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What attracts you to a profile?
December 04 2019
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FredAndGinger2
5 years ago
A better question to ask might be: What turns you off a profile?
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RHP User
5 years ago
I dunno about anyone else...but when I read “attracting new to a profile” I think “what makes me click on it to view it...” And that changes, from the photo, to fat finger syndrome, to just merely curiosity, and that they’ve asked in the forums to give a critique.... It has nothing to do with their interests or mine as I have no idea about theirs until I’ve opened their profile... Mr Dragon
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SpicyKale
5 years ago
We're the same, a profile pic or forum post will get us to click. The bigger question is what holds us there. Doing more than the standard auto fill helps. Showing a bit of personality in your description and a few interests outside of the bedroom. The turn offs can be many... don't get us started on pics. We don't tend to use the detailed search functions, they're not great on here. Searching for sexual preference only works for single profiles. It's completely useless for us with couples when you're trying to search for a mix in sexual preference for example. No big deal, but makes searching harder. The sexual interests search can be useful, but a lot don't fill it out!
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RHP User
5 years ago
I prefer profiles with a picture of any description that I can see. And then what holds my attention is having the fields filled out, not using the templates. It’s really frustrating when I get a flirt that says damn I think your hot, what do you think of me? And I don’t know because there’s nothing there to work with.
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RHP User
5 years ago
A detailed, eloquent and polite profile that matches our desires makes us message immediately. Fill out all sections, don't make shortcuts with speech or swear like you've had twenty too many and proofread. First impressions count.
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MsSuperFoxy
5 years ago
Pictures to get my attention to actually click on their profile and how one presents their selves in them and the background. The written word (what they actually state). I have to get that "feeing" of: 1. Do we have common interests? 2. Do I see myself with this person. Also depends on how I am feeling at that time. Ms Foxy
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honkytonk
5 years ago
turn ons are less easier to define, turn offs however , not so much haha 1. generic profiles with slogans such as ' i want to have fun' and need someone DTE gaaawwwd 2. the very use of the word 'sapiosexual' makes me want to shiv the writer with a homemade shank jail house style.
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thecatsmeowaus
5 years ago
A good set of profile pics combined with the big black authentication tick from RHP ✔️😍
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FeistyFatty
5 years ago
Profile pictures and what they say in their profile. Im with above though, easier to list what I don't like in a profile lol
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HotNightsGC
5 years ago
Really good photos, well written description, verified and great validations always get us to send a flier or message.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Thanks for all the feed back and I thought it would be different for everyone. I guess the next question is when you look at my profile what do you pick up on. Would love some feedback on what you think. Thanks everyone for contributing to this thread.
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House_of_Fun
5 years ago
We like profiles that show thought and effort went into them, are well-written and and provide some useful insight. We ideally want to meet people we will get on with outside of the bedroom as well. We love reading about likes more than dislikes, and are a bit less less fond of tons of '!!!', or yelling in CAPITALS, and that 'Sydney University...legal ramifications, etc' disclaimer. Being verified is a plus, having a lot of "ask me's" usually a no. Positive happy profiles are a huge turn-on. We really like smiling face pics (though love sexy-but-classy nudes too), and when it comes to couples profiles we will always look at those with pics of both in their main profile pic first. As for the Sexual Interests: We'll definitely check them out, though I've personally come to discover over time there's a bit of a discrepancy here between people's perception of the Sexual/Fetish Interest lists. For some people things on that list mean "that sound like fun, maybe some day. Watersports is just sailing, yeah?", for others "I do all that every Tuesday night". Tl;dr: probably profiles similar to ours? x Mia
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RHP User
5 years ago
Proofread.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I'm totally honest and fill in/write all the sections on my profile. I'm a hairy guy so none of it matters. Women on here want chisselled, hairless gym junkies. Their friends list prove that. And good on them. I'd hate to know the ratio of men to women on here. One look at my hairy frame and I honestly don't think it matters what I have to offer or have written regarding my interests or intentions. I've been on here before and had some time away. It was the same before too. Coming from the other side of your question as a person that feels the written part of a profile is minimal compared to your physical pictures.
