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WHY DOES MOST FEMALES ASSUME ALL MALES WANT TO GET IN THEIR PANTIES?
July 16 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mate I'm not really going to go on about my opinion much because I'll just get a load of women saying I'm wrong, so rather then say what I think.. I'll make an observation of a situation my friend is constantly in - True situation been going on for years and he can't see it.1) He meets women, lots actually, and the ones he cares about, he's too full on with. He texts/calls/showers with afection and they get over it sooo quick and get very bored with the whole situation. They push him away which drives him crazy and he wants them more then ever. 2) Other times he meets women, good looking girls, he treats them like absolute shit, talks to them like crap, no respect or anything and they are falling over themselves ready to give up their whole life to be with him and he's not bothered.My quick conclusion, a lot of women say they want a nice, caring, sensitive, loving guy, but it's either a case of women not actually KNOWING what they REALLY want OR they do what that but on a very light basis and when showered with it they get over it so quick they go looking elsewhere for excitement. Find a balance man take things slow THEN after a few weeks/months even steer the relationship in the directing you want.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It is never "Just Sex" It is unfortunate that we live in a time that is not as nice as days gone past. We need to keep ourselves safe and we learn to do this from a very early age. No one is trusted anymore. Children are snatched off the street, right outside their homes. Some are taken out of thier beds at night. It is not you so please do not take this as a personal affront. It is the times we live in. We are perfectly well aware that not every male just wants sex and nothing more but to take the time to get to know someone and find out if this is what they want or not means opening up to people and then we are no longer safe. The days are rapidly deminishing when you can walk up and start a random conversation with a complete stranger and that is sad.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think it really depends where you look. As someone who also also tends to be shy and polite and all that standard "good guy" stuff. Sometimes that is turnoff. there are all different sorts of girls. some want to share your soul, others your pants. generally they hang out in different places. so if your not finding what you are wanting look somewhere else
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sorry Bone8 but I think you may be one of a few guys on here that feel that way. Most of the guys that approach me on this site are purely after one off sex. As for the face to face situation, I agree with Fionabee, days are rapidly diminishing where you can approach a stranger.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' Two million years of evolution. Short and sweet! I know I'm always saying it, but you really should hang out here more often Nick
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' Two million years of evolution. ha ha ha @Nick...The Simplicity ....Ps....the universe aimed rather low and settled for very little
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RHP User
13 years ago
Serious? I mean... we do want to get into their panties otherwise men would just hang out with each other. Women speak a totally different language... eat different food... have for the most part, different interests.. and they have tits. TITS !!! How good is that!! Women should make no mistake... if I'm talking to you for any length of time.... there's a good chance I've both undressed you and we've fucked.... those thoughts have already gone through my mind... and now my intention, having foreseen the future, is to try not to dig a hole for myself so we can make it so.HugsStalky
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RHP User
13 years ago
I get suspiscious.... why me? I yearn for it, yet I don't believe it, because there are so many blokes out there who just want to be "in my pants" as it was so colloquially put, that I am unable to trust that someone actually does like me.... most of the time it turns out that they are just looking for a root and nothing else....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Good looking women assume this because it's what they've been taught from an early age. It's not evolution, it's education (and more often than not, it's true).As an excerise, when you're next out clubbing, keep an eye on the pretty girls. Watch how many men approach them unasked & uninvited. Look at the age range of the guys who approach and how they approach. It's a self-defence mechanism because who wants to spend all night when out with friends rebuffing guys trying to hit on them?I have had guy friends my whole life, and I've been privvy to the conversations at pubs and clubs when there are hot women around. I've yet to hear "That woman over there has a lovely smile, I think I'd like to get to know her better". I've heard "Phwoar, check out her tits/arse/legs" plenty of times though.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Nick_Wilde'" I have no problem buying you a drink... I just want one of two things in return. An intelligent conversation or a blowjob. I don't really care which... I'm not overly fussed - but between you and me honey... you don't look much like an academic. Which one do you think you can do better?" I can offer intelligent conversation until the cows come home, I wish I was given this offer at a bar! Although, knowing me, I'd probably opt for the quickie anyway....
