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What Do You Look For In A Profile?
August 25 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well "ask me" is an pretty much a "next" as far as I am concerned. I will agree with him in that yes you look hot but I haven't looked at your profile so for all I know you have 200 cats living with you and snort icing sugar for a natural high. I look for similar or complimentary interests. I also don't like to see the stock phrases that are supplied being used as I think if you can't find something to say about what you want and who you are then maybe you aren't all that interesting. Mike
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I were to look, the subject would need to be within a coouple of hundred k's of me, over thirty, bifemme (or couple with a bifemme) and wanting to become friends as well as playmates. Criteria will be as individual as each person. You won't find any consensus or ideal, just what rings your bell.
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RHP User
12 years ago
For me, the first thing that gets my attention is a nice profile pic with a warm friendly smile and a tag line that grabs my attention (sorry, guys, horny and in need of attention just doesn't do it for me). Immediate turn offs are not enough information, including no profile picture, or a profile that reflects we would have nothing in common at all to chat about. What makes me keen to make contact or respond is the first point in my reply to this thread with a friendly, easy going air about a profile with an openness to it. If that makes sense at all??
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
Friends who look legit. Signs of emotional intelligence or humour are also a good start.
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RHP User
12 years ago
some look for spelling mistakes... i look for humour
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'coodi_yowie'some look for spelling mistakes... i look for humour thats me out of peoples list. damit if only I could spelt prooopa then mayybe somwon may FUK me I look for hot guys like you , you hunk of buring luv aohh and tall..tall men just make me drooool
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RHP User
12 years ago
Looking for a blushing emoicon but there isn't one. Miketheduc, I only have one cat and I gave up snorting icing sugar many years ago.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I normally look for profiles with personality - not the generic or have "ask me" everywhere. Turn offs: - attached or have "ask me" in the relationship section - I don't go there. - If the safe sex category has anything but "Always for all activities" - no pics or pics with pizza boxes, clothes on the floor, dirty dishes, beer cans or clutter in the background: just screams filthy to meFunny messages that doesn't address me as hun or babe (pet peeve :) ) and sound like the person is switched-on would make me respond.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've got to agree that personality is a must!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'wiccan_beltane' Looking for a blushing emoicon but there isn't one. Miketheduc, I only have one cat and I gave up snorting icing sugar many years ago. To quote Austin Powers.... 'nuff said Mike
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes, I agree with wiccan_beltane that a profile must have a personality that stands out. Just that something that catches your eye and makes you want to read more, instead of just browsing through it. The ones that have "just ask me" all the way through it do nothing for me and it is only the ones that have their personality in it that I read. Rock on, RHP
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'miketheduc' Quoting 'wiccan_beltane' Looking for a blushing emoicon but there isn't one. Miketheduc, I only have one cat and I gave up snorting icing sugar many years ago. To quote Austin Powers.... 'nuff said MikeYeah baby!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'richo1968' Yes, I agree with wiccan_beltane that a profile must have a personality that stands out. Just that something that catches your eye and makes you want to read more, instead of just browsing through it. The ones that have "just ask me" all the way through it do nothing for me and it is only the ones that have their personality in it that I read. Rock on, RHP Much like yours Richo (full of peronality and wanting more, that is).
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RHP User
12 years ago
That should cover it
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RHP User
12 years ago
I look for....- Profiles that have the essentials completed, i.e. height, race, sexuality, rather than a whole bunch of 'ask me's;- Verification, or at least a number of full body with face photographs;- An indication that they're open to the potential of ongoing meets, rather than one offs;- Obviously I look to see if we have complementing interests;- Some wording in the About Me/Looking For sections that hints that we may have something to talk about in person.Immediate turn offs...- In-your-face primary photos (yes, yes, I know it's a sex site and everything, but still....);- Extreme close up photos of penetration/oral sex in any of their galleries (Now I feel like I've had sex with you already...);- Disastrous spelling/grammar/acronym use.
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RHP User
12 years ago
tuscanred's tits out is what i look for. Wonderful.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'trax49'tuscanred's tits out is what i look for. Wonderful. Even as a straight female I have noticed Tuscan's new pic and I'm impressed! Nice one, Tuscan!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Another pet hate: text talk. As arrogant as this may sound, I do like someone to go through as much effort as typing the words out properly when messaging me. If they can't be bothered to do it in their profile then I know they're not going to bother to go to that effort when sending messages.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Words: some indication of upstairs activity and worldliness - creativity, passion, playfulness. A bit of intrigue and mystique, something that suggests a mystery to spend hours unraveling in clothes and out of them. Something interesting. If it's just a line or two I don't bother. For couples, I love especially the cheekiness and playfulness, a sense of adventure and openness with each other.Pics: a beautiful face, nice body. A silhouette. I almost always prefer clothes on than off in photography to leave something to the imagination. Amateur naked photography is usually quite stark and unappealing - flesh tones are wrong, lighting is horrid, positioning and framing is unflattering etc. A bit of artistic composition and thought in the photographs goes well. A sole close up of breasts is usually an alarm bell for me that they're hiding something. Love a legs shot.I almost never use Search anymore, I just notice people when they post here.What turns me off:No matter how appealing the photos are, unless there's something written there I'm almost guaranteed to keep moving. Actually, the hotter the pics are, the more likely I am to keep moving without the accompanying words. My logic is she's either a) the kind of physically attractive girl that expects to be pursued (I like not knowing which one's the cat and which one's the mouse), b) doesn't value conversation, which means we'd have little in common and she's probably c) purely into something physical, in which case, while I'm reasonably attractive, why wouldn't she just go with a dude with a cheese grater for a chest, and d) she's probably into mimbos, which I find a bit of a turnoff.By the same logic, if there are a lot of ripped muscley guys, or more than say 20-30 friends in the list, I also usually don't bother. I like women to be selective. Validations I find a bit tacky, but not an instant dismissal.Size queens - I know where I stand, and I don't think either of us would enjoy the experience.If it's couples, only pics of the woman will make me lose interest. If I just wanted to know what the women look like, I'd go to a woman's profile.Spelling and grammar. Obvs.
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Letsgetcrazy09
12 years ago
Sheeesh Tuscan, that just about cleans out the whole site!!! Lets
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