WHAT TO DO AT A PARTY - HELP

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  If you're going as a single there are different rules to the ones that you adhere to as part of a couple. As a single you don't touch unless you are invited to. As a couple you generally tend to talk/flirt/hunt as a couple. It's always vital to respect the "couple play rules" that others have set for their own relationship and to establish what they are early on to avoid stepping on toes. Just have respect for others, talk and if no one seems to want the bait you're dangling you at least have the fun of a nice evening of voyeurism to enjoy. Whatever you do have fun and be respectful. Happy hunting. xx Kitty

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  13 years ago

  Thank you KinkyKittyKat1 for the advice. I always have respect for others and I would never do anything to step on anyones toes. I would prefer for someone to approach me, rather than me approach them. I may sound a little naive, but I was wondering what was the purpose of providing towels to everyone. Are we expected to undress when we arrive and wrap ourselves in a towel for the evening or are we supposed to use the towels to clean ourselves after sex?

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  13 years ago

  Depends on the vibe of the party. There may be a chance to use the towels to wrap yourself in, if lots of people are in the spa for instance but you could use it to keep yourself "fresh". I would take my own towel anyway for that very purpose. It can get all hot and sweaty and messy, personal towels for erm....personal uses are a very good thing to have around. As for approach. Well the truth is that either a couple will approach you or you will probably need to approach a single girl. Just flirt and see who puts a tick next to your name. Be yourself, be friendly, learn all about body language (crash course) and return a flirt with a flirt. You can even put a flirt out there and see how it's responded to if you're feeling brave. :) I personally dont' chase. I hunt. There is a HUGE difference and the take down is sooooooo much more fun xx Kitty Quoting 'CHRISJM'Thank you KinkyKittyKat1 for the advice. I always have respect for others and I would never do anything to step on anyones toes. I would prefer for someone to approach me, rather than me approach them. I may sound a little naive, but I was wondering what was the purpose of providing towels to everyone. Are we expected to undress when we arrive and wrap ourselves in a towel for the evening or are we supposed to use the towels to clean ourselves after sex?

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  13 years ago

  Nah... right there in the kitchen is usually alright by me.HugsStalky

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  13 years ago

  Towels.... It's a great idea to have a few towels around. If you smell like arse for instance, it's usually a good idea to take a shower and freshen up. I mean, people get sweaty... even filthy... it's so impolite to go smearing your cum covered ta~tas all over the next unsuspecting badboy if they're not into that kind of thing. The undress thing depends on the party organiser's rules. I think it's easier to get the party started if people are nude (or in their fuck me now clothes) though. Some people change when they get there... transform if you like... put on their mask... put on their sex face.... change their name to Samantha... whatever... the idea is not to have too many rules and provide a safe environment.As for who approaches who... I mean... it works both ways... there are shy people and there are people who aren't so shy... and that's the way the world works. Attendees of such parties are normal people, who are thinking about liberating their sexual interests on an unreceptive world.. so they do it at private parties instead of Hyde Park.

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  13 years ago

  some good tips already :) we have been to a few partys and hold our own small couples partys (see qld events) as stated its a bit different for singles..but most ideas work for all.. Be clean and looking hot is a start...dont turn up in tshirt and shorts? smell good, be funny/happy..dont get drunk and loud. Ask couples/singles "what are you looking for?" see if you fit their needs etc :) Some come to chat, some come to bonk anyone and everyone. Some are happy to watch others, then play with own partner.   I guess look your best and turn on your open mind... Have fun...forget the sex...sometimes it happens/sometimes not. Go slow...enjoyBerns :>

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  13 years ago

  ...always take a big double-chocolate mud cake, you know the kind. Make sure it's got heaps of double fudge chocolate just dripping off of it and looks absolutely decadent. | Then just sit in the kitchen...be prepared to share.

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  13 years ago

  Oh I don't know Stalky in some places the boys love my ta~tas all covered in cum.....

