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What Lies beneath....(follow on from "Lie of Penis Size"

February 13 2013

Not long ago I posted a forum about misleading of penis size..Answers were interesting.I've read many of Forums and posts relating to cock size which are mainly measured in inches or cm's.It's such a shame that penis size hangups make some men feel inadequate.Take Porn movies and advertising for instance - so much pressure to compete.Guys STOP competing it's not a competition who has the biggest cock or ego - accept your Penis.Use what you got...women want to know you skills rather than size.Not every cock will be a match with a Vagina...Not every Vagina will be a match with a Cock.So my question is..Cock size - should it be measured by a persons attitude??Does great attitude = increase pleasurable sex?? Does bad attitude (misleading a cock size) = decrease pleasurable sex??What really lies beneath...............SuperFoxGive me a man with an awesome attitude any day!!!

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    You know Superfox, i answered your last thread and after giving it some more thought i can honestly say i don't really know if i've ever been lied to about Penis size......I've never looked at those details in a profile, i've never asked a man about cock size, and honestly if that comes up in the first email or message, i know they are not for me.   I'm just not into men who are hung up about cock size....i couldn't care less about size....why should he??   The truth is they are all normal sized to me.   I love good attitude - It's my primary requirement when screening.   Nothing replaces good attitude when ensuring that all involved enjoy themselves.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'karynb' You know Superfox, i answered your last thread and after giving it some more thought i can honestly say i don't really know if i've ever been lied to about Penis size......I've never looked at those details in a profile, i've never asked a man about cock size, and honestly if that comes up in the first email or message, i know they are not for me.   I'm just not into men who are hung up about cock size....i couldn't care less about size....why should he??   The truth is they are all normal sized to me.   I love good attitude - It's my primary requirement when screening.   Nothing replaces good attitude when ensuring that all involved enjoy themselves. If a man has a great attitude there is not way he would even consider bring up his "cock size".I feel the same as you karynb when screening..Great attitude attracts me!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    In the words of deuce bigalow... If man-whoring has taught me anything, it's that most women are as unhappy with their entire body as you are with your small penis. Women are worried about their height, their weight, their giant feet, the stream of obscenities that could burst through their mouth at any second. If you make a woman feel good about herself, it really doesn't matter what's wrong with you.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Interestingly I dont go around measuring the size of my vagina -kinda of dont feel the need - funny that...   but seriously guys get sooooooooooooo hung up on this..................and they sooooooooooooo dont need to   its whats on the end of it that counts..........   My last ex was well and truly hung..................he was giftedin this department and so didnt he know it.............   But he was a lazy lover...thinking he just had to whip it out for all us gals to go gaga over it....he made no effort when it came to pleasuring playmates... it was all about him... the guy was a giant prick but in more ways than one !!!! and thats what I remember about him...     Guys - lovely beautiful men.... us women look beyond your cock....can you ?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Cock size does matter and yes I look at the size guys put on their profile. Recently met a guy, sorry very unsatisfactory, great with other moves, but geeze I do need to feel "you know what." I want the whole package. bs xx

