M51 F45
What constitutes a high sex drive?
April 23 2013
Comments
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Each of us is different, we have different needs and desires. I know people that want sex once or twice a day, every day. They have always been that way. I also know people that want sex once every few months. That is the way they are. High for me may be low for you- Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Sexaholic - let's do it now, then again in a few minutes AND again....what do you mean you need to recover! LOL Very high sex drive was masturbation and/or sex every day or more than once every day. High was every couple of days. Average was once a week. Low once a month or less. Then you have the variable .... where life gets in the way and even though you want it the body just isn't willing or able! But then you get a second wind and the headache suddenly disappears. The opportunistic when you didn't think you felt like it but damn that butt looks good, I'll have some of that It's all in the mood at the end of the day. SFxx
-
RHP User
12 years ago
The definition of Nymphomaniac has always been someone who wants it once more than you do. Truth is there is no universal standard of what's a low or high sex drive. Only what's normal for you. I personally consider once every few days to be a low sex drive and every day to be normal, others may not feel the same way.- Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
High sex drive ? i think depends, everybody has diffrent ideas what high sex drive is? for example an ex.of mine wanted 5 times a day and thats alot /high sexual drive for sure in my book and another wanted twice a day and he thinks he has a high sexual drive as well...so there you go, and as for me i need it twice a day to keep me happy , and another ex. of mine thinks thats alot of sex in one day,
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I remember reading somewhere that the national average for sex per week was about 2 times. That was a few years ago, I wonder if it would still hold now? I'd have to say I have a high sex drive, I want it probably every night per week (missing one here and there is fine). So, I guess I'd class a very high drive as higher than mine, high as mine, average as 2-3 times per week, and low as once per week or less. - Ms Otori
-
Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
...Theory of Relativity.Anothers human emotions and motivations, including libido, will be compared in relation to yours.Another persons low.... or high, simply means theirs doesnt mesh with your level of wants and desires. DG
-
RHP User
12 years ago
So it seems that currently i sit somewhere between high and very high sex drive (according to you Sensory fun) and a low sex drive according to karynb. Of course there is no right or wrong answer, its whats normal for you. I personally am not accustomef to having a high sex drive as traditionally, i have always been a at the lower end of the scale. Some days its unbearable to the point where i just want relief any way i possibly can. And other times it can be tolerated and no problem. I am however, on a journey of sexual discovery and self awareness which i never afforded myself until now and now my libido has shot right through the roof. Plus i also think because im a SAHM and wife, when im working, i have other things to occupy my mind that require more of me mentally. So in effect, i almost dont have any time to think about it when im working. Apart from actually wanting to work, it wouldnt be appropriate to say this at the interview; i am professional, motivated to succeed, always anticipating the needs of the customer but ultimately, i will dedicate my working hours to put my high sex drive to bed and will not be distracted by carnal pursuits"....something tells me i wont be getting a 2nd interview. :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Just nailed it from my perspective :)- Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Also nailed it too....- Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
It's a subjective measure... while everyone has instincts we are not on the same page when it comes to desires. My wife's idea is once a month, for me it would be at least couple of times a week - go figure :-)
-
RHP User
12 years ago
It is a subjective thing as my version of low may well be another version of high. Ideally i would like it on a regular basis and in my last relationship it was rare to go for two days without it. Time will tell if i can find a playmate to satisfy me. Thou to the couple of guys that have tried, you did a great job ;-)
-
RHP User
12 years ago
(Hell, most things confuse me) but why are we again 'labelling things'? I used to be so down on myself because my ex's would always say they had a high sex drive and what was wrong with me? When I am at home, I switch it off. When I'm in Sydney .... well ... things are different. I'm averse to all sorts of scales, pigeon holing and quantitative assessments.I am me. My sex drive fits nobody else's criteria...... ok ..... pussy twinge just thinking about it .....
-
RHP User
12 years ago
for some it is about timing and inclination...as paintme so rightly says why pigeon hole..it is what it is at the time..doesn't mean it can't or wont change.
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Really.....who cares?? We are all individuals! Quoting 'paintme'(Hell, most things confuse me) but why are we again 'labelling things'? I used to be so down on myself because my ex's would always say they had a high sex drive and what was wrong with me? When I am at home, I switch it off. When I'm in Sydney .... well ... things are different. I'm averse to all sorts of scales, pigeon holing and quantitative assessments. I am me. My sex drive fits nobody else's criteria. ..... ok ..... pussy twinge just thinking about it .....
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Really.....who cares?? We are all individuals! Quoting 'paintme'(Hell, most things confuse me) but why are we again 'labelling things'? I used to be so down on myself because my ex's would always say they had a high sex drive and what was wrong with me? When I am at home, I switch it off. When I'm in Sydney .... well ... things are different. I'm averse to all sorts of scales, pigeon holing and quantitative assessments. I am me. My sex drive fits nobody else's criteria. ..... ok ..... pussy twinge just thinking about it .....
-
smo669
12 years ago
timing and inclination...and opportunity. In an ideal world of leisure and pleasure I think we would all enjoy sex daily, or more
-
RHP User
12 years ago
Shit that makes me feel beter I wank ones a day and my ex made me feel like I was abnormal if it was more than ones a day as I'm getting older I finde the drive dropping - Posted from rhpmobile
-
RHP User
12 years ago
I'd probably consider myself to be a nymphomaniac, could have sex around 3 times a day usually (sometimes much more) depending on the guy, duration, mood. But usually once a day if it's available. If its unavailable I have to compromise with double the amount of masturbation... Or I compromise on who I'm willing to sleep with. Most guys don't have the time, energy, stamina to have that much sex though. My ex had a limit of 3 orgasms per day before his balls started to ache lol. If I haven't had sex for awhile I tend to get very snooty, cranky, and frustrated.... Actually severely stressed out.
Boards
-
Hot Topics
Topics: 14361 Comments: 120840
-
Girls Ask
Topics: 1355 Comments: 14709
-
Guys Ask
Topics: 2425 Comments: 17234
-
Couples' Corner
Topics: 2405 Comments: 12737
-
Swingers Lifestyle
Topics: 794 Comments: 5154
-
Fetish & Fantasy
Topics: 1148 Comments: 6957
-
Hot Travel
Topics: 622 Comments: 2145
-
LGBT
Topics: 156 Comments: 1150
Forum help
-
Something related with that
-
Going somewhere & want to hook up?
-
Hasn't that topic been posted before?
RHP's popular dating tool
-
Where the heck did that topic go?
Discover what RHP is doing offline
-
RHP member's RL secrets
reply
like
Share