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  13 years ago

  lolz. Meeka. I'm certain that they do!One more thing to add about parties... try not to hang around in your street clothes at such events. It makes you seem less approachable, I think... and who you going to choose.... the guy in his civies with his hands in his pockets or the guy who looks like he could be a lot of fun?HUgsStalky

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  13 years ago

  RSL club ... root like sluts club you mean. Chrisjm. I suggest you go without any expectations, be polite and talk to as many ppl as you can. Maybe the first time you can observe and watch, lots of people do that. I have only been to a few of these things but there always seem to be single men standing around watching. And I agree with Stalky, I don't like the men standing around watching full clothed or even worse with their hands down their pants. Actually with these guys it is more like their hands down their slacks. Hehe. That ain't cool. Have fun. Meeka

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  13 years ago

  That is WRONG! There is nothing worse than I guy thinking that because a woman seems preoccuplied with someone else that he can go for a titty group of try to slide into the mix...a big no- no....As everyone has said, determine the mood and the rules, we personally won't go to parties with single guys anymore as we have found them to be disrepectful so many times. Goos luck and I hope it works out for you M x

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  13 years ago

  Thanks everyone, you have filled me with more confidence. There is no way that I would approach anyone with an inappropriate grope or be rude in any way or try and talk reluctant people into having sex with me. Isn't voyeurism considered to be bad ettiquete? One of the rules of the party that I hope to attend is that there is no pressure to play. I suspect that the party is being held in private residence so the problem will be security of valuables if everyone is expected to go naked or close to it. They are proving drinks and nibbles so I thought that they would be in a separate room to the action. Also it is an open age group party so depending on who is there, no one may be willing to play as they may not be looking for someone of my age or body type. What has made me more apprehensive is that I have found it almost impossible to meet anyone on this site. I didn't ralise how hard it would be. Thanks again everyone.

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  13 years ago

  ChrisJM, again it all depends on the party you attend. I have found that lots of people watch and that is part of the fun for a lot of people. Some like to watch and others like to perform. Sometimes you will be one on one... other times there might be a whole group of people going for it next to each other or with each other.   The first party I ever went too I was a little shy and these guys were just following me around the whole night. I went with a friend, who I had never bonked before, actually I think this was the second time I had actually met him. Hmmm nothing like bonking someone for the first time in front of an audience... specially when you are not used to it. But it's okay I think after a little relaxing spa I decided hey what the hell... so the second for the second bonk I just hoped on the bed got on all fours and smiled at him.... well until I heard the snap of the gloves... what the?? hahahaha.   Again, I wouldn't stress out about whether something will happen or not. Just look at it as a way of meeting new people & possibly making some new friends. You won't always get lucky and you don't always have to bonk at every party. Tell people it is your first time and I am sure they will all be nice to you... certainly tell the host and they should look out for you too.   Let us know how you go.   xx Meeks

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  13 years ago

  Thanks Meeks, you are a really nice person and it is a shame that I outside of your preferred age group as I would have loved to have met you, even for a chat. I am not expecting anything to happen and I will just go with the flow. The main reason I am going is to meet people, have a chat and hopefully make some new friends. I met stalky at a meet and greet night in Parramatta a few years ago and he suggested I attend a few parties as a way of meeting people instead of trying to meet someone in private. I have sent the host of the party a message asking a few questions so I will wait for his reply. The party is a few weeks away yet and all I want to do is the right thing by everyone and not offend or hurt anyone. In the meantime, I will be attending a gangbang party next Friday night. I am looking forward to it. I think once I actually attend an event and get naked in front of people, all will be well. I will keep in touch. Chris XXXX

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  13 years ago

  When to a gangbang party last night. What a night, it was absolutely awesome. The hostess and other people working at the party were really great. I couldn't believe how comfortable and relaxed I was being naked in front of other people, some who were fully clothed. All the concerns that I had beforehand, I needn't have worried about, I just overreacted being my first party. I even had the honour of being the first to have sex with the lady. The next challenge, attending a swingers party, bring it on.

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  13 years ago

  HA! No stopping you now. xxMeeka

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