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WOW - People can be so rude!
September 06 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
you sent the "No thanks" in the first place. When I get that type of response I am soooo glad I said No Thanks.They are obviously people you would never want to know. Don't give up because of the few creeps you will come across on here.There are nice guys out there. Have fun
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Seachange
10 years ago
Yes there are people like that unfortunately. With regsrds to responding to messages, damn if you do and damn if you dont. I did get that abusive response hefore and would get them occasionally. I just live with the fact that there will always be assholes like that here and in the real world. I do send the auto response after i have read their message and their profile. However when I see they made an effort to message me by at least reading my profile n commenting something from it, I will craft a proper message back. I stopped responding to message a while back when i was new because I was overwhelmed. But now I try to do the right thing. A change in my approach. Btw he has the issue and not you. Yes good move to block him. Better if you report him too. Welcome and good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
You go girl !!!!!!........ Some people just don't think, they treat the site like a whore house, forgetting it's just a variation of real life........... Your either attracted to a person or not lol........... Must admit, it is better than a bar, you don't have to be annoyed by those you don't want because as you said "you can block them", then you can just continue the conversation with those that catch your eye in a noiseless environment :))). Enjoy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Bigmamma1' You go girl !!!!!!........
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sometimes the response we get has been influenced by how we worded our own message. Not implying you said this at all, OP (just a general statement), but "I'm afraid I'm only looking for men who are taller than I am" may evoke a different reaction than "You're too short for me." Awww, men are such sensitive creatures. Still no excuse for bad behaviour, of course!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree there is no excuse for such bad form, but I think it must be so difficult to be a guy on RHP. Particularly if you are just an average joe, like most of us are. The endless rejections must be soul destroying after awhile. Then mix in a bad day and I can imagine that sometimes a guy might snap on occasion. I have certainly snapped a time or two myself.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Sometimes you get a message that just tells you that the person is at his wits end. You pause. Just searching for something to let him down gently. At the same time, stepping slowly toward the nearest exit
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Mmmm. Just thought. They have tried everyone else. They are so desperate they are hitting me up!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I respect an honest answer because we r looking for certain thing in a person.. What I don't like is when they don't bother to reply...I find that rude... But I totally agree there is no place on here for bad behaviour... To them people get over yourself...and to the ladies that have replied to my msg that's for your honestly your feedback has been very helpful...xxx... Big M :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
As mentioned by a few before me, unfortunately you will get the few who will not handle rejection all too well. That will probably not be your last bad example, but don't be deterred - there are quite a few 'good eggs' on here too. You will, over time, read a guys profile and get the gist of how to handle the various bods here. Some will thank you for sending a nice response, and others will take a different tack altogether, as you've experienced. In my opinion Lily has the right approach with her replies - if you do the same I don't think you should get too far wrong. However, notwithstanding, you will still come across a few dickheads from time to time - just take it in your stride and move on to the next guy. All the best with your encounters and searches. Tall
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
The truth, miss Sensually... is there is a planet in our solar system that is being kept secret from us. This planet is populated by bipedal humanoid types who look like us, who sound like us.... but they don't fucking act like us. I believe, their planet is dying, and they re sending advance parties here to learn our ways so that they may live among us when their planet finally dies. This planet, is called Retardatron. And I think a lot of Retardatronians are to be found in this site DG
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
I'm actually grateful for a 'no thanks' reply. These dickheads I'm happy to have around, it makes my efforts easier (or harder :() ) on site. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wonder how many retardatrons want give DG an anal probe? :p
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RHP User
10 years ago
I whine and beg. I offer to pay for hotels. I say I have bi sexuall girlfriends. I own a pub, bloody men are always kicking this old granny to the curb. I can get testy, with rejection cause I put on my hormone patch with anticipation and they block me! Guys just get frustrated, women can have more men than hot meals on this site. They just do not get it when someone as old as dirt, like me says no thanks. When in fact I should praise the Lord they even looked at me. But it's a candy shop for women and a vast find of fat chance Harry, for men.
