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What do Women think of Young Inexperienced Men
March 18 2018
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Welcome and best of luck. I'm sure you'll find a good teacher. As per my profile: If you have unfinished Baggage, emotionally unavailable and your shit is not together, I am not interested, as I do not want to be placed in any awkward situations that will make me, you or anyone else uncomfortable. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Work on your profile a bit. Write something interesting, and try putting up some pics that aren't a messy background. A lot of people will instantly dismiss you with the bathroom pic as it's so common and, honestly, a bit off-putting. Details are everything. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
If this thread doesn't attract any offers, I would suggest booking two hours, or more, with a working girl. Make sure you are upfront about your situation from the get go. Good luck, pop that cherry and never look back.
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inspirit
7 years ago
You see a lady of the night.. Once you get your dick in, you'll know what the hell you've been missing out on. Then you'll be a horny bul at a gate and no stopping the confidence then.. Nawwww Meander, You are too nurturing.. 😍 I'd probably bend him over and spank him for being untidy. 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' You're a man. A Grown-up. So present yourself as one. Your profile says you want someone to show you things in the bedroom, and frankly right now all I want to do is show you how to make your bed and put your clothes in your hamper. Do better and you will attract better, in my opinion. lol didn't even think of that haha thanks :)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'curiosityx' Work on your profile a bit. Write something interesting, and try putting up some pics that aren't a messy background. A lot of people will instantly dismiss you with the bathroom pic as it's so common and, honestly, a bit off-putting. Details are everything. - Posted from rhpmobile thanks for the advice. What type of photos would you reccomend for this site? Full nudes are a turn off it seems? just a nice body shot plain background? In terms of profile I didn't think this site required a full on write up like a dating site about your hobbies and interests etc. maybe I should add those in?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' If this thread doesn't attract any offers, I would suggest booking two hours, or more, with a working girl. Make sure you are upfront about your situation from the get go. Good luck, pop that cherry and never look back. Yea I feel part of the problem is I feel too old to be inexperienced, so this way I may not experience true intimacy but at least I can learn the motions so to speak and gain a bit of confidence in that regard; knowing that I'll know what to do when the time comes. Still feel like a bit of a loser losing it that way though haha.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Been in your shoes before, all I can say is don't just go and fuck anything you may regret it as I did. Be selective and patient it will happen but if the sexual tension is too much and you can afford it look at the professional side. In some cases these women will be more understanding of your situation than some others will be. All the best bud
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RHP User
7 years ago
Up until fairly recently I was able to say I knew more working girls personally than professionally.Since the wife lost interest in sex I get it where I can, I have a couple of girl friends who I can see by appointment and sometimes I see a working girl because it's easy to just walk in and get on with it.People often under estimate working girls, they are people just like the rest of us and they have their own lives, ambitions and goals. Most of them are nice people and I think you will find that you will be shown great compassion, so be up front with them. They are used to men being nervous about visiting them and will do their best to set you at ease.If you go down that path plan ahead by finding who you want to go with and, on reflection, I would recommend that you book as long a time as you can afford. The more time you have the more you can have a second or third round...After there's only one first time and then there's the gaining of experience. If you choose the right girl she will teach you a bit about how to give a girl what she wants, and it really is about the mutual scratching of "itches".Do yourself a favour and make it memorable, don't rock up for the 30 minute quickie, you will regret that later.Best wishes and do tell us about it later, remember you've already broken the ice here, there's no turning back now.
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RHP User
7 years ago
People like me often give you their two cents worth even though you were specifically asking women...
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
You only see your inexperience as an obstacle because you believe it to be one.... Someone that’s had lots of sex isn’t always a good fuck.... The sex is a physical act.... A connection that amplified the experience is NOT physical...it’s mental.... Which makes even the most experienced fuckers at no real advantage if the connection is missing..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'pangolin28' Been in your shoes before, all I can say is don't just go and fuck anything you may regret it as I did. Be selective and patient it will happen but if the sexual tension is too much and you can afford it look at the professional side. In some cases these women will be more understanding of your situation than some others will be. All the best bud Thanks man. Will see how I go. Nice to hear from someone that's been in my shoes in the past. I'm assuming sex life has been good since? I've heard leaving it till late can cause erectile disfunction...'studies' have been done apparently. I also sometimes feel it may affect future relationships and that I will always be inexperienced in comparison to others my age; though I suppose it's like driving a car. Some people can pick it up quick and be better drivers (fuckers) at a young age, compared to those that have been driving (fucking) for years.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' People like me often give you their two cents worth even though you were specifically asking women... Thanks for the advice and appreciate the 2 cents. Might end up going down that route as I doubt I'll meet anyone soon and don't really want to make it to 25 still in this situation. Would you recommend privately advertised escorts or like an actual brothel? Brothel seems a bit daunting
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RHP User
7 years ago
How it happens or comes about I hope it ends up being everything you are wanting and hoping for. Good luck. LC.
