to meet new woman I take extra care to make sure I'm not inappropriate around them or while talking to them I am a gentlemen a kinky gentlemen. Appreciate the help everyone thanks again

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  MrFire

  6 years ago

  Tom, I just wanted to thankyou for the step outside the normal confines of mindscape here on the Forums... It's been engaging & alot of fun, I've laughed. Like everyone, keep searching.. you're out there somewhere!

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  To put the Gumboots on, it’s just getting deeper !

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  SSExplorer

  6 years ago

  Hey Tom, ok I’ve had a fun poke at a few of your questions here, all in playful jest but reading your last reply here I would genuinely recommend you seek out a good professional counsellor to have a chat with. Now this doesn’t mean you have anything wrong with you but a good one can really help guide you around your thoughts. We see nothing wrong with training our bodies (ok I need a body counsellor too) so shouldn’t see it as a weakness to seek help to get our minds in tip top shape. Unchecked Self medication is not the way to go!

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  I meditate daily and i'm in a good head space, trust me i'm just as normal as everyone else. I thought I could be open about my sexuality on here but I was wrong, some of these replies are quite unnecessary. It's not easy being open about your fetishes but now I know that is best kept to myself or with a partner. I still appreciate the comments because i'm realizing a lot from reading the replies

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  Mischeviouslad

  6 years ago

  Anyone else see a raft of glaring inconsistencies in the recent topics?!

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  ruby_blossum

  6 years ago

  If you are indeed a virgin, just work towards becoming a non-virgin first. Master vanilla sex first. I can only speak for myself....a kid who doesnt know what they are doing, what buttons to push, doesnt take time to find out what works for the woman.. etc is just annoying and a waste of my time.....not to mention down right scary. It is not all about you. A question for you....If you are a virgin, how do you know the difference between fetish and fantasy if you have never experienced sex with a female? A tip for you...step away from the porn. Or at least acknowledge, they are paid actors. At this stage for you ...porn is just giving you un-realistic expectations that you are not any where near capable of fulfilling....kinda like attempting to complete a Masters Degree without putting in the ground work...like starting at primary school.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Thanks for the reply ruby, I'm still learning as you said i'm fairly new to this when I say fetish it's just the type of stuff i'm into although you're right i've never done that stuff in person maybe it's different I wouldn't know. Your comment is helpful, but don't be misunderstood I do also learn what woman like and dislike some of the posts on here are just questions that wouldn't usually be appropriate to ask in person to a complete stranger I thought the forums is more appropriate because the topic of sex and fetish was already mentioned there was the ice breaker. I'm a firm believer in right place at the right time, as with anything there's a time and place for each thing. It's not to say I would't ask before doing anything, it just depends on the person. If I ask a question on here it's just to find the average answer based off your experiences, as I don't have the experience myself to answer some of those questions. I'll tell you a secret, I was raised with woman and I have a fairly good idea of what they like and dislike but everyone is different so I can't say what they like and dislike will be the same for everyone. That is why averages aren't accurate statistics i'm well aware of that too I dated my last ex for 8 months with no intimacy, trust me it's never about me and my girlfriend at the time didn't like being intimate I had respect for that and never crossed those boundaries. I think your judgement of me is misunderstood based off my posts, just know that I never speak like that in person I'm what some may call a gentlement I was raised with manners (believe it or not right lol). When it comes to fetish and fantasy that's where I do get confused, i'll correct my comment and say it's all fantasy although it comes under the category of fetish only going based off my porn search history and my personal preferences. It would definitely fall under the fetish category, but yeah never know maybe I don't like some of the stuff in person because i've never tried it. Only one way to find out though, if there's any volunteers hola at me *wink*

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