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What an insult!!!

March 29 2014

After a couple of weeks away from Rhp, I return to find a very horrible message from [[[Collector ]]](( 9 )) Someone saying : Let's fuck fatso. $25 All you can eat. He was obviously blocked immediately but as this is my very first negative message, I'm really very shocked and confused. I believe my pictures and profile depict my size and figure VERY clearly. Why send a message to someone you're not attracted to, purely to cause upset? I must add that I'd only said hello to him in a message! I rarely get offended, but as the first message I've read this morning, it's hit me a bit harder than expected. Have any other beautiful women or men been insulted by someone on Rhp? Have you insulted someone in that way - if so, why? My experience on Rhp has been wonderful, I hope this incident was a one off and stays that way. - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    So I guess his most generous offer... failed. Dont let the actions of an anonymous dickhead..... get to you. 3 seconds after he hit the send button, he forgot about you and emailed his next lucky victim....so if he thinks so little about you.... you should think even less about him DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    with DG,but when that happens,it is a shock and sickening......but remember it is not actually about you..it is about their self hate and misogny......read your validations,you are a gorgeous young woman and give this pathetic person no more thought hugs xx Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    it happened to me too. hurts, you are right....however only for a tiny little bit.there are so many wonderful men on here, the few who are absolute shit heads don't get far. I bet this type gets hardly laid.....this thought alone makes me giggle.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Don't hang on to that negativity! You are beautiful. With some people you are damned if you do and damned if you don't. Put photos that your comfortable with and I praise you for your honesty. These sad fucks that get on here to vilify us are lonely bitter arseholes and the only way to make themselves feel good is to insult. Pity them. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm sure he doesn't have a profile pic and private pic may possible be an array of chest, arm and cock posing - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    That'll fuck'm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'madotara69' That'll fuck'm yes sometimes we need to take a moment think and reel him him.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Obviously he realised he wasn't a chance, so he took the cowards way of a hit and run sideswipe... I checked out your profile and I couldn't see any justification of his insult... So dont worry, thats his way of making himself feel better... Dime a dozen ... Cheers Jay

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Wow, I am sorry to hear that. In my opinion, this arena offers the chance for people to do things they wouldn't normally do in public/real life. The types like cyber bullies etc inflict hurt from the comfort of their own home sitting behind a computer. So, in saying that you get an idea of what kind of person actually says hurtful things on a website. Not taking way the hurt you must of felt, because no one likes to be insulted or put down, but rest assured the type of person who did this to you is merely a pimple in the ocean. Keep your spirits up :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That sort of behaviour is disgusting and a reflection of someone you should be glad you didn't get to know in any sort of capacity. You are beautiful, he probably didn't stand a chance with you anyway ;)

  • inspirit

    inspirit

    11 years ago

    have been on a Vanilla Site. Clearly they are frustrated in their own miserable world!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Your profile & pics are awesome :). Clearly you've had the misfortune of attracting the attention of a complete and utter knob who gets his kicks from trying to make other people feel bad about themselves. It's happened to me only once on RHP after I (politely) told someone I he didn't match what I was looking for. Got told I was Perth Princess and way too up myself, and not to forget that there were millions of other women out there who would be happy to have him. However have had far worse on vanilla dating sites. Much love, Mickelle.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    found his internet log on and now he is crying into his pillow

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    There are loads and loads of lovely people here, thanks very much for your responses :-) helped me smile a bit, will certainly be trying to keep my chin up and be resilient, I'm not usually so soft. Silly silly man, but he'll only get what he wanted if I continue to mope. Life goes on :-D Xxxx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But it is sooo pathetic when they block you. usually Ill just answer with a very polite reply. Tho sometimes the wrath of my tounge will get the better of me.