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
You aren't that old and your candid honesty is refreshing. Hopefully you will have some interest here. Also I'm sure the experience with your Dad doing that to you must have been very difficult ....and also its really fucked up. Sorry that happened to you. Don't have much to add just that good luck whatever direction you chose and hope its good for you. When you are out and wanting to chat up girls don't think about lack of confidence. Go with the old fake it till you make it. Just ask questions and be a good listener and compliment them in authentic ways. Just go for it. Whats the worst that can happen?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I like some nice upper body and full body shots, ideally not taken in the bathroom mirror. But no gym selfies please.Background matters to a lot of women, so make sure it is not distracting, and clutter free. No towels on the floor, dirty toilets or mirrors, or general mess. And please make sure your bedroom looks inviting!I like pics with animals (though they're supposedly not allowed) but photos with the catch of the day suck, imo. So do pics with tongues out, gang signs and raised middle fingers. Always have face pics available, put them in PG1 if you're afraid of being recognised. If you have x-rated shots I suggest you keep them in your PG2, and only show them on request. Cock shots are an acquired taste. As for what to write: what do do want to attract? I saw you checked out out my profile. I've been here a while, and my profile is long and detailed because I am now looking for one man for something more long term. So it's important we are compatible on many different levels. If I was looking for my next fuck, five lines might suffice ;-)Get my drift?My 2cts: Be clear, be upfront, be honest. Be firm about what you want and don't back down. Don't make promises you can't keep. If you respect your own boundaries and the other person's at all times, you can't really go wrong. Thanks Meander appreciate it. Will have to work on my profile and tidy my room haha. Body shot without a mirror may be difficult though. Hard to work those angles ;) As for what I am attracting, well I didn't think you could get a long term relationship off a site like this, but I guess it does seem less pervy than some of the others sites so I could be wrong. But yeah I get what you are saying. My few lines I thought was sufficient for that 'next fuck' lol. Will have to just completely lay my situation out on the table. I'd like to attract a long term girlfriend but also at the same time something just friends with benefits, or even a one night stand. I'm at the point where I'm up for anything, but at the same time I wouldn't want to have sex with only one girl in my lifetime, so I guess the smarter option would be a friends with benefits arrangement, as it's nice to still have some kind of connection... but then with that just got to be careful that I don't start to think it's something more, so I don't know maybe a one night stand would be smarter haha. Maybe just mention up for any possibility lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'EarthQueen' You aren't that old and your candid honesty is refreshing. Hopefully you will have some interest here. Also I'm sure the experience with your Dad doing that to you must have been very difficult ....and also its really fucked up. Sorry that happened to you. Don't have much to add just that good luck whatever direction you chose and hope its good for you. When you are out and wanting to chat up girls don't think about lack of confidence. Go with the old fake it till you make it. Just ask questions and be a good listener and compliment them in authentic ways. Just go for it. Whats the worst that can happen? Yeah messed me up for a while but algood now lol. But thanks. Yeah I'll have to keep working on it. Hard because in those situations i tend to run out of conversation, partly because nerves I guess...like because the intent is there if you understand? And even though I can be quite talkative when I want to be, I'm still an introvert and have always been known as quiet and mysterious. I like being known as mysterious but not quiet. Most the girls I have met like the really loud cocky wankers, which funnily enough I would put them in their place very easily if push came to shove. Yet when I'm put into a situation where I meet a girl outside of a club etc like through a friend or them being a housemate, I'm pretty good with the convos (and since moving here these woman have all been taken unfortunately haha). Because the intent is to just chat and not pick up...just gotta some how rewire my brain to think that I'm not trying to pick up
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'The_Antichrist' You only see your inexperience as an obstacle because you believe it to be one.... Someone that’s had lots of sex isn’t always a good fuck.... The sex is a physical act.... A connection that amplified the experience is NOT physical...it’s mental.... Which makes even the most experienced fuckers at no real advantage if the connection is missing..... - Posted from rhpmobile Hey mate. Didn't see this but yeah I get what your saying. Refer to my reply underneath yours about driving the car. Same deal yeah...I guess experience is nothing after all, it's just what's in your head and how quickly you can learn and the emotions behind it. Thank fuck I'm smart haha
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gazpacho
7 years ago
Mate you’re under thirty. Everyone under thirty looks absolutely drop dead gorgeous. We just don’t realise that factuntil we hit our fourties. Get out and about, meet a pretty young thing your age who is likely just as shy, and if so, probably just as innocent, and let nature take its course. I wouldn’t spend money on a pro, looking the way you do... you can easily pick up. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
7 years ago
Don't go rushing off to Google your local service provider just yet. Try searching here on RHP, you have this thread to refer to. If your lucky you might pop your cherry and get a girlfriend while you're at it. Lots of girls like motorcycles, especially girls with a bit of character and a sense of adventure. I see you're in Sydney so you should have plenty to choose from, get searching, make a short list, well a long short list, then message them and introduce yourself and if there's any kind of rapport maybe next meet for coffee and a chat. Hey girls this guy is going to be as disease free as they get. 😇
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RHP User
