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What determines Bi curious?

August 23 2013

I'm new to exploring my sexuality and sex in general outside the traditional. I'm new to rhp and all that it offers. What I'm wondering is what determines if I, you or anyone is bi curious? Until very recently I have only had sex within male relationships I have been in. When I first joined I only looked at male profiles etc. Now I look all the time at amateur pics but now almost always the girls. What has happened to me? I was even brave and posted some photos this week of me and wonder who will view them. Men or women?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    What do you think about when you masterbate? When you are orgasming? A woman or a man. There I think you find the answer to your question...

  • Coops27M

    Coops27M

    11 years ago

    Bi curious means i'm into women but i'm exploring sexuality with men. Hence i am curious. Until i explore more i wont know for sure exactly what i want. Hope this helps.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Is this not a simple thing? If you feel a sexual attraction to both men and women but have not yet acted upon it, would that not by definition mean you are bi-curious?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Bi Curious Simples Interested in the same sex. May not wish to act on fantasies. I think many people enjoy looking at other women (i do) I would think at your age perhaps you'd know if you'd had any prior fantasies and were interested in women sexually. Lots of women fantasise about the same sex it doesnt mean you are bi or les. Just because you enjoy the female form does not make you bi curious. It just makes you appreciative. Just chill a little- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hmmm interesting views thanks. I am starting to act and indulge with the same sex. Where does that put me or are there no boxes or boundaries? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Bi carbonate of soda, bi the way, bi bi. Bi sexual?When we joined this site, we had intentions to begin with finding a man, a gentleman, to have some good fun sex and all to be had for a threesome, mmf, mfm, fmm, mfmfmfmfmfm and what not.And that is how it was. What made it fantastic was that our male friend was very passionate,cheeky, happy, friendly, caring and very much aware for us. He is a sexy man, he is an affectionate man, he has sex appeal,oops sorry how rude.Now we crossed swords, our hands felt each others as they worked together, including Tara's.Tara could not give a fuck for who's was what and what was who's. Sorry what was I saying, yeah well very fucking sexual let me tell you. So while in the heat of that night, not moment as there were many, when I relised that Tara's hands were busy and not holding my cock, what else to do than give our friend a little pat on the nuts, as a good gesture for what a fine job he was doing. And didn't Tara find that extremely satisfying to see such teamwork, Hilarious became of her smile, and we all fucked untill we blew the roof off that four post bed. So it was having sex with another man, in a sexual nature. we all had an orgasm or two, it was great fun. It was very hot sex.We were all very curious to how that was going to become, and it became what it was.Mado, Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I was fascinated with the women's pictures, and became more and more curious about the feel of a woman, the smell and taste. After a great deal of encouragement I acted upon my curiosity and spent some explosive nights with a woman and some couples. I was what I consider Bi Curious ,,, I saw, I came, I conquered .. I agree FourHands - Just because you enjoy the female form does not make you bi curious. It just makes you appreciative.so sit back and appreciate.

  • chevtrek

    chevtrek

    11 years ago

    Do you have fantasy of sex with a woman that is bi curious. When you have sex with a bi woman and you orgasm real hard and want more then your bi

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I want to hold your dick, not your hand !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    It's when we say out loud ... mmmmmm.... boobies

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'FourHands'Lots of women fantasise about the same sex it doesnt mean you are bi or les. Just because you enjoy the female form does not make you bi curious. It just makes you appreciative. Just chill a littleWhy I've listed my orientation as "Anything". I like pussies, but I hate boxes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm no scientist but I know when the chemistry is right. Each experience I have is a little like a science experiment, but my parameters are a little broader than most ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    For me I do not understand the labeling of bi curious. Or bi or anything inbetween gay and straight. For me I enjoy the sensation and freedom in an MMF situation. It has nothing to do with who I am or who I am attracted to - but does indicate an open mind and desire to experience sex at higher levels. Many people will disagree with this - but that's ok, I am cool with that :P- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes and I seem to be saying that more and more

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The way I see it - just as many guys are curious about the feeling and freedom as women are. It's just that we have spent our whole lives being taught that it is weird or thuper gay for a guy and sexy for a girl.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think my parameters are getting broader

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Great topic btw. Puts a smile on my thinking hat.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Indeed. I don't enjoy labels either. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'slickz' For me I do not understand the labeling of bi curious. Or bi or anything inbetween gay and straight. For me I enjoy the sensation and freedom in an MMF situation. It has nothing to do with who I am or who I am attracted to - but does indicate an open mind and desire to experience sex at higher levels. Many people will disagree with this - but that's ok, I am cool with that :P- Posted from rhpmobile But do you have sexually contact with the male though? A straight MMF... well that isn't being bi-curious to me. Men can enjoy threesomes but have absolutely no interest in the male.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Jo_Ja' Hmmm interesting views thanks. I am starting to act and indulge with the same sex. Where does that put me or are there no boxes or boundaries? - Posted from rhpmobile Why do you want to put yourself in a box or place boundaries on yourself? I find this thinking bizarre. If you want to do it, do it and if it feels good, keep on doing it. If it doesn't feel good... stop. End of story. I had a MMFF bi thing once, and the top guy says I am not bi-sexual because I don't have sex with men one on one, only in group situations where there are women present. At the time I didn't really get that.......... I mean he deep throated cock like a dream and boy did he ram the other guys arse. My girlfriend and I were gasping in delight and creaming our little panties... god that is hot.... ops I digress. I have played with women before in group situations, I have done it all...... even fisted a few girls. But I don't consider myself bi at all, so now I understand totally what that guy was a trying to say. Although I did have a crush on a woman once, so I guess I am not totally straight either. Hmmm. My head hurts trying to figure it out, so in true Meeka style. Forget about it! Do what ever feels right at the time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Meeka - yes.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'slickz' Meeka - yes. Thuper!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Starting a journey that is new or different or not the way that is normal within your traditional family unit is cause for overthinking. This is an area I excel in :) Everyone's views and comments are very valuable and interesting. This is my journey and perhaps I should experience and feel and not think using the judgement section of the brain. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We go from being "Bi curious" before we've engaged in any sexual experience with the same sex to "experimental" once we have and decided we liked it!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes it's probably a little confusing for you right now... I mean your sexuality as you know it seems to be shifting in unexpected ways. Don't over think it, I think a lot of women fantasize about other women but never go further than that. I would say its quite normal. :)