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't mean to sound cynical...but if you are submitting that as a script for the TV show "The Love Boat", that show was cancelled a long time ago. Okay so out of respect the "Look at me I'm a SNAG" thing might have limited appeal, but hot chicks actually prefer fucking when Today Tonight is on...they got tired of passing the tissues to the guy that was crying over the tragic tale of a baby being reunited with it's mother a couple of hours after giving birth following a quick health check toward the end of the last millenium. | Men want to get into women's panties simply because they are wearing them...and if they're not, we want to get into them because they want that too. So what...do you really ask them if they are going to respect you in the morning? Most of them don't respect us now...get over it. | The simple fact is that women prefer to objectify men and use us like the sluts that we really are unless we are trying to fake it and sneak in under the radar. | All I am really looking for anyway is a filthy rich hot chick that won't notice that I have substituted an Enduring Power of Attorney for the hotel bill when we check out and she's had enough fun to want to pay the bill. | Long live equality, liberation and man sluts.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Could be because you are on RHP... just sayin'. (MRS)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its not just sex men are after, but does anyone think it might be to do with something like we are on a sex site. If you are just looking for conversation lol, you may have signed up to the wrong site?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are good example of a guy that makes all men sound like users and just want to get laid. Makes it bad for the rest of the guys with true intentions.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Correct me if I'm wrong, Bone8, but it seems likely that, being a man, you ARE after sex. That's not to say you're exclusively after sex, but it's a healthy component of your agenda... however, you're uncomfortable with this fact, feel perhaps a little bit predatory, and so feel compelled to swing the pendulum in the other direction in order to convince yourself you're really a good guy. Which you probably are, fucking and decency aren't, as far as I'm aware, mutually exclusive.There's definitely a whiff in your original post of "this lad protesteth too much."And let's face it, your handle is Bone8, not Brain8...Now, if I'm right, then it's possible you're hyper aware of the fact when you're at bars etc, and filter everything around you through that perception. Meaning if you cross the room and a woman over there coincidentally walks in the other direction, then you immediately assume she thinks you're crossing the room to see if you can slip in a sneaky one while she's not paying attention, when in fact she crossing the room to get a better view of that guy over there she want to root, and it has nothing to do with you.Now, as I said, I could be wrong. And if I am, you might just want to consider a stronger deodorant.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Bone8' Are good example of a guy that makes all men sound like users and just want to get laid. Makes it bad for the rest of the guys with true intentions. Oh, and... women also dig a sense of humour.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I did get two notes from women already about this thread...they seem to enjoy a bit of satirical humour along with their....sausages. |
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Krissy_G' Before it gets pulled as well | Hopefully it won't, Krissy...the day that we can't have a bit of fun, laugh with each other and share a bit of humour is the day I hope they unplug my life support system here at the home for the aged. | Romance is not dead...I hope they find my body carp stiff attached to a nurse with the sounds of me yelling out "I love you" ringing down the corridor. |
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Bone, Unless you havent realised this is a SEX site... Perhaps u need to join RSVP... or similar to fill your void :) With so many men per woman, its like a race for the men... Hence why some women here think they way they do. Sorry to burst your bubble babe... I wish you well though in your search. xxxx Trips
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RHP User
13 years ago
i have some female friends that i have met from here and the general consensus is... that men treat women according to what site they met them from.. rsvp may delay the sexual content for a short time but it always gets around to that topic... Most people on the net are on multiple sites.. I cant be bothered..cant remember that many passwords! and how many here admit they are just on rhp.. or ppl on rsvp admit they are on rhp? a recent experience proved a certain expectation of how to behave eg.. just because I was here that sex wud be forecoming.. it didn't!.. I enjoy the forums.. I enjoy the chat with people that I have conversed with for years.. I do know about their lives... I care about some of the people that I have met.. It is the type of person tha I am... and I even spelt their correctly! ouch
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Bone8'Are good example of a guy that makes all men sound like users and just want to get laid. Makes it bad for the rest of the guys with true intentions. How 'bout them apples, eh? You make it bad for the rest of the guys with true intentions! Get that into ya! LMFAO!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sometimes I am just too impolite... | Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' Get that into ya! LMFAO! ...however since the imperative there was "the rest of the guys with true intentions" that could leave the door open to a bit of interpretation and would separate out those of us with other intentions. | I can live with that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You know CM, I'm starting to harbour a secret crush on you....heeeee. Although not so secret now. The more I read of your comments, the more I am intrigued by you. Your quick wit and intelligent humour is a real turn-on. When I eventually move over to Melbourne (which is a definite), I must look you up. Mmmmmm S x
