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What age range is sex at its best?
March 03 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
Can't speak for men, generally their testosterone drops and libido gradually fades. For women it's the opposite, goes to a whole other level. Young guys come to me, quite often attached, have drop dead gorgeous partners, but they love that I'm in touch with my body, not shy, let it all go completely, and worship their bodies lol but also extremely orgasmic, I orgasm easily, and now love the visual also. 100% comfortable with my body, so much more, Hornier than words can describe, I could fuck all day 😊 so for me, pre-menopause or the years leading up to menopause changed everything, I then pushed the limits and grew to love certain things/acts/fetishes emerged. But confidence and being comfortable with my body, was what brought me to where I am now. I didn't in my wildest dreams think it could be this good or that I would have access to the hot guys I've been lucky enough to be with 😉 No matter how good it is now, it will be sooooooo much better, and for me to. That's the exciting part 😀
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RHP User
8 years ago
Think I just identified myself as an 'elder' person. Ouch 😕
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think it is a combination of many things, including knowledge and having the right partner/s. Perhaps also a mental maturity whilst also a sense of freedom, which can come about at different periods of one's life. And as sex is a connection with others, at least some time gaining the attitude to relate to others as they deserve and need, because we require at least one other just as enlightened to experienced the full range of sexual possibilities. Some people may have had the fortune to discover sex quite early, or more correctly to discover it and experiment with the open mind it requires. Others have had a range of experiences, yet have found the greatest bounties much later in their life. Whilst physiologically speaking we are at sexual peaks as men and women at certain times, our interest and sexual energy coming from the mind has the capacity to be woken during many stages of our lives. I started my journey very late and so I can't say my best sex is in the past. It may be in the present, or in the future. But I don't know what opportunities will be or won't be available to me in the future, so at this stage I am concentrating on the present. But I would certainly like to think I could be having great sex with a future partner well into the older ages.
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RHP User
8 years ago
The last 3 years have been my best sexually. My exes were not very experimental so I just thought, ah well, its just sex and it actually began not to bother me. When I became single I met guys who were ( I thought at the time ) sexually outrageous! Once I got my confidence back I enjoyed learning and experiencing new things. I had so much fun the first couple of years that I realised I had found the real me. Better late than never. Mr and I joke that we are like the oldest teenagers in town when we get together. Sex certainly doesnt wane as you get older.....as long as you have compatible partners. I will be enjoying sex for as long as Im physically able. Oh, and I had a rude guy message me to ask if women my age still get wet. You bet Buster. The myth of dried up old harridans has been well and truly busted by the sexy mature women on RHP
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RHP User
8 years ago
Well, yes, it keeps getting better with your partner. Together you become more relaxed. Try new things... Discover... Explore. No one knows you as well as your long term partner. My partner recommended I try sex with younger.... And younger.... And... How young can you go? Well fuck me... As young as I like. And I've realised experience or age is over rated. Young teens can be fucking amazing. And older can be amazingly clueless... Age is truly just a number. Practice makes perfect right? Well, maybe. But, if you are doing the same thing again and again... Well, sorry, but you're not improving. Ultimately, I've learned that variety is the spice of life. Especially if you enjoy seeing your partner enjoying themselves with someone else. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have always enjoyed sex, and it has only gotten better over the years. Many years of practice has taught me how to pleasure a woman. Everything is better with experience. Having said that, apparently once you get over the age of about 45 your dick must stop working. Trying to find someone on this and other sites is next to impossible. Even though you have more experience and know more, apparently older men are off the menu. This upsets me as I have so much pleasure left to give.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Exactly, 100% agree with that 👍
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RHP User
8 years ago
Surely the best sex would have to be the sex that conceived you! haha I'm 55 & it still keeps getting better, & I keep trying new experiences. Three day tantra workshop in a couple of weeks time, so I'm sure that'll be a game changer too!
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RHP User
8 years ago
A woman her 50s will blow your mind. The worst thing is finding willing participants
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RHP User
8 years ago
How long is a piece of string ? Each piece has its own story.