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peasandcarrots
5 years ago
At least have some sort of public photo. We don't usually click on any without a photo. And if your public photo doesn't really show you, DON'T tick the look at my photo where it asks about looks. Then you need to have some writing down the bottom, not the standard templates that RHP offer. It shows you're at least putting some effort in. Then, when you message someone, don't make the first message you send 'hey, wanna come over for fun tonight' or 'ooh, so yummy' that's not a turn on for us.
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RHP User
5 years ago
With regards to your profile specifically.... It’s bland...it’s like 90% of others ... it lacks personality and it aims to solicit people into taking something’s at face value... But then again I prefer a comedy show rather than an episode of home and away so maybe that could be it ? Mr dragon
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nightingale8
5 years ago
My standards shifted at different times when looking. What never changed is clues as to whether the person is safe and who will respect me. I'm surprised how many people think a scowling mug shot is going to do anything but make women run away!
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House_of_Fun
5 years ago
Quoting 'GentleGent' I'm totally honest and fill in/write all the sections on my profile. I'm a hairy guy so none of it matters. Women on here want chisselled, hairless gym junkies. Their friends list prove that. And good on them. I'd hate to know the ratio of men to women on here. One look at my hairy frame and I honestly don't think it matters what I have to offer or have written regarding my interests or intentions. I've been on here before and had some time away. It was the same before too. Coming from the other side of your question as a person that feels the written part of a profile is minimal compared to your physical pictures. You and Mr House_of_Fun share more than a few physical features, and I call BS on your claim that women here want "chiselled, hairless gym junkies". However as I wrote above, I look for smiling pics and positive profiles, and your lack of both would make me say no right away were you to contact me. In my personal opinion you come across as quite judgemental yourself in your profile the way you talk about 'most women'. How much fun do you honestly think you sound like to hang out with the way it reads at the moment? I hope some of this helps, and I do hope you find your match too. x M
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Mask_007
5 years ago
For me the pictures are like the first impression, then the remaining part of the profile is very important to show you something about that person/couple.
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RHP User
5 years ago
Without getting into the why's and wherefores because that would be presumptuous and potentially not as helpful as I'd like to be... Can I suggest you revisit what you think you know. 😊 I want to assure you that it's true a lot of women have pretty guys as friends but the friends list here doesn't mean much a lot of the time. It's a simple fact you shouldn't take personally that there are more men than all the other profile types put together on the site We women do read profiles lol, I hope knowing that and maybe finding out a bit more from the forum that you'll be able to put your best food forward with a new perspective that will be to your benefit. You're a paid member, check out events including the meet and greets and find the rest of us beautiful people hiding in plain sight. 🍑 😘
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RHP User
5 years ago
Nice pic for a start then simple description of you wants and needs. Not a huge essay that goes on and on bout nothing. Simple and sweet
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bonefide
5 years ago
Mate I’m not being rude or offensive just looking at your comment from my personnel point of view.Sorry u feel that way about the general female audience . I wish u all the best. This is off the main topic. As u stated males with chiseled god like bodies are the preferred option. Well stuff a duck and role me over and spank me, I’m up shit creek in a barb wire canoe without a paddle. I’ve only got a six pack thats lost its rapping, no great deal. (Its Xmas time anyway)I’ve got grey coloured hair, (well greys a shade really)I’ve a basic sense of humor. (Well maybe basic humour talents), I can laugh at my self.I’m fairdinkum, and my special talent isn’t holding my breath for hrs breathing through my ears. But you know I’ve found this crew around here, are inviting and full of fun and great advice, hence I’m still learning and having fun.Go figure hey OK back to your normal view channel people.
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RHP User
5 years ago
I hear what you are all saying: Make it personal and unique Be open and have some good pictures Inform people of what you are looking for Sometimes it clicks sometimes it doesn't Meet people and go to events I have upgraded some aspects of my profile and will continue to work on them. You guys are the best :)
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