M45
What am I doing wrong?
February 23 2014
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RHP User
11 years ago
First if all flirts will never get responses.. Women get a 1000 a day ..... Send a messge and one that stands out... Secondary and most importantly, your profile stinks... Doesn't say anything about, what you want, who you are, what you seek.... And a pic of you in the shadows standing half naked isn't very appealing.... Don't be shy, show the ladies who you are... You might still get ignored by a lot, but at least your stalking your own claim by being you... And then you might get lucky and snag a winner!!! 1 out of 20 is better then 0 out of 20..... Put yourself out there buddy - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Bunno...... this topic is asked VERY regularly. You can search the forums and you'll find pages of advice. But here and now, let me ask you to 'flip the script'..... put yourself in the shoes of the vastly outnumbered REAL women in here, and ask yourself..... Q. What have I given them in my profile to make a decision? A. Not much. So when you send a flirt, which is pretty non-committal really, from a profile that doesnt offer much.... in a catalogue of other guys who dont offer much, .... how does that make you stand out as interesting?! In short, but not limited to.... * Re-write your profile... reflect your personality, and not how horny you are, or outlining your sexual resume * take some better photos..... please....* ditch the flirts..... pay for messaging... and write INTERESTING messages. DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
What the guys said. And have a look here for more forums about writing profiles: http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Profile-Clinic-Tips-Advice
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RHP User
11 years ago
What the guys said. And have a look here for more forums about writing profiles: http://redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Profile-Clinic-Tips-Advice
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for the advise I have updated my profile but being married and looking I dont like my chances. Please look at my profile again once approved and let me know if this is an improvement
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RHP User
11 years ago
my profile is crap, I hate writing about myself, and it feels forced writing those initial messages... but I don't mind getting into forum topics or a meet'n'greet. So, instead of the profile avenue of 'getting to know you' that people have suggested, here is another method (though obviously limiting who gets to know you to those people on the forums - so if you're going for numbers, it might be a less than optimal approach)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Bunbury boy c you down the parade where i can by you a drink slap you in the face and kick your ass back home to your wife where you belong talking to her working it out and if you split unfortunately up then try again Now pull your fucken head out your ass 99% of women on here will not have a fucken bar of that you being married and looking !!! Communication truth respect for your woman and yourself . Now fuck off. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I never even look at my flirts and never have.
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thedevilsfantasy
11 years ago
I know you've sent me flirts... and I'm sorry but first of all I don't reply to them.. There is no way possible I can reply to the amount of flirts I get everyday.. I try to reply to my messages unless they are not even close to what I'm looking for, that just tells me they haven't bothered to read my profile properly... Most of all, as a paying member, I don't see why I should reply to guests.. If you're too tight to pay for a membership then you can't afford me, I get enough attention from paying members I don't need too... And you're married... RED FLAG!!! I won't go there!!.. It's the first thing I check on a profile... That's a no go for no me no matter what you looked like or how your profile sounded... Go home... Talk to your wife...
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
Your grammar and punctuation is REALLY coming along in leaps and bounds...... almost as good as your advice! lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
11 years ago
As a single and vanilla woman, I would run as fast as I can when I see the following terms in a male's profile: 1) Bi-curious 2) Hairy body hair 3) Sexual deviate 4) Married 5) Anal giving & receiving Again, I speak for myself only and I mean no offense towards you as you OP, but rather stating what would sink my boat!......is there even such a saying at all??? Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Advertising.The profile its self is only of miner importance in the long run. There is no single one approach to a good profile and most certainly there is no way you can create one that will appeal to all. You must think of it as an advertisement and the product you are selling is your self. You must also know who you are after and target to them. What is it that attracts you to a woman, what type of personality do they have. No point trying to sell your profile to someone you are not compatible with. Learn from other profile that you like. Your profile will not get any attention just by its self.You will need to messaging the women you are interested in. Always read their profile first, take your time and think about what you may have to offer. Always show respect (Women are not walking flesh lights) be honest and try to put some detail into your messages (no need for a novel, but a paragraph at minimum.) Do not worry too much what you write as long as you maintain respect and honesty. Humor is always good if you are good at it. Be polite. A good message will attract a look at your profile. Photos and Image.You image is very bad. You break all the rules with yours. You have very little of their time as you are but one in hundreds and many will close a profile without going past the image if it is no good. Some tips.A: Yours is too dark, your phone should have some app to adjust the brightness and contrast.B: Bad location. Your room is a mess, clean it up for your photo. if you use a mirror, clean it first.C: Composition. Not everyone is a photographer but there is a a way around that. Take many photos from different angles, different lighting and locations. With luck a few will come out good and you will know the ones you like best and dump the rest.D: You don't have to be naked. A well dressed man can many times be more sexy that a naked man.E: If you take a face shot, Always smile or be happy. Fake smiles do not work either, so be in a good mood when you take the photo.F: Get a friend to take some shots, they don't have to know where its going. Now your profile description.We all know that this is an adult dating site but that is not what women want to read about in a profile (Looking for NSA and FWB in a profile description is lame and does not need to be stated). Describe what makes you unique, what you like, what you do, how you enjoy life. Describe what you like in others. A woman wants to see if there are similar interests and does not want to know the ins and outs of your sexual abilities, that comes later if that is to happen. Never be negative toward your self or others. A good writer knows how to leave a mystery unsolved so that the reader want to know more. Keep that in mind, you want them to want to ask a question/s about you. Well that should help a bit I think.You should put some time into creating your profile. Always be polite and show respect, never get frustrated and lose your cool. Work on you photo. Make you profile description unique and about more than just sex. Become a member so you can message, you will never get anywhere unless you can message.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've got a few pairs of those same ones myself - way better than the recent cargos which seems designed for kids who wants to be wearing skinny jeans in summer so they get strangely cut shorts instead. So... Ladies, I'm vouching for his excellent choice in shorts displayed in that pic ;)
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have been heading to the library to study every afternoon , i am trying , but these bunch of fucking kids and adults that have real difficulty learning from a number of reasons none usually of there own bringing are learning to read and write so they can be employed or just do it for themselves and there family . Well its not fucken fair i gotta go out to dinner get on the piss have a fat fucken time but i cannot do a damn thing without correct punctuation and gramma !!!!!!! Fuck my world its the end of the fucken world fuck me if lucky i have nt got anything else going on in my life to worry about or i would kick those fuckers out and take your full stops and fucken comers and fucken capitals and in brackets i would put ( who gives a fuck ) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not attractive. Thumbs down.
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thedevilsfantasy
11 years ago
I thought you put it quite well...I'd like to be there to see it.. then we can go back to your place lol 😍
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RHP User
11 years ago
Im not posting an attraction segment i am making a point and if you cannot see my point your masscarraarrrr is to thick. Quote me (Who gives a fuck) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
That'll work... lol
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thedevilsfantasy
11 years ago
I seem to be one of the few who actually got your point.. but maybe that's because I don't wear 'masscaarraarrr'.. Sounds like maybe you're having a bad week precious.. But then to quote you.. 'Who gives a fuck'
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RHP User
11 years ago
Bahahahahahaha! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
What lovey misanthropy LOL.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Dislike ,hatred of mankind ?????? Please explain. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
It is nearly Easter,but Bunno as your tag,is just tooo cute and fluffy....even if you is a wascal xx Q
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