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What are RHP Couple members wanting

February 28 2017

We are only fairly new to this scene, wanting to meet people first then see if there is any connection. We have met two couples since joining, have not connected with them. I see numerous profiles that say the same thing but just can't seem to connect with anyone. We are under the impression that many couple profiles may be fake because we recieve flirts stating we are hot and exactly what they are after, from there we message them and ask if they would like to meet up & that we don't share nudes online. Then thats where it ends, we have no further contact from them. Are these couples accounts fakes, men pretending to be couples just to attempt to grab nude pictures of whoever is willing to share them. Or are we not full on enough to be interested in? Are most members just hardcore swingers that believe in just jumping into sex before they even speak? Or is there some other issue unknown to us? Could other couples please give your views and recommendations.

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

Who vanish into the woodwork when one won't open nude photos - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

There are fake couple profiles that are just a guy, there are hardcore swingers that want to get straight into it, and there's everything in between. Your profile is fairly clear about what you want so if people contact you and don't exactly meet what you want then don't worry if they don't respond. I would do your own searches to find similar couples that want to start with socialising, girl on girl play and take it from there. We are more miss that hit with other couples so I'd say it's not unusual for it to be a lot harder than you think it should haha Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile

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Naughtyfun4all2

8 years ago

We have found it's often hard to have all four happy..if it's only 3 then it's not going to work out. - Posted from rhpmobile

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lakesidecouple

8 years ago

Yeah there is absolutely a lot of couples out there who are not actually looking just have profiles. We take our time with each new possibility and enjoy getting to know them before we meet but do not share nudes! I love the chase the flirting and getting to know someone where my wife sits back watches and once we meet takes control it's all about how we work as a couple! Take your time, enjoy the chase and don't send nudes there has to be some mystery to us!!! Happy hunting! - Posted from rhpmobile

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Katkat

8 years ago

Plenty of fake ones they are peeping toms 😉 but if you want to meet real ones I suggest going to a private party better there you meet genuine real minded couples ready to play. You can always go to general settings & delete their access to your albums 😊😝. - Posted from rhpmobile

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P69D69

8 years ago

DynamicCoupe36, love your profile pictures, great locations and backgrounds with sexy female, what more to ask for. Plus a great one of the male in the rock pool. Do you guys get much luck or are you both having the same issue as we are even though you are showing nudity? Or do you find you get more genuine contacts because you are exposing more? Or do the contacts try asking for more pictures and never evenuate into meeting you?

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P69D69

8 years ago

Yes we attended one private party, not quite our scene. Like didn't notice any interested females towards my wife, yes she had male interest but the scene was the guys going from one woman to the next, like wam bam thankyou on to the next one. We'd rather something more meaningful and intimate. Like there has to be some sort of attraction and stimulating foreplay. We both agreed the parties are not our scene. We also attended a swingers night at a swingers club, only two other couples turned up and didn't really click with us. That one partner interested and the other not senario with the first couple, female was interested in me but not the wife and the male seemed jealous of how well we where chatting, she was not interested in my wife, the second couple arrived just as we where leaving, didn't get to talk with them. We decided to leave. Maybe if there where more people attending, who knows, we may of been lucky finding a couple who where mutual with what we are seeking. Maybe might try the club another time as the club looked good with what it had to offer, just needed more attendees.

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RHP User

8 years ago

There are plenty of players parties for people to meet and play straight away. Weeding out the people who aren't even real and/or ever show up in person. However, as I socialise a lot through meet and greets etc, I know now a few couples who seek connection or friendship or bonding first with another couple, which can be over any period of time. Such couples also commonly say that far from the "no pressure to play" idea, they are actually dissuaded from attending couples parties if they advise they do not (yet) wish to play. Combined with the fact of looking for a four way bond/connection, it is very hard and most assume that it won't happen except my sheer magical chance. - Posted from rhpmobile

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

Thanks for the compliment re our photos. We have plenty more of MrD in the private galleries. In the public galleries we tend to blurr & pixelate the "naughty" bits. For us, it is about subtlety, seduction, and leaving something to the imagination. The photos in our private galleries are not pixelated, they show it all, including face photos. They are also however nicely done, sensual & erotic as opposed to in your face gaping hardcore. Our profile wording makes our stance, on photo hunters, very clear. We do however get a few asking / demanding to see more. We have found, that a good way to test someone's true intentions, and personality, is to hold back on something that they desperately want. Quite a few have become very angry, abusive & aggressive, when we have not opened our PG's on their command. Despite all of this, we have met (and played with ) some really nice couples ( and singles ). For us, what works, is our screening process, and getting to know them over several messages. It's also an opportunity to lay down boundaries, ground rules, and to discuss likes / dislikes. All very important to get sorted out before actually meeting. We don't meet dozens of people - our profile wording scares a lot off. But the ones we do meet are quality and genuine and with quite a few we have now become good friends. - Posted from rhpmobile