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Whoops I thought this was about me......lol....well I have been a little quiet of late.I once assumed I preferred a large cock because of the cock I had been used to for many years...... always did the job......I have now found the wonderous array of sizes thicknesses are very very nice thank you.I was the tyoe to check the size before I met and I think a lot of men under estimate, I dont feel like I have been mislead....I do feel like I have learned to appreciate. I have been lucky in general with my lovers they know how to use what they have been given. If they have a sexy charismatic attitude yes I think they can get away with anything. Almost anything.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    than a big dick,no matter the size of their appendage.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Cock size really doesn't matter to me, it's how you use your tongue and fingers . Seriously, I can't orgasm vaginally, only through clitoral stimulation so I really couldn't give a stuff how big or small someone's appendage is. It doesn't do much for me when it's in there. But I will say the non-gigantic ones are the best to go down on. Love it when I can take the whole thing in my mouth.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    A great attitude is essential to great sex! Confidence and humour are big turn-ons, as is having a positive outlook. I would definitely say a bad attitude leads to disappointing sex as negative people are just not very sexy.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    "Accept your penis"Personally, I accept that there are some people who have specific preferences and requirements - tall, or waxed, or dark, or hung like Mr Ed. That doesn't bother me in the slightest. It makes life simpler, I guess ('box ticking' to use a cliché). We all have preferences, sometimes strong or mild. I have a mate who likes exactly the opposite to me in a woman's physique, so we make great wingmen - the Spratt's of bar crawling, he'd choose the short skinny ones every time and I wouldn't notice them because I'd already made a bee-line for the tall curvy ones. We're all wired to differentiate, I think.There is no end to the things that men (and women) could get hung up about. I confess I'd love to be sporting an uber-wang, but I'm sure I'd then worry about something else instead. So, instead, I concentrate one what I do know works for me. An overnight success, 30-odd years in the making...In the end, you have to choose what is most important to you, at the time. What are your priorities? And how long are you willing to wait?As to the question... may I paraphrase it? I think you're asking, can we somehow change the message that "size matters" to "women often want an engaged, attentive, flexible and skillful lover". Is that right?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Thanks for you thoughts...I understand what you saying. :-) Hummmm a re-phrase?? I think when it ones down to it...its a persons attitude...if a persons attitude is crappy and distasteful then NO way in hell am I going there to add to their ego and be treated like Crap...I would definitely close up like a clam!! no penis size would open me up... Now on the other hand if meet a man and his attitude was respectful, honest and had a great outlook in life..had a positive vibe...oh for sure I'd turn into a octopus on heat...therefore penis size would not matter as his attitude would certainly make a difference. Hope I explained properly and what reflexs my Forum Topic what I am trying to say.. FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    DAM!! I'd be no good to ya when out, would I????.... I'm the short skinny brunette one. ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I gather the ladies use their pelvic floor muscles and I have met some women who can really get a grip on things so why is this such a big problem????   I love pushing into a nice tight wet pussy, sure a lot of foreplay really gets things nice and wet and if I can get her to orgasm before I enter then I find a nice reception....   Mike

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Can we do a forum about tight versus wide pussies or something? Sometimes the size of the cock is not the problem. Her: "Is it in yet?" Him: "I can't tell..."

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I like me cock just as it is and the way I am thanks..........I don't need anymore or any less GT

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    12 years ago

    You cant change your size so why not focus on the things you can You can change how good you are at using what you have. You can try and improve on picking up the signs from your partner on what feels good for them.

  • Vintagetatu

    Vintagetatu

    12 years ago

    To be honest... I love size... BUT (and I say this with a raised brow)... some of the best sex I've had has been with men who are considered of average size... despite what men think it's different for every woman/man/receiver...Give me:* Cheeky personality,* Devious eye glints,* PASSION,* Sensational foreplay,* Non judgemental,* Open experimental typeswho are 100% confident with their personality, body (whatever shape or size) and with exactly who they are and THAT my forum filly's can add 4" onto any delicious appendage!Love and LicksVTps. I guess if you own a jet that's pretty cool too.. but doesn't add to your cock size ;)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' I wonder if we will see a stampede of guys changing profile names and removing penis photos and references.Somehow..... I doubt it.BAHAHAHAHAMost cocks in here measure between 5foot5 and 6foot tall.DG Air getting a bit thin up there in your ivory tower ?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFox'DAM!! I'd be no good to ya when out, would I????.... I'm the short skinny brunette one. ;-)- Posted from rhpmobileThere is always an exception that proves the rule, oh foxy one....Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Him: "I can't tell..." I'm so gonna use that!