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me'I checked out your profile and I couldn't see any justification of his insult. Say what?!!!!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Ohsowet' There are loads and loads of lovely people here, thanks very much for your responses :-) helped me smile a bit, will certainly be trying to keep my chin up and be resilient, I'm not usually so soft. Silly silly man, but he'll only get what he wanted if I continue to mope. Life goes on :-D Xxxx - Posted from rhpmobile Don't ya just feel like singin.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    I had someone the other day who thought all my posts were about them! Fuck off ya twit, as if.... Guys on here think they are gods gift... Well I have news for some of them.., women are not FREE whores, some of us have morals and like substance ya know! We are not abusive punching bags...take your frustration else were! Keep ya chin up OP. There's plenty of awesome people on here, I know as I have met them! foxy xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    you make up'for'all the other days xx Q

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    11 years ago

    its just that today..... you're paying attention!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

  • sweetgem

    sweetgem

    11 years ago

    Whether it's in the cyber world or the real world, you will get personal attack, criticism, and meet the nasty and uneducated people at least once in your life! In my case and time on RHP, I have had unnecessary personal attacks, criticism, and challenged several times! But I don't usually respond to them unless it's harsh, or I feel that the other parties (people who generate the questions directing at me) might be interested in hearing my reasons, which is fair enough and I'm happy to explain myself :-) However, for those harsh or nasty personal attacks, I don't give in to them because I see them as an abuse and I don't encourage such behaviour to walk over me! Especially when I have done nothing wrong! But I sincerely thank those who have read my posts, weren't sure what I meant and checked with me instead of verbally attacking me so lightly and bluntly! I always have twice the respect for people like that, and can learn a lot from their behaviour too. So OP, that's life and you can't control what people want to do to you. But you can control how you want to be as a person, and who is worth your time, or not :-) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Jay_Me'I checked out your profile and I couldn't see any justification of his insult... I hope you realise what is terribly wrong with this sentence.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I can't understand why someone would pay for the privilege to send Messages and then send meaningless , hurtful crap like that . That message is a total reflection of the problems of the sender and has absolutely no bearing on you OP . Just remember the song : "These boots were made for walkin' " GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Now what ?????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Litonya' it happened to me too. hurts, you are right....however only for a tiny little bit.there are so many wonderful men on here, the few who are absolute shit heads don't get far. I bet this type gets hardly laid.....this thought alone makes me giggle. ...of Litonya suddenly bursting into fits of giggles and like Dudley Moore in "Arthur" saying, "Sometimes I just think of funny things". I reckon it would be a hoot to spend time with you, Litonya.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    OK... If 2 of you read it differently, I concede . To put the record straight, the true meaning was after checking out Osowet's profile , I could not see any justification for his comments..? But you already knew that ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    if what wrote came across the wrong way... I'm sorry... I think your profile and pics are great...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Re whores :) I agree and it's bout time those fools understood that if they treat a lady as a lady with due respect of an honest nature (not just to bed them) they would probably have a much nicer time and the fun time if it got that far wld be much more delightful for both he n her...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    No wonder I'm not getting anywhere... I've priced myself out of the market... I've been asking for $60 cash, no paypal ! It's jerks like this guy who are destroying the place for the rest of us ! Sweetgem, how about I grab Lady T and dacougar and we have a little panda 4sum ? 😄😄 Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Dont worry bout it. You are sexy and I would love to cover your face in cum anytime baby!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    As long as you're comfortable with who your are and you seem lovely. Don't allow anyone to pass on their own insecurities onto you. They're just not worth it. Enjoy your time here and be safe doing it. Koz.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Regardless of what was in the OPs profile,there mid no justification for vileness xx Q

  • Naughty_nature

    Naughty_nature

    11 years ago

    The man is an idiot and as you go through life you will unfortunately meet many more. Just do as you would normally do if you came across someone like that in the street ignore them then turn and walk away. Your an attractive and switched on young woman who's enjoying life unlike that looser who's only enjoyment is his own right hand good luck. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I feel for u. But dont let one dickhead get to u too much. So many nice guys on here. Im cuddle too. Guys love us xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    You're a beautiful woman and don't let dickheads like that get to you...... I still can't believe the mentality of some people and how they think, but everywhere you go there is always going to be judgemental, uneducated and down right rude people. It's how we deal with them, which makes us the better person.........💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I agree 110% with your words :)) I'd also like to say you are one of the purest hearts here :))) A very sweet lady

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    No, I don't think I inferred too much meaning to your comment, thanks for making the effort to show you're not trying to offend though :-) x - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    Thank you, you're just a darling 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You mean people get messages on here I'm missing out lol