7 years ago
Well ty I held out until around 26 and no problems with my gear. Still not the most experienced fellow around but I can tell you if you are attentive and generous with your time experience doesn't count for much as I have been told by a few women who were shocked at what I did for them. Just be you, be confident and I love what others have said about just getting out there, not faking it but fake a little confidence. A confident man can be very attractive to a lady. You'll work it out I am sure
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The_Antichrist
7 years ago
Speak from your heart..... Listen with your senses.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks to everyone that has commented so far. Did not expect it. Thought I'd be ridiculed lol.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I can just imagine - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Knowing an escort I dont agree with one poster that its the way to go. Although they have to make you feel comfortable, hell they are getting paid to do so my friend told me there are a hell of alot of drugs/junkies. With some of the drugs they take I would not touch them as they could have std's even though men have to use protection. Yes you can get std's even when wearing a jacket, not always a life sentence desease but I really dont think any hooker is the way to go. There is alot of women out there looking for someone even if you are only a fwb's guy all you have to do is be respectful and Im sure you are.Me personally I am a cougar and some of the cubs I have had have had more experience then men my own age lol. I dont want to be a teacher because even though Im sure you wank to porn or pics you may not have trained your dick to not blow so quickly. Nothing worse for women then a premature ejaculator. Yes there is alot of men that want to relieve themselves almost straight away but you need to learn to hold back for the womans sake. Having said that I find Im a teacher anyway because most that brag that they are good and I must have had the wrong guys I find they too cannot get me off so I have to show them how to lmfao. Im sure you can find someone easily enough but agree with some you need a connection with a person to feel comfortable enough and trust me the sex is so much better.Best of luck.
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gazpacho
7 years ago
It’s like diffusing a bomb trying to get a woman off! Short fuse. Touch the wrong wire and Boom! It’s all over. I reckon half the guys have given up thinking about sorting out a woman’s orgasm and just go about sorting themselves out. The other half of us are so highly stressed out over defusing the bomb that we don’t mind if it goes either way! Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'NortyNancy' Knowing an escort I dont agree with one poster that its the way to go. Although they have to make you feel comfortable, hell they are getting paid to do so my friend told me there are a hell of alot of drugs/junkies. With some of the drugs they take I would not touch them as they could have std's even though men have to use protection. Yes you can get std's even when wearing a jacket, not always a life sentence desease but I really dont think any hooker is the way to go. There is alot of women out there looking for someone even if you are only a fwb's guy all you have to do is be respectful and Im sure you are.Me personally I am a cougar and some of the cubs I have had have had more experience then men my own age lol. I dont want to be a teacher because even though Im sure you wank to porn or pics you may not have trained your dick to not blow so quickly. Nothing worse for women then a premature ejaculator. Yes there is alot of men that want to relieve themselves almost straight away but you need to learn to hold back for the womans sake. Having said that I find Im a teacher anyway because most that brag that they are good and I must have had the wrong guys I find they too cannot get me off so I have to show them how to lmfao. Im sure you can find someone easily enough but agree with some you need a connection with a person to feel comfortable enough and trust me the sex is so much better.Best of luck. ...with what you are saying and I won't try that for a while and who knows I prob never will...I've had the thought for years but could never do it. I've made out with a girl before and I agree that intense emotion is awesome and I know I won't feel that with a hooker. In terms of training myself well I'm pretty good. I've got a fleshlight though I haven't used it in ages as it's a pain to clean lol. I've even paid for a nude massage with a hot teen girl hahaha (she didn't know I was a virgin - she even made the comment of how relaxed I was compared to other guys lol) and although I got real close to cumming with her handjob I was able to just switch off. She didn't make me cum in the end which sucked because if I'd known when I was going to run out of time I would of let her lol. That being said I'm sure il cum everywhere my first time lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
There may be a few things I should take out of it haha
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho' It’s like diffusing a bomb trying to get a woman off! Short fuse. Touch the wrong wire and Boom! It’s all over. I reckon half the guys have given up thinking about sorting out a woman’s orgasm and just go about sorting themselves out. The other half of us are so highly stressed out over defusing the bomb that we don’t mind if it goes either way! Hugs Gaz Its not that hard if men learnt to watch her body, hear her go off, listen to her breathing. Although having said that when I squirt they think its an orgasm and I do tend to get loud. But they stop doing what they are doing before I have reached my peak grrrrrrrrrr, sometimes I have to be forceful and make them continue hahaha or just show them by placing their fingers back where it was, or say to them harder and faster lmfao and if they are eating me I have to hold their ears not to move while Im grinding into their face or even wrap my legs around their head. Nothing hard about that I know TMI............ my bad
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RHP User
7 years ago
As a male who had his first many years after his peers. Don't just try and fuck the first person you find. It probably won't be what you hope it will be. Try and find someone who is aware of your situation, doesn't mean it has to be the doting, tender type of scenario. But someone who will be patient with you. I wish you the best of luck with it and on here!
