RHP

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Wanting to join Cuckold couple

July 28 2020

Hello wonderful couples, I am seeking some advice. I am entering a new and interesting phase of my sexual journey where I would like to establish and ongoing arrangement with a cuckold couple. I have had a few conversations with couples on here that give the impression they are that way inclined however it does not eventuate in to a reality type situation. As a couple what do you look for in this case? Is it the approach, the attraction, the arrangement? What holds you back? Thank you for some advice here. P.S this is not fishing for couples to reply and me chase you down. happy if you respond and initiate conversation however I am not interested in using this as a false tactic.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    "I have had a few conversations with couples on here that give the impression they are that way inclined however it does not eventuate in to a reality type situation." Have you considered that the female profiles on here might get between 1-10 messages per day, are usually involved in several kik/snap chats at once, and that maybe they aren't "holding back" but have gone a different direction with it? Your profile needs some pics, and you could expand on the text a bit, what are you offering to a couple/hotwife that the next guy can't?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    yep, totally understand that lovely ladies get bombarded by us animalistic men! i do converse with couples, it just seems to pop up that is the male writing and actually wants it but hasnt really got the wife to say she wants it yet, of they ghost so i dont know if thats when it comes to the crunch to get together and something happens between the couple in discussion? will definitely keep chatting and see where it leads, its an area im interested to explore with the right couple.

  • cplusdee

    cplusdee

    4 years ago

    Generally one half of a couple seems to manage the profile here, try not to get concerned just because you’re only chatting with one half to begin with. I can only share our experience - as a couple we have our interests that we want to fulfil, and we have had at least 60 conversations started this month alone. And when we follow through, it might end up being one of those 60, or none if the stars don’t align that particular month. It’s an imbalance but that’s what you’re dealing with, we have plenty of great chat that we enjoy immensely with people that we’d love to meet, and unfortunately many of those chats never gets to the end goal - we unfortunately can’t meet and fuck two guys or couples a day. If you’re getting good chat going, that’s a good start, you’ll find your match, with some patience. Good luck and have fun ☺️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    If all the conversations you are getting in seem to be just the husband, with a wife who is not engaged, then maybe limit your targets to only those profiles verified or validated by others? 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’m sure that many of the guys o chat to, or my husband chats to, think that we as a “Hotwife” couple are fakes or flakes. But the reality is that there are many applicants, and not only do they have to meet a high standard, they often have to be also available at a time that matches our limited free time. We have been at this 3 years and have had many “outings” or “playdates”, I don’t want to talk numbers exactly but to suggest we got something done once every “few” months wouldn’t be out of line. Good luck and stick at it.

  • FloozieandHim

    FloozieandHim

    4 years ago

    A photo or two and verification of your profile would definitely help you....

  • XBonnieClydeX

    XBonnieClydeX

    4 years ago

    john_inbris....... you have no photos and your profile is not validated. Our recommendation would be to start there. Also, if you are seeking this kind of arrangement then state that in your profile, be more direct in what you are seeking. Always have readily available a nice face photo. Best if raunchy fun to you 😈 x Bonnie

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    I'll add another thought to ponder from our experience on here. We're not into cuckold play but have maybe a third of all singles that message us assume that we are. We've asked a few what gave them the idea and the response has been along the lines of Mr is bi and you're looking for guys. 🤷🏻‍♂️ It's a bit of a case of two plus two equals five. Unless it's directly mentioned in a profile best not to assume. As for guys driving things online, as others have said it's just one member of the couple online a lot of the time. Don't stress about it, there's s lot of vetting going on before you'll chat to both. Honestly, you're probably doing quite well to be getting replies without pics on your profile. Good luck and keep trying you'll find people eventually

  • Hotasianwife

    Hotasianwife

    4 years ago

    You need to improve your profile. No picture, no validation and very little to describe what you are after. My wife would not be interested seeing that. Fix those issues up and you might have more luck.

  • snowytoes007

    snowytoes007

    4 years ago

    Yep - no photo at all? Really? Unless you've have incredible banter, your not going to get many responses.

  • jasey

    jasey

    4 years ago

    firstly no photos : no from my husband and i, even if you might be very attractive.Also, we are specific to a point on what we want. no kissing, very respectful of our relationship etc.that doesnt mean something is wrong with you. however if we get the impression through chat you wont respect those things we will end conversation. its not personal.overall = photos.

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    He's a paid member, he's got private pics, profile is filled out, maybe a bit sparse. No odd rules that send up red flags, we've read worse couples profiles recently. So much single guy bashing at times 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    yep, we men need to have thick skin... but am sure we bring it on ourselves too... have heeded the advice in here and am thankful for those that contributed ;)

  • Naughty1

    Naughty1

    4 years ago

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