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What attracts you to a man/woman
March 04 2014
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
Everyone has some sort appeal. However there are a few things that send me into udder shivers. * those dimples on lower back * perfectly shaped lips with matching philtrum * stunning smile when they see me. * innocent glint in the eyes when they see me. * the look, you know the one makes every thing OK! it's not just features to me, it's the way how they race to the car door to open it for me, the small thoughtful actions, shyness around me, caring nature, is helpful, follows through with his actions, adoring/ loving and sincere and just plains cares....also the fact that he trusts and believes in me and tells me so, is so bloody attractive!! I can't so NO to that! ;) All those qualities I find attractive. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I swoon over them, you know the ones who know exactly who they are!! and that my friends is SMEXY! SMEXY is the new SEXY! SMEXY Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
I'm as shallow as--- I like a guy that is pleasant to the eye. I love suits but then again give me a truckie with his lovely toned muscles ( no I don't mean the pie eating slob) I love a tall aussie man A man who can understand my humourous tactless nature. (Seriously,my foot is in my mouth more than it's not) Ah shit, just give me a man..... lol Just kidding....I'll sort myself out :-P
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RHP User
11 years ago
When I look back at different men that I have been attracted to they are all so different looks wise.I am a sucker for muscles, not a body builder, just nicely toned and I do love a nice cologne on a man, that is such a turn on. But mainly for me its a man with a witty sense of humour, comfortable talking about anything and not afraid to show emotion. I'm very much what you see is what you get, I don't try to be something I'm not and that's what I find attractive in a man, one that doesn't feel he has to pretend to be something he is not.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What draws my attention to a guy is the coyness in his smile and his mannerism when you talk to him - the fact that he doesn't think he's attractive but everyone else around him does. I think it's cute - much like the flaccid cock. If I stroke (his ego) a couple of times, he will be standing up straight and tall too lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
11 years ago
What attracts me to a man is his IQ (brain) coupled with a kind heart, sincere and respectful personality. These are the vital traits I look for in a man when I seek a life partner! Looks will vanish like steam evaporates in the air when our biological clock hits at certain tick! So I don't care how good looking he is, if he doesn't have most, if not all, of the above mentioned qualities, then he is not for me! However, for a short term fun partner on RHP, looks come first for me, then I would look at his profile pic(s) and description to check and sense whether or not he's a selfish child, or a respectful adult, and then I would decide if I wanted to chat to him. Yep, it does make me sound superficial by saying this, but hey, I'm not gonna be on here forever or seeking a life partner here, so I don't care if he's an intellectual or not, though he must be respectful! In general, men who can write properly and can converse about any topics got my attention instantly! :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
I like a man that smells divine so that when he walks past me I instantly turn my head, a nice set of piercing eyes, I like a tall man, but most importantly I love a strong pair of arms....
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gazpacho
11 years ago
I have no idea what it is. Some people are just comfortably sexy without trying. Their manners, the way they stand, the look they give, the expressions used. Stuff that can't be faked or taught. A conversation is in-necessary for a connection to be made. A knowing upward turn of the lips and a warm welcome life filled glance. Hugs Gazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
I agree, their minds, IQ, sense of humour, respect for me as a woman, knowing how to treat me like a woman, manners. I also love being able to talk to someone for hours about everything and anything! But what do you find attractive in general if you notice someone in the street, on the train, in a coffee shop, someone you don't know. What makes you stop and have another look? I have a friend who will look twice at any woman with long hair. The most attractive woman could walk past him but if she has short hair he doesn't even blink. That's his thing.
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Oh... So you mean at a very superficial level? People who smile, a flaunting bosom, a lumpy package, a great butt... Long legs ... Yep.... What else? Eye contact followed by a knowing smile. Hugs Gazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
On a superficial level, a lady with great legs leading up to a tight butt and curvy hips make me look twice and occasionally make me walk into light poles.