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RHP User
10 years ago
No way that's a huge arse hole. It's a bottomless pit. Besides they would find DG, was already residing in there.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive received a bag of mail from one charming individual this evening and Im very tempted to name and shame.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hahaha do it that would be funny.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'AstuteandCute' Ive received a bag of mail from one charming individual this evening and Im very tempted to name and shame. Don't bother my dear. Waste of your time and energy for someone not worth it. Just report him and move one. that is what I do now. he will be warned by the mods and maybe even kicked out. Now you can really go out to town. Have fun then and stay safe.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Those kinds of responses are really very common. I never take them personally and I never bother getting offended by them. I never bother to block someone because of them. Actually, that's an not 100% true. In six years I've blocked 3-4 people for messages like that, only because I was in a particularly grumpy mood at the time :) The person messaging can insult me all he likes, accuse me of whatever he wants, it doesn't matter a bit to me. He doesn't know me. He's not actually talking about 'me'. He's just lashing out - out of his own frustration, with his own underdeveloped, inadequate way of expressing himself. I have compassion for that. As Meeka says, it must be terribly difficult for a lot of men on here, and there are a lot of men with little finesse when it comes to communicating. I'm not justifying what the messages say. I'm simply saying I don't really care about them. My sense of self is strong enough that they don't impact me, I don't bother getting incensed, up in arms or superior. I don't allow myself to judge, belittle or ridicule. I just pass the messages by. Delete, forget. (I do sometimes seriously want to run workshops for men to help them behave better and get better results! It's not that hard fellas ;)) OP, as a newbie, welcome to the realities of online adult sites. The messages don't actually get any better over time. You just get better at ignoring them and saving your energy for the good stuff ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Nice what you are doing but lol i would be content with just a Piss Off response..over & I move on. Could be a problem with lost in translation & what a sub means resulting in some treating you with a lack of respect. Certainly from what i have read and watched in some parts of indian society females are treated like a commodity & some of what goes on is horrific. I'm sure it wont take you long to work out who is worth your time and who is not :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Many will even block ! Even if I haven't sent a message or simple flirt? Makes me think about how stuck up some here are as all I did was look at there profile...
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DynamicCouple36
10 years ago
Perceived rejection results in many showing their true colours. The problem however is expectation and a feeling of entitlement. The belief, by many men, that just because this is a swingers site , the women on here are sluts and that they ( the women) must accept disrespectful behaviour (from these men) or leave the site. The same often happens in those swingers clubs that allow men in on certain nights. Instead of behaving in a normal and acceptable manner, chatting politely at the bar, what do these men go ? They hide in the shadows and passageways to the play rooms, spa and toilets, hoping to get a quick grope as the ladies walk past or at least an opportunity to whisper that they have a big cock and know how to show a woman a good time. They then follow one around hoping to get in on the action. We can spot them a mile away now. Both on here and at clubs. One learns from experience and grows a thicker skin in the process. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
10 years ago
That would be a no no in my book. Just report him or ignore him and move on. I would think all women on here at sometime receive some abuse and nasty messages, while not pleasant they are just that, messages. You either learn to ignore, report, block or you get off the site pretty quick. I would rather spend my time making this a positive experience and invest the effort in the ones that are genuine and engaging. Missb - feeling all warm and fuzzy today. 😇 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
As agreed above, the guy is a frustrated knob at the moment, he may learn better... Hopefully... But I thank you for offering him a reply, as a couple of our more enlightened lady's understand, it can be soul destroying here to send messages and not have them acknowledged, or seemingly even read. I have once behaved as this guy did myself, it was nothing against the woman personally, it was more the fact that her reply indicated that there was someone to vent at... So don't take it personally... And there's some nasty women out there as well, they operate differently to the guy you've described, but equally as unpleasant... Ugly people are all around us, sadly... Sure no one is under obligation to reply, but I'm pretty sure if 90% of messages were replied to then the guys like the one you encountered would be less likely to vent at all... So please, I encourage you to keep replying to respectful messages. Hp xo💋 Because your worth it...
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Not forgetting cultures exist that pay females little respect and the simple act of rejecting their proposals is enough to send them off. Not being racist, a fact of life and the way they have been brought up. Arranged marriages, child brides.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not that it has happened a lot but I indeed reported a couple of awful messages from people who just didn't like the rejection. There is absolutely no need for it when you have always been polite.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Meeka's right, in that RHP is a pretty annoying experience. But that doesn't excuse that sort of behaviour. As a man, you've got to let the virtually insurmountable odds wash over you and have a sense of humour about it. Besides, as Highpriority points out, the ones who respond with a "no thanks", even a generic template one, are the rarity on here. Most don't even bother with that.
