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What could I expect from a swingers club?
February 18 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Will be watching this Thread very closely .. I have a friend that just went recently for first time to swinger club....and he had an "awesome" time...loved it infact!! I think if you go with the right people who will be very supportive and very understanding....that its self will make or break you into the scene.. Best of Luck OP *popcorn in microwave* Foxy (sitting comfy on recliner)- Posted from rhpmobile
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Vintagetatu
12 years ago
*dips hand in popcorn*I'm very interested in this....*pulls out black book*Someone give me all the dirty deeds, factoids and anything else I need to know asap (Melbourne specifics thanks)...*waits*
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RHP User
12 years ago
HiI have been to two, and have to agree with Foxy that the experience was far better for me when I was connected to the other person in some way, not necessarily in a romantic relationship, but yes with something going on. It makes you feel more comfortable and in my case was liberating as my partner at the time encouraged me to be myself and get naked :) I have been to a private party and although I enjoyed the experience, it was dominated by single men, which may not be everybody's cup of tea. The second one was at a venue in Sydney which was great, as lots of couples and women, which for me made the experience more exciting. People at both venues were very respectful and asked both myself and my partner if they could play. It was fun, naughty and hot. Definitely a place to lose your inhibitions. Hope that helps :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I prefer playing at a swingers club than 1 on 1. But that's just me. The most important thing I guess is to have no expectations other than to enjoy yourself. I've noticed that its common for guys on their first visit to have some performance issues. That is normal and everyone understands. Most people don't mind if you just watch but keep your date close. Have fun!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not sure whether you're talking about parties or the bar-style clubs but we recently went to our first. I was unsure of what to expect as well when we made the trek to a club in Brisbane. What we found was a laid-back and fun atmosphere, looked much like any quiet bar, apart from the bedrooms and hot-tub tucked away here and there. The owner said to treat it like going to a friend's BBQ. We chatted to some lovely people and flirted over a couple of games of pool before heading downstairs to one of the rooms for some naked fun. All in all we had a great experience and are looking forward to heading down to Brissy again soon. It could be hit and miss depending on the other people who turn up but I could see it as a great venue to meet couples you've been flirting with on the websites.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You can most likely expect to have an area were people mingle and have a drink. Most clubs and parties are BYO and you provide mixers. Most people will be fully dressed or possibley wearing something sexy at this point. When the play starts, you will find open areas where people play. Most clubs and swingers parties have an open door policy, however some clubs may have small rooms for groups of people to have some privacy. You find people new to the scene and voyeurs. These people usually stay clothed and thy just watch the action. There is no problem with this. Lots of people enjoy being watched. Some people may just attend for a few drinks, dance and chat and will never play. The people that go for sex will have numerous reasons for attending. Some couples will stick to themselves, some couples want to swap, some men and women will want bi-sex play. Therefore it is customary to ask someone "what are you into" then go from there. You don't just touch people unless invited. You will see lots of sex, group sex, girl on girl, spanking, synchronized cock sucking, gang bang type scenarios, etc etc. People of all ages & body sizes attend, from 20's to 60 year olds. Condoms and lube are provided, clubs will give you a locker too. There is no pressure to play at all. Most new people don't play the first few times anyway. In my experience most men will not be able to perform the first time they attend... Or at least not very well. Stage fright! This is completely normal and no big deal. Overall it isn't a sleazy environment and people may have a few drinks but it isn't customary to get drunk. What else do you want to know?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have noticed that some new people will get quite tipsy to try and deal with their nerves. It is very cool. Overall people are super friendly, bit hard to be rude when you are both standing their naked. Lol. No means no, no one is offended if you say no. Or say I am hear to watch. Or I am just not in he mood at the moment. You hook up with people you are attracted too. It annoys me when people assume you have to fuck everyone. This is just not true. You do what you feel comfortable doing only! :D Sorry I am preaching. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Meant to say it isn't very cool. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Meant to say it isn't very cool. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Does anyone know of any Perth WA clubs or private parties? Im new to this but am interested in trying it out myself :) if you do then feel free to msg me about it :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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captainkaos
12 years ago
No means no. Relax and enjoy yourself. Be polite, always good to ask. Get naked and enjoy the freedom. The spa is always a great place to meet and chat to people considering the close proximity of people. It's especially great when there are 5 couples in there. lol. HANDS AND BOOBS ALL OVER THE PLACE. HEAVEN!!! lol.