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RHP User
13 years ago
gosh i dont like that word
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RHP User
13 years ago
of course guys want to get a root... we arnt here for penpals are we? and of course girls want to try out some different guys... its called sexy fun.. if you want chit chat and holding hands try RVSP
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RHP User
13 years ago
there are TWO primary mandates off EVERY living organisn. Personal Survival Survival of the species we are designed to fight and fck. EVERYTHING we do in life, is a natural program to find a mate have sex and reproduce our species. THEREFORE it IS all about sex :) Poor humans have a God Complex, and think there is some special plan about life... Sorry about that.. the STUFF we create around us is from a belief it is important - our jobs.. our cars, our toys, our associates, all are accessories to our primary mandates :) Q- IF december 2012 happens as some believe/hope/fear/anticiapte, what will one single value of society mean to us? what will anything mean? We may be thrown back into anachistic survival, just like the natural animals of this....... OMG... i just looked up "Web of Life" and realised we ARE in fact animals, AND primates...... AND mammals... Oh Dear, life might get harsh..... Just wierd thoughts folks :) at least I have the right name to carry into 2013 :) caveman
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm with xxTripsxx on this one all the way , your on the wrong site ! Quoting 'xxTRIPSxx' Hi Bone, Unless you havent realised this is a SEX site... Perhaps u need to join RSVP... or similar to fill your void :) With so many men per woman, its like a race for the men... Hence why some women here think they way they do. Sorry to burst your bubble babe... I wish you well though in your search. xxxx Trips
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'AdventureTime' of course guys want to get a root... we arnt here for penpals are we? and of course girls want to try out some different guys... its called sexy fun.. if you want chit chat and holding hands try RVSP Yep, I'm on here 'cos I want to get laid....eventually Having said that, when I message a lady, I don't necessarily want to take her to bed and ravage her. I like to get into the mind first before I get into the pants..I'd argue that the "penpals" are definitely a part of why some people are here. Sex and penpals...not mutually exclusive
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RogueGeek
13 years ago
And a bigger intellect.Would you like to discuss string theory and it's relationship with Plato's theory of forms? Or skip straight to determinism and theories of time? Alternatively I am relatively well-versed in liturature, pop culture, ethics, music, etc etcAnd I give a damn fine bj - but it wont be a 'quickie'.I like CC with dry and lime, thanks.Cheers,Ms(the female half) Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' Two-million years of evolution, versus twelve-thousand we've been out of the cave. The timegap is massive. Women still expect men to be rugged and manly and go and out and kill the 3,000 pound sabretooth tiger that is extinct. In short, if you're not six foot, with rock hard abs and a seven to nine inch cock or above, god forbid... women will probably not bother to talk to you. So I've developed a simple, patented line that weeds out the gold-diggers.... in fact its so good I'm thinking of having it trademaked. So I'm sitting at a bar, and typical english slut eurotrash sits down next to me, and flirts. Pretty sure she expects me to buy her a drink. So I say to her, monotone and point blank " I have no problem buying you a drink... I just want one of two things in return. An intelligent conversation or a blowjob. I don't really care which... I'm not overly fussed - but between you and me honey... you don't look much like an academic. Which one do you think you can do better?" Generally the skanks are so stunned its off to the ladies for a quickie, because most of the time their breasts are bigger than their intellects, but I guess... its like shooting fish in a barrel - and where's the fun in that?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I can see where you're coming from. Sure this is a sex site but that doesn't mean that the guys on here don't think about anything else. I'm a married guy who works with women and I am careful not to give the wrong impression. Knowing how some guys behave makes it difficult for us 'nice' guys. I am always on my best behaviour even though there is temptation to say something remotely sexual as a joke or flirt, innocent as it might be.Even on here I find it difficult to flirt with couples we meet or chat to online for fear of appearing sleezy. We have on occasions had the male half of the couple chat online with Mrs T and go for the Jugular as it were and it makes me cringe with embarrassment. So I can understand how some women assume all guys are the same. But we're not!As someone has already said, it depends on where you're looking, and I suppose how pissed you are when you are looking lol.Cheers Mr T
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RHP User
13 years ago
who said we dont ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quite a nice surprise I must admit...to roll up here to see if this "the nice guy always finishes first" sneak attack was going to work or not. I had money on the latter, but you never know...and after all, there is a rumour that women actually prefer a good guy who finishes last. | Quoting 'lubeys4fun' When I eventually move over to Melbourne (which is a definite), I must look you up. Actually, it's more fun if you just happen to be a bit of an outlaw and come across the finish line together...we can split the pot on race day, first and second pays double. Like most rules, the best ones are the ones you make up as you go. Now that... | ...works for me. ♞ | | I'm glad this is sex site...and I've been banned from Better Homes and Gardens for trying to score.