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P69D69

8 years ago

Thanks everyone for all the comments, helps hearing others opinions and knowledge. DynamicCouple36, yeah i got that reading your profile, thinking the same of how it would scare people off but you are correct, its one way to sort out who is genuine and likes what you have to offer. We need to go for a ride up to the hinterland up here, so I can take some tasteful pictures like yours. Probably won't be as revealing as yours, maybe later down the track when we are more comfortable we will. If you want, check out this beautiful location on google maps I have in mind. Has pictures of the landscape. Purling Brook Falls, Forestry Road, Springbrook QLD

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rootratandlady

8 years ago

PKDK what you describe is exactly what we as a couple are looking for. More than wham bam. Dinner, drinks, flirting and see where it goes. We do exist, just seems to be a rare thing 😮 - Posted from rhpmobile

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DynamicCouple36

8 years ago

We used to live on the GC for 16 months, and spent 2 nights camping, a 10km one way hike from Purling Brook Falls. Beautiful place. Granite Belt is also fantastic - that's a little inland over the great dividing range and is characterised by huge granite boulders. Would have been a great nude photo opportunity, but we had our kids and other family members with us .... - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Our problem is that everybody wants to meet me but not John. As a result i miss out. Even when i explain he is happy not to participate. Even wait outside the answer is no. Problem is i have had bad experiences when i have attended by myself. Now i like knowing if something goes wrong i have back up. So yes. When 1 of the 4 are not as attractive as the rest the party is doomed before it begins. As for swingers it is the same. Few women will engage incase they think it is a likelihood of him trying to play . same with couples. I rarely attend non couple parties but the few i have attended, the guys are pushy and dont take no as an answer. So yes. To swing as a couple you need to both be attractive and be attracted. Fortunately for most people their partner is similarly as good looking as themselvrs so this might just be our problem

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P69D69

8 years ago

Like fair enough there needs to be some sort of attraction. Its sad people read others by face value, like they can't even give him a chance to express himself. There would be no way my wife would play alone, i would always need to be by her side. She'd need to be able to build a trust with the person before even aggreeing to going on her own. Maybe thats our problem as well, maybe im the ugly one or look intimidating or something. But i don't think so. And i don't think my wife is the ugly one, i may be bias but I think she's quite attractive and she does get quite a few guys trying to hit on her when we go clubbing. I noticed you haven't got pictures of your John on your profile, you sure thats not more a problem then not. Like surely someone would find him attractive, you know like the cute little different looking puppy in a litter.

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RHP User

8 years ago

My man doesn't know I'm on the prowl. Ill tell him closer to the night.. I actually wouldn't mind a couple joining us also, Bi female and straight male same as us.. Honestly, I'm looking forward to a hot night of sex & seeing my man enjoy myself & the sexy lady together - Posted from rhpmobile

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FredAndGinger2

7 years ago

Finding a 4-way connection is not easy. We don't enjoy play parties or parties with single guys for the same reasons mentioned above. I guess we're not cut out to be true swingers, and that's perfectly fine for us. A few drinks, a dance, live music and great conversation over dinner with other similar couples is a perfectly good place to start. Sometimes (rarely) it feels right to progress to something intimate such as a hotel room or over night country AirBnB. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

We've found swingers clubs and parties to be good. This way everyone can mingle and assess each other, without the expectation of "hooking up". - Posted from rhpmobile

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usnow

7 years ago

PKDK , It appears you really only want the female of the couple your seeking .You aren't into swapping partners so that's the way we read your profile .Maybe you need to re write your profile stating EXACTLY what your looking for . Usnow .

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P69D69

7 years ago

Our first and most desired experience is for the female part of the relationship to experience a female to female experience. But that is not the only thing, we would look to numerous other senarios pending the situation and the comfortness of all. I think its not appealing to those who just know exactly what they want and want to jump in and go all out. It could happen that way, just don't know until the time occurs. I don't think we could explain that any more clearer than whats stated on our profile.

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FredAndGinger2

7 years ago

I feel we are quite similar to the original poster. This is a tricky game to play and patience is needed to survive. We've been accused of everything: - you're a fake profile - you're pretentious - you're Ken and Barbie phoneys - you're photo collectors and don't want to meet - even a suggestion for being frigid for not partaking in group sex with people we'd just met You know what? Some of this hurts! It's not all bad though. We've met some great couples and we've become great friends too. We're only interested in meeting couples- after having contemplated other scenarios - and so we now only attend couples only events. Saints and Sinner's Ball and Purr Party here in Melbourne have been great to see and chat to couples. We also arrange our own couples-only meets by direct invitation where we feel there are mutual interests. Gotta get out there and meet people! - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

We still haven't found any couples to play with on a regular basis so don't feel too bad. While we've made some great friends here that's where it usually ends. I have no doubt if it was just Mrs3 on her own she'd have ALOT more success but she made the decision to only play with couples with me (although we have an open relationship). Probably cost her some damn good times too 😪

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