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madotara69
10 years ago
Old hag? You are still a spring chick'n Mado Tara xx
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On_Safari
10 years ago
Sensuallysub, sometimes a little Heaven, sometimes a little Hell and sometimes just bloody and sometimes just fun. You'll see all sorts girlfriend. The boys cop it too don't doubt that but there's some sexy, devillish, wonderful angels among them and the genuine couples amongst us. ENJOY!! ~ Indagine
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RHP User
10 years ago
There are a few types of rude people on here ,ones that are abusive with their messages. Then there are the other ones that just don't even reply what so ever. - Posted from rhpmobile
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6exxy
10 years ago
Yes this is unfortunate. There are women who will not date a black man and that is your right and choice. The abuse is justification as xxticklishxx said. Saying that you wanna go out? Kidding ha ha ha lmao Don't let his problem be your problem gurl. Do your thang and let it go. Love and kisses 🌻
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dammed if you do ,dammed if you don't! My preference is to reply ,brought up with manners,from then on if gets ugly,report! Appreciate polite no thanks,from ladies I message,don't take to heart just move on !
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Seachange
10 years ago
Quoting 'AstuteandCute' Ive received a bag of mail from one charming individual this evening and Im very tempted to name and shame. BTW, dont bother naming and shaming as it will backfire against you. Mods wont put it up anyway. I know you are frustrated but just move one sweet and block him. If he gets really abusive, and stalking, then report him. that is why RHP created that function, as a safety net for all those who experience some unwarranted grief from people,which results into spoiling the RHP experience for you and for the rest of the good people on here. This is not what it is all about. Right? the mods recommend that you do not engage in any flame throwing between you and any of the abusive members. Don't stress yourself. they recommend/encourage you report this behaviour so they can be 'educated' in the ways of online dating. Lol. There are a lot more gorgeous guys around who will appreciate your company. Now focus your gorgeous self on them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You just successfully dodged a bullet. Just imagine how bad mannered these idiots will be in real life! Unfortunately too many here think this place is a sex site, not an adult site. Therefore, in their tiny, one-dimensional minds, if you are on here you are willing to drop everything and have sex with whomever contacts you! Luckily most of these tend to get jaded quickly because they strike out all the time. Then they get on here or in the chat room and accuse everyone of being a fake... Like I suspect a lot of guys here I have been blocked for simply contacting a woman here, that I can handle because if they are that insecure and shallow then I am too good for them! But just to set the record straight, over my time here I have received a few very abusive msgs from women just because I had the hideous audacity to contact them, even though I met their search criteria. A couple of women were even kind enough to wait until I read their lovely message of filthy abuse and then blocked me - just so I got the full brunt of their ire (but couldn't respond of course). Mooka
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SoSoPretty
10 years ago
Why is it rude if you don't reply to someone you aren't interested in?
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoSoPretty' Why is it rude if you don't reply to someone you aren't interested in? A sign of your generation... but it is generally considered common courtesy to reply to anyone, whether you are interested or not. If you are not interested in someone, it is always nice to let the other person know where they stand, and you can be diplomatic in the language you use. Unfortunately not all people seem to possess this characteristic, not just people of particular age groups ( so I'm not picking on you personally ). Tall
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
A thing called manners. Only takes a moment to say thanks but no thanks. It's appreciated by many. Especially those of us not blessed with beauty like yourself. It helps "share the love"
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Yes seems current generation is lacking in manners. I think it became optional when we stopped smacking them. Why did we ever stop that? It was the way of training over the milleniums. I was smacked lots as a child. I have manners and turned in to a very normal man................what?
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SoSoPretty
10 years ago
I can barely respond to the guys that I am interested in. I definitely wouldn't have time to respond the guys I'm not interested in. For one, I use this site primarily on a tablet and occasionally on my phone. Plus this site is not (nor is the internet in Australia) that fast. Who has the time to sit and respond to messages all day? If someone didn't respond to my message, I would just assume they weren't interested and move on to the next.