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madotara69
7 years ago
Don't forget the golden rule, if a girl even talks to you, teases you, giggles a lot or pretends she has no desire with you and wishes you good luck..... She likes you and likely has a compelling little fantasy... she'd love to smack your ass, she'd love to rake your skin, she'd chain you to the bed, lock you up inside her dirty cage.'Puddle of Mud - Control' Grandad use to tell me "it's not the chasing women will wear you out, it's once they let you catch them will" No rush to find yourself pussy whipped and treated like a two bit hooker, not until you reach middle age mate. Mado Mado Tara xx Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've even paid for a nude massage with a hot teen girl hahaha Eeeek I hope you mean 18 or 19 That being said I'm sure il cum everywhere my first time lolSo do we call you fire hose then lmfao
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gazpacho
7 years ago
I love being with women who are willing to boss me around so I get it right. It’s a lot easier, and more fun when people actually speak, rather than using sign language 🤟🤫👌🏻 or something. As for squirrels, well water torture is on my list of kinks. 👀 Hugs Gaz
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gazpacho
7 years ago
Damn autocorrect. Who would have known squirting corrects to squirrels? Bwahahaha. Hugs G
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
Well, they do like nuts. 🌰 Ms Foxy
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cat_n_the_hatter
7 years ago
I often wondered the same thing as you (and I am much older and three men so far!), whether the inexperience in sexual encounters is a turn off for many. I truly could not tell as we are all so different, but I suspect what is in your heart is not inexperience. Many years of giving makes you experienced. Look for someone who is gentle and not cynical about life. Find a single girl you have a connection with and be a good friend with benefit. Do not be afraid to show affection. Nevertheless, the encounters should be occasional as people who never had many partners do not know how to hold back. That is why you ought to be careful. (Ms)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Tough one! Maybe put more pics up? And be more confident about who your are rather than what your lacking. ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
First....take small steps.....at least your honest and have the minerals to admit your a virgin. I used to read my sisters' dear dollys and cosmos and erotic novels .....great knowledge was gained and knowledge is powerful. Do.your own thing and dont let what others believe be what you have to believe! Send me a msg if you want a couple of handy oral tips!😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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FullOJOy
7 years ago
I met my husband on here almost 11 years ago. We are now recently seperated and surprise we r both on here! He inexperienced and younger than I but didnt want me to "teach" or guide into more adventurous things. I believe it comes to how open u really are for what u want. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho' I love being with women who are willing to boss me around so I get it right. It’s a lot easier, and more fun when people actually speak, rather than using sign language 🤟🤫👌🏻 or something. As for squirrels, well water torture is on my list of kinks. 👀 Hugs Gaz haha laughed at the auto correct. Squirting squirrels is a new one and second auto correct is North Nancy which I get alot pmsl. Yeh depends what water sports you like cause I dont piss on anyone and wont allow pissing on me (golden showers) blaaaah But yeh I can be a bossy bitch as I am a woman that knows what I want and not afraid to ask for it
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FullOJOy
7 years ago
I agree with u. squirting Or gushing. It's not always an orgasm. But guidance and leading someone and for a full sexual experience is what it's all about. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Single_Discreet
7 years ago
24 I call bullshit on your claim, you are on a sex site and write that crap What are you expecting sympathy sex - Posted from rhpmobile
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thesaintnsinner
7 years ago
My ultimate fantasy! Thought young inexperienced guys don’t exist! Pity u don’t live in Melbourne 😈😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
If we're in a very good mood, we might just eat them...alive. 😝😇😋 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
7 years ago
Milfs love to show the younger guys how to please 👅😈 Enjoy the pleasure young man - Posted from rhpmobile
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Gamers
7 years ago
Firs thing is read through the forum topics and read the things woman want. Talk to female friends, if you are able to and listen to the things they enjoy. Knowing what woman enjoy is more important than having just experience. You might find a woman enjoys passionate sex whereas the next woman may be after the opposite. Doesn't matter what your age or how much sex you have you always want to find new, fun things to look at, try or even experiment on, cause sex can have different meanings to all of us. And always remember the golden rule - What She Wants Is Most Important (and you will get want you want)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Inexperience can be kinda cute 😉 Good sex is all about open communication. Don't be afraid to say what it is that you do and don't want and listen when the person you're with says the same. Sex with someone that's only out for what they want is shitty so just don't be 'that' guy and you'll be fine~ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Your current profile is a big improvement on what you first had... nicely done. You're obviously articulate, and you seem pretty self-aware too. If you put the same effort into your photos and first messages, I think you'll be well on your way. Oh, wait. You can't send messages because you're a guest. Being a guest is fine, if you willing to play a long game. However there are far more men on this site than women, and consequently women really don't need to search or send messages. Men come to us. I'm not saying it's fair, it's just the way it is. I'm not saying women won't message you, but from what I understand it's pretty rare... you're better off being able to take the initiative and send your own. If that's not an option, then maybe Tinder is a better place to start as Pleezer suggested. Whatever you decide, I wish you all the best (keep us updated lol), and I hope you keep posting in the forums 😘