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RHP User
8 years ago
You're how old? Sorry, but in your comment, you say you're 55. Your profile displays 45? 😉
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RHP User
8 years ago
For sex is the age that anyone is now..IMO it's not about age ,it's about who you are having sex with and how well you know your mind and body Q
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lovman8
8 years ago
surprisingly it even gets better with age. And you know the saying, you're only as old as the woman you're feeling. Well I'd like to feel about 53!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Found that as I have gotten older and more confident in myself and have begun to experiment more I am enjoying it a lot more, so for mei am finding my 30's the best so far but I think the best is yet to come 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
you certainly are all woman hun ,,,and ooze sensuality ,,,now hunni the question is ,,,how can i turn you lesbian ,,,,,giggle xxxxxx catherine
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RHP User
8 years ago
Considering the things Ive tried in the last couple of years, that door may well be open xx
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RHP User
8 years ago
For us (and generally for a number of parents out there LOL), having spent most of our time bringing up a family, working, paying off a mortgage, intimacy was something we tried to find time for, when we could....but the definition of sex, meant a number of different things as we aged..... Now that our kids have grown up, we are finding more and more time to be with each other, to talk about our pleasures and in some cases act out on some of our fantasies ....most of which we dare not think about (as we didnt have time anyways) in our younger years of our relationship.....we find sex / intimacy soooooo more fulfilling NOW that we are maturing.... Do we have regrets that we didnt explore our sexual boundaries, fantasies early on? No, not really, different priorities and more important things to attend too....but we can surely say now, that sex between the two of us, has been the best ever...... fingers crossed it continues to get better and better, as we mature..... Each to their own aye
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
We feel, that the most significant sex organ is the brain. The brain is responsible for the thoughts, ones imagination, the fantasy & thrill, that make one aroused and the act of sex as enjoyable as it is. Age therefore, in our opinion, is not the most influential factor when it comes to good sex, but rather experience & lessons learned. It's these experiences, and fantasies, that can make sex more intense as time goes by. With regards the 2nd part of your question. Yes, Mrs D had just one partner (Mr D) who taught her all about sex, as she was a virgin. She had not even masturbated nor had an orgasm. The first few months of our relationship were quite wild, sex at almost every opportunity, often 3 times a day. Going into our 21st year together and we still have a lot of fun, always trying to keep the spark alive, new angles, trying new things, exploring ..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As long as your doing it the game and experiment is on I recently engaged in anal stimulating never thought I would but she knows what she's doing, I gaped for the 1st time last night wow is all I can say
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RHP User
8 years ago
Think the more you experience with different people the better...as the saying goes...some guys have all the luck!. I never stayed in long term realationships because i was allways lucky with the women, so i just learned from all of em...different little tricks for better sex. I love variety...so i guess for guys who committed young to one person there sexual experience might be abit on the boring side....hey i could be wrong though. All i know is at 44...the sex is great and like a fine wine...just getting better!
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OkeyDoke45
8 years ago
For me, entering my late forties, I have found that as I have aged I have been more open to different experiences and less - far less - inhibited. I found entering my forties that I had a ''bucket list'' of things that I would like to try sexually, and to date have done most. Still a couple of things I want to do though! As for the question of diminishing libido that has been mentioned in previous posts, I have found that maintaining physical fitness may be the key to that. I love my exercise, and my sex drive increased in my mid-thirties once I started becoming a regular exercise junkie. I still get incredibly horny, I like watching amateur/home-made porn and am constantly amazed that even young blokes seem to struggle to get and maintain an erection when things get down to business. Me, as soon as the buttons start being undone I am up and away and I stay that way for quite some time even after sex. I_Touch, there are many women out there who lose their sex drive with the onset of menopause. As a bi male, I know many other bi men who were introduced to their bi side because their wives simply lost interest in their forties. They may not have been able to ''get some'' on the side with another woman, but there are no shortage of other gay or bi men that they were able to obtain a sexual release with.
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f15eagle
8 years ago
Quoting 'norush66a' A woman her 50s will blow your mind. The worst thing is finding willing participants I agree. In my experience, women in their mid-40s to mid-50s are amazing. They are more comfortable with their bodies, they know what they like and know how to ask for it. They might not have the bodies of younger women, but for me, good sex is always SO much more about the physical parts.
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Forus1234
8 years ago
Now, in our forties is the best time omg! The only downfall is time! Threesomes, foursomes & moresomes life couldnt be better! 😋
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