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RHP User
13 years ago
well by the time you have reached my response it will all have blown over, but if its worth anything , here goes, im 53 yrs young, single and loving it, but MEN do only want one thing, and thanks to the wonders of the internet and chat rooms, they can get it, and get it and get it.....the days of men using women for sex ISNT over, and never will be, but wht they dont realise, is there are some women out there that are turning the tables, (like myself) who are just out there for a quick fuck, MOST men i have met, are already thinking of ways to snag the next victim, while their doing up their pants from you......SORRY GUYS, but its all true. and you wonder why we dont believe any of the BULLSHIT lines u still try and feed us......THEY DONT WORK anymore, so give it up and just have a damn good time while it lasts, cause it wont last, and neither of u want it to...... vicki
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Tmax2012' I'm a married guy who works with women and I am careful not to give the wrong impression. Knowing how some guys behave makes it difficult for us 'nice' guys. I am always on my best behaviour even though there is temptation to say something remotely sexual as a joke or flirt, innocent as it might be.Even on here I find it difficult to flirt with couples we meet or chat to online for fear of appearing sleezy. There's a bit of a fine line to be trod by men when we first get in touch with a woman. If she's looking for a hard and fast encounter today, right now, then being overtly sexual may be exactly what she wants to hear. In fact, if she doesn't hear it, she may feel that the man is too slow off the mark to offer much chance of a fun session, so it may fizzle. On the other hand, if she's looking for love in what may be the wrong place, clearly she'd find that sort of bluntness offensive.These two examples are bookends, with most women falling somewhere in the middle. We men aren't the most intuitive creatures though, so there's a pretty good chance that sometimes we miss the mark on one side or the other. We're not all pigs or laggards - sometimes we're just struggling with a task that we're not as well equipped for as you women are.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cavey50 'THEREFORE it IS all about sex :) Poor humans have a God Complex, and think there is some special plan about life... Sorry about that.. the STUFF we create around us is from a belief it is important - our jobs.. our cars, our toys, our associates, all are accessories to our primary mandates :)' Couldn't have put it better myself. You are 100% on the money. The point you make regarding the 'God Complex' is exactly it. Society has become so well and truly brainwashed and sucked into the religious doctrines that we have completely forgotten that we ARE in fact just another mammal that happens to have a higher brain power (although this is debateable too) than most other species on earth. We are given the privelege of free thought & free speech and what do we do with it???? We allow some ........' misogynistic, homophobic, racist, infanticidal, sado-masochistic, capriciously malevolent bully' (to part-quote Richard Dawkins) called 'God', to shape our thoughts, behaviours and our very existence. But, I digress into the dingy, dark abyss of religion and that's not the intention of my rant. Essentially - women love sex too. Surprise, surprise, there are women out there (me included) who don't want the romantic, sickly, meaningless flowers & chocolates routine. There are some of us who are not afraid to admit that they have as healthy and voracious an appetiite for GOOD sex, as most men do. That's it, no other agendas hidden at all. Quite frankly, I'm extremely flattered if a sexy, hot looking guy wants to get into my knickers, cos you can bet that I want to get into his too!! Keep it light, keep it simple - We will all be better off in the long run. S xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
The OP, in bemoaning the "fact" that all women judge men by the one measure, is himself judging all women by the one measure.But surprise surprise, women are a species of rich and wonderful variety. Sure, some think all mean are just after sex, and indeed some men are just after sex. And so are some women. So those men and those women are a perfect match!Others think men are after sex, amongst other things. A lot of women are after sex, amongst other things. Those men and those women are a perfect match!and then there are a few who don't like sex at all, and are just after a good man who loves them for them (whatever that means (are our bodies not part of us?)). And they'll be very excited to meet a man who isn't after sex, believe me. So there's a perfect match out there for you, you've just chosen one of the rarest sub-sets to target.What a wonderful world!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Theres not alot of ballroom in a womans panties.... I prefer boxers myself ... although i did wear my girlfreinds miffy undies to bed once... each to their own.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Unfortunately it's the way society is these days. You cant approach a girl at a pub without seeing on her face, 'this guy is just trying to get me in bed'. Ladies if you give us the benefit of the doubt to start with a little more often, you may meet those nice guys you all seem to want but can never find.