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fundave89
7 years ago
Hey Ty there are plenty or resources online to learn how to pleasure a woman, how to meet a woman and how to get over aproche anxiety. My advice is google a little. And don't stress. You are not that old and you would be surprised at how many guys are just trying to get off when having sex rather then a shared pleasurable experience. Stop thinking about how you can get laid for the first time and reframe it how can you have a good experience with another person or make someone else happy, learn how to give and you will receive. Allso girls are smart and intuative so if you are to desperate they will sense it from a mile away. And that is the biggest turn of. Go out and talk with girls with no alttera mottive, do the things you like girls love passion what ever it is. Best of luck mate the main thing is don't be to hard on your self. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'cat_n_the_hatter' I often wondered the same thing as you (and I am much older and three men so far!), whether the inexperience in sexual encounters is a turn off for many. I truly could not tell as we are all so different, but I suspect what is in your heart is not inexperience. Many years of giving makes you experienced. Look for someone who is gentle and not cynical about life. Find a single girl you have a connection with and be a good friend with benefit. Do not be afraid to show affection. Nevertheless, the encounters should be occasional as people who never had many partners do not know how to hold back. That is why you ought to be careful. (Ms) with your last comment haha
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Lookinglavel' Tough one! Maybe put more pics up? And be more confident about who your are rather than what your lacking. ;) - Posted from rhpmobile pics coming soon lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'NortyNancy' I've even paid for a nude massage with a hot teen girl hahaha Eeeek I hope you mean 18 or 19 That being said I'm sure il cum everywhere my first time lolSo do we call you fire hose then lmfao 19 and Russian ;)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'ElkeM' Your current profile is a big improvement on what you first had... nicely done. You're obviously articulate, and you seem pretty self-aware too. If you put the same effort into your photos and first messages, I think you'll be well on your way. Oh, wait. You can't send messages because you're a guest. Being a guest is fine, if you willing to play a long game. However there are far more men on this site than women, and consequently women really don't need to search or send messages. Men come to us. I'm not saying it's fair, it's just the way it is. I'm not saying women won't message you, but from what I understand it's pretty rare... you're better off being able to take the initiative and send your own. If that's not an option, then maybe Tinder is a better place to start as Pleezer suggested. Whatever you decide, I wish you all the best (keep us updated lol), and I hope you keep posting in the forums 😘 Thanks appreciate it. Yeah the annoying truth lol. Women make you spend money on them before you even meet haha. And tinder I find to be useless. Most just wanna chat..they get bored or I get bored...I had one date with it though which was fun but I didn't live in the area so nothing after that
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'fundave89' Hey Ty there are plenty or resources online to learn how to pleasure a woman, how to meet a woman and how to get over aproche anxiety. My advice is google a little. And don't stress. You are not that old and you would be surprised at how many guys are just trying to get off when having sex rather then a shared pleasurable experience. Stop thinking about how you can get laid for the first time and reframe it how can you have a good experience with another person or make someone else happy, learn how to give and you will receive. Allso girls are smart and intuative so if you are to desperate they will sense it from a mile away. And that is the biggest turn of. Go out and talk with girls with no alttera mottive, do the things you like girls love passion what ever it is. Best of luck mate the main thing is don't be to hard on your self. :) - Posted from rhpmobile Thanks for the advice. Never been the desperate type which is why a lot wouldn't know. And yeah I can be hard on myself at times
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Single_Discreet' 24 I call bullshit on your claim, you are on a sex site and write that crap What are you expecting sympathy sex - Posted from rhpmobile Last thing I want man. Besides, why wouldn't a virgin use a sex site? Btw nice pics...you selling your house on here? lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Remember some American girl auctioned off her virginity so she could get some cash together for uni, or to kick start her career on the game.So Ty there you go maybe you could sell yours. As was suggested there's online information about how to pleasure a woman, and how to find the clitoris. Cherry TV is on you could go ogle.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Shy guys are the best, they blow your mind in bed so I don’t know what the issue is. Are you cocky once you are comfortable and talking to women? I think if you can make a girl laugh ahahah you got your in. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Becca_Chris' Shy guys are the best, they blow your mind in bed so I don’t know what the issue is. Are you cocky once you are comfortable and talking to women? I think if you can make a girl laugh ahahah you got your in. - Posted from rhpmobile I can be cheeky but not a cocky guy. I'm the humble non-bragger. Didn't even tell my mate when I had my first kiss lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'MrMojoRisin' Remember some American girl auctioned off her virginity so she could get some cash together for uni, or to kick start her career on the game.So Ty there you go maybe you could sell yours. As was suggested there's online information about how to pleasure a woman, and how to find the clitoris. Cherry TV is on you could go ogle. I think I'll become rich another way. Could never publicly advertise myself like that. Plus no one would buy a guys virginity haha. Yeah will give it a look. I know where the clit is though ahah
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Checker
7 years ago
