RHP

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Voyeuristic acceptance?

December 17 2019

Hi, I'm new on here and haven't been to an event before, yet very curious. Just wondering is it acceptable to attend and just watch everyone without joining in? TIA - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • FredAndGinger2

    FredAndGinger2

    5 years ago

    Yes of course that is fine in many places. You might like to find a few friends at a social event or small gathering that you feel comfortable going to other sexy events with. You might like our own FlirtParties social events in Melbourne for example. We look forward to seeing you around

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Probably, If your attractive and female Probably not, if your male and unattractive then the in vogue term is creepy.

  • thecatsmeowaus

    thecatsmeowaus

    5 years ago

    Most venues have no problem with people watching. People will either enjoy their activities in an open space or leave the door to the room open. If the second occurs most venues will have a plastic chain to place across the doorway to establish that people can watch but not enter the room. Being female I would recommend to go with someone, either a friend or a playmate. Provides just a little bit of extra safety for you. In my experience some single men have continued to blatantly stare and hang around within my general space continueously even when I have indicated that I wasn’t interested in them. Was very confronting and intimidating.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Thanks for that. I'm keen to meet people and miggle, just not physically... And yes I'm female and 'apparently' attractive 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    I did this to my neighbour once... Turns out it’s not the same if you’re outside the building 😂😂 Mr Dragon

  • FlirtParties

    FlirtParties

    5 years ago

    You may like our FlirtParties social events, our game nights and occasional weekend away trips. Our play nights are predominantly light play that focus on fun, flirting and light interactions. Great for newbies

  • non_such

    non_such

    5 years ago

    you should really get a wingman to accompany you to a club.He doesn't have to be a playmate, just someone to fend off the pushy single guys. watching and being watched are part of what's fun at clubs, being watched by women and couples is hot, but single creepy guys can be a turnoff,especially because they always seem to get just a little too close. I have seen it happen several times where they will try to join in without invitation.