What are the best and worst things guys have done to effect your faith in humanity?

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  naughtymissxena

  13 years ago

  If you are a reasonably intelligent human being you will realise that one persons actions can not be used to sum up the whole of humanity. Bad stuff happens, that is life and you can choose to either let it drag you down or you can move on. Think of the chinese symbol of the ying/yang. For as much negativity there is also the same amount of positivity. Unfortunatly the world seems to focus on the negativeity in media so that is what we see most of the time. So i reckon turn the telly off and get out there and find something to smile about. This world and the people in it are so beautiful, it shouldn't be very hard.

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  13 years ago

  Perhaps I should have gone with 'best and worst characteristics'? btw I'm not particularly focused on the negative but I do happen to believe that I can learn from other peoples' points of view.

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  13 years ago

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  13 years ago

  I'm probably not the best example of the norm Lol But to be perfectly honest with you, a man has never affected my faith or belief in anything, either by his actions or words. I've never relied on any one man for my happiness or place in life, my expectations are higher of myself than any man who has been in my life. Apart from the mild disappointment I feel on occasion, I guess because I expect them to fuck it up LMAO I think it's even safe to say that I have little or no expectations of a man, therefore anything positive they do is, and has always been a bonus. That does NOT mean I have or will put up with their shit LOL , just because I dont expect anything, doesn't mean they can just do what they like..........well they can, it just won't affect me because I won't have them in my life haha Clear as mud ? Put simply, they only need to - be normal, be naughty and nice, not want me to be their Mummy, be damn sexy, try not to be too much of a dickhead, be nice to your mother and mine, don't be cruel to animals, and we'll get on famously

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  13 years ago

  Quoting 'D_G_T' I'm probably not the best example of the norm Lol But to be perfectly honest with you, a man has never affected my faith or belief in anything, either by his actions or words. I've never relied on any one man for my happiness or place in life, my expectations are higher of myself than any man who has been in my life. Apart from the mild disappointment I feel on occasion, I guess because I expect them to fuck it up LMAO I think it's even safe to say that I have little or no expectations of a man, therefore anything positive they do is, and has always been a bonus. That does NOT mean I have or will put up with their shit LOL , just because I dont expect anything, doesn't mean they can just do what they like..........well they can, it just won't affect me because I won't have them in my life haha Clear as mud ? Put simply, they only need to - be normal, be naughty and nice, not want me to be their Mummy, be damn sexy, try not to be too much of a dickhead, be nice to your mother and mine, don't be cruel to animals, and we'll get on famously Great posting D_G_T, you took the words out of my mouth. Can I 'ave them back now tee hee KK x

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  13 years ago

  I think we all have our share of disappointments in life...but I wouldn't really paint them with the same brush. I could list any number of characteristics of women that might get a laugh or at least an eyeroll in agreement...even from them. | What I will never do again is empower someone to cause a lack of faith in myself or worse...in the belief that there are other aliens out there somewhere that are intrinsically decent human beings, male or female. I prefer the company of the female version, thanks...even with all their flaws. | Personally, I really like the ones that are self-confident, intelligent, witty and just happen to have great legs, sexy lingerie and nice shoes. Substitutions on this menu are always allowable...well, maybe not but if you happen to be just slightly kinky and prone to saying "yes" after a few drinks... | ...who's going to argue. | | And if you have your own silk ropes...I really will respect you in the morning.

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  13 years ago

  ...Yes my son... Listen you little mongrel...it is your faith that will keep you moving forward and give you some purpose through your journey...it will make you happy during the good times , and it will push you through the hard times. It may lesson over time, but don't ever give up !! Sheesh..where did that come from!!! Burnt in business - happens everyday, but i won't throw in the towel . Burnt by family - what can i say, still care for them. Burnt in a relationship - shit yeah, but i'll go again. Just....... Keep The Faith .......cheers Bon Jovi

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  13 years ago

  You sir, are a misandrist. Go directly to Hell.