Dude just have fun and don't even think about 'how am i gonna fuck this lovely' or what other ppl think. If your having fun and smiling people will be attracted to that. If your funny and hold a conversation it'll happen, I'm sure. As a guy that appreciates a well dressed lady, I've found complimenting a particular part of a womans outfit is often recieved well. "Your shoes/bag look great". Probably gonna want to be well into conversation when you say that though. Could be wierd if you like saunter up and the first thing you say is "hi, im Bartholomew, great shoes!" Make her laugh lots. - Posted from rhpmobile
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GoodKarma
7 years ago
Used to be in a similar situation.. I read lots about "pick-up" etc. then also about things like learning to be in the present moment more, learning about myself, and doing things I want. Then I focused less on "the goal" of losing my virginity, and focused more on living each moment well (e.g. having a connection with someone in the moment, etc). When I focused less on trying to have sex, instead just to have fun, it just happened naturally one time. Also learning how to read situations and pick up on body language was helpful.. and just taking opportunities when they come. Looking back I had probably quite a few opportunities to get it done, but I never realised it or took the opportunity at the time. Also learning that it's OK to go up to random people and start talking to them was a pretty big thing.. Hope this helps. Peace! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
With "inexperienced" women, I try to convince them that doing the dishes and vacuuming is a kinky sort of foreplay and changing the sheets is a sensual as snuggling together afterwards. It's usually only the blondes that buy it. That said, we all have life experience so use yours to your advantage. Share yourself and the rest will come naturally. Women are people too! ⚡️😉😃 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
With "inexperienced" women, I try to convince them that doing the dishes and vacuuming is a kinky sort of foreplay and changing the sheets is a sensual as snuggling together afterwards. It's usually only the blondes that buy it. That said, we all have life experience so use yours to your advantage. Share yourself and the rest will come naturally. Women are people too! ⚡️😉😃 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
by being able to hold a conversation with a touch of smart arse 😂 Love it. Don't do the hooker thing there's heaps of beautiful people on here inside and out that may be able to show you the ropes in a non-Shibari type way. Pity you're not in Brisbane I'd have you bent over by now 😈😃 And clean up your room!!
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Freaky_Fun
7 years ago
by being able to hold a conversation with a touch of smart arse 😂 Love it. Don't do the hooker thing there's heaps of beautiful people on here inside and out that may be able to show you the ropes in a non-Shibari type way. Pity you're not in Brisbane I'd have you bent over by now 😈😃 And clean up your room!!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Ive found them to be respectful and great company in and out of the bedroom. Ive actually had a couple of nasty messages from older guys questioning my age preference. Which just cements my preference for younger men even more. I agree with Freaky....youre young and sassy and should have no problem meeting people on here. Good luck!
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HotNightsGC
7 years ago
We have no problem with younger and inexperienced guys. As long as they’re aren’t immature minded or act the same it’s all good for us 👍🏻 Nothing wrong with watching Ms HNP enjoy a younger man and perhaps teach him a few things along the way 😈 Look us up if you’re ever in Perth 👍🏻 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Thanks dudes you are all pretty cool..except that one guy...fuck that guy haha Just gotta work up the courage to put up a face pic lmao. Because it would be associated with this profile and potentially blasted all over the internet :/ But like who would bother doing that right? haha
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Orangegirl95
7 years ago
Please stop winking in your profile though.. emoji overload - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you are a virgin ( iam not questioning just repeating )this is NOT the right place to start with ... Online dating is weird itself and you'll end up have the wrong opinion about sex and about people.. Try the traditional ways .. Go out drink,dance,flirt and play the real game with authentic people not behind screens ;) P.S I would recommend to start with a virgin probably girl as well :) Best of luck X - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you are a virgin ( iam not questioning just repeating )this is NOT the right place to start with ... Online dating is weird itself and you'll end up have the wrong opinion about sex and about people.. Try the traditional ways .. Go out drink,dance,flirt and play the real game with authentic people not behind screens ;) P.S I would recommend to start with a virgin probably girl as well :) Best of luck X - Posted from rhpmobile
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indiancutecpl
7 years ago
Looks like you are still working on the pics. Good luck 😊😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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curiousnhorny05
7 years ago
So I like yourself didn’t actually have my first time until I was 25. Plenty of offers but the wrong ppl. My suggestions are: - upload photos that make me want to thing wants under something. With the angle leading somewhere... makes me want to take your clothes off. - if you ever share dick pics keep them classy. I recently had my second guy so I felt so nervous and then it was no big deal. Wait for the right person. It will happen, don’t stress. - Posted from rhpmobile
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PlayNow77
7 years ago
You live in bustling big city, surely you can grab a mate that has the gift of the gab with the ladies and use him as your wingman if you're too shy to approach! Go on a bender and hit a dance club and if you can groove to the music, you'll attract the women! If that fails to lift your confidence, rack up! 😎 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Keep your face piccie in your private gallery for a while, you're getting a bit of a profile now.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Crikeys Mate, you have so much potential. Confidence is the key! I would suggest a professional..explain your situation, and get some tips, what could go wrong?