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RHP User
11 years ago
On a superficial level, a lady with great legs leading up to a tight butt and curvy hips make me look twice and occasionally make me walk into light poles.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Kind eyes and a nice smile. Good teeth are important! Am a bit partial to a little extra padding. Muscles, tatts and piercings aren't really my thing. I prefer James Gandolfini (RIP) types over Channing Tatum types any day! And if they smell nice, that's a bonus!
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
A natural high attraction drug - cupids morphine arrow! yep when those chemicals that are released and mixed together, takes over your brain. And what a great feeling that is, to attract another or another attracts. Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
When you're not sitting at your keyboard talking to like minded dirty fuckers :-). Surely there has to be something that initially attracts you to someone?
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sweetgem
11 years ago
I always look twice when I see a tall (175cm—188cm), medium but toned build, manly man with spiky hair, clean shaven face, even better if he wear suits or casual clothes that well enhance his manly looks 😛 my eyes couldn't help, but being a stalker when I see such a man on the street lol Manly man is my thing at first glance :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
at least one tooth, can be attractive at my end of the social spetrum
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BrightBubbly
11 years ago
I just love a man who is manly enough to wear black fish net tights !!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
You know that's a fib, he has to have at least two teeth and a non dripping nose!
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RHP User
11 years ago
A definite turn on is a man without a portable oxygen machine or difribulator :-) xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
What does matter is kindness,love,a man who is passionate in what he believes in,a man who is secure in being him xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
Regardless of body type it's about self presentation
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RHP User
11 years ago
With muscles from working. Not working out. Stubble on his cheeks, a few tats but not too many. Mmmm they make me swoon every time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
thats what I hear first
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RHP User
11 years ago
Elegance Rawnch Laugh Presence Innocence Grace Sophistication Love Beauty Natural Smile Attitude Spirit Mind Neck Eyes Lips Hair Skin Face Style Shoulders Back Breasts Ass Desire Legs Ears Feet Arms Teeth Walk Hands Fingers Tongue Vagina Lingerie Everything. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You'd go gaga over my ex then He has two teeth ;p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
POWER - Posted from rhpmobile
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prettyinpurple45
11 years ago
if i see a kinda cute looking guy that has dimples and a smirky kind of smile then i swoon!!! also a guy with piercing blue eyes make me look twice... I do love tatts on a guy but piercings not so much... muscles are a big turn on too so all that I guess is on a superficial level.... *rolls eyes at myself* on the other hand a well dressed guy can get my attention as can a rugged bad man look!!... If a guy can make me laugh then they are up there. I guess I am all over the place when it comes to what grabs me in someone... lol.. call me fussy.... sorry..
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passion8_l
11 years ago
not necessarily large but they need to be masculine with clean fingernails. I don't even mind if they're a little rough, and if they work with them well that's even better. A nice smile, kissable lips and eye's you can stare into are also sexy to me as is a good sense of humour with a little bit of cheekiness.
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passion8_l
11 years ago
stubble
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RHP User
11 years ago
Collingwood supporters could be sexy? I suppose they have to breed somehow.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Eyes, smile, legs in that order. Then the curve in the small of her back, that does it everytime. Throw into the mix the biggest erogenous zone of all...the mind. Nothing like a sharp intellect with a hint of evil
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Forus1234
11 years ago
For Mr Forus, all the abcs' - arse, boobs, connection (eyes), for Mrs Forus - super sexy hot eyes, locking eyes with me & I get jelly legged! (after all a guys shirt isn't off at a meet up!) followed by, tall strong, well covered, (not skinny types) & smell nice (Calvin Klein or David beckham cologne).
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RHP User
11 years ago
Feminine with long hair who looks the part no matter what . She will be pretty ’ have soft eyes and great teeth. She would be sexy confident and look after herself both physically and mentally. She would be independent ,non judgemental, and comfortable in any sort of company. She would enjoy her quite time as much as socialising. Above all, she would a heart of gold who sincerely cares for the elderly or unfortunate, she would take in a lost puppy... That is my ideal and I believe they do exist..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Confidence is a biggie, if your not happy with yourself why would anyone else be?? Or why would you expect them to be??
