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What do women look for
April 08 2014
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sweetgem
11 years ago
I do have a firm preference of meeting men who are aged between 36 & 40. So, any man who does not fit within that age gap to contact me would not receive a reply from me, because it is quite tiring to attend to every single flirt or message that I received, from men who are either younger or older than 36 & 40, when I have already precisely stated what I seek! Secondly, I am no longer wanting to do the casual sexual hook up, nor do I want just a FB. Therefore, if someone is not on the same page as me, I don't want to waste anyone's, including mine, time as I know exactly what I seek. Lastly, I am uncontrollably attracted to men who are of Caucasian background when it comes to intimacy and/or an exclusive relationship, even though I have friends from all sort of walks and races. It's a personal preference and I do not mean to offend anyone by being honest. It's just like the fact that I am NOT everyone's cup of tea :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
We all write a profile and mine in particular defines what my likes and dislikes are and yet I still get young ones trying their luck. I have given up responding to all flirts and messages that are not within my preferred catagory. If men would just take the time to read the profiles then us women would be happy and you men wouldn't suffer disappointment when you get no reply. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Superfoxxxy..... Meeka. ???? Ladies, where are you? 4thegame, I think we all like different things in different men. What attracts one woman, may not be so attractive to another. Even in the same male. Personally I do not look for a particular thing that is a deal breaker. I look at the person as a whole. Maturity, ability to type more then "wanna fuck" , personality, willingness, eagerness. I could sit here and go through a list of traits that men possess but you get the point. I look at the person as a whole, an individual and in a non judgemental way, I purely enjoy them on their own merits and what they can bring to the table (so to speak). It's about chemistry, a connection.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Totally agree with Macha. I look at the person as a whole. And can I ask a serious question, Sweetgem? Do you get as many flirts / messages now (with no profile pic) as you did before, with a photo?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sorry Macha, I am not qualified to answer as I haven't looked for a man on RHP in years. However, I am looking for a man who is not scared of women and relationships, one who has dealt with his baggage so that it doesn't colour his views or how he lives his life. I am looking for a brave man, ambitious, fun, adventurous, kinky, loves to travel, is sensual, and appreciates me and likes my boyfriend. LOL. And above all he has to appreciate my oil massages. That is a must.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thankyou for your input. I do read profiles and have found a lot of generic stuff. "I know what I want and am not afraid to ask for it" I'm new to this as I said and just wanted some insight. Knowing your one in a million looking to catch a girls eye can sometimes be daunting. Lol. Just looking to make some friends and see where life and this site takes me. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
11 years ago
Thanks for asking the question. I hope you didn't read too much into my previous comment, or jump to conclusion too quickly as it was specifically stated for the OP to read, and there is a story behind it that you do not know of. Most importantly, I did not make that comment to hurt or insult 4thegame, it was merely for his understanding. To answer your question, yes I still receive enough number of flirts and messages even without showing a profile pic :-) you don't have to believe me, but there are people who just like to muck around with their keyboard or phone when they are bored. Hence, I don't believe that all of those who have sent me flirts and messages lately are all serious about contacting me, instead some of them might just do it to annoy me, or for boredom, I don't know, that is my guess as I cannot understand why it still happens :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Missb4u
11 years ago
It's the whole package. This can be harder when there is no clear pic upfront. I have to admit when I first joined rhp it was all about the pic for me but that has change over time. I recently met a guy that would not be my "type" traditionally and holy moly the connection was intense. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
MsElle good question. I also wondered if you girls get more or less with a pic. Also noticed a lot of girls don't fill out the profile questions. All you see is ask me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I generally ignore flirts, and friend requests are also ignored as they obviously have not read my profile. I don't initiate contact but when contacted, I check out their profile looking first at their location. If a local, I look for a face/body pic. If I like, I will look at their Relationship Status - if they have 'Ask me', I move on to the next profile. If unattached/single, I look if they are non-smokers. If they are, I will keep the conversation open and see where it leads, otherwise I'll reply with a 'Thanks, but no thanks'. I get bored easily so if after 2 messages, they haven't stimulated my mind with their charm, wit and humour then they too will get a 'Thanks, but no thanks'. And that is just so they can start getting to know me lol Wishing you luck, OP. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '4thegame' MsElle good question. I also wondered if you girls get more or less with a pic. Also noticed a lot of girls don't fill out the profile questions. All you see is ask me. - Posted from rhpmobile I have always had pics so can't answer if there is a difference. And I wouldn't bother with the generic crap that is out there, in my opinion, if they were serious, they would put in some effort. Know what you want and be picky, go get 'em tiger!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Thanks for answering Sweetgem. I was not making any judgements on you personally. I am just curious as to whether men are as pedantic about seeing a photo as most women are, that's all.