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  13 years ago

  Quite obviously there are a few crazy arseholes clinging on to life, calling themselves human, without a shred of humanity in their composition. Human trafficking. I feel sick to think of it but we ought not turn our backs just because it makes us feel unpleasant. Lobotomy. That's the ticket.In days gone by we would spear arseholes in the leg and send them on their way into the scrub to fend for themselves, no community. May as well be dead.Some every day things happen for want of humanity .... for example the recent story of the lady who lived in a little house in the eastern suburbs of Sydney and had been lying there, dead for 15 years... nobody noticed. She didn't pay her power bill so they cut it off and there she lay un-noticed in a city of 4.5 million indifferent souls.Then there are the polyanna people who spread the love no matter how indifferent you are to them. Buddhist monks mostly. :p"Somethin' filled upmy heart with nothin',someone told me not to cry.But now that I'm older,my heart's colder,and I can see that it's a lie.Children wake up,hold your mistake up,before they turn the summer into dust."-Wake Up Lyrics:The Arcade FireHugsStalky

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  13 years ago

  A mother who killed her young son is to be paroled after 18 years in jail. I won't describe what she and her then partner did to the boy but I am sure you can read for yourself as it is a current news item. While I don't usually support the idea of capital punishment this case is making me to think again.

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  13 years ago

  In my household, I take the innocent victims of parental abuse. I can tell you some very sad stories about my precious little broken babies. How about the four kids that came to me sexually abused? Aged from 12 down to two? Would you like me to elaborate and tell you the things they told me after they began to trust? Wanna know what that man did to his baby two year old daughter? or his five year old son? How about the judge that gave them back to him for another go? Or maybe the the teenager who was brutally raped and beaten repeatedly from aged nine by her older brothers while her father lay in a drunken stupor? What about the father serving 18 years in jail for trying to kill a man with a tomahawk infront of hs kids? Any more? Want me to start on the mothers now? Society has a fair amount of sick, sick people out there. Why would you even want to know what nasty inhumane things people do? Some of us deal with the fall out on a daily basis and it is not nice, not fun at all. We get to take all those broken babies and try to help them heal and trust again. We dont want to have to think anymore about it or we may never end up sleeping again.

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  13 years ago

  Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' I think we all have our share of disappointments in life...but I wouldn't really paint them with the same brush. I could list any number of characteristics of women that might get a laugh or at least an eyeroll in agreement...even from them. | What I will never do again is empower someone to cause a lack of faith in myself or worse...in the belief that there are other aliens out there somewhere that are intrinsically decent human beings, male or female. I prefer the company of the female version, thanks...even with all their flaws. | Personally, I really like the ones that are self-confident, intelligent, witty and just happen to have great legs, sexy lingerie and nice shoes. Substitutions on this menu are always allowable...well, maybe not but if you happen to be just slightly kinky and prone to saying "yes" after a few drinks... | ...who's going to argue. | | And if you have your own silk ropes...I really will respect you in the morning. Mr MidnightI'm interested to know what this alien did to make you lose your faith in yourself or how you empowered them unless you fell in love with her and that just happens sometimes it's no one's fault-no reason to be disappointed. Were-you involved in a case of no happy ending after her stroking your ego for so long-so it's not so much disappointment, but grief over a lost friendship that made you feel good about yourself? Did you actually ever meet in person? Had you actually had a relationship or even a date? Was she like the hot female aliens in the Species series that could sniff out quickly there was something wrong with you and this is why she put you to the test and you are disappointed you failed? If that is the case, this alien that got away-for you is like "the woman" that bested that famous detective. I'm curious of what led to this disappointment and I can only