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Thank you. xx *gives a FOXY hug*

  • Twisted_Mister

    Twisted_Mister

    11 years ago

    That this dickhead missed out on a fantastic evening - this lady demonstrates you don't necessarily need to be a size 6 to rock your world!!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What a stupid ignorant cock head. Don't let it get to you. Keep ya head up and stay strong

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    A young guy yesterday sent me this gem, "Eat a dick ur not my type u think ur better than everyone don't ya got news for you" I REALLY wanted to see what that news was, but I had to trim my toenails..... Slow Sunday hehehe Sigh.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just a bitter twisted person, probably gets jollies from raining on someone else's parade Besides even an overweight ladie has more chance of meeting someone on here than a wanker bloke In my experience ladies seem to not take this place quiet as serious as some of the desperadoes who are to tight to shell out for a hooker as it's the only way there ever gunna get laid Good luck in your endeavours and don not let one dumbass ruin your day - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hugs and kisses xxxxxxxxx for all cuddly ladies. Ur wonderful and don't let idiots on here upset U xxxx block and report them!!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We got a nasty msg from a supposedly single woman. Told my man "he looks like a bit of a wanker and your missus needs to call jenny craig". Needless to say we were shocked and hurt considering i have lost almost 25kg in the last 12mths. Mr immediately reported her and her profile was cancelled. Admin were really understanding and apologetic. My advice, don't be afraid to report any abuse. Most pepole on here have been genuine and friendly even when not interested. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'new2foru2'Told my man "he looks like a bit of a wanker and your missus needs to call jenny craig". "Your missus" does not sound like it was written by a woman, or is that just me? I suspect your single girl wasn't even female.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It costs nothing and goes a long way, for us anyway. Was going to put common courtesy but that is a misnomer these days. Have lost count of the number of unpleasant messages we have recieved or the hissy fits thrown over a response of no thanks. "Don't let them bring you down" - Annie Lennox

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'new2foru2' We got a nasty msg from a supposedly single woman. Told my man "he looks like a bit of a wanker and your missus needs to call jenny craig". Needless to say we were shocked and hurt considering i have lost almost 25kg in the last 12mths. Mr immediately reported her and her profile was cancelled. Admin were really understanding and apologetic. My advice, don't be afraid to report any abuse. Most pepole on here have been genuine and friendly even when not interested. - Posted from rhpmobile I am so gobbed smacked!!!!! Not only is that rude but very very offensive in my eyes. 5/5 thumbs down for that reply Foxy PS- I hope you don't believe it because, in my eyes it's not true..Your main profile pic is lovely.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'new2foru2'Told my man "he looks like a bit of a wanker and your missus needs to call jenny craig". "Your missus" does not sound like it was written by a woman, or is that just me? I suspect your single girl wasn't even female. I used to live in the Campbelltown area and a lot of the local women took great pains to express themselves in the same manner as their male counterparts. Actually, ...now that I think of it, ...many were worse.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Thank you for your kind words, Foxxxy. We try not to let negative comments get us down. We are very happy in our relationship and we believe that size should never be an issue, be it body shape/size or penis size. Wishing all the genuine people on here the best of luck in finding what they are looking for.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That must have been a pretty horrible experience, it's nice to hear from such a positive couple! Xx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    No worries, I posted that late at night and got it wrong... I even had trouble with that one line when I reread it. Unfortunately , once it's posted you can't correct it and it's out there for all to see... Good to see you're above it all and accepted it for what it was.. a moment of silly wording... Cheers Jay...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Its sad that some people believe they can hide behind a keyboard and think they are gods gift...he is most like surfing cams now and after he rubs another one into his sock he will try his charms on another unsuspecting lady...loser. And you will not get that from me....in the lawyers office lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hi dont worry ohsowet... Your a beautiful woman...its a shame you got a nasty message.mosy guy on here are good bloked... Try to ignore abusive men they are just wanting to upset you because they cant date you.. Most guys are awesome and want to meet nice women like you. I love Superfoxxxys comments and often read her opinions.shes one switched on lady. X Fiona Have fun stay safe online...becareful about giving out personal details until your sure about who your dating. I try meet in a public place if I go on a date .