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sweetgem
11 years ago
For your understanding and checking earlier. I would apologise if I sounded paranoid earlier :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
For someone that takes my fancy......and my profile pretty much tell you what it is I'm looking for........💋 - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I'm looking for the 8th wonder of the world. When I find it I'll let you know. Shhhhh. but you can't tell anyone OK?? I look for those who rock, my mind, body and soul. If I can have all three, I'd be one very very happy lady! I've have only met three people in my life that have met all criteria. And I have 2/3 who are in my life.. As for meeting some one on here...don't know?? My heart is open... OH DUH! My husband and the man I am going to marry is on here. I'm sure he will be along here shortly.... LOL! Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
11 years ago
I believe, sometimes OP, what we want and who we want in our heads is completely different, to what we actually want and get in real life.. Sometimes our mind and hearts want two different things and they clash. Chatting to someone may lead thoughts into ones head, it may wonder and then meeting them in real life is a surprise. Sometimes the surprise package, turns out fantastic, better than expected and sometimes it does not. Keep your chin up - there's someone for everybody out there in this big wide world! Foxy xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
One size never fits all :) *unwraps a Mars bar, cracks a can of not orange V, and stares at random people* - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
with a pulse
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting '4thegame' MsElle good question. I also wondered if you girls get more or less with a pic. Also noticed a lot of girls don't fill out the profile questions. All you see is ask me. - Posted from rhpmobile there are many a fake profile on here honey so don't sweat the small stuffI put up my pictures so guys on mine sites have something to do with their hands LadyT helping out where she can
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RHP User
11 years ago
We want a tall man with lots of money,who can take care. of us in the manner to which we have never become accustomed.....We want a kind patient submissive dominant man,who will let's us control him in the bedroom while we are all tied up...we want hairy chests and shaved balls...we want you to have the charisma of a Brad or Hugh.. We want a confident man with a self deprecating manner.....We want you to worship at our feet while fucking us doggy style,cuddling us all night,and waiting on us hand and the above mentioned feet in the morning....coffee and croisants for me please.....hmm I probably missed a few points but that will do to start :-) :-) :-) XXQ
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madotara69
11 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2' We want a tall man with lots of money,who can take care. of us in the manner to which we have never become accustomed.....We want a kind patient submissive dominant man,who will let's us control him in the bedroom while we are all tied up...we want hairy chests and shaved balls...we want you to have the charisma of a Brad or Hugh or Mado.. We want a confident man with a self deprecating manner.....We want you to worship at our feet while fucking us doggy style,cuddling us all night,and waiting on us hand and the above mentioned feet in the morning....coffee and croisants for me please.....hmm I probably missed a few points but that will do to start :-) :-) :-) XXQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
but I did think that went. without saying Mado:-) :-) xx Q
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have a question that sort of relates to this. Pretty much everyone at least once in their life will say age is superficial and it's just a number, at least once people will say this. So how can someone simply not just close the door but not even open it in the first place for someone who might be say 3/4/5 years younger than your preferred age bracket? I understand alot of people are on here to explore themselves and their sexual pleasures yadda yadda yadda blah blah blah... but if I never opened doors on somethings or someones just cause their slightly below or above what I was looking for, well then I would never had been as successful or as happy as I am. You think you know what you want, until you get it and then thirst for something better lol.
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