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jensta
13 years ago
RHP Is a Adult Sitefor many types of relationships Its a contact to meeting peoplethat otherwise we may not ever meet or talk withmany different personalities herewe all have a hunger for intimate pleasuresits a part of being humansome looking for fuck buddies some friends with benefitssome random 1 off sexsome bi experiencessome 3 sums 4 sums & more sumssome to live there fantasiessome looking for high sexed relationship Its a site we all are comfortable to be more open Gotta Love RedHotPie xxx
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RussianMax
13 years ago
I'll stick 5 cents worth. When someone sends an email at least have some courtesy to reply. While this is a sex site, manners are still appreciated (even though manners are looking less and less looked at with arrogance become fashionable these days). Even if uninterested in someone. And if rejection is responded to with abuse then thats an a**hole of a guy/girl you bumped into. Half the time thats what causes guys to get pissed off. Ignoring someone is rude as hell.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Really RSVP full of nuts like most other sites, sometimes you meet someone nice.What's wrong with just wanting to get into your pants anyway.If a man didn't want to get into my pants I'd wonder why. I have no problem buying you a drink... I just want one of two things in return. An intelligent conversation or a blowjob. I'd probably deck you if you said that to me Nick but honestly we all want sex.A man complaining about being used for sex Heard a lot of men lately saying that and asking why woman don't want relationships?Keep trying and you will find
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RHP User
13 years ago
0_DarkHorse_0 You missed a group, that been the ones looking for the quick sexual gratification but learning theres more to the other person then meets the eye, conversely theres those looking for love but decide the sexual gratification is all they want from the other party. But your right that its a bit of a juggling act as to what you say & even phrase the info in our intro's, so to coin a old saying "you cant please all the people all of the time" And as humans we all reserve the right to change our minds, outlooks, wants, needs, desires as circumstances change or we learn a bit more about the person in question & people/human nature in general. Frack_Me says: "I get suspiscious.... why me?" I prefer to look at it the other way around & think "why not me" sure I'm not perfect but few are, I'd like to think I dont look to bad, have a few smarts, can hold a convo above the navel, have a few manners, have a few social skills & graces, I might not be a bushman but I've not died camping, conversely I dont embarass myself at a black tie event, so why not me. (that wasnt directed at you personally Frack but meant in a general term) To coin another old saying from granddad who was a punter, "every horse is a winner........ you just have to put it in the right race"
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '0_DarkHorse_0' Correct me if I'm wrong, Bone8, but it seems likely that, being a man, you ARE after sex. That's not to say you're exclusively after sex, but it's a healthy component of your agenda... fucking and decency aren't, as far as I'm aware, mutually exclusive. Women will generally assume an interested guy is trying to get into her pants, because that's usually what happens. Its the Laws of Nature and Attraction. It might be that night, that week, next month etc, lets face it, for mutually interested parties, sex is a part of the equation somewhere sometime. Don't be naive.Very true - wanting to have sex with someone doesn't mean you are not a good guy.... I mean, if a girl put the hard word on a guy, would he assume she was a bad person for wanting to sleep with him? When a guy wants to hang out and get to know me, chat chat chat etc etc, I would personally be wondering 'wtf?' if he didn't put the hard word on me sometime........ lol!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Because we do!! Then dinner and drinks lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Unfortunately, if a women flirts with a man and then shoves him off when she gets his attention, or when she dresses in short skirts, tops that see right through or shows cleavage, what will we be called? we are branded as skanks or sluts etc, but when a man flirts, what is he called?? nothing really, just someone who wants to get into your pants, thats what man has created, so we live with the idea that women who flirt are sluts and men who flirt, just want your pants. You are so right, not all males are like that, we as females do understand that some men do have hearts, it is true that women yearn to have a guy just like you, the problem we have is trying to find that guy, so we tend to shy away from guys that give their attention when we didnt even ask for it, so in saying that, we tend to judge first, possibly too scared to give him a chance to get to know him because 9/10 hes the guy that just wanted to get into our pants, you are a very rare find, i believe that females gotta learn to not put too much emotions into finding Mr Charming, I believe that MR or MRS charming will come along one day but not at the time you may think. A question for you, What do you look for in a female? do you address anyone that crosses your path or do you look for beauty in the hope that her heart is the same?? I reckon if people used their intuition more, then they wouldn't be sooo judgemental on others, so bottom line, if a female rejects you, its obvious that she was not meant to be, harden up and move on, have you heard the saying, PLenty more fish in the SEA, so yeah, theres a big ocean out there, good luck
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RHP User
13 years ago
It has nothing to do with being " Nice " or not .. it has nothing to do with what you're after ... it IS about personality .. if girls move away from you on the bus then your personality leaves a lot to be desired .. you can be old and ugly with a small dick and still get a different girl every night if you have personality .. so maybe it's not the girls at fault here.... Charisma transplant required ... Just my opinion...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'MrFebruary' Unfortunately it's the way society is these days. You cant approach a girl at a pub without seeing on her face, 'this guy is just trying to get me in bed'. Ladies if you give us the benefit of the doubt to start with a little more often, you may meet those nice guys you all seem to want but can never find. Who ..??? who exactly seems to want nice guys ... I don't see any on here shouting give someone " Nice " .... most girls want a real man .. and that neans being an animal in the bed room as well as opening the car door for her...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don’t really comment of these forums, love to read them though. For me (and this is the critical point, - “for me” and knowing everyone is different) I believe it is all about respect. Yes this an adult site but the basics still apply in my opinion. All we do know about anyone on this site at first is what is in their profile about desires and fantasies. Most guys believe that is an open ticket to be impolite and offensive. This of course can wear a lot of woman down after a while and they will understandably have their guard up at first. This is until you say some genuine or put them at ease that you’re not a creep. This site does allow for a bit more, “cutting to the chase” about sexuality etc but does not allow guys to be pigs. Just my opinion people, if you take something from it, I am happy to have helped a little.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you are trying to meet people on RHP I think it is pretty obvious that you are looking to get into her panties....news flash....this is a SEX SITE!!!! If you want love and romance join a different site...or a church group if you just want to hold hands and stare into each others eyes.....It sometimes happens that you find someone special.....it happened to me, but I was just looking for some no strings naughty fun and my only intention on our first meet was to get into his panties
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RHP User
13 years ago
Because they do ! simple
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don’t really comment of these forums, love to read them though. For me (and this is the critical point, - “for me” and knowing everyone is different) I believe it is all about respect. Yes this an adult site but the basics still apply in my opinion. All we do know about anyone on this site at first is what is in their profile about desires and fantasies. Most guys believe that is an open ticket to be impolite and offensive. This of course can wear a lot of woman down after a while and they will understandably have their guard up at first. This is until you say some genuine or put them at ease that you’re not a creep. This site does allow for a bit more, “cutting to the chase” about sexuality etc but does not allow guys to be pigs. Just my opinion people, if you take something from it, I am happy to have helped a little.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Unfortunately that's what most guys want , and why they are on this site ....the thing they don't understand is we are not all the same ...i want a guy who knows how to treat a lady like a lady ....not one looking for a cheap bonk ....there are some decent women on rhp , and some decent guys ....
