M59 F50
Want to but can't
December 09 2016
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RHP User
8 years ago
I dont really care a lot what people think about me. Ive learned we all have our likes and dislikes. We identify with people, or we dont. But opinions are like assholes.
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CumOnRound
8 years ago
I am not a big drinker, prefer to be the designated driver, so I often get picked on by other women who think I am a boring woman and wife.... God how I would love to make their toes curl!!! Mrs C :)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Think I am a very genteel lady :) Q
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am happy for them to keep on thinking that Q
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RHP User
8 years ago
Totally get that. In my regular life, I am regimented and in control. I am often told to go out and have fun and to act my age. If only they knew. I get hit on a lot though and say no. Bahaha if only they knew that I say no because I don't think anyone from the vanilla world can live up to the amazing nights I have at swingers clubs, orgies or catching up with swinger friends! 😉 I'm pretty sure most guys would be offended if I said "Sorry, I don't think you can satisfy me in bed" - Posted from rhpmobile
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Livingandloving2
8 years ago
It doesn't concern me in the slightest what my vanilla friends think about me in terms of living a conventional lifestyle. I'm doing things for me...not to impress anyone else. Therefore regaling people with my bedroom exploits doesn't interest meMrs LAL
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Yup agree with you,Q ,they can think what they want but my insides hurt laughing at times thinking about actually your the stick in the mud boring ones ,and I ain't going let this cat outa the bag ,just smile , just smile and nod , aha ,lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Yup agree with you,Q ,they can think what they want but my insides hurt laughing at times thinking about actually your the stick in the mud boring ones ,and I ain't going let this cat outa the bag ,just smile , just smile and nod , aha ,lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
8 years ago
I am known as a sweet and sensible girl-next-door person my whole life, but I'm on RHP and have been hooking up with men whom are not my friends that I went to school with, or have worked with 😜 So, when my married friends talk about their traditional bedroom business so proudly, I just silently say inside my head "you guys have a lot to explore in sex lol". Of course, I kept my thoughts to myself and will continue to do so :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Come on tell us what your inside voice is really saying ,if you had a time machine ,that you could go back and erase what you said wouldn't you love to blurt something out ,what would it be ,no bars held back , - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As far as some members of my family are aware, I have only ever been with my then girlfriend from a couple of years ago. I do my best to not even begin to lift the lid on the gigantic can of worms that could be opened regarding more recent times...
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RHP User
8 years ago
My work colleagues don't find me boring, but maybe a little eccentric due to my spiritual side. As for others (family and some friends), whenever it's insinuated that I live a boring life, I just smile and say "then you obviously don't know me well at all and you never will". Maybe a little bitchy but I often get this from family members who think they're a lot more fortunate and superior to me which is the reason for me not wanting them knowing very personal details of my life. My best friend who has known me for 36 years now is the first to tell people I'm far from boring and live life to the fullest.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm not indiscreet, but I am honest about who I am. I feel no shame for the way I live my life and I therefore feel no need to hide it. Do I tell my mother about my most recent threesome? No... But she knows I'm bisexual, that I have a couple of 'friends' that I see regularly and that I'm quite happy the way I am. The only thing she's said on the subject is that she wishes she'd been more like me when she was younger.
