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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Just don't put any expectations on the night and look after each others needs. Don't have to say you will full swap, because in the moment that might change (being first timers).Your partner might not realise that they aren't ok with something until it happens so be prepared to take things as they come.You are the most important people to each other, that comes first :-)Good luck, it is an awesome thing to be a part of. You will have great times and meet SOO many great people :-)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'The_team' Just don't put any expectations on the night and look after each others needs. Don't have to say you will full swap, because in the moment that might change (being first timers).Your partner might not realise that they aren't ok with something until it happens so be prepared to take things as they come.You are the most important people to each other, that comes first :-)Good luck, it is an awesome thing to be a part of. You will have great times and meet SOO many great people :-) Excellent advice! Agree wholeheartedly. Just have fun and do what you are comfortable with, most other couples will understand if your limits are being tested, especially if you're newbs. Hope you have an awesome night!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Relax, take your time, enjoy the whole evening not just the sexual side - but first and foremost, have a secret "safe" code word / action with your partner to let them know you are / are not comfortable with something just so you and he / she is aware of HOW you are feeling. Make it very clear to the "other" couple that it is your first time and although you are excited you are also nervous, anxious and unpredictable as to how the whole evening will go - enjoy yourselves, let us all know how it goes, nd ofcourse take some pics to show us 

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Well thank you to the responses :) incredibly thankful for the advice...We would love to hear your thoughts on what to try come the time, when all four are in bed -positions-toys-stylegeneral fun to share with a couple ;)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Just enjoy the night, plan some sexy games to set the mood, be yourselves, and go with the flow.. Have a fun one guys..

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  Cheekyarses

  12 years ago

  Enjoy it! Have a safety word just incase you need it! No expectations = no disappointments most of the time. Talk about your experience afterward with you n your partner!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Play it as you see and feel it, consider and respect each that is there. Talk about it afterwards leave nothing out, the sex with your partner can be the best when in post mortem of the night before. Good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile

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