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RHP User
7 years ago
Yea il fix up the profile when back from holiday haha. And someone mentioned finding a virgin girl. I dunno... High probability of going to to jail for that one haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
If you want experience I think a working girl is a great idea.an X did after bad marriage to gain confidence.it worked.and as stated there's a lot of bad sex given by people who think they are great.one learns by doing and learns from that.enjoy and go for it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I feel for you homie, you’re going to have to suck it up and just go for it (first time is always bad) but you’ll learn! Never be afraid of failure or rejection. You learn to be confidant when you learn to stop caring what others think. I’m a pro at that haha Be good to the woman or women you have the privilege of being intimate with. Do your best to listen and learn from them. Hone your skills in and out of the bed room with the ladies. Be a giver & considerate lover and word will spread, your legend will grow and failure will be a thing of the past. Then at the end of it I hope you find love. Because that’s where the real magical moments of intimacy are to be had! Plus love is what life is all about 😊 Heath - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Have you tried not advertising your virginity and keeping it close to your chest until youve gotten to know a woman or even wait until just before you are about to seal the deal? People dont generally ask how many people you've slept with on or before a first date as it would be rude and maybe off putting to know the number, so why feel the need to share that info straight up and disadvantage yourself! Really by sharing that info on your profile you are stating straight up that you have emotional baggage and that the sexual experience is probs only going to last a couple of mins at best, not to mention that you have no idea what you are doing so chances are the woman isnt going to get off and will be spending her time 'teaching' you. I know personally if a couple advertise on their profile that they are inexperienced or 'new to this', or a female is bicurious and never actually been with a girl before, it's an automatic no from me due to bad past experiences with inexperienced people and the drama that comes with them. All for honesty but there is a time for it and currently you are shooting yourself in the foot before you start the race! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'AdoraBrat' Have you tried not advertising your virginity and keeping it close to your chest until youve gotten to know a woman or even wait until just before you are about to seal the deal? People dont generally ask how many people you've slept with on or before a first date as it would be rude and maybe off putting to know the number, so why feel the need to share that info straight up and disadvantage yourself! Really by sharing that info on your profile you are stating straight up that you have emotional baggage and that the sexual experience is probs only going to last a couple of mins at best, not to mention that you have no idea what you are doing so chances are the woman isnt going to get off and will be spending her time 'teaching' you. I know personally if a couple advertise on their profile that they are inexperienced or 'new to this', or a female is bicurious and never actually been with a girl before, it's an automatic no from me due to bad past experiences with inexperienced people and the drama that comes with them. All for honesty but there is a time for it and currently you are shooting yourself in the foot before you start the race! - Posted from rhpmobile Tried it for 24 years (or like 6 if being technical). And I never advertise my virginity publicly (this is anonymous). Of course I would never mention it until getting close to someone. Done that before. And I've used sites like this before without mentioning my virginity, with no luck, so just trying something different. I'm after someone who wants to teach me. Obviously that is not you lol. Not going on a site like this to lie about my experience. And the sexual experience would actually last hours lol I mean sure I might lose it in a couple of minutes but its not like i'll pack up and leave straight after that lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
You'll be fine buddy:) I was a virgin until 25 by choice, and I've been having a very satisfying sex ever since. Don't be hard on yourself and disregard anyone who is overly critical. Listen to the supportive and affirming comments. It's easy to get inside your own head sometimes when you put a lot of pressure on yourself to make something happen. It'll happen:) Good luck! - Posted from rhpmobile
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tamworthguy46
7 years ago
Hi mate, I don't really see anything wrong with you being a virgin, sex is so much about chemistry and connecting with a lover, find someone that understands your position and wants to make your first experience special, for that may determine what you want from future lovers. you aren't going to get special from a Hooker I would think, but you would get your rocks off ! it all depends on what your looking for
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RHP User
7 years ago
thanks all need the ladies opinion on a few of the new pics. nothing special lol and not many since was taking forever to upload on the phone. Am I on the right track?