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gazpacho
11 years ago
I have a CPAP machine. Is that Ok for you? I'm a world champion at Dutch ovens now. Also, you can add stuff to the evaporator... And the mask with hose attachment makes me look absolutely handsome compared to without. I especially love the snorkel hose. If I leave it on during sex I get so much more air into the lungs, you know? Better for stamina. They ought be standard issue for guys my age! Hugs Gazpacho
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Do you mind if I call you the Big O? Not bad for your reputation, if you ask me! I just wanted to say you've got this poetry thing working down to a fine line. One word sentences now? That's art! I think you're last post was a bit of a suck up though. You shouldn't cheapen it by begging. :p Hugs Gazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
Please hold down your food as this next bit may make people puke but hey as long as somebody holds ya hair back we are on the rite track !!!! Mr pacho my words have no price, As a beggar has nothing to give To beg is to crave pity ? To beg is of no worth ? To beg is to cheapen ones worth? To beg is to be a beggar? To be a beggar is to be greeds final lesson To be a beggar is to teach humanity To be a beggar is to teach altruistic-ism We beg to save humanity We beg to teach to care . I beg of myself to shut the fuck up fuck my world hang on aarrghh!! Ooohhh!! Fuck me spewed on me shirt. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'MsElle72' Kind eyes and a nice smile. Good teeth are important! Am a bit partial to a little extra padding. Muscles, tatts and piercings aren't really my thing. I prefer James Gandolfini (RIP) types over Channing Tatum types any day! And if they smell nice, that's a bonus! love every millimetre of your lush curvy sensual and sexy body. your mind is worth the exploring and your eyes are my favourite place to get lost
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RHP User
11 years ago
Physically I look for women who exercise.I do not mean personal trainer levels of fitness I just like a trim waist and toned legs. Personality I look for interesting thoughts and a mature look on life. Day dreamers do nothing for me as do excessively sarcastic people. There's nothing attractive about someone whose main demonstration of wit is to cut others down. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Of lost puppies here.....well loose ones that is :-) xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
At my age I really can't be picky.....but of course you and your sexy. accoutrements might require for me to have the defibrillator handy....the heart is racing just at the thought:-) xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
I am certainly not superficial. When it boils down to it the personality wins me over but.... I love a bad boy. Tatts are a must. At least 100kg. I love forearms. Broad back. I love that crease on the back of the neck. Bit o' boof! Must be taller than me ( have been out with guys shorter and i find it awkward)! These features just happen to be those of my husband. I looked twice at guys who looked like this before i met him and still do now! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
A man with sexy eyes and smile. A man with a sense of humour as well being able to hold a conversation :-) Apart from that love all types of men jut depends how you feel when our around them. A man who is a man not a patsy boy, guess in some situations let him take the lead :-) After all some women complain that men dont open doors for them, sometimes I think men are confused as to what their role is :-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
A man or woman will get my complete and undivided attention if they have that inner sexual confidence. You know the people that just ooze sex appeal. You can see it in the way they walk, the way they dress, the way they talk and then of course how they look at you. I love to be looked at in a way that I know the person is thinking about multiple ways to fuck me. This cannot be learnt, it is just an essence that some people have xx
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
We all talk about the attraction but what I want to hear is HOW DOES ONE MAINTAIN that attraction?? We know we have our endorphins hitting an all time high, and can talk till the cows come home, what I want to know it those who say I like this and that, but how you do maintain it - keep it ongoing??? Foxy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not sure if I can pin point what it is in an e-mail. Some women I just find sexy and others I don't. But I know it when I see it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hell I lie, I love long tall streaks of pelican shit. Put them in a suit or present a crusty feral dripping In dreads, I love men tall and skinny with a great arse. With glinting eyes full of promise, yes it's confidence. But past that initial attraction it's all about fucking my mind. I go for thinking women's crumpet every single time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'iceddog' love every millimetre of your lush curvy sensual and sexy body. your mind is worth the exploring and your eyes are my favourite place to get lost