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rupamohan
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoSoPretty' Why is it rude if you don't reply to someone you aren't interested in? I am comfortable with not getting a reply and actually find very rude to demand a reply. If your definition of courtesy is giving a reply feel free to reply ever one but you don't get a reply, don't use your values to judge others...simple.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoSoPretty' Why is it rude if you don't reply to someone you aren't interested in? Heh. For the longest time I was confused as to why a lot of people didn't reply to messages - wondering 'is it me', 'did I say something wrong', that sort of thing - the same thing many men on here seem to ask. Then a female friend of mine on here actually showed me how many messages she gets in a day - and she doesn't even have a display pic. If that's a typical example I don't think you ladies actually *can* reply to every message from every person you're not interested in! I had no idea you all got so bombarded, heh.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoSoPretty' I can barely respond to the guys that I am interested in.its ok, I figured you'd write back once you dealt with the messages from the guys you weren't interested in ;-)
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SoSoPretty
10 years ago
...Not to brag, but I currently have 250+ emails and I actually read them all. It takes a while because as you're reading and responding, you are still receiving emails. Who has the time to respond to all of them? - Posted from rhpmobile
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Circe
10 years ago
Is it rude not to reply to mail from electricity company (or telco or real estate agent...) 'a' asking you to change your supplier?? No it's not... Similarly mail on here is unsolicited requests for you to choose them... Ignore at will, and if you are interested in changing supplier then check out what they have on offer. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' Is it rude not to reply to mail from electricity company (or telco or real estate agent...) 'a' asking you to change your supplier?? No it's not... Similarly mail on here is unsolicited requests for you to choose them... Ignore at will, and if you are interested in changing supplier then check out what they have on offer. - Posted from rhpmobile To play devils advocate a bit, this is a different ball game though - by putting up an ad here, you're essentially 'soliciting' offers, and you have a choice to leave if it's not what you want. So in a sense, you cant really call it an unsolicited request. In relation to those who say they receive to many messages that they cant reply to them all, that's a cop out. A template message is enough - a simple "Thanks but no thanks". From your inbox all you need to do is select the tick boxes and do a bulk-reply. It takes 5 seconds to reply to 50 messages. It comes down to common courtesy. Would you just walk away from someone who started talking to you? Or would you excuse yourself, or politely tell them to piss off? I would certainly hope the latter.
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoSoPretty' I can barely respond to the guys that I am interested in. I definitely wouldn't have time to respond the guys I'm not interested in. For one, I use this site primarily on a tablet and occasionally on my phone. Plus this site is not (nor is the internet in Australia) that fast. Who has the time to sit and respond to messages all day? If someone didn't respond to my message, I would just assume they weren't interested and move on to the next. I get your situation, but you did ask the question. If you wish, you could for the moment just add a sentence to your profile, something along the lines of "due to the many responses I have received, please bear with me for a little while whilst I sort through them all". That way, when some of the members check up on your profile, at least they know your current situation. Whether you wish to reply to all is of course your decision, but as I mentioned to your initial question, courtesy does go a long way with most people for a little extra effort. Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'mikejishere' Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' Is it rude not to reply to mail from electricity company (or telco or real estate agent...) 'a' asking you to change your supplier?? No it's not... Similarly mail on here is unsolicited requests for you to choose them... Ignore at will, and if you are interested in changing supplier then check out what they have on offer. - Posted from rhpmobile To play devils advocate a bit, this is a different ball game though - by putting up an ad here, you're essentially 'soliciting' offers, and you have a choice to leave if it's not what you want. So in a sense, you cant really call it an unsolicited request. In relation to those who say they receive to many messages that they cant reply to them all, that's a cop out. What those companies are doing is cold-calling random people who aren't asking for their services. By being on this site you are effectively saying you're looking for a "supplier" (unless your profile says otherwise). I agree that ignoring messages from people cold-calling you (in other words sending unpersonalised template messages they also sent to dozens of others) is acceptable, but a polite message specifically written for someone deserves at least a template reply. It's only two clicks of a mouse, people.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have a policy of replying to all messages. Someone has taken the time to message me, even if that message is a template. But gee some boys (clearly not men) take rejection really badly! In all cases my reply is a courteous No thank you type reply. Many write back asking "why", as if being a member on this site means that I am contractually obligated to talk to them or meet them, and now need to justify why I am not interested. And some get extremely abusive, which really helps to support those reasons why I declined their approach in the first case. These bitter morons send their abuse, then block me like a bratty petulant child so that I have no right of reply One of three examples from yesterday: No probs hun , your reply tells me your not what I'm after ...to literal and one dimensional to understand layers . Not really astute or smart at all hun...look at your effort . You don't write messages ..you write one profile and it's really pretty stupid with all your ISH words. Just because you say your smart doesn't make you smart when you write an illiterate boring no effort profile that shows not an inkling of intelligence ?. I'd say not astute , perceptive or successful ...a place where girls are out numbered 15 to one is the perfect place for you to feel in demand and bat way outside your league from desperate guys who will settle .... It's like shooting fish in a barrel ..even fat ugly girls have success on here above that of attractive smart guys ...enjoy yourself in this articial world for girls who can't make it in the real world... And don't bother having a go at me again until you've written something intelligent and different in your profile cause that will be the indicator..... And he contacted ME.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who said the men don't put any effort into their messages?