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RHP User
7 years ago
We dont meet younger guys due to the lack of maturity and being able to converse with someone during and after a play session. They just bore me
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RHP User
7 years ago
Mate, don't sweat about popping your cherry. The media nowadays makes it seem like if your bedpost isn't more notches than bedpost by your 16th birthday then there is something wrong with you. Too much pressure. You'll focus so much on the first time that your first time will be a stressfest. I was a late starter by modern standards too. Then one evening while out seeing a band I bumped into a couple of people I knew who were out with a group of friends. I started chatting to one of the ladies in the group, not even thinking about anything because I was there to see the band. After the gig they all went back to what turned out to be her place to continue the party. Fast forward a couple of hours and people have started to drift away or crash asleep. I turned to my new lady friend and asked "So what happens now? Can...I stay?" She smiled, "I thought you'd never ask" she said. So we went to bed, and we had the loveliest, most sensual time. Sure, the mechanics were a bit clumsy because I'd never quite done those movements before, but frankly, it's not rocket science. We took our time and just enjoyed the moments together. So, what was the point of me detailing my first time for all to read like that? That it will happen when it happens. If you force it you could have a less than memorable experience. But sooner rather than later you will meet a lady who wants to be with you, and wants you to make love to her. And afterwards you will be lying there as she snuggles into you thinking to yourself "that was wonderful". You won't be thinking "well I'm glad that is over", or "damn, why did I wait so long?" Here endeth the lesson. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
I was nearly 32, I had done serious research on using escorts, and was prepared emotionally for it but still couldn't quite justify it financially. As it happened, at the time it couldn't have gone better with the person that eventually took things through to home base :) So, like you, while I would have preferred to have found someone sooner, I have no regrets as to HOW it actually happened. To tell or not to tell? I never did on any online site, though I did with the girl that was my first, during dating well before the "event". Yet she didn't jump ship and continued seeing me, and eventually did the deed and then some :) However, she was also quite young (22 vs 31) and while certainly not a virgin herself, perhaps I would not have expected someone older to have gone through with it with me. Yes people may [read: will] judge you if you haven't done x or y by age z, but in reality, at least you can be open and mature and educated and attentive when it happens. Many people's first times were arguably more forgettable experiences, at quite young ages. I can't really say I've had any forgettable experiences as yet. The more mature you are, the more you be able to try and make sure it is also an unforgettable experience for the other person too. - Posted from rhpmobile
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EarthQueen
7 years ago
Is there a progress report? We need something to liven up the forums. Re. Your photos. I think the original one was better except for the washing basket 😂 Your current one..welllll... If I may be so bold BUT there’s this thing.... and it’s called an iron. LOL . Just take it off already. It’s hard to advise you on photos because they are quite an individual thing. Just make them clear, show your best assets and you could always just slip some regular ones in that aren’t sexual. Gives people better picture of who you are. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
7 years ago
thanks for the comment .. and the lesson! but yeah i agree..it'll happen when it does... though sometimes i think I'll always wonder why it took so long and all the young love i missed out on but algood lol
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Mischa2750' We dont meet younger guys due to the lack of maturity and being able to converse with someone during and after a play session. They just bore me Should be more open minded. Not all younger guys are immature, you might be suprised when you meet one. In fact I know a lot of older, rough guys that are in their 40s even 50s that act like try hard teenagers lol my father included.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'countrytouch' I was nearly 32, I had done serious research on using escorts, and was prepared emotionally for it but still couldn't quite justify it financially. As it happened, at the time it couldn't have gone better with the person that eventually took things through to home base :) So, like you, while I would have preferred to have found someone sooner, I have no regrets as to HOW it actually happened. To tell or not to tell? I never did on any online site, though I did with the girl that was my first, during dating well before the "event". Yet she didn't jump ship and continued seeing me, and eventually did the deed and then some :) However, she was also quite young (22 vs 31) and while certainly not a virgin herself, perhaps I would not have expected someone older to have gone through with it with me. Yes people may [read: will] judge you if you haven't done x or y by age z, but in reality, at least you can be open and mature and educated and attentive when it happens. Many people's first times were arguably more forgettable experiences, at quite young ages. I can't really say I've had any forgettable experiences as yet. The more mature you are, the more you be able to try and make sure it is also an unforgettable experience for the other person too. - Posted from rhpmobile good to hear it all worked out!
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'EarthQueen' Is there a progress report? We need something to liven up the forums. Re. Your photos. I think the original one was better except for the washing basket 😂 Your current one..welllll... If I may be so bold BUT there’s this thing.... and it’s called an iron. LOL . Just take it off already. It’s hard to advise you on photos because they are quite an individual thing. Just make them clear, show your best assets and you could always just slip some regular ones in that aren’t sexual. Gives people better picture of who you are. - Posted from rhpmobile Ahh yes the iron. I don't actually own one lol. Who actually irons tshirts? haha, Though I admit, obviously didn't hang that one right after the washing finished.Yeah well I got other pics there too but to be honest I don't really dig them either...especially the 3rd one haha. I'll have to change them at some point but I actually don't mind the profile pic.In terms of progress nothing yet. Quite a bit of interstate interest but not travelling anytime soon. Had one girl desperate to fuck me but she didn't read my profile so when she found out that was it lol (hilarious I thought all women read profiles) and then chatting to a few others but nothing yet
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RHP User
6 years ago
Finally lost it to a friend the other night (no one off this site) lol. Funny, never told her about my virginity - just mentioned I hadn't done it in a while lol. She believed it. Was fun, though certainly wasn't the best sex, by my standards even. I fucked her for an hour maybe more but I didn't cum so not sure what was up with that...maybe the condom? or maybe I'm too used to jacking off? :( lol She almost gave me a tongue transplant making out and Her blowjobs were also painful haha. I think she used her teeth:0 so finishing in the mouth wasn't going to happen, but other than that it was good to pound some pussy. She enjoyed it but she didn't cum either. Would have been a different story i reckon if she let me eat her out.
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RHP User
6 years ago
Haha well after this long it was pretty good... Unsure at exactly what you are implying lol. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
6 years ago
Get along to one of the clubs and you'll get lucky no worries. Also there are plenty of hot 30s couples looking for exactly you. Go for it! Put an ad on Swingers Heaven and you'll get loads of takers. This from a 40s guy with pretty much the same story. I'm enjoying the swingers life now though!
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RHP User
6 years ago
Yeah I get that but i meant it as a figure of speech. I am not disrespectful to the girl in any way and we remain close friends :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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