theorise to help solve the mystery of CM's alien. You haven't stated what occurred which makes me consider that perhaps although you are disappointed about the outcome-you know precisely what occurred and know that by making it public it may reflect badly upon you. You are angry with her, you didn't use her name but you have singled her out-referred to her in a unique way-possibly how you felt she was not of this Earth-at the time of your association-or to perhaps possibly bait her to respond. In reading your many posts and your profile she must have been quite amazing to get your attention and keep it as you seem to be quite the gentleman about town. One would expect chivalry and discretion to follow a gentleman like a shadow-but not always it seems. Personally, I'm a fan of chivalry-so if a man is always going on about how he opens doors for women, and he makes you always walk to his left on the sidewalk so that his sword arm is free to defend you from any ill-intending advancing knaves-I would find it extremely disappointing that should this same person that calls himself both Mr Chivalry 2011 and my good friend stand idle at the front door of a building and ignored me as I approached my hands full with parcels. Likely I would say-"I've got it" and handle it on my own-however it's disappointing if someone leads you to believe one thing and then when it's crunch time they crumble. I can only speculate but could your disappointment with her be a by-product of the feelings that came about when you over promised yourself results in a lost cause of pursuit and therefore under delivered to yourself? Perhaps you're disappointed that she didn't unshackle you from your own affection for her, and so now, the dislike for feeling left wanting by her- now ever slowly becomes hate for her? Perhaps she felt disappointed that you seemed to only speak of and were preoccupied by only all you owned, had bought or were going to buy-perhaps she couldn't understand why you didn't think you alone without your fancy things were good enough? Perhaps she feared you would consider her and her friendship another of your possessions? Perhaps her alien senses made her discover what others don't and made her suspicious of you? Perhaps her alien hearts still belonged to another alien or ornithanthrope and she was so inherently decent down to her DNA that despite your numerous innappropriate and ill-timed advances she never told you to "blast off". Perhaps after many invitations or offers for "dinner" this alien accepted-and although you never did make good on your offer (maybe you couldn't pay or you dislike women that expect you to take them for dinner) you are still disappointed that they accepted your offer? Perhaps you are disappointed that this thing was the Spruce Goose of relationships and it would never have flown successfully. Or are you disappointed because there is an amount of money she owes you or are you seeking your compensation for unpaid rent on the space in your heart she occupied by defaming her in the forum? Other than phone calls and your monthly ISP charge-if you never met what did this experience cost you? Other than the price of disappointment in yourself that you realise you set her up to fail-and perhaps she realises you did that too? Perhaps you could consider that you should have expected that if you are testing people there will be people that will also test you-especially inquisitive aliens-every movie you see they're down here on Earth probing and observing people. Her testing may not necessarily have been for criminally malevolent purposes-perhaps it was to ascertain a better understanding of your character-and therefore perhaps as a result of what she discovered she is disappointed with your behaviour-as she would have been your friend even if you were planeless or homeless. If this is one of those situations where you never met or only spoke on the phone or via email-how much disappointment could there be? Perhaps you are disappointed, however perhaps this is nothing compared to the disappointment she may feel in reading your post. Perhaps now she can only think of you as the Lando Calrissian of rhp- someone else that spends a lot of time in the clouds and disappointed that he's stuck with the bald headset guy and someone else now has his ride and his life because he gambled more than he could afford to lose. If sci-fi has taught us anything it's that some female aliens can access the force and some are a force to be reckoned with, maybe you are disappointed with her because although you tried to throw her to the Matmos she was saved by her inherent goodness just like Barbarella. Perhaps it's all worked out for the best-you stick with your kind and perhaps she'll be kind with her big stick if she ever does see you. Ms Kinkstreet