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sweetgem
8 years ago
Given my personality, I tend to pick the right audience to share about things on this side of me. So, that inside voice will stay inside 😛 However, having said that, I once had a general conversation with a couple of my vanilla girl friends about health issues. One thing led to another along the chat and I mentioned that I get stomach pain in certain sexual positions, which had one of my friends stopped me instantly and asked "what do you mean in certain positions? Isn't there only one position?"........I looked at her for a few seconds and asked "are you serious?"........let's just say, my friends exchanged glances back and forth between themselves and the subject was soon evaporated in the air 😂😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm picky who I tell. Some friends are just curious beings. When I tell some of them, they want to experience it too. Usually when you tell people stuff, they wanna know for their benefit and if it's an avenue for them, otherwise they're not interested. If friends don't accept you for you, then stuff them. Most of my friends value my uniqueness and deep friendship because I can tell them how it is and make them question themselves if they ask me questions. Just tonight, I went clubbing with some "vanilla" friends and I found out one of the girls had done 3somes and been in a short homosexual relationship. I told a guy friend of mine that I licked pussy and I now know why guys like it. End of story. You might be surprised what you find. It's not that underground anymore... nothing is super shocking anymore, is it? People will find what they're looking for one way or another. If you open up to them, they may be better friends for life or not friends at all... a risk... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
a bit delusional to some. But I know what I want and even if I'm not destined to get it and/or it keeps evolving, I'm gonna die trying. What you have to offer and what someone can give you should be fairly equal as said above. "Don't die with your music still inside you" - Wayne Dyer. Do you agree that you don't let anybody's opinion worry you? If this is true, then aren't you just contradicting yourself by holding back? Nothing worse than internal conflict/struggle. But it will be a joke for as long as you can mask it :P do I need their validation? Do I care about their negative opinions? I could equally say how closed minded they are and that would hurt them more than their judgements would hurt me. Discretion is something personal vs professional. Work people gossip and it does matter in the public eye. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
All the time, my parents think I need a husband/partner to grow old with, to look after me, or each other, you know meaning health issues 😀 can't understand me wanting to remain single. But they're slowly adjusting I think. I never mention guys or that I see anyone, because the questions would follow, and how would I tell them he's 25 and we only ever fuck, no relationship 😂😂😂 sometimes in public, sometimes with other people hahaha omg best I appear celibate 😇
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'm not a boring person in real life. I don't have this problem and hence, I don't need to hide anything. The topic doesn't need to be brought up or need to be held back. I talk about plenty of other things. Why do they think you're boring? Do you not do or talk about anything else? Can't/won't be versatile? Don't have common ground? You get what you reflect. You think your friends are boring and hence they think you're boring... In fact I find sex parties boring...it's super pretentious and people are trying to look better, outdo each other, the pressure to perform, the pressure to be the most interesting/sexy/funny, some are shy, some are awkward, some are like puppies, some will compliment you almost just for the sake of it... not to mention dramas lol - show pony parties. Nothing I haven't seen on porn. Outdo that shit! Sex parties must think I'm boring hahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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hotwife4fun71
8 years ago
Mrs girl4fun and myself called into her parents place to pick up the kids after we had been to Melbourne for a night of fun While we were there mrs girl4fun started to cramp in both thighs then her stomach She said it was from going a bit hard at the gym that morning and her mum started to lecture her about not pushing herself so hard and have a bit of fun while mrs told me off for putting in the of sarcastic remark Little did she know that the cramps were from meeting a young stud after an early tea (so we had an early night) that lasted until the early hours of the morning that kept going and going and when he left mrs was a smiling sweaty happy girl - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I love smiling at people as they think vanilla If they only knew - Posted from rhpmobile
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PurePeony
8 years ago
... that one group of friends think I'm probably asexual and a "typical spinster" who will die as celibate as a nun. :P Betcha some of them would think that even if I had sex, I'd be the "lie back and think of England" rigid and frigid type. LOL! The others know me as someone who finds every opportunity to sneak sex or related topics into the conversations almost everytime. I'm a sneaky chameleon! Sweetgem, your friends are shocking! Only one position?! That is so tragic!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Personally as I've become older I stopped caring what people think at all,it's your own life and you freely choose how to live it,from a movie, hiking, wine and cheese night, out on the town for drinks, or sweaty and hot encounters with singular or multiple parties. I've had plenty of interesting little adventures, alot of people I wouldn't share that info with,but there is at least one I can and it's great to remember and discuss those events. People that think you're boring because you don't go and get trashed on a night out ,don't want to partake in certain activities or aren't totally outgoing and social, I wouldn't worry about them,they live their life by their guidelines and desires, and you yours,be content within yourself, and if the mood takes you, it never hurts to try something new,you'll be certain if you like it or not,can tick it off your list, it can turn into something you enjoy and usually brings interesting and most fun times in life.