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RHP User
11 years ago
Nice round hips also - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I've recently realised that I have an enormous fascination with mens bodies. Their strong shoulders and arms, their sexy thighs, long legs,chest, nipples, abs, the whole package. I can just look for hours ;)
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bianca_dd
11 years ago
I am attracted to a certain look; male. Preferably not fat or with a belly that has prevented them from seeing their dick unless they have a mirror on a stick but as a general attraction; males. I do like girls but definitely prefer males.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' I've recently realised that I have an enormous fascination with mens bodies. Their strong shoulders and arms, their sexy thighs, long legs,chest, nipples, abs, the whole package. I can just look for hours ;) that's a bonus, and no blemishes, what a charmer. What such big arms you have, yes all the better for tuning you up my dear... You reap what you sow . All in jest, however most don't think outside the box
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RHP User
11 years ago
Th@ makes me feel "A whole lot better". Like th@ Tom Petty track, check out the album if you don't know it. There is even an irreverent ditty about swingers in there
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RHP User
11 years ago
And I have stretch marks, lol
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RHP User
11 years ago
So do I
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thedevilsfantasy
11 years ago
In boardies or tracky daks with a three day growth.. Dark hair.. Cheeky grin.. Confident.. Dominant.. A twisted, sarcastic sense of humour.. Nice shoulders and biceps... gotta have something to hang onto And can cook.. ;))
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RHP User
11 years ago
Im one extreme to the other.. can he confidence but then aloof. A smile or lack of one. Tall or not so tall. Long hair, short hair, facial hair, no facial hair. Its a feeling I think and wow some of those feelings have turned out well some disastrous. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I like tall men who know themselves. Confident in a non-asshole way. Men who has a presence about them. A great smelling man (crisp and clean) makes me want to grab him, throw him up against the wall, rip his shirt off and just inhale him. Someone who makes me laugh and gets my sarcastic/wicked sense of humour. Those are the things that attract me to a man. Oh, and someone who can spell. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I like a tall brunette, slim with long hair. I don't care about boobs, small or bigger is fine.no tatts thanks
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RHP User
11 years ago
I could say that I like funky broad pretty boys with tats and great hair but that's not really my answer. The deepest attractions I've had were to kind creative types. Ones that had wickedly dark senses of humor. The beautiful intellectual conversationalists and thinkers. For me this is the attraction that doesn't ever fade. Engage my mind and steal my soul x
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ok I must admit I have a preference for younger lithesome female bodies.. : D Unfortunately so often there is not enough personality, intelligence or interest in anything beyond themselves to maintain my interest for long enough to progress to playtime. I very much prefer curves, sexy eyes/smile that show personality and suggest the best is to find later on. Also a sparkling wit go a log way. These things transcend most physical attributes. Ha ha - having said that I am a total sucker for a nice rack overflowing from a slightly too small bra. Looks totally tarty to most women, but I'm cross eyed and yours to take wherever you want! : ) For myself, I seem to get compliments when I go formal or dress for occasion but I really do feel more myself and comfortable is (neat) but casual gear.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Ha ha - forgot to add: Brunettes/redheads/auburn preferred over blonde (but not a deal breaker)Curves (think size 12/14) over super skinnyTall/short/medium all good Arty tatts are ok too.
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RHP User
11 years ago
And furthermore..Ha ha - forgot to add: Brunettes/redheads/auburn preferred over blonde (but not a deal breaker)Curves (think size 12/14) over super skinnyTall/short/medium all good Arty tatts are ok too. You are a rare one..... blondes come last
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RHP User
11 years ago
A woman who oozes sexuality, one who feels comfortable being perfectly feminine, works brilliantly with what they were given and loves to be appreciated by a man...and wear see-thru panties ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Bugger
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On_Safari
11 years ago
You'd luuurve my ears !! And Qefenta, the man comfortable in and knowing of himself...SNAP!!! I love men like that too ~ Indy
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