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RHP User
13 years ago
hit it on the head f bee
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RHP User
13 years ago
dont think he's really evolved at all
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RHP User
13 years ago
ego is a dirty word
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '0_DarkHorse_0'Correct me if I'm wrong, Bone8, but it seems likely that, being a man, you ARE after sex. That's not to say you're exclusively after sex, but it's a healthy component of your agenda... however, you're uncomfortable with this fact, feel perhaps a little bit predatory, and so feel compelled to swing the pendulum in the other direction in order to convince yourself you're really a good guy. Which you probably are, fucking and decency aren't, as far as I'm aware, mutually exclusive. There's definitely a whiff in your original post of "this lad protesteth too much." And let's face it, your handle is Bone8, not Brain8... Now, if I'm right, then it's possible you're hyper aware of the fact when you're at bars etc, and filter everything around you through that perception. Meaning if you cross the room and a woman over there coincidentally walks in the other direction, then you immediately assume she thinks you're crossing the room to see if you can slip in a sneaky one while she's not paying attention, when in fact she crossing the room to get a better view of that guy over there she want to root, and it has nothing to do with you. Now, as I said, I could be wrong. And if I am, you might just want to consider a stronger deodorant. Well answered, this site is for red hot pie, there are women that want sex and women that dont, but lets face it red hot pie usually represents just that, um think you should join oasis most likely conversation about the weather, and provide diff outlook on things, and perhaps different rationale will arise from within, you are the judge of who you talk to, lets face it humans want sex in some way shape or form !
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RHP User
13 years ago
burn the jocks
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RHP User
13 years ago
and when your out woman dress for sex
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RHP User
13 years ago
farking funny i shit you not
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RHP User
13 years ago
put him onto darkhorse
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RHP User
13 years ago
problem solved you must'nt wear them my kinda woman
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RHP User
13 years ago
lmao.... Mate... it helps if you click "reply with quote"..... then we can all laugh along with you. Don't worry.... we've all done it.. I think it would be useful if our comments could appear as replies to comments.. if that's how we choose to view them.... Oh.. plus the time lag is an issue until you have instant posting.HUgsStalky Quoting 'ovatheshit1111' problem solved you must'nt wear them my kinda woman
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RHP User
13 years ago
Correct me if I am wrong but I really thought that the purpose of this website was to facillitate men "Getting into ladies knickers" (not literally but whatever turns you on) If you are not on here looking for sex there are plenty of vanilla websites for those looking for their soulmate or life partner. I find absolutely nothing wrong with the chase to get into a womans pants and am turned on massively if she is actually not wearing any and ready to PARTY.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Extrahard'Correct me if I am wrong but I really thought that the purpose of this website was to facillitate men "Getting into ladies knickers" Really? I had no idea this website was solely for MEN who wanted to get into ladies knickers... How do you explain the women on here then? RHP facillitates BOTH SEXES wanting to get some. Not just men. (MRS)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think I really got this wrong. The heading on this topic is...|"WHY DOES MOST FEMALES ASSUME ALL MALES WANT TO GET IN THEIR PANTIES?"|Okay so the grammar is atrocious to start with but really...I do not want to get in their panties at all and think I would look pretty damn stupid wearing them. I want them off, used for dental floss, hanging from the flagpole, thrown over a lamp...then sure, jump right in there and have a good old time.|Sorry, if I had known this was a thread about cross-dressing I probably would have just taken it for a miss...I mean, to each their own, but that's just not my thing at all. |Let's talk about sexing them down after we get rid of those nasty useless damn things...|...okay, drop 'em ladies and give it up! ||Gimme an S, gimme an E, gimme an X. What;s that spell... SEX!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Dude I'm with you on this, I face the stereotype as a trickier, even though I probably have a higher iq than most. But it is education, how many times have you voted for a political party that your parents did?? The same thing, different scenario, but essentially the same problem. You need to harness the fact that are not like most guys and use that to your advantage. The biggest thing is be prepared to talk openly, and the biggest thing, just be you