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
We don't care so much about what people think ,it's more about how wrong they are and the inside voice would love to blurt out some truths ,just to see there faces change and their jaws drop on the ground with disbelief ,lol ,but if cause that will never happen cos we are boring ,lmao - Posted from rhpmobile
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Dirtyandfriendly
8 years ago
I've always come across the nice guy and a bit nerdy, yet I'm that guy who does the crazy and kinkiest thing imaginable. Everyone thinks I just work or study hang out with my family where actually I have two FWB benefits who I meet and currently have a lot of fun with. One at the the moment we are looking for couples and having an orgy, I do look at people and wonder if they have the vanilla life and most do, if people only knew the crazy shit I do.
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RHP User
8 years ago
What is less than vanilla... plain milk?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I was heading up to Albury once to meet a lady from eharmony. My mother thought I was just getting my whore on....lol knows me too well that woman sometimes... Anyways, she said to me "why can't you be normal like your two brothers?? Just stick with one person, instead of gallivanting all over the place like this??" Lol now, for those who know me, know that I see questions like that as a challenge to answer in the most shockingly, vial way that will see that whoever is asking such questions are left mortified..... Well.....this was no different. I replied "because mum, I love the fact that married women and their partners allow me to fuck their wives....in the arse, while they watch on before I ejaculate all over their faces.....some even share it with their husbands!!!!" She just stood there shocked, mouth still open, I could tell I just destroyed her in that response, but I didn't care....this is me, it's not her choice of lifestyle and I get that, but it's entirely mine....as whilst I'm willing to accept any consequence as a direct result of my involvement, then it's my life to be happy in..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I started a new job this year & one guy made the comment about how I must be gay because I'm 36 & got no kids or ever married. If he only realized that I am straight, have had heterosexual relationships, & currently have regular 3some with a couple because she likes a bigger penis. Not one to brag, but I so wanted to rub it in his face lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Gustopher01' I started a new job this year & one guy made the comment about how I must be gay because I'm 36 & got no kids or ever married. If he only realized that I am straight, have had heterosexual relationships, & currently have regular 3some with a couple because she likes a bigger penis. Not one to brag, but I so wanted to rub it in his face lol I don't think rubbing your penis in his face would do much to disprove his comment ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
@Stirry *gobsmacked *jaw-dropping.....LMFAO!!! ROFL but dude, don't be the cause of her heart attack! Touch wood... good that she knows you, I hope she half expected some shocking response from you! Gotta love your bluntness, makes my bluntness seem so mild. I agree, I don't really hold back if people ask me. Feed that curiosity, I say. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yep..fuck it...if someone owns there shit...they appear confident... When confidence speaks, people usually listen ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
@RichardJohns Vanilla is one of my faves and I love plain milk! It fills me up and especially great after an extremely spicy meal oh yeah baby...! I'm still a vanilla person, (curious nonetheless) but I laugh at crazy shit cos it's so goddamn shocking ie, @Stirry and his unrelentingly, blunt "Dear Mother" responses. That would be an awesome movie scene where you just walk away and leave her completely lost for words and probably slightly turned on by the idea of a younger man, herself hahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Bahahaha the visuals are gonna scar me ffs :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
What anyone thinks of me is none of my business! Post your Comment
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RHP User
8 years ago
At a family do once and there was a gay couple from the hosts work crowd, one was the extrovert effeminate type who I struggle with, so after a couple of eye rolls from me I was painted pretty quickly with the homophobe brush.I caught them in a quiet place and said in another time and place I would have let them both do me, the look on their faces was priceless. But damn lucky the rest never got wind of it although apparently later discreet enquiries were made.I love my family secret, smug superiority lol.
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