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  13 years ago

  Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' I think we all have our share of disappointments in life...but I wouldn't really paint them with the same brush. I could list any number of characteristics of women that might get a laugh or at least an eyeroll in agreement...even from them. | What I will never do again is empower someone to cause a lack of faith in myself or worse...in the belief that there are other aliens out there somewhere that are intrinsically decent human beings, male or female. I prefer the company of the female version, thanks...even with all their flaws. | Personally, I really like the ones that are self-confident, intelligent, witty and just happen to have great legs, sexy lingerie and nice shoes. Substitutions on this menu are always allowable...well, maybe not but if you happen to be just slightly kinky and prone to saying "yes" after a few drinks... | ...who's going to argue. | | And if you have your own silk ropes...I really will respect you in the morning. Mr MidnightI'm interested to know what this alien did to make you lose your faith in yourself or how you empowered them unless you fell in love with her and that just happens sometimes it's no one's fault-no reason to be disappointed. Were-you involved in a case of no happy ending after her stroking your ego for so long-so it's not so much disappointment, but grief over a lost friendship that made you feel good about yourself? Did you actually ever meet in person? Had you actually had a relationship or even a date? Was she like the hot female aliens in the Species series that could sniff out quickly there was something wrong with you and this is why she put you to the test and you are disappointed you failed? If that is the case, this alien that got away-for you is like "the woman" that bested that famous detective. I'm curious of what led to this disappointment and I can only theorise to help solve the mystery of CM's alien. You haven't stated what occurred which makes me consider that perhaps although you are disappointed about the outcome-you know precisely what occurred and know that by making it public it may reflect badly upon you. You are angry with her, you didn't use her name but you have singled her out-referred to her in a unique way-possibly how you felt she was not of this Earth-at the time of your association-or to perhaps possibly bait her to respond. In reading your many posts and your profile she must have been quite amazing to get your attention and keep it as you seem to be quite the gentleman about town. One would expect chivalry and discretion to follow a gentleman like a shadow-but not always it seems. Personally, I'm a fan of chivalry-so if a man is always going on about how he opens doors for women, and he makes you always walk to his left on the sidewalk so that his sword arm is free to defend you from any ill-intending advancing knaves-I would find it extremely disappointing that should this same person that calls himself both Mr Chivalry 2011 and my good friend stand idle at the front door of a building and ignored me as I approached my hands full with parcels. Likely I would say-"I've got it" and handle it on my own-however it's disappointing if someone leads you to believe one thing and then when it's crunch time they crumble. I can only speculate but could your disappointment with her be a by-product of the feelings that came about when you over promised yourself results in a lost cause of pursuit and therefore under delivered to yourself? Perhaps you're disappointed that she didn't unshackle you from your own affection for her, and so now, the dislike for feeling left wanting by her- now ever slowly becomes hate for her? Perhaps she felt disappointed that you seemed to only speak of and were preoccupied by only all you owned, had bought or were going to buy-perhaps she couldn't understand why you didn't think you alone without your fancy things were good enough? Perhaps she feared you would consider her and her friendship another of your possessions? Perhaps her alien senses made her discover what others don't and made her suspicious of you? Perhaps her alien hearts still belonged to another alien or ornithanthrope and she was so inherently decent down to her DNA that despite your numerous innappropriate and ill-timed advances she never told you to "blast off". Perhaps after many invitations or offers for "dinner" this alien accepted-and although you never did make good on your offer (maybe you couldn't pay or you dislike women that expect you to take them for dinner) you are still disappointed that they accepted your offer? Perhaps you are disappointed that this thing was the Spruce Goose of relationships and it would never have flown successfully. Or are you disappointed because there is an amount of money she owes you or are you seeking your compensation for unpaid rent on the space in your heart she occupied by defaming her in the forum? Other than phone calls and your monthly ISP charge-if you never met what did this experience cost you? Other than the price of disappointment in yourself that you realise you set her up to fail-and perhaps she realises you did that too? Perhaps you could consider that you should have expected that if you are testing people there will be people that will also test you-especially inquisitive aliens-every movie you see they're down here on Earth probing and observing people. Her testing may not necessarily have been for criminally malevolent purposes-perhaps it was to ascertain a better understanding of your character-and therefore perhaps as a result of what she discovered she is disappointed with your behaviour-as she would have been your friend even if you were planeless or homeless. If this is one of those situations where you never met or only spoke on the phone or via email-how much disappointment could there be? Perhaps you are disappointed, however perhaps this is nothing compared to the disappointment she may feel in reading your post. Perhaps now she can only think of you as the Lando Calrissian of rhp- someone else that spends a lot of time in the clouds and disappointed that he's stuck with the bald headset guy and someone else now has his ride and his life because he gambled more than he could afford to lose. If sci-fi has taught us anything it's that some female aliens can access the force and some are a force to be reckoned with, maybe you are disappointed with her because although you tried to throw her to the Matmos she was saved by her inherent goodness just like Barbarella. Perhaps it's all worked out for the best-you stick with your kind and perhaps she'll be kind with her big stick if she ever does see you. Ms Kinkstreet