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Looks like somebody really wanted to attract your attention with their replied comment... Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
There were no typos and it was formatted well.
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RHP User
10 years ago
When I was a newbie here I wanted to reply to everyone, but when I got angry responses, or men taking any reply as an invitation to continue conversation, or trying to convince me to change my mind and one notable example even begging, I decided that I needed to be cruel to be kind. I still reply nicely to the men who have put effort into how they expressed themselves and I usually get a "Thank you" reply which is nice. But to be honest, those kind of messages are rare. Oh the other day I did deliver "Thanks but no thanks, stud." because I couldn't resist after he introduced himself with "You need my cock in your mouth". But I should have held my fingers because the reply I got back from him was just more of the same. Anyway, sorry to all the decent men out there who deserve a polite reply but don't get one because a few rotten apples spoil the bunch.
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
Wow, what a rude response! Can I just say though, your profile confuses me. You say not to contact you unless I meet your criteria, but I can't see where your criteria is listed?!?
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
Simple really...no one is obligated to anyone on here. Foxy
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TheLuckyOne
10 years ago
No one is obligated to do anything, but manners are free and very attractive.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do appreciate a reply and have replied to the people who have contacted me because let's face it, not much of a workload. However, no reply is a reply. It's not hard to work out.
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Circe
10 years ago
I'm not convinced, I called four insurance companies and asked for quotes last week. They all wrote me lovely letters that I had solicited... They even used my full name and address and totally addressed my needs... I still won't be sending a reply except to the one that I'm choosing. And someone walking up to me in a bar or in the street and saying hi?? Yeah, sometimes I'll just keep walking (with an apologetic smile in their direction), particularly when they're selling something or trying to use up my time or want my charity dollars. I'm not going to start a conversation. Sometimes I say no thanks politely but if some joker says he wants to fuck me or is crude, then I'll put my head down and walk faster. I don't think anyone on here owes anyone anything. I hate that entitlement crap. I also hate the 'just good manners'... So passive aggressive- don't call people rude for not replying... Just insinuate ;-)
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happy0450
10 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Simple really...no one is obligated to anyone on here. Foxy feel obligated to say ......cool new profile pic Cheesely, Happy
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
Quoting 'JerseyGirl' Wow, what a rude response! Can I just say though, your profile confuses me. You say not to contact you unless I meet your criteria, but I can't see where your criteria is listed?!? From what I can see the criteria are very simple - Man or woman, 30 - 40 years old. Tall (maybe you looking too hard)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Simple really...no one is obligated to anyone on here. Foxy Courtesy is Courtesy. As a "Manycorn" ie opposite of Unicorn, I reply to anyone that sends me a message, unless they are clearly a Spam. You, as a Platinum Member (And I have no idea why, as a Single Female, you choose to be one), must receive a myriad of messages each day. Platinum means you will receive 50 messages per day from Guest Men 35-45. As a Female, you will probably receive a further 50 messages per day from Paying Men / Couples / Women. Like it or not, you have an Obligation to reply to many of those messages. Those that have taken the time to send you a "nice" message deserve your obligation of reply.
