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What are couples REALLY looking for?
September 27 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
The thing I have learnt is to pay close and equal attention to both. This is just me but I like it the most when one partner suggests to the other partner what they would like to see me do to them. Takes the confusion away when I can jusr be their plaything for their pleasure.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do seem to get quite a bit of attention from couples so I have stated in my profile that I'm not interested in couples thank you. I have never knowingly checked a couple's profile.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Cool if you are looking for singles, however, I'm actively seeking adventures with couples!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Meeting couples is more like an interview panel! Single meetings have been far more relaxed for me- especially girl on girl. Girls get sexier faster and laugh more. That's why I'm wondering about couples. My experiences with couples in the past have not been 'set up' or 'go sees', it has been spur of the moment and very natural - rather than shopping ( so to speak).
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
turning up in some skimpy dress would see us shutting down almost immediately. Not "you" personally of course, you as in the single woman rocking up to meet us. From a couple that have been together 18 years we value an intellectual connection over a physical connection because frankly, we're not looking to have a relationship with a single woman are we lol...... To meet a sexy, sassy, intellectual, sarcastic and funny woman and enjoy a night of witty conversation, appropriate flirting and innuendo always works for us. As far as topics of coversation; travel, significant life events, children, career, study, politics (hubby) are always good topics to get to know someone more intimately. We have always preferred making our single female friends more regular special friends so might delve further into things. If your only chasing a one night random hook up we can't help you. We're not interested in one offs but a real connection. Advice; skip the skimpy dress and cheap talk for showing genuine interest in people and good luck💗 - Posted from rhpmobile
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OPNmarriagecpl
10 years ago
Totally agree with EBs suggestion as well. I am very bi curious and enjoy women and love to expand upon my previous experiences..... Hubby is really along for the ride as he would be happy to just watch and takes a lot to get completely interested in other women (crazy bugger lol) so showing interest equally and then being happy to have one part of the couple directing "the show"...... Hot hot hot...... For us anyways lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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QLDtwo4fun
10 years ago
Generally newbie couples can be hard work because they don't know what they want. Ask couples about their rules, see if they are compatible with your needs. Don't be afraid to be forthright in telling them what you want either.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you turned up in a skimpy dress to our house you wouldn't need to talk!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well as a couple, we can say that we are looking for a lady that's genuine enough to even bother replying to MSGS. This would be the start. There are so many fake profiles on here it really not funny. We are just looking for someone that we can get along with. Someone that knows what they want and are confident. We are very aware that a lady with a couple can be very daunting so we would be doing our best to make them comfortable. Generally we would like someone real. That can let their hair down become friends and be them selves. Have some fun and laughs. At the end of the day we are all hear to meet new people and have some fun.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Skimpy dress versus college degree lol Well it all depends on what everyone's after. One or 2 meets or ongoing friendships. If you rocked up to our place for a play looking as hot as your pics there wouldn't be much conversation happening. If you came to dinner wearing the same then the conversations definately would be very flirty and fun. We have tried very hard to be restrained and polite on first meets to not scare others off when all you want to do is get in between the sheets and have fun. Every couple is different and unless the female half is comfortably bi and comfortable sharing then it can be awkward. Just go case by case and hope for the best. Gabby and Vixen - Posted from rhpmobile
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Enjoylifealways
10 years ago
We are looking for a woman that loves herself in a healthy way and enjoys sex.
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music74
10 years ago
Well put, from a comfortable couple.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It depends on the couple. What does it say in their profile or messages? Are they after a simple plpaydate or ongoing friendships? Each couple is different, as are singles. Personally we're just after a like minded person who enjoys life and doesnt mind jumping in between the sheets for a bit of fun without taking the whole process so seriously. For some people on here its like trying to solve the da vinci code lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
From experience I'd say that the single female can deserves and requires respect and diplomacy.. You always know what a guy wants to do... have sex!.. but with a woman you often feel like you can't be so direct or flirty.Just make sure your signals and intentions are clear and not confusing. That is all you can do!Some couples will tread lightly so as not to offend..
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