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  13 years ago

  Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' I think we all have our share of disappointments in life...but I wouldn't really paint them with the same brush. I could list any number of characteristics of women that might get a laugh or at least an eyeroll in agreement...even from them. | What I will never do again is empower someone to cause a lack of faith in myself or worse...in the belief that there are other aliens out there somewhere that are intrinsically decent human beings, male or female. I prefer the company of the female version, thanks...even with all their flaws. | Personally, I really like the ones that are self-confident, intelligent, witty and just happen to have great legs, sexy lingerie and nice shoes. Substitutions on this menu are always allowable...well, maybe not but if you happen to be just slightly kinky and prone to saying "yes" after a few drinks... | ...who's going to argue. | | And if you have your own silk ropes...I really will respect you in the morning. Mr MidnightI'm interested to know what this alien did to make you lose your faith in yourself or how you empowered them unless you fell in love with her and that just happens sometimes it's no one's fault-no reason to be disappointed. Were-you involved in a case of no happy ending after her stroking your ego for so long-so it's not so much disappointment, but grief over a lost friendship that made you feel good about yourself? Did you actually ever meet in person? Had you actually had a relationship or even a date? Was she like the hot female aliens in the Species series that could sniff out quickly there was something wrong with you and this is why she put you to the test and you are disappointed you failed? If that is the case, this alien that got away-for you is like "the woman" that bested that famous detective. I'm curious of what led to this disappointment and I can only theorise to help solve the mystery of CM's alien. You haven't stated what occurred which makes me consider that perhaps although you are disappointed about the outcome-you know precisely what occurred and know that by making it public it may reflect badly upon you. You are angry with her, you didn't use her name but you have singled her out-referred to her in a unique way-possibly how you felt she was not of this Earth-at the time of your association-or to perhaps possibly bait her to respond. In reading your many posts and your profile she must have been quite amazing to get your attention and keep it as you seem to be quite the gentleman about town. One would expect chivalry and discretion to follow a gentleman like a shadow-but not always it seems. Personally, I'm a fan of chivalry-so if a man is always going on about how he opens doors for women, and he makes you always walk to his left on the sidewalk so that his sword arm is free to defend you from any ill-intending advancing knaves-I would find it extremely disappointing that should this same person that calls himself both Mr Chivalry 2011 and my good friend stand idle at the front door of a building and ignored me as I approached my hands full with parcels. Likely I would say-"I've got it" and handle it on my own-however it's disappointing if someone leads you to believe one thing and then when it's crunch time they crumble. I can only speculate but could your disappointment with her be a by-product of the feelings that came about when you over promised yourself results in a lost cause of pursuit and therefore under delivered to yourself? Perhaps you're disappointed that she didn't unshackle you from your own affection for her, and so now, the dislike for feeling left wanting by her- now ever slowly becomes hate for her? Perhaps she felt disappointed that you seemed to only speak of and were preoccupied by only all you owned, had bought or were going to buy-perhaps she couldn't understand why you didn't think you alone without your fancy things were good enough? Perhaps she feared you would consider her and her friendship another of your possessions? Perhaps her alien senses made her discover what others don't and made her suspicious of you? Perhaps her alien hearts still belonged to another alien or ornithanthrope and she was so inherently decent down to her DNA that despite your numerous innappropriate and ill-timed advances she never told you to "blast off". Perhaps after many invitations or offers for "dinner" this alien accepted-and although you never did make good on your offer (maybe you couldn't pay or you dislike women that expect you to take them for dinner) you are still disappointed that they accepted your offer? Perhaps you are disappointed that this thing was the Spruce Goose of relationships and it would never have flown successfully. Or are you disappointed because there is an amount of money she owes you or are you seeking your compensation for unpaid rent on the space in your heart she occupied by defaming her in the forum? Other than phone calls and your monthly ISP charge-if you never met what did this experience cost you? Other than the price of disappointment in yourself that you realise you set her up to fail-and perhaps she realises you did that too? Perhaps you could consider that you should have expected that if you are testing people there will be people that will also test you-especially inquisitive aliens-every movie you see they're down here on Earth probing and observing people. Her testing may not necessarily have been for criminally malevolent purposes-perhaps it was to ascertain a better understanding of your character-and therefore perhaps as a result of what she discovered she is disappointed with your behaviour-as she would have been your friend even if you were planeless or homeless. If this is one of those situations where you never met or only spoke on the phone or via email-how much disappointment could there be? Perhaps you are disappointed, however perhaps this is nothing compared to the disappointment she may feel in reading your post. Perhaps now she can only think of you as the Lando Calrissian of rhp- someone else that spends a lot of time in the clouds and disappointed that he's stuck with the bald headset guy and someone else now has his ride and his life because he gambled more than he could afford to lose. If sci-fi has taught us anything it's that some female aliens can access the force and some are a force to be reckoned with, maybe you are disappointed with her because although you tried to throw her to the Matmos she was saved by her inherent goodness just like Barbarella. Perhaps it's all worked out for the best-you stick with your kind and perhaps she'll be kind with her big stick if she ever does see you. Ms Kinkstreet

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  ruby_blossum

  13 years ago

  it appears you have rendered midnight boy speechless....quite a feat,and polarising.... :)......bit of a heavy topic for forums.

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  13 years ago

  Quoting 'ruby_blossum'it appears you have rendered midnight boy speechless....quite a feat,and polarising.... :)......bit of a heavy topic for forums. that CM should ever be rendered speechless Ruby, I think he'd actually be a little turned on by that post as opposed to feeling all polarised He's kinky that one, not sure he's into aliens all that much though Ms_Kinkstreet you got all that from one of Midnights posts? Don't get me wrong I actually enjoyed your post immensely, and heck.........I even found myself a little turned on by the musings of your mind Just not sure that was where CM was headed lol.

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