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RHP User
13 years ago
All women on here can afford to be fussy...Why shouldnt we be?....... It is our body, ofcourse we can pick and choose.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You call yourself "Bone8" and then ask why women assume? Seriously?We're blokes. Yes, we all want to get in women's panties (except for the gay dudes, I guess). It's the way it has always been and always will be.I have yet to think of any relationship that I've been in that didn't start on the basis of physical appearance and the thought "Hmmm, I'd love to get naked with her."I'm of the view that no relationship starts purely from personality but rather looks. How it progresses from there is purely up to time taking its natural course - no pressure. If it works out for the long term, then you've done well and found a soulmate. If it doesn't, then at least hopefully you got your spine-tingling orgasms to tide you over until the next girl you meet.Where I am at this point in time is that I enjoy the companionship of a nice girl who can hold an intelligent conversation as has a great sexual drive. What I don't want at this point is the committment, given I'm more career focussed right now. When I decide not to work overseas so often, then I'll change my goals again. Until then, yes, I'm here to get into your panties girls! ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
i'm with you brother sex is just one part of it a relationship is built on what you give and how much both people want to share
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Count_Vonhooter' Theres not alot of ballroom in a womans panties.... I prefer boxers myself ... although i did wear my girlfreinds miffy undies to bed once... each to their own. you are a very funny man lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes RHP IS FOR SEX and why else would you be on here mainly. What about when you not on a website. People do have a life outside RHP. Hope that you don't want to have sex with every female you see on the street.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Bone8' Hope that you don't want to have sex with every female you see on the street. You say it like there's something wrong with that. :/
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RHP User
13 years ago
To be honest, there are probably a lot of people on here looking for just a sexual encounter and some who will only use this as just that, for casual sexual encounters. They will more than likely find their actual match offline. Not being rude but being honest.When a lot put up pictures showing sexual prowess or pictures that are pretty baltent of tits, arse etc, well it does give that mind set, so cannot blame people's thinking for that.I'll be upfront myself with what i want, by the details on people's profiles, you can see what they want.Myself I am tired of the same old straight men i meet offline, who are repressed, not wanting to experiment or have fun. i have yet to find a man who has bothered to find out what really makes me tick sexually, came close once but even then, he did not quite hit the mark. If i do find someone from here that is compatable, then I will be pretty much going lucky me. if i don;t and i just have a few casuals, then hey, I am not going to complain, I had fun. If i am also lucky enough to find someone from here that has been honest about their interests and is compatable to mine, I will certainly not be complaining. having said that though, i am not just looking for sex, but also someone who will be a friend, but for the time being, keep our lives separate, friends with benefits sort of thing, and that can be hard to find offline, as most I have met or talked to, want a relationship and thats NOT what i want right now. Also its discretion, to many out there who kiss and then tell.I have kids as well, and I would prefer NOT involving them, so hence the casual thing, which is away from my home, at times when I am free and the kids are babysat, its a big deal when you bring someone home, risk of the kids getting attached and well if things don;t work out, they get hurt. Plus with a young baby, their timing is not always impecable LOL, coitus interuptus really LOL.I guess that puts a lot of men off, with me having children. BUT to set some minds at rest, i am NOT looking to have more, the last one was a mistake, admittedly now he is a lovely one and i would not be without him now, a joy to have and he is a awesome gift from someone i loved very deeply and still do, but he is 100% the last. Still its a big ask for someone to take on someone else's children, especially very young ones. So that does limit me to casual, who knows.So to be honest, I don;t go to the pubs or clubs, hard to meet men while i am working, it suits me to try online. And to be very honest, I do enjoy sex so that is part of the reason i joined.