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'new2foru2' We got a nasty msg from a supposedly single woman. Told my man "he looks like a bit of a wanker and your missus needs to call jenny craig". Needless to say we were shocked and hurt considering i have lost almost 25kg in the last 12mths. Mr immediately reported her and her profile was cancelled. Admin were really understanding and apologetic. My advice, don't be afraid to report any abuse. Most pepole on here have been genuine and friendly even when not interested. - Posted from rhpmobile Congratulations with your weight loss, sure it means a lot to you, must be on top of the world, shame to let anything rain on your good spirits, enjoy Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Is there any real, nice men out there???? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    for anyone to say...i hope his ears turn into assholes and shit all over his shoulders....... i had a fella tell me to stop eating pies and cakes.......i'm a curvy girl i admit but that was rude... just delete or block....you are a lovely girl......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Well I happen to think that you and your pics are wonderful. Don't let some uneducated slob rattle your cage.Yes Frangi there are some gentlemen left in this world and those who believe a lady should be treated with respect always.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I would have said hey I may be fat but your ugly and I can go on a diet. Pity there ain't no head transplants as the baboon wants his arse back. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Your a beautiful woman you know it we know even that idiot knows it but there will always be fools that think they have a joke that they have found that's funny yet really only shows how stupid and far from funny they really are. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    :-) thanks again cc - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Seachange

    Seachange

    11 years ago

    So feeling for you OSW. Like in the real world, the ether will be peppered with arseholes and idiots who spend their $ contacting you for what? Hmmm. You wonder about their mental state of mind and what they get out for doing so., But ignore him as you know better that you are a beautiful woman and a much better person than them. Sad indeed but take time to let the hurt subside, don't dwell in the negativity of the situation and look forward to the potential of meeting lots of beautiful friends and lovers on here. Take care gorgeous.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You a gorgeous……his loss!

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Von82013' for anyone to say...i hope his ears turn into assholes and shit all over his shoulders....... Oh Von, I love that line! It made me guffaw out loud....do you mind if I pop it in my back pocket to use again in the future? x Me

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    11 years ago

    Most of the people we have met are quite nice, not always the people you would choose to play with, but OK people. We have never had any problems a swingers clubs or parties, compared to vanilla clubs and bars. Yet on line you see to find dickheads, who are just here to be dickheads. Anonymity gives them some sense of power, and where to hide. It's a sad indicator about somebody's life when they enjoy putting others down.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's like making a judgment on someone's messages when they reply ? ??? Insult is life's harsh ways of keeping it so called real... I sit alone pounding what ever happened to this outgoing guy that overly believed and trusted all that came into his life.... Insult verse reality ??? Go ahead all call me a fool as a fool that believed is what I may very well be

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Ignore the jerk, he is not worth your time and energy, he obviously has issues and just wants to hit out at somebody, anybody he is just an ignorant loser unable to converse properly or treat people with respect

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    But a thread this long causing so much drama and feedback would be fueling his desire for succession of hurt.. Just a thought. . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Just remember that there are some women on here that dont mind sinking the boot in at the first opportunity. But i never let it get to me. Its just the way some people are when they are anonymous. Keep a strong belief in yourself and forget the small minded people out there. Ciao.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    He's just jealous that you're not going to give him any. Love your sexy bra btw.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You are lovely...... enough said

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Should have told him you would love to meet .....Given him a 1 hour drive from where he lives and then done a no show.Time is one thing in life you can not get back ... You look fine dont sweat the scum bags

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Don't stress too much .. You obviously didn't miss out on nothing there so be grateful for that ! He was probably no doubt , some horrible little hobbit anyway who was trying to boost his own ego by downing you . Can't say ive experienced this and honestly can't say I'd give two fks anyway but I would never even consider msging someone putting something as low as that regardless ! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    10 years ago

    Ive had a lifetime of negative comments with my lifestyle. Harder in person but messages are so much easier. Delete, delete, delete. Dont let it get to you. As long as you like/love yourself as a person, you can move on with a smile. Its your life not his, your nice, hes not.