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Ifonly67
12 years ago
there are clubs advertised in the Newspaper I think it is called Deltas and I am pretty sure there is atleast one in the East Perth area very near the trainline
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RHP User
12 years ago
We are going to our first swingers club this weekend. We are nervous but excited. Hoping it's just like u guys are describing.
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
In alot of ways I prefer to only go to swinger parties then to try n find couples.... You are in control of you the whole time.... Don't let anyone tell you otherwise... Most ppl are fantastic - friendly - enjoy
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes Surely, A swingers club is the most likely place to get your drink spiked, after all the motive for spiking drinks is usually sex and pleasure. You could find all sexual activity.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What the? Dude you couldn't be more wrong actually. I would say it's pretty unlikely given the clientele. You clearly have never been to any clubs.
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RHP User
11 years ago
The swingers clubs in Florida are fucked up if people need to spike drinks to get action.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Absolutely spot on.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Id love to go to one with you....but would settle watching you dance :)
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gazpacho
11 years ago
Quoting 'eyzwide_shut' Yes Surely, A swingers club is the most likely place to get your drink spiked, after all the motive for spiking drinks is usually sex and pleasure. You could find all sexual activity. This is clearly misunderstood sarcasm. There are dangerous situations, however, like choking yourself to death on a big dick or suffocating to death with your face buried in some DD's. As always, you have to take some responsibility for your own safety and well being, but in this open environment where everyone is basically naked, no means no. You'll find significant support from all for this principle and in my experience, anyone harassing others is swiftly ejected from the premises. There is therefore usually no pressure (although that cannot always be said as between two members of a couple)... If you want, you can just hang out and watch. What is cool about the whole place is that people always seem to be smiling, (when they're not moaning). Swinger's clubs in NSW are not licensed to sell liquor. At some clubs, you can take your own alcoholic drinks which bar staff will safely store, chill and serve to you upon request. I would be interested to know how many people get to the front door of these premises and never push it open. remember... One small step for man... :p HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
11 years ago
In Perth a few weeks ago. Only half a dozen people there at the time. Am looking forward to having a perve at the Pleasure Lounge soon. Don't know if I have the balls (pun) to do anything, but, you never know.
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Seachange
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' You can most likely expect to have an area were people mingle and have a drink. Most clubs and parties are BYO and you provide mixers. Most people will be fully dressed or possibley wearing something sexy at this point. When the play starts, you will find open areas where people play. Most clubs and swingers parties have an open door policy, however some clubs may have small rooms for groups of people to have some privacy. You find people new to the scene and voyeurs. These people usually stay clothed and thy just watch the action. There is no problem with this. Lots of people enjoy being watched. Some people may just attend for a few drinks, dance and chat and will never play. The people that go for sex will have numerous reasons for attending. Some couples will stick to themselves, some couples want to swap, some men and women will want bi-sex play. Therefore it is customary to ask someone "what are you into" then go from there. You don't just touch people unless invited. You will see lots of sex, group sex, girl on girl, spanking, synchronized cock sucking, gang bang type scenarios, etc etc. People of all ages & body sizes attend, from 20's to 60 year olds. Condoms and lube are provided, clubs will give you a locker too. There is no pressure to play at all. Most new people don't play the first few times anyway. In my experience most men will not be able to perform the first time they attend... Or at least not very well. Stage fright! This is completely normal and no big deal. Overall it isn't a sleazy environment and people may have a few drinks but it isn't customary to get drunk. What else do you want to know?? - Posted from rhpmobile Thanks Meeka. I am so naive about this scene. So there seem to be some restrictions regarding single men. Are these rules applicable to single women? Are single women not allowed to walk in on their own?
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RHP User
11 years ago
No they encourage single women, in fact single women get in cheaper and on some nights get in for free. If they let single men in you would have a line around the block.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are thinking of going to mikes place to check it out. Wondering if anyone has some advice for us. Would it be better to tee up some couples from here to meet there? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't have any advice about the place you mention but we have been there it is very laid back it was very quiet when we visited. It would have been more fun if we had organized some friends to come along to check it out with us. It was a great place to watch and be watched they do have event nights which are very popular and might be a better night to visit Ms S - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
So if they only allow couples and single women, don't you end up with more women than men?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'naturalnaughty' So if they only allow couples and single women, don't you end up with more women than men? Yep. Most most women play with each other as well. And some women may wear strapons so there are more swinging dicks in the room.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Fair enough :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
We are going tomorrow night for first time so should be interesting - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
So having two sick kids ruined this night of fun - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I know places. I do parties. Contact me :). I've been to several clubs and parties both her and overseas.
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