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SoSoPretty
10 years ago
You know what, I may actually put that on my profile. That's a good idea. I'm still not going to respond to every message I get, but at least it will help me when it comes to guys sending multiple messages when they haven't heard from me yet. Thanks for that. :) To pink lotus and whoever else said "use a template"...Once I do that, I'll be like astuteandcute getting messages asking "why". Which is a question I won't answer anyway. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'SoSoPretty' To pink lotus and whoever else said "use a template"...Once I do that, I'll be like astuteandcute getting messages asking "why". Which is a question I won't answer anyway. Yes, you don't owe anyone a second answer. I've made my own templates, one of them being about them not meeting my requirements that are clearly listed in my profile. Men that write to me are rarely over 6ft tall (which I mention twice in my profile), and I've been approached have been a few men way out of my age range.If they write back asking why (which doesn't happen often, though every now and then I get a "Please make an exception, I am different" message), I don't usually respond any further. One "No thanks" should be enough. If I'm polite enough to respond in a nice way, men can be polite enough to respect (and not dispute) my answer, I think.
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Tall74nHard9
10 years ago
You're welcome, and I hope it helps out with your workload somewhat. Hope you enjoy your time here. Good luck, Tall
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RHP User
10 years ago
I was contacted by a lady and given a list of guys profile names on here that I should avoid for a variety of reasons. This lady also gave me a list of her little gang of ladies that would verify her name and shame list. I never replied and I kind of wish I did.Some people need to get over themselves and in e-mail they feel safe to abuse others. Some people just need to switch of the computer / put down the phone and go out into the real world
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Can't understand how the guy who sent the reply to Astuteandcute could put together a reply like that whilst at the same time, rocking on his rocking chair whilst oiling up his AK47 machinge gun.......
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SoSoPretty
10 years ago
I think MissBlissBomb and I, are on the same page. So yea...everything she said. Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Some time ago. And went along to one of the meetings that her and her ladies ran. It was pitiful and sad. A whole 3 people turned up where they bitched about the guys they had been with. Men of WA if you don't go down on this "lady" you make the name and shame blacklist. Some people need to feel self important even among a group of 3, because their life offline is nowhere near the life online they claim it to be. Rudeness can also be the arrogance that they feel they can write to anyone and run down fellow members, lie, bitch, cause mischief, betray, bully, cause they are bored in their own lies and need to live through the drama of others. Some people need to walk away from their computers and go live the real life they are claiming they have.
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Seachange
10 years ago
OMG. I totally agree. Never heard of such a thing but am sure it exists, but not sure if there is one in Melbourne. Not that I am interested as it seems a waste of time, instead of support group, more like a bitching session. so not constructive. Not sure what it is they are trying to accomplish and really, as you said, just walk away from the computer. Lol. Well said. Good luck ladies.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Funny some see this a job interview,take rejection to heart! I appreciate reply but don't expect I'm not every ladies cup of tea!Yes it's less likely being a grey ghost ,lol Would never rant and abuse,waste of energy,love not war,lol Surely lady/man is not going to change there mind anyway! Can't believe it's just rude in my book,if not interested it's their option! Karma will get even ,with the haters anyway xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm new round here but be polite,honest and yourself. Just because you can hid behind a computer screen, does this give you the right to be an arsehole??? Would this be appropriate face to face in real world ??. C
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RHP User
9 years ago
My partner and i posted on datefinder looking for a couple or woman to join us and take photos and video for us and if it went that way to enjoy the fun if all weee comfortable. The only replies we got were single men and a ton of them. My partner and i are by no means rude or aggressive ppl at all so we would just send the thanks but no thanks as you are not what we are looking for. We got a few rude responses back but we have come to expect that. What we didnt expect was a few of these men messaging us back later after we had updated our pictures wanting access to them?? Really you expect us to open our pictures for you even though we turned you down to come take them for us. I did become quite rude to some of these ppl but what did they expect. RHP has become a bit of a mecca for dirty old men and picture hunters. Sorry if this offends anyone as it is not meant to but wow some pol just deserve what they get. Ok getting off my soap bucket now. 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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