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RHP User
13 years ago
This stopped being funny about a page and a half ago. And what is it with all these one-sentence replies? Come people, articulate a bit will you? Its not called a headache with pictures, its called an idea!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Can I ask something? I have two male friends. The first very very good looking, gets unlimited attention from women however is mr nice guy. Once he is with a girl he is always available to them, then they get bored and they move on within 6 months. Another friend is average looking. Treats women like crap however no matter how rude he is to them they keep coming back - even after they have just caught him cheating.Why is that generally women under 28 "seem" to go for the guys that treat them like crap and not for the guys that are really nice? I mean this very generally, but it seems like the "lets change the bad boy" thing is very much alive and well in Gen Y?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Have you played with your tazo card collection lately? It's because cheating doesn't matter... nor does a handsome face.... I mean... sure a handsome face is a collector... but after a while the collection is nice to have.... but not as funner as someone who pushes your emotions to the extremes.... It's impossible to appreciate the dark without light and that nice guy needs to drop some inhibitions and be a bad bad boy, at least in the bedroom, even if he chooses to be monogamous. Drop the inhibitions.. the prim and properness.. drop the "would you like me to get a tissue and wipe that off, darling"... He needs to move out of the wet patch for once.HUgsStalky Quoting 'beachbody' Can I ask something? I have two male friends. The first very very good looking, gets unlimited attention from women however is mr nice guy. Once he is with a girl he is always available to them, then they get bored and they move on within 6 months. Another friend is average looking. Treats women like crap however no matter how rude he is to them they keep coming back - even after they have just caught him cheating.Why is that generally women under 28 "seem" to go for the guys that treat them like crap and not for the guys that are really nice? I mean this very generally, but it seems like the "lets change the bad boy" thing is very much alive and well in Gen Y?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Could it simply be that you need both? If you're all nice with no naughty then someone's going to get bored. If you are all naughty then your name's going to be Stalky, although I hear he's a nice guy when his pants are on ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
And women killed it!
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RHP User
13 years ago
First off, it actually made me feel a little uncomfortable posting the above because it is not gramatically correct but I'll wear the proverbial ball-gag and continue to the point. :)Let me, in a very simple way break down the BIOLOGICAL & INHERENT differences between MEN and WOMEN. (From my own little angle) :)MEN - Visual and tactile creatures. The biological building blocks of the mans DNA tells him to go forth and spread his seed to as many women as he can this is to to subsequently fuel the survival of the human species and eventual evolution. A man's penis is external showing a physical representation of his sexuality and arousal (if it's hard, it has to be played with for example). We can all sit here and talk for days about how 'evolved' we are, but men seek sex in an aggresive way because of the instincts within them. It is society which has tried to cull this behaviour as sub-human when really that is the crux of humanity. Men will search anywhere, and do basically anything for sex. Unless they or tired or hungry, but that my friends is a whole other topic!WOMEN - Emotional and nurturing. Women's bodies are built to accomadate and sustain human life for 9 months. Mothering instincts arise regarding the protection and safety of her young. The vagina is a far more complex and eleborate maze of tissue and nerve endings than a penis, this in turn has build a more complex and eleborate sexuality. Most women, that I have met (or studied as a Psychology student), see sex as being a time where emotions erise, and it is just as much the emotional satisfaction to women as it is the complex physical satisfaction they achieve.Obviously, people deviate from the norm (just take a look at me) so I am not saying this is 100% typical. Hell, I know some women that have a typically masculne sex lives, that classic 'Samantha' charatcter from Sex and the City (boys I know you have watched it for the perve, no lying). That's just the biological majority.Maybe doing all of this clinical work at Uni has made me too clinical? I dunno. I just know I like this song."You and me baby aint nothing but mammals, so let's do it like they do on the discovery channel."
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RHP User
13 years ago
To true and well said each to thier own so lets go forth and attempt to multiply ( condom in hand)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Animals that Shtump. Girls got more responsibility, Men are pathetic testosterone fuelled trollops. But I could be wrong?
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RHP User
13 years ago
i see it like this that it comes down to that the creeps out number the good people and wrecks it for everyone else
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RHP User
13 years ago
If thats what she wants or not....half the fun is in the finding outIf the indications are there and both are in the mood...WOOHOO!If there is some shmoozing and grooving and shnogging and shneaking and negotiating and reassessing and re-meeting to be done first - thats to be savoured:)MrA
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'lilMissJessIe'i see it like this that it comes down to that the creeps out number the good people and wrecks it for everyone else well said liltmiss jessie, cause there are definate people out there that typically just want to rip girls pants off, very wise words well thought, takes a smarty to know a smart arse smarty, clever thinking girl hats off to ya
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RHP User
13 years ago
yes i want to get in your panties
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Maverick83x' yes i want to get in your panties Hmmmm, from your picture, I had you pegged as the subtle type...
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RHP User
13 years ago
At an appropriate stage guys do want to get into your panties. Two reasons -one that that is the way nature works in the attraction departent. Secondly most guys what to pleaseyou and share special experiences. That does not mean they are ONLY after that. Far from it, the mental side, sensual side, adventure side, going out are all part of dating and more. Even though this is RHP (a sex site) dont assume all guys are the same.
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RHP User
13 years ago
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