  • GezWouldGo

    GezWouldGo

    12 years ago

    Fifty IS Cool

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'Otori' Seriously, I can't orgasm vaginally, only through clitoral stimulation so I really couldn't give a stuff how big or small someone's appendage is. It doesn't do much for me when it's in there. PLEASE... dont say "cant"You just havent..... yet.DG And its not that I *can't* win the Olympic 100m Hurdles, it's just that I haven't yet, right?It's B.S., and just setting up people to be anxious about what might be possible. Even if you have scientific evidence to suggest that everyone "should" be able to have one thing or another, slapping them in the side of the head with it doesn't do any great favours, does it?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Messolonghi' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' PLEASE... dont say "cant" You just havent..... yet. DG And its not that I *can't* win the Olympic 100m Hurdles, it's just that I haven't yet, right? It's B.S., and just setting up people to be anxious about what might be possible. Even if you have scientific evidence to suggest that everyone "should" be able to have one thing or another, slapping them in the side of the head with it doesn't do any great favours, does it? I have to agree here. Personally I have found that the question "Have you ever met someone that squirts?" changed to "Have you ever experienced it?" and is now "Have you not squirted yet?" It's not very encouraging, and frankly rather annoying. DG, I'm telling you that you can totally handle a 12-inch strapon inside you. As a matter of fact, I'll be happy to show you myself.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    The only men that give it two thoughts are those that are very big and those that are very small.The 80% of us in the middle of the bell curve have much bigger issues to focus on. Primarily on using it as much as possible.To answer the OP, it's doubtful a bad attitude (or body image?) is going to provide an optimal experience no matter what the issue is.Mr C (perfectly comfortable at less than 2 standard deviations from the mean)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Don't you mean 6 foot 3? Don't want to exclude yourself from all those cocks now do we? Haha

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    the short bald man with the big schlong should be able to pick up more chicky-babes than the tall handsome man with the average package.....just sayin'

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Sometimes you rub me... the wrong way.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    You missed my point. It might well just be a matter of applying the right techniques to a uniform physiology. I don't know, I'm not a scientist. But, having you deliver sermons from on high about how everyone could and (worse) should be doing it doesn't make it any more likely that it'll be possible for them. In fact, as was my point, it makes it harder, more stressful and difficult. And that's assuming, of course, your sermons are correct. The trouble with knowing it all is that one can appear to be a know it all, don't you think?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Lol get em tiger :p

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    To be a pussy whisperer is an awesome responsibility. The preacher. Lol. I like that.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Those who know how to win are much more numerous than those who know how to make proper use of their victories. I thought this could apply to big dicks too.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    My issue is with your approach, delivery and style, and not with your content. Indeed, it would be interesting to discuss your theories - you've got such interesting ideas - but I'm sworn off zealots and fundamentalist. I also find passive aggressive very off putting. I'm out.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Erm...did you type GB instead of DG?? One is Dangerous Goods, the other....is me :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Nahhhh.....I can only make myself look bad....as you don't need any help in that department :p.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    For me..if someone had a great attitude...I mean great without being COCKY...I automatic add 10inches to their penis size...I don't know why..I just do. I mean anything is possible...yeah??- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ghostbusters'Erm...did you type GB instead of DG?? One is Dangerous Goods, the other....is me :) DG stands for Deluded Grandeur? Just kidding DG, you know I still like ya.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    You two should get a room before DG creams his panties. Hehehe

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    While I dont think I'm overly hung I also know I'm on the larger size then average & a fair bit thicker ( pretty sure she didnt mean between the ears either) I've also meet 3 women in the last 2 weeks that have said I can use it pretty well too, 2 of them had never squirted before & were surprised to learn they could.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'You two should get a room before DG creams his panties. Hehehe No.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Is that like an adult version of Pinocchio?? :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Didn't SF have a thread about women lying to guys about penis size?? I do believe adding 10" is just.... Well you know. ;-)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    LOL When I say add 10inches to cock I mean add extra elegance and substance...makes cock more attractive.. Someone can have a teeny penis but yet because of their attitude its more appealing and may be bigger than what it is.. So to me if a guy has an attitude that turns me off, there is more chance he'll lie about his pens size therefore less appealing cock...smaller than what it is.. make sense?? Foxy- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    So added inches makes a cock more attractive? So size does matter then??

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' So added inches makes a cock more attractive? So size does matter then?? The Actual size of a Penis does not matter to me what so ever...The attitude of the person is what matters to me increases their attractiveness..

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' HAHAHA @ Super..... I see whats happening hereDG Well this Fox is not caught..

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    12 years ago

    So true Ms Devious!! How come it's always the guys who aren't measuring up? There are women out there with vaginas big enough to turn a truck around in yet they like to think they're tighter than a fish's butt! Bahahahaha....Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Can we do a forum about tight versus wide pussies or something? Sometimes the size of the cock is not the problem. Her: "Is it in yet?" Him: "I can't tell..."

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    That is all..... :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ghostbusters' That is all..... :) You are obviously in the good books....... Has been awhile since the last Meeka bashing I must be due for